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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "
the rabbit just died, this should be a good post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron...."

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

Or couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

Different standards as per. As if men have no lives, children or commitments. l just tend to block these delusional women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother asking? I don't and wouldn't accommodate, so it's really none of my business why a man chooses not to either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango* "

Don't forget the drinks

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

The wife has just come home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

If someone can't accommodate I don't care, I'll meet at a club

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango*

Don't forget the drinks "

I'm leaving if you've no haribo. I'm only here for the tangfastics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my children stay there. Also what if you fall out with say someome you have met a few times and it turns sour. I much rather meet in a hotel anyway they can wash the drenched sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "
x

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "

Pot, Kettle.

I would agree that it is hardly fair for someone who doesn't accommodate themselves to be criticising others who don't - or is it because you don't accommodate yourself that you find it a struggle to find somewhere to play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you can.. sometimes you can't))can't involve anybody(like mates ...friends etc) in your fantasies))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????"

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango*

Don't forget the drinks "

tango

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I can't accom at the moment due to having a Lodger, why can't anyone accom, we all have our legitimate reasons!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

Exactly anyone can get feelings for someone etc isnt just men

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "

Couples are cool, they don't have to answer to anyone, always right, swinging is just for couples after all lol, pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "
by flat mate he means his mum.

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

I know this might sound crazy to the dillusional and small minded women/couples out there, including you OP, but single men are people aswell who have lives and commitments too. Why is it an issue when a single guy can't accommodate but when a woman/couple can't accommodate, no one bats an eye. I can't accommodate because I have uni house mates. Are you telling me my reasons aren't good enough because I'm a single guy, and your reasons are?

There are so many man-bashing threads on this site it's getting ridiculous

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

Because, let's face it---I'm a strong woman. But most men could overpower me if they chose to. We simply have different body strength areas and I for one have had enough violence in my life that I wouldn't dream of the possibility that it could happen again.

True...a hotel isn't that much different (I don't use hotels much!) and I would never go to a man's home unless I knew him very well. But I rather doubt he'd be in a position to fear me attacking him, either.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

^^ Exactly good for the goose and good for the gander

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on television tonight?

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I think the point is that guys state they can accommodate on their profile then you start arranging a meet and then you get the all reasons why they can't, that becomes annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have."

Aileen Wuornos

Tracie Andrews

Myra hindley

Rose west

Kristen Gilbert

Laquanda Jones

Yeah....

woman are incapable of being bad...

Ffs!

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

Aileen Wuornos

Tracie Andrews

Myra hindley

Rose west

Kristen Gilbert

Laquanda Jones

Yeah....

woman are incapable of being bad...

Ffs!"

I can name more than that (men) in my personal life.

Your point being????

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I know this might sound crazy to the dillusional and small minded women/couples out there, including you OP, but single men are people aswell who have lives and commitments too. Why is it an issue when a single guy can't accommodate but when a woman/couple can't accommodate, no one bats an eye. I can't accommodate because I have uni house mates. Are you telling me my reasons aren't good enough because I'm a single guy, and your reasons are?

There are so many man-bashing threads on this site it's getting ridiculous"

Don't worry about it, you do what you feel comfortable with, don't have to explain to anyone and why can't a couple accom???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if a man can accommodate, they don't have to.

Some like to keep their homes separate from this.

Single men get such a hard time on here from some and it is so unnecessary

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate x"

The same excuses why op can not accomodate could be same as the men. Pot.. kettle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

Indeed. As someone who has been the victim of Domestic abuse, I find the stereotypical outdated attitude somewhat offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate

Couples are cool, they don't have to answer to anyone, always right, swinging is just for couples after all lol, pmsl"

Oh but lest not forget that steady stream of single women they require... whether they can accommodate or not..)

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

I live with my mum and sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if a man can accommodate, they don't have to.

Some like to keep their homes separate from this.

