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Do people understand women can do NSA really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me? Why do i seem to get loads of messages off men who really don't understand women can do NSA?? i don't want a relationship and if i did i would be on the wrong type of site. Please tell me its not just me? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of women do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just you..and from experience there are many guys who do not understand NSA and get clingy and possessive...i think some men are shocked women can have sex without emotions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from my experience its usually men who get clingy and fall for me NOT the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from my experience its usually men who get clingy and fall for me NOT the other way round "

lol..same here

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

lol me too... they get jealous of my other regular playmates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh thank god! ha! i find the same they say they want nsa then next thing they are getting jealous if you see anyone else...or they try to play you with emotional stuff its a bit odd xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol me too... they get jealous of my other regular playmates "

yep get that too lol

Had one guy i used to meet call me up because i had been verified by someone after i had met him, he wanted to know why i didnt just call him if i wanted a shag

Nah sorry but i deffo think women have their heads round this far better than most men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I had one who (this is true) started playing a song saying it was our song!!! never been so freaked in my life ha ha! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, I just guess you ladies have had bad experiences with some very lonely guys who have fooled themselves into believing it was more than just a shag lol

I, on the other hand, am under no illusions that a shag is a shag!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

which is good! friendship is fine but nothing else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you girls are just too sexy for your own good. And perhaps these chaps aren't really swingers and are using the site for slightly the wrong reasons. Filter them out by only having 3sums IMO

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Here is my take, up t fairly recently (last 25 years or so) womens main aim was to get married and have children. They didnt really need a career as soon as they would get married the man would support them. As time has moved on more women have become career women, know their own mind and have their own independance. They also have their sexual needs without having to shag the first guy that asks them to marry them. Its only in the last 10 years or so that it has been more accepted that women can do nsa fun just as easily as a man.

I think men (and some women) find it hard to adjust the new age woman who knows what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol...good plan

Its probably more a case of wanting what they can't have i guess!! Have had a few guys doing the jealous/possesive clingy thing then getting stroppy if i meet others but its fine for them to meet others...very odd sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you could have a plan there...or just girls lol!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Oh no, I just guess you ladies have had bad experiences with some very lonely guys who have fooled themselves into believing it was more than just a shag lol

I, on the other hand, am under no illusions that a shag is a shag!

"

my god... a man brave enough to enter the thread....

I was sitting in "wimpy dude" corner....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you have a point but i just think if your on this type of site it should be kinda of obvious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol..but its safe and cosy there isnt it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you have a point but i just think if your on this type of site it should be kinda of obvious xx"

you would think!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so true honey! lol! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no, I just guess you ladies have had bad experiences with some very lonely guys who have fooled themselves into believing it was more than just a shag lol

I, on the other hand, am under no illusions that a shag is a shag!

my god... a man brave enough to enter the thread....

I was sitting in "wimpy dude" corner...."

Oh I am very brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol me too... they get jealous of my other regular playmates

yep get that too lol

Had one guy i used to meet call me up because i had been verified by someone after i had met him, he wanted to know why i didnt just call him if i wanted a shag

Nah sorry but i deffo think women have their heads round this far better than most men "

Happened to me too. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have even seen guys profiles on here stating they are looking for romance

I too have fallen out with guys who have thought there was more happening then there was

I no longer show friends list or verifications because of questions as to why I was seeing someone else

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a guy can meet a lady on here verify her and within an day..75% of the guys who have verified her will have looked at his profile..

like dogs marking their territory.

tis all very very sad..

mind ya, also are the few females who arrive for a meet with wedding dress, favourite childhood Barbie and framed pic of parents already packed in suitcase..

and they have arranged for their mail to be redirected by the Post Office.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We had a few hiccups when we started and were wondering where all these guys with commitment issues were?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Here is my take, up t fairly recently (last 25 years or so) womens main aim was to get married and have children. They didnt really need a career as soon as they would get married the man would support them. As time has moved on more women have become career women, know their own mind and have their own independance. They also have their sexual needs without having to shag the first guy that asks them to marry them. Its only in the last 10 years or so that it has been more accepted that women can do nsa fun just as easily as a man.

I think men (and some women) find it hard to adjust the new age woman who knows what she wants."

Will you fuck off with the sensible posts....... it's getting creepy.

