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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with some people on this site its about fun not to b nasty to other people we all have feelings so why do some people upset us does anyone else feel like that at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me many many times. Best advice is just block them and move on. There are some really nice people on the site so don't give up!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Can't say this is something we've ever come across here, I can be a little blunt at times which I supposed could be construed as being a bit harsh but wouldn't be nasty deliberately. I suppose it's part of life in general and there will always be nasty people around. Take no notice and concentrate on the nice people! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes has happened to us a few times......... had a few ppl turn very nasty and the worst was a cpl.......... yes a cpl not a singel guy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh i understand there nasty people and nice people a just dont get why people would want to call people fat or that they look like dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've had it a few times... just laugh about it and block..

I have on a few occasions had random messages telling me I'm sad, delusional if I really think that I'm loved by my Master, or other similar things.

We just move on and block.

Katie x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

right... going to have to be more specific..

are we talking about in the forums? or in personal mail? or in the chatroom......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with some people on this site its about fun not to b nasty to other people we all have feelings so why do some people upset us does anyone else feel like that at times "
could not agree more with you

i had a fair share not my fault just some users don't seam 2 understand in what were trying 2 say,some took in a wrong way;

I'm here for fun more like the next person, its an adult site lets have some fun

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yes amazing how quick some people can change when they get "no" as an answer.

the charm turns to dummy spitting and tantrums a toddler would be pushed to excell lol !! im thankfull if this happens ,shows them in true light and would you want to meet someone like that ?? so saved you the trouble of further conversation or meeting ! god bless em ! plenty of very pleasent people on the site so they only show themselves up even further and make the decent folks shine out .just report and nasty messages ,block the profile and focus on other people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i understand there nasty people and nice people a just dont get why people would want to call people fat or that they look like dogs "

Ignorance is bliss guys. Some folk are very brave hidden behind keyboards especially when facing rejection. I've gone from being the sexiest girl on fab to a right minger in seconds after saying no thanks to someone. I handled it by laughing at their immaturity.

Never ever take to heart what someone types on a keyboard but always block and report xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yes amazing how quick some people can change when they get "no" as an answer.

the charm turns to dummy spitting and tantrums a toddler would be pushed to excell lol !! im thankfull if this happens ,shows them in true light and would you want to meet someone like that ?? so saved you the trouble of further conversation or meeting ! god bless em ! plenty of very pleasent people on the site so they only show themselves up even further and make the decent folks shine out .just report and nasty messages ,block the profile and focus on other people x"

I agree, some people are not very good at handling rejection lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We mean mailing mate

secondly we never rejected her we gave her an idea of a threesome because she was interested in them and the reply we got back was no chance ur mrs looks like a basset hound and fat

oh we blocked her ok but not the point shame we cant name and shame am sure there would b a lot of people said on that list lol "

I hope you have reported her, if you haven't you really should. You can still do it by clicking report on the abusive message xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" yes amazing how quick some people can change when they get "no" as an answer.

the charm turns to dummy spitting and tantrums a toddler would be pushed to excell lol !! im thankfull if this happens ,shows them in true light and would you want to meet someone like that ?? so saved you the trouble of further conversation or meeting ! god bless em ! plenty of very pleasent people on the site so they only show themselves up even further and make the decent folks shine out .just report and nasty messages ,block the profile and focus on other people x"

this is very true but take for example someone new starting on ere and they come across someone nasty not gona make them feel like good and then they may think this site not for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just blocked as never realised u could report and tbh next time it happens a will remember to do that mind u person who said it only joined one hour ago

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"We mean mailing mate

secondly we never rejected her we gave her an idea of a threesome because she was interested in them and the reply we got back was no chance ur mrs looks like a basset hound and fat

oh we blocked her ok but not the point shame we cant name and shame am sure there would b a lot of people said on that list lol "

we all have different tastes im sure but when someone is so unnecessarily nasty and rude it is no reflection on you it is all them. What a lucky escape, as a previous poster said, its good to know now and not waste your time on them. They have no class.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with that comment they where right saves wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I agree the comments made about your wife was rude and should be reported I do find some people on here very precious and easily offended!

Someone made an inane comment and I responded that I thought their comment daft. They responded that they wouldn't comment again as I was harsh to them.