Single men get such a hard time on here from some and it is so unnecessary "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

Aileen Wuornos

Tracie Andrews

Myra hindley

Rose west

Kristen Gilbert

Laquanda Jones

Yeah....

woman are incapable of being bad...

Ffs!

I can name more than that (men) in my personal life.

Your point being????"

The point being stating "men don't seem to get the safety issues women have" is an extremely outdated and moronic statement, any single human being is capable of killing another or servely hurting them in a given situation, it's about applying common sense.

You may find it jard to grasp that not ALL me Strut around like billy big balls thinking they are immortal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples.

Because, let's face it---I'm a strong woman. But most men could overpower me if they chose to. We simply have different body strength areas and I for one have had enough violence in my life that I wouldn't dream of the possibility that it could happen again.

True...a hotel isn't that much different (I don't use hotels much!) and I would never go to a man's home unless I knew him very well. But I rather doubt he'd be in a position to fear me attacking him, either."

There are men on here who've described some terrible experiences. I think it's incredibly naive to say it's ok for men and not women. If you've experienced violence I'd have expected you to appreciate that men might want to avoid putting themselves in dangerous situations too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the point is that guys state they can accommodate on their profile then you start arranging a meet and then you get the all reasons why they can't, that becomes annoying.

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When did the OP say that?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

They do question it. Also presume I'm married. Put in my profile that my kids live with me.

Guys have many reasons why they can't accommodate. Not really anyone's business but if they've nothing to hide they'll tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or just cause here are a lot of fakers) you invite the couple for a decent chat and a drink.. and guess what?) only thy guy will knock at your door)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got this really crazy idea and I'm not sure you are ready for it ...

If you have an issue with single men who can't accommodate , don't talk to them or meet them ...

Shocking !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister "

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

Or couples "

...'cause 'couples'means single male,whos a player on here but a married couple with her at home,knowing nothing of him being here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing on television tonight?"

Doesn't seem so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man.

I'm married lawfully, but after having split up with my wife I've had to move into my mothers house at the age of 28 so my wife and beautiful daughter can kee the roof over their heads.

I also have my daughter twice per week.

I also can't afford to run a car after being left with so much debt inherited through marriage so I walk everywhere now.

Not being able to accommodate doesn't necessarily mean we're full of crap, there's usually a good reason behind this. Remember that men aren't just throbbing cocks to ride, the same as we don't all think of you as a piece of meat to fuck.

Discretion and respect are two absolute musts for me personally, if you lack either of these then you should really re-evaluate your way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single man.

I'm married lawfully, but after having split up with my wife I've had to move into my mothers house at the age of 28 so my wife and beautiful daughter can kee the roof over their heads.

I also have my daughter twice per week.

I also can't afford to run a car after being left with so much debt inherited through marriage so I walk everywhere now.

Not being able to accommodate doesn't necessarily mean we're full of crap, there's usually a good reason behind this. Remember that men aren't just throbbing cocks to ride, the same as we don't all think of you as a piece of meat to fuck.

Discretion and respect are two absolute musts for me personally, if you lack either of these then you should really re-evaluate your way of thinking.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single man.

I'm married lawfully, but after having split up with my wife I've had to move into my mothers house at the age of 28 so my wife and beautiful daughter can kee the roof over their heads.

I also have my daughter twice per week.

I also can't afford to run a car after being left with so much debt inherited through marriage so I walk everywhere now.

Not being able to accommodate doesn't necessarily mean we're full of crap, there's usually a good reason behind this. Remember that men aren't just throbbing cocks to ride, the same as we don't all think of you as a piece of meat to fuck.

Discretion and respect are two absolute musts for me personally, if you lack either of these then you should really re-evaluate your way of thinking.

"

I applaud that honesty.

Hope things pick up for you in 2017, head up kid.))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs. "

What sort of dogs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs.

What sort of dogs? "

Single male ones..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The same reasons a lady or couple state they can't accommodate can be just as legitimate a reason for a guy,

The options are can accommodate, cannot accommodate .....

I state I can accommodate... might be the same for others as well... It's my choice as to whether I do. ;-). profile doesn't suit your preferences..move on there's others who will suit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

It's a pretty reasonable excuse actually...as is 'I live with my parents/kids/siblings'. In fact, I don't even mind if the reason is that he doesn't want to risk inviting a psycho bitch round.

What's your excuse OP?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because I don't fucking want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accommodate as my wife is usually shagging someone else in the bed , Not really !

I prefer to no accom no real issue tbh although I have done with people ive met either through this profile or my couples one on here but usually I would only meet someone at ours I had met previously and knew they were not going to turn out to be d*unken crazy woman getting her bits out when my wife came back halfway through !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have kids at home. If we didn't then we would accom. Saves forking out for a hotel.

And as opening goal thread. That's all answers we get. 1 guy can accommodate then turn round an says sorry got a flat mate. It seems everyone has flat mates these days. Or like has said, they have girlfriends or still living get at home at 40 .

If I were single I'd be living on my own. Sod sharing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have kids at home. If we didn't then we would accom. Saves forking out for a hotel.

And as opening goal thread. That's all answers we get. 1 guy can accommodate then turn round an says sorry got a flat mate. It seems everyone has flat mates these days. Or like has said, they have girlfriends or still living get at home at 40 .

If I were single I'd be living on my own. Sod sharing lol "

I'm sure a lot of them would rather be living alone too but it's not always through choice

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We have kids at home. If we didn't then we would accom. Saves forking out for a hotel.

And as opening goal thread. That's all answers we get. 1 guy can accommodate then turn round an says sorry got a flat mate. It seems everyone has flat mates these days. Or like has said, they have girlfriends or still living get at home at 40 .

If I were single I'd be living on my own. Sod sharing lol "

Quite right too...

Do you want them to send a taxi for you...

Save putting yourself out for your fun.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

Exactly. A lots of guys aren't big imposing men who are assured of their safety.

I accom because I'm a meanie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sold my house and now living with the parents. That's mine and it sadly the truth lol. Not permanent though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango* "

What flavour crisp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter if people can't accom. Like, I hate to be the voice of reason here but aren't we all looking for some form of sexual pleasure here? Why should it matter if people can't have you over. Internet safety is a serious thing to all genders. You might say men don't have as much risk as women but thats entirely wrong. Both genders have the same risk factors. Whose to say that the woman a single guy is talking too happens to be a woman at all. If everyone spent less time on their soap box complaining then you would all have a lot more fun. Make love, not war. Very apt words here I think.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

When can accom again I will but not for couples that moan about why I can't lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

F k me. Check out the fab police! I only asked what's the worst excuse is as all we get is 'got a flat mate' them all of a sudden. I get turned on!?

That's a bit rich considering everyone 'APARANTLY' plays safe. When there's threads an threads of ppl talking about creampie's.

Yeah great choice.

Crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango* "

Can I have 2 bags of popcorn one buttered and a diet tango please ? i'll pop the money in the post xxxx

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs. "

We should all move in together....bit like the Waltons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs. We should all move in together....bit like the Waltons "

Id move in with you but my husband may have something to say about it lolx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I've got this really crazy idea and I'm not sure you are ready for it ...

If you have an issue with single men who can't accommodate , don't talk to them or meet them ...

Shocking !! "

I know a few guys that can't accommodate for valid reasons. Seems a shame to rule them out. Might miss a gem.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some people don't accommodate because they've had problems with stalkers, abuse, etc. I live in a cul de sac so it's pretty obvious if anyone visited.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't have a problem with guys who don't, won't, or can't accommodate. I do have a problem with men who expect I will.

One day a bloke will message me and discuss sharing a hotel for a night of fun. It hasn't happened yet, but I live in hope. (PS This is NOT a challenge!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

Or couples "

We CAN accommodate... But we don't.

