FabSwingers.com forum: Looks or personality???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you have a person for their looks over their personality and do you read verifications to judge what people are like????

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

neither .... cock size.

if I wanted looks ... I would buy Cosmopolitan

if I wanted laughs... a Peter Kay dvd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"neither .... cock size.

if I wanted looks ... I would buy Cosmopolitan

if I wanted laughs... a Peter Kay dvd."

Ok did not think of that one (but i wouldn't)

Does anyone else think this as well???

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

never jugde a book by its cover.

make up my own mind if i like a person dont need verifacations to tell me.

personality and sense of humour always goes down well, no point having someone who is drop dead gorgeous and cant hold a conversation

just my wee thought

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By *icarswife45Woman
over a year ago

wiltshire town near Bath

I do prefer a good personality over looks.

Verifications for me show a person meets,i never judge anyone by what is written like to find out for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good looking person will attract my attention - but they need a personality to hold it. A vacuous person is NOT attractive to me.

As for verifications...sigh...I should have this on cut on paste I'm boring myself repeating it...the opinions of total strangers, about who I'll allow into my bed and body is of absolutely no importance to me whatsoever.

I'm quite capable of making my own mind up about people - not failed me yet!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in all seriousness... why do these threads always have it ..

looks OR personality.. can some people not have both or be looking for both..

otherwise the pretty but humourless

or plain ugly comedians...

bizarre..........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do prefer a good personality over looks.

Verifications for me show a person meets,i never judge anyone by what is written like to find out for myself.

Thats what i think but is it hard to actually meet people in the first place to see what they are like???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in all seriousness... why do these threads always have it ..

looks OR personality.. can some people not have both or be looking for both..

otherwise the pretty but humourless

or plain ugly comedians...

bizarre.........."

Indeed! I can honestly say a drop dead gorgeous, Rhodes Scholar with the comic genious of Chris Rock would get my juices going.

If he was sub and took it up the arse...well, even better!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

looks everytime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"looks everytime

What even tho they might have no personality???

What good are looks if you cant talk proper????

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"looks everytime

What even tho they might have no personality???

What good are looks if you cant talk proper????

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not a major priority in a club now is it? There is no such thing as someone who has no personality, just people may not have a personality that is compatible with yours

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"looks everytime

What even tho they might have no personality???

What good are looks if you cant talk proper????

not a major priority in a club now is it? There is no such thing as someone who has no personality, just people may not have a personality that is compatible with yours

oh so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both hopefully.

Couldn't fancy a stunner if they were an arsehole.

Nor shag a minger just because we got on well.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most importantly for