I shudder to think how they're going to cope when someone sends a thanks but no thanks message. Poor darlings will probably delete their profile!

There's no need for personal attack but people won't always act like you'd want: here and elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree the comments made about your wife was rude and should be reported I do find some people on here very precious and easily offended!

Someone made an inane comment and I responded that I thought their comment daft. They responded that they wouldn't comment again as I was harsh to them.

I shudder to think how they're going to cope when someone sends a thanks but no thanks message. Poor darlings will probably delete their profile!

There's no need for personal attack but people won't always act like you'd want: here and elsewhere!"

but it all depends on what is said why should someone get away with commenting on someones size and at end of day its quite sad

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

If they have only been on for an hour then I'd treat it as a dubious person.

Don't forget there are people out there who, purposely look for facebook memorial sites to slag off the dead and their families.

Why because they enjoy the reaction they get they think it's great fun to wind people up who have an emotional investment in something that they could not care less about either way, but they do get off on winding people up, no matter the subject matter.

I recall this from back in the day on yahoo, when it had some very good chat room. Back in the dawn of the net. You would often get people going on to wind up american teenagers just to hope they gave the comeback ' oh well we can just nuke your country'

There is no reason for it, it's just the way they are. Don't think they do it because they are behind a keyboard, they are the kinda people you meet on a Saturday night who are out there looking for a fight or an arguement with anyone.

Engage them and they will keep raising the bait. Ignore them they will move on to the next target.

There is probably some psychologist out there who could explain the motivation but I have just grown to expect that some people just enjoy being plain mean.

The internet just allows it to happen fairly annoymously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they have only been on for an hour then I'd treat it as a dubious person.

Don't forget there are people out there who, purposely look for facebook memorial sites to slag off the dead and their families.

Why because they enjoy the reaction they get they think it's great fun to wind people up who have an emotional investment in something that they could not care less about either way, but they do get off on winding people up, no matter the subject matter.

I recall this from back in the day on yahoo, when it had some very good chat room. Back in the dawn of the net. You would often get people going on to wind up american teenagers just to hope they gave the comeback ' oh well we can just nuke your country'

There is no reason for it, it's just the way they are. Don't think they do it because they are behind a keyboard, they are the kinda people you meet on a Saturday night who are out there looking for a fight or an arguement with anyone.

Engage them and they will keep raising the bait. Ignore them they will move on to the next target.

There is probably some psychologist out there who could explain the motivation but I have just grown to expect that some people just enjoy being plain mean.

The internet just allows it to happen fairly annoymously.

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not a truer word said we totaly agree

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have had it a few times (more on another site than here) I used to let it upset me but have developed tougher skin now.

Just delete and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do some people upset us does anyone else feel like that at times "

Because you allow them to do so .... It's an internet site, a virtual world. Treat it like that and you won't be upset at anything anyone says or does.

Remember this is not the real world and there is an on/off switch ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like when rude drivers are overtly cutting people up and tail gating etc...they think they are in their own little anonymous bubbles. Also think people who are nasty are seeking some kind of retribution for something that has left a mark on them at some point, you may have ignored them and precious egos are at play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do some people upset us does anyone else feel like that at times

Because you allow them to do so .... It's an internet site, a virtual world. Treat it like that and you won't be upset at anything anyone says or does.

Remember this is not the real world and there is an on/off switch ...."
you have it right its not the real world here is cyber net land face to face is real ..... some people are just rude and if thay feel thay get to you on here ... it makes there day .. some get off on crap like that ....so block and think your better then them ...and people like that you would never wish to meet so its a lucky escape x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont get upset just think its sad.some people are just people are so shallow. we have met some real fun and sexy people on here but have also chatted and met some real tossers but thats life you have to take the good with the bad

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Its an internet site....... not real life.

Ignore and move on.

You need a very thick skin to deal with some of the knobs on the internet and an even thicker one to deal with muppets you meet in everyday life.

As long as you think your wife is beautiful................WTF does it matter what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are unnecessarily rude or intolerant or just making a complete nuisance of themselves, block them. Good manners are wasted on some people.

We block people who message us continually after we have told them we aren't interested. Or people who message us who are so far removed from our profile requirements that they have obviously not read a word of them. If I am feeling generous I tell them to read our profile fully and properly.

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