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By *ittenbutnotshy OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!"

This is the first I've heard...do tell...examples!?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!"

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and Portuguese and Brazilian.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe they were born in Italy

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Laughing

I get asked often if I am Italian, Greek etc ..

Never Indian

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!"

That's a new one on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!"

Really?? Lmfao! I can't shake the image of Mario jumping and saying "It's a me, Mohammed"

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not Italian but we did notice a trend for stating mixed race as in an Afro/Caribbean and white mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never noticed this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never noticed but I don't think it really matters where someone comes from as long as we all get along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow really?? I've not come across that yet! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not Italian but we did notice a trend for stating mixed race as in an Afro/Caribbean and white mix."

I have this on my profile because I saw a profile stating no mixed race. At least people make their own judgements based on their "preference"?

I have seen profiles like the op is talking about. It's a shame people feel they have to do that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not Italian but we did notice a trend for stating mixed race as in an Afro/Caribbean and white mix.

I have this on my profile because I saw a profile stating no mixed race. At least people make their own judgements based on their "preference"?

I have seen profiles like the op is talking about. It's a shame people feel they have to do that "

It is isn't it but I understand why

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't put down my heritage (italian, afro caribbean and english) but I do get a lot of people asking if I am asian as they have always wanted to be with an asian girl. Maybe I should for clarity's sake but I don't see why it's that relevant. I look racially ambiguous anyway. I think men might do it to get around the no lists. Meh.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

No problem, the precedent has been set by the royal family calling themselves British.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not Italian but we did notice a trend for stating mixed race as in an Afro/Caribbean and white mix."

Yes this one I've seen.

Doll x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Never heard of that before.. not that I would pass myself off as another race.. think we should be proud of who we are.

Even with my name containing "indian" I am still asked if I am indian or european

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mama mia!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No problem, the precedent has been set by the royal family calling themselves British."

They are British aren't they? If they aren't neither are my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!

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and Portuguese and Brazilian. "

Haha yes definitely,we arranged a meet with a single guy who said he was half Spanish half Portuguese when we spoke on the phone to arrange times there definitely was no Spanish/Portuguese accent which was confirmed when he arrived,he was Asian

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian. "

So very true

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I get asked if I'm African quite a bit...my name to non GOT watchers throws people. And i assume because I've posted summer pics with a bit of a tan?.

Clearly I am not African!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

So very true "

Or is it a reflection of if something is advertised as one thing which appeals to you but you get something completely different would you be happy ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not turn this post into a racial thing,the op was commenting on people passing themselves off as something they are not and there case as ours they were Asian

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

So very true

Or is it a reflection of if something is advertised as one thing which appeals to you but you get something completely different would you be happy ...."

Just keeping this in perspective with the op's quote.. i dont advertise myself as anything other than what I am.. if others build up their hopes then are dissapointed thats their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

So very true

Or is it a reflection of if something is advertised as one thing which appeals to you but you get something completely different would you be happy ....

Just keeping this in perspective with the op's quote.. i dont advertise myself as anything other than what I am.. if others build up their hopes then are dissapointed thats their problem. "

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I actually quite fond of Indian men and communicate with quite a few long before I joined fabs.

All these I've encountered many times in the past but:

- it's only prevalent amongst the male and out of these; those who are working outside of India.

I never questioned them back. To me ethnicity does not really matter.

If you're hot, you're hot eg Shahid Kapoor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fat, old, white people are doing this too. i'm guessing they're desperately trying to sound more attractive than they perceive themselves?

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We've had some come as bbc mixed race

We find its hard to find Asain couples

And guys leaving wife at home

So we never play

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

So very true

Or is it a reflection of if something is advertised as one thing which appeals to you but you get something completely different would you be happy ...."

If it were something that made a difference to the sex I was expecting or a big age difference maybe. I wouldn't be put off by someone saying their name was Manuel when it was really Mohammed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had some come as bbc mixed race

We find its hard to find Asain couples

And guys leaving wife at home

So we never play

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There are lots of men of all races and nationalities who leave their wives at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fat, old, white people are doing this too. i'm guessing they're desperately trying to sound more attractive than they perceive themselves?"

More attractive to people who would meet them if they weren't Asian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fat, old, white people are doing this too. i'm guessing they're desperately trying to sound more attractive than they perceive themselves?

More attractive to people who would meet them if they weren't Asian. "

it is kind of exotic to describe yourself as european. which makes people sound more interesting and sexier than british white or asian.

i might just do that actually if i want to meet again off here, describe myself as european to appeal to more guys.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian. "

Would you say that if it were a single man who turned out to be married, someone who had safe sex yet said they only bareback? Of course not! So what's different in this case?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How many people suddenly become uninterested when finding out someone is Asian, not Italian.

I was seeing an Asian man from here who said that some women stopped talking when he said he was Asian.

I think it's a reflection on the people they are messaging, who would consider someone who is Italian or whatever and not if they were Asian.

So very true

Or is it a reflection of if something is advertised as one thing which appeals to you but you get something completely different would you be happy ...."

My point exactly!

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By *aren1956TV/TS
over a year ago

Fakenham


"Is it just us or has the number of Asian guys trying to pass themselves off as Italian increased, hilarious!"

Asif!

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By *ittenbutnotshy OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"No problem, the precedent has been set by the royal family calling themselves British."

LOL

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think its a sad reflection on our society that one declaring one's race can put people off. It's something people are proud of here. I think its pretty low to find this funny ... but it doesn't surprise me

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By *ittenbutnotshy OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"I think its a sad reflection on our society that one declaring one's race can put people off. It's something people are proud of here. I think its pretty low to find this funny ... but it doesn't surprise me"
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Was that aimed at me? Only I was laughing at the monarchy joke!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I think its a sad reflection on our society that one declaring one's race can put people off. It's something people are proud of here. I think its pretty low to find this funny ... but it doesn't surprise me.

Was that aimed at me? Only I was laughing at the monarchy joke!"

Laughing at Asians having to say they are Italian makes me wonder why they feel they have to do it ..... I think that is sort of sad rather than funny

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By *hyscouseMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laughing

I get asked often if I am Italian, Greek etc ..

Never Indian "

Same here I have been called Arab, Polish, Indian etc and I'm a white Irish person lol

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