A) We don't want our dog to eat anyone and

B) We've found it's easier to leave a club when we've had enough, rather than evict people from our gaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"F k me. Check out the fab police! I only asked what's the worst excuse is as all we get is 'got a flat mate' them all of a sudden. I get turned on!?

That's a bit rich considering everyone 'APARANTLY' plays safe. When there's threads an threads of ppl talking about creampie's.

Yeah great choice.

Crack on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got this really crazy idea and I'm not sure you are ready for it ...

If you have an issue with single men who can't accommodate , don't talk to them or meet them ...

Shocking !!

I know a few guys that can't accommodate for valid reasons. Seems a shame to rule them out. Might miss a gem. "

I was referring to the OP

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

My Mate is rather rotuned

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"F k me. Check out the fab police! I only asked what's the worst excuse is as all we get is 'got a flat mate' them all of a sudden. I get turned on!?

"

So the original intention was to compile a list of the excuses, but NOT in a way that denigrates single men in general?

That seems quite an ambitious goal to me...

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"F k me. Check out the fab police! I only asked what's the worst excuse is as all we get is 'got a flat mate' them all of a sudden. I get turned on!?

That's a bit rich considering everyone 'APARANTLY' plays safe. When there's threads an threads of ppl talking about creampie's.

Yeah great choice.

Crack on "

You startedthe thread? enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs.

What sort of dogs? "

Annoying ones that growl at people they don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs. We should all move in together....bit like the Waltons "

G'night John Boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with my mum and sister

I live with my 30 yr old son, his mate and two dogs.

What sort of dogs?

Annoying ones that growl at people they don't know. "

Awwwww, doggy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people are in a situation where it isn't financially viable to live alone. So they may have "can accommodate" on their profile but that doesn't necessarily mean any time at all. It's when they can, or want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

Why can't you accommodate??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my parents now as I help my mum care for my dad, don't think my old mum would be impressed with me holding a gang bang on her best Egyptian cotton.

I have had ladies round, but it's rare and it's only once I get to trust them. Yeah I do put that I can accommodate on my profile because occasionally I can, it's just I don't often want to.

My parents don't actually have a problem me bringing the odd girl home but I just feel it's inappropriate as it's their home, so I don't.

When I did live alone I still preferred not to accommodate as I didn't want relative strangers in my home who could be potential nutjobs. Plus I find hotels a real turn on!

I just wish people on here would be more open minded and not _iew everyone so suspiciously, everyone gets messed around or let down but it's no reason to then write some people off just because there lifestyle and choices don't fit your particular idea of what's appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is because I live with my mum hahaha

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

OP

Was the right answer "Because he is married/co-habiting, she doesn't know, and inviting a couple around is an insensitive way to break the news?"

Do I get a prize? I can't believe all these posts above and no one has got the answer you were looking for... the Fab forum needs to up its game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Then because neither of you can accommodate the guy says lets get a hotel room. What he forgets to say is that he won't pay anything towards it, that's on you. Or of course his car. I'm too old and and being an ssbbw space is an issue

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

Why can't you accom what's your excuse?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

An HMRC thread?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango* "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????"

The same goes for men....some women can be pretty unstable so why would a man open himself up to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my 2 grown up son's and my daughter, 4 cats, 3 turtles, 2 tortoises and loads of fish. I only accommodate my FWB, I,'ve had him a long time. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"F k me. Check out the fab police! I only asked what's the worst excuse is as all we get is 'got a flat mate' them all of a sudden. I get turned on!?

That's a bit rich considering everyone 'APARANTLY' plays safe. When there's threads an threads of ppl talking about creampie's.

Yeah great choice.

Crack on "

It may have had everything to do with the title "problem with guys who can't..." we all know there are a number of people who see this site as "dial a fuck" and they are usually the first to moan when reality hits them, however the way that ALL men are tarnished with the same shitty brush is often at times annoying and uneducated.

There is (like life) good and bad on the site, but please don't expect the forum not to react when you single out a certain group, I'm sure if someone started a thread with "couples using kids as an excuse" as a header you'd feel a little irked to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't fucking want to..."

Simply this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

I'm going to go with........

None of your fucking business.

Now, let's hear why you can't accommodate and see if your reasons are any different to mine.

Howzat?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Because they can't?

Just a wild fucking guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sou ds like its all back to mine then

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By *ikebradford1974Man
over a year ago

bingley

My business is run from my house.

I'm sure my employess would start wondering why a variety of people kept rolling up.

And then I mysteriously reappeared afterwards looking pleased and freshly showered.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

I'm going to go with........

None of your fucking business.

Now, let's hear why you can't accommodate and see if your reasons are any different to mine.

Howzat? "

Priceless

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Sou ds like its all back to mine then "

Grabbing keys and running for the car..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my own reasons.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

as a single parent, I dont want the children seeing different people coming to the house.

only same reason as yours op

there has been times when kids have been away where I have accommodated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

I'm going to go with........

None of your fucking business.

Now, let's hear why you can't accommodate and see if your reasons are any different to mine.

Howzat?

Priceless "

6 hours and I'm still waiting.

I guess it was none of my business.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Mummy won't let me bring naughty ladies home, she says sex should be saved for someone special on our wedding night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate no problem at all and would be willing to for anyone. The smell coming from under the floorboards is a faulty drain; honest.

Regards

Leslie Nielson

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I choose not to accommodate and wouldn't blame anyone else who chooses not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

havnt read all the threads but have had a couple or two to my place but not before chatting on phone and hopefully using my intuition....and not giving out an address on demand?...cant get my head around those who say cant accomm. or travel?.......is it the woods ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter if people can't accom. Like, I hate to be the voice of reason here but aren't we all looking for some form of sexual pleasure here? Why should it matter if people can't have you over. Internet safety is a serious thing to all genders. You might say men don't have as much risk as women but thats entirely wrong. Both genders have the same risk factors. Whose to say that the woman a single guy is talking too happens to be a woman at all. If everyone spent less time on their soap box complaining then you would all have a lot more fun. Make love, not war. Very apt words here I think."

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple. "

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling. "

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it "

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place. "

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right so that's everyone stop posting on the thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread. "

You go first.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first. "

Sorry, did you mean me?

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

Having a flatmate who never moves from her spot in front of the communal telly doesn't help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me? "

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

"

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok! "

Pfffffffft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft. "

How many before it gets closed automatically ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft.

How many before it gets closed automatically ? "

In the region of 50+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft.

How many before it gets closed automatically ?

In the region of 50+ "

Ohhhh that's not very many is it in the grand scheme of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft.

How many before it gets closed automatically ?

In the region of 50+ "

Everybody stop posting then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft.

How many before it gets closed automatically ?

In the region of 50+

Everybody stop posting then! "

Ooops ignore that! I wasn't here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God is this threat still going. I thought we established hours ago that everybody has reasons for not accommodating be they male, female or couple.

It's the equivalent of knocking on people's door, and running away giggling.

And we are perpetuating this threat by keep posting on it

Well, I was gonna say.....

I love this place.

I agree. We should totally stop posting on this thread.

You go first.

Sorry, did you mean me?

I've just checked.

Yes, you. Stop posting on the thread.

I've stopped.

See. I'm not posting anymore.

Well I am! I don't accommodate - but I'm a woman so that's perfectly ok!

Pfffffffft.

How many before it gets closed automatically ?

In the region of 50+

Everybody stop posting then!

Ooops ignore that! I wasn't here "

But we saw you here 14 minutes ago ? Or have you had an out of body experience !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I live in a vast mansion where I store priceless work of art - so I don't want to risk you stealing stuff'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

Aileen Wuornos

Tracie Andrews

Myra hindley

Rose west

Kristen Gilbert

Laquanda Jones

Yeah....

woman are incapable of being bad...

Ffs!"

How many of them were "bad" on their own? I only recognise West and Hindley - they weren't alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "

Worse excuse why couples can't accommodate 'kids at home' seems a popular one

So what's your excuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy once say he was having his house re-thatched. I didn't believe him but thought nothing of it. Next time we met...voila brand new thatch roof!

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Partner (female) has just had a heart attack....but precisely two days later he's on here again looking for a meet for both of them!!!!

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

Worse excuse why couples can't accommodate 'kids at home' seems a popular one

So what's your excuse? "

*sniggers......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Partner (female) has just had a heart attack....but precisely two days later he's on here again looking for a meet for both of them!!!!

XX"

Hang on so this guys was using his Mrs hart attack as a reason to not accommodate not to call the meet off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

Worse excuse why couples can't accommodate 'kids at home' seems a popular one

So what's your excuse?

*sniggers...... "

Well people who can't accommodate who moan about why other people can't accommodate really grind my gears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't accommodate a lot of the time as we have kids in their 20's at home so yea can't really hide if we are fucking extra people x

But yes we do accommodate if she is at her sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

Aileen Wuornos

Tracie Andrews

Myra hindley

Rose west

Kristen Gilbert

Laquanda Jones

Yeah....

woman are incapable of being bad...

Ffs!

How many of them were "bad" on their own? I only recognise West and Hindley - they weren't alone."

Can't believe you missed out Lorena Bobbitt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if a man can accommodate, they don't have to.

Some like to keep their homes separate from this.

Single men get such a hard time on here from some and it is so unnecessary "

Finally somebody who speaks sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this has been an interesting pass time read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????"

After a great social and a few drinks you decide to go back to a strangers house for fun. No-one knows who you met or where he lives or even is real name...

Little did you actually know he's part of a gang of serial killers who is waiting for you back at his place and that was last anyone saw you......

You never know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango*

Don't forget the drinks

I'm leaving if you've no haribo. I'm only here for the tangfastics x"

Its Monday and im in need of chocolate (please no BBC comments)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't accommodate it's doesn't bother me. However, from experience they don't accommodate cos they are cheating. So I always wonder why and then just don't respond because I can't be asked to waste my time messaging someone, only to find they have a wife or something and then that's my time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

After a great social and a few drinks you decide to go back to a strangers house for fun. No-one knows who you met or where he lives or even is real name...

Little did you actually know he's part of a gang of serial killers who is waiting for you back at his place and that was last anyone saw you......

You never know lol "

First time I met guy in person that i now see on regular basis from here he gave me lift in his car from pub.

I took pic of his car number plate on the sly - if he had killed me at least i was giving police bit of a help in finding him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone can't accommodate I don't care, I'll meet at a club "

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

Why make an excuse, i can't or won't the rest is non of your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

After a great social and a few drinks you decide to go back to a strangers house for fun. No-one knows who you met or where he lives or even is real name...

Little did you actually know he's part of a gang of serial killers who is waiting for you back at his place and that was last anyone saw you......

You never know lol

First time I met guy in person that i now see on regular basis from here he gave me lift in his car from pub.

I took pic of his car number plate on the sly - if he had killed me at least i was giving police bit of a help in finding him"

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By *ynxMan
over a year ago

Stafford

When I had my own place up North I was able to accom. However had a few stories, I had arranged to meet a couple as the flat I was living in didn't look like flats, my sofa was quite low down so I could see out my window and I highly doubt they could see me. I watched them sit across the street and then drive off. They messaged me to say he needs a shower so I said have one here for them to say they will come later to log onto their account for like 2 months which worried me a little.

Also various times of giving people my address to get blocked so I learnt to give my post code as the satnav would take them to the bottom of the cul de sac away from my flat.

Now I can't accom cause Slough is so expensive for rent so living in a houseshare where I get moaned at for being on the phone in my room past 10 or watching game of thrones on my laptop I'll love to see what they would say to having loud sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three excuses, but don't feel I need any, if I'm honest. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol "
had women say the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate

lol

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They might have kids there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

Fair point"

Probably because there is a high chance of them having kids there..

Also people don't care why they can't because a single woman who will meet you is very rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why bother asking? I don't and wouldn't accommodate, so it's really none of my business why a man chooses not to either. "

Yep I Agree. Mind you I can accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Flat mate is with me' seems to be the popular one lol

Worse excuse why couples can't accommodate 'kids at home' seems a popular one

So what's your excuse?

*sniggers......

Well people who can't accommodate who moan about why other people can't accommodate really grind my gears "

*checks temperature of piss....

Yup, boiled to perfection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because his mum wouldn't approve? Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy can't accomodate - he's got something to hide, like he's married!

Guy can accomodate - he's the mad axe murderer!

Obviously.

So Guy can't win either way, and I know Guy, and he is a married axe murderer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy can't accomodate - he's got something to hide, like he's married!

Guy can accomodate - he's the mad axe murderer!

Obviously.

So Guy can't win either way, and I know Guy, and he is a married axe murderer. "

Oh I'm sure I will be chatting to him soon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea on male excuses but I have heard some amazing female ones.

My uncle died can we reschedule ok.

Reschedule few weeks later a text my uncle died what another one.

I only had one uncle she said.

Me present the text best part yet to come the first apparently was a dream he had died what the heck.

Physic meg or miss bull shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic you are extremely beautiful.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????"

Why should men be expected to let strange women into their house? Women can be just as crazy as men yet there is a clear double standard on here and no one accounts for men's safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate "
glad I wasn't the only one to spot it!

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

My 7 kids live with me thay all over 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this thread is a bit rich considering it's started by a couple who don't accommodate

Couples are cool, they don't have to answer to anyone, always right, swinging is just for couples after all lol, pmsl"

well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

Or couples "

Indeed and a little ironic that the OP cannot accommodate too.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Don't want a bunny boiler to stalk me

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By *aren1956TV/TS
over a year ago

Fakenham


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate

....yea, like I'm going to let a strange man into my house. Sure, he's the gentleman online and when we meet for coffee.....HOW do I know that no means no once he's in my place? And then....he knows where I live! Um. Men don't seem to get the safety issue women have.

When I go to the pub across the street and chat with people there, I don't tell them where I live. Why would I invite a stranger off the internet round????

Why don't you think men have safety issues? Why would THEY invite a stranger off the internet round? Or even two strangers, in the case of couples. "

Just remember Colin Ireland...

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

Really? No blokes want to go to a hotel with you?

So far all my first meets have been at hotels. One regular was always hotels 'cos husband.

I would have thought a hotel was the defacto choice!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

worst I've had was

"wife's just given birth to our kid and coming out hospital today so cant accom here but meet after i've dropped her home"

he got a resounding NO from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By *orny billingham bangersCouple
over a year ago

butlins skegness


"*sets out the stall selling popcorn, crisps and tango* "

Tango ice blast and count me in :D

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Roll up roll up....come now people the good old 'man bashing' has commenced...gather round the cauldron....

Interesting how no one ever questions why a woman can't accommdate"

simple really its because guys dont give a fuck .

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Worst excise why women can't accom..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there are many more legitamate reasons for not being able to host than dodgy ones?... When I'm in the south I could accommodate,when I'm looking after my disabled mother in Wales...Not so much!,might get a bit awkward..Depends on your kink I suppose.

From a a man's perspective be it dating,swinging etc,there are plenty of safety issues,including physical!..Fairly sure most men and women have the potential to be as dangerous as each other...Mentally,physically,legally??..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just putting it out there .... I can accommodate

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