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

Personally im just living my wild younger years which was horribly cut short by marriage.

i dont think i could be trusted to have a serious one on one relationship so best not !

i love the sex and friendship without the conflicts of living together lol x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Im at my sexual peak! Hold me back at your peril! lol

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although im now in a relationship, i was swinging on here for a longtime as a single fem. And i too had lots of problems with clingy guys. I agree with '_iew' it did feel like guys marking their territory, and also wanting ownership of you too!!!

Plus like some women on here, i think there are also a lot of guys who arnt really swingers, who are possibly confused as to what they really do want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be surprised if some guys were shocked at how they felt. They must've thought they were getting easy sex, then their primal hard wiring kicked in. As View said, marking their territory. It's evolution.

Speaking of which, women and multi-tasking - what's the problem with reversing *and* parking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a guy can meet a lady on here verify her and within an day..75% of the guys who have verified her will have looked at his profile..

like dogs marking their territory.

tis all very very sad..

mind ya, also are the few females who arrive for a meet with wedding dress, favourite childhood Barbie and framed pic of parents already packed in suitcase..

and they have arranged for their mail to be redirected by the Post Office.

"

You make me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree women do seem to have the handle on this , !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you girls are just too sexy for your own good. And perhaps these chaps aren't really swingers and are using the site for slightly the wrong reasons. Filter them out by only having 3sums IMO "

sound advice and apply within

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is my take, up t fairly recently (last 25 years or so) womens main aim was to get married and have children. They didnt really need a career as soon as they would get married the man would support them. As time has moved on more women have become career women, know their own mind and have their own independance. They also have their sexual needs without having to shag the first guy that asks them to marry them. Its only in the last 10 years or so that it has been more accepted that women can do nsa fun just as easily as a man.

I think men (and some women) find it hard to adjust the new age woman who knows what she wants."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man here that will shag ya and leave ya NSA LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree,have had some really possessive guys fall out with me over me seeing other guys.I also stopped showing new verifications after a guy actually contacted a new guy i had seen to ask him for tips on how to please me !!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

is NSA the same as multi tasking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"totally agree,have had some really possessive guys fall out with me over me seeing other guys.I also stopped showing new verifications after a guy actually contacted a new guy i had seen to ask him for tips on how to please me !!"

Oh my god! what site am I on! its full of nutters! lol

nsa........ its what it ses on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had guys contact other guys who have verified me to ask then if they enjoyed fucking me.....why would you do that????? it is definitely like marking your territory...have also had guys refuse to verify me as they dont want me to meet others or they commen on how "busy" i have been!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had guys contact other guys who have verified me to ask then if they enjoyed fucking me.....why would you do that????? it is definitely like marking your territory...have also had guys refuse to verify me as they dont want me to meet others or they commen on how "busy" i have been!!!! "

lol freaks! block em there are normal people on here........I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where, where ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know lol I can only vouch for myself

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

and me, and me,

Oh hang on, is meeting strangers off t'internet for sex normal ?

Bloody good fun it may be but mainstream? Mmmmmm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol...is anyone really "normal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy to be a wee slut am afraid, I use the term bedknotcher jokingly, but yes...i like meeting new people....dont get myself to involved with others lives, dont pester after a meet on any format, but keep in touch with alot I have met...why ruin it for myself when theres loads i wanna shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im normal! least I thought was til read _eabo's post lol but I 100% no what nsa means

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

If all women believe in NSA, why do so many insist on getting to know those they shag? By insisting on people knowing so Mich about you can create 'strings' can't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i like to be friends with people i meet sometimes, not all the time but i like to see people semi-regularly as the sex gets better, once you have parted company thats it but it doesnt mean you cant have a friendship, i also like to flrit and banter with someone before i meet them, see if there is any chemistry i have no desire to have sex with anyone and everyone just for the sake of it, i have a drawer full of toys for that purpose.....doesnt mean i dont know that it is what it is, i have guys im very good mates with on here but i dont expect anything from them at all and vice versa

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By *nowy19634Man
over a year ago

lowestoft

i understand women can do nsa as they have needs too,the same as men.i am very happy with my single life and am no-way interested in a relationship.i have many female friends who i can go out with and have fun with benifits plus other who dont expect anything when the day or night ends.so you stick to what you want and not what others want

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Do we all have different perceptions of the meaning of NSA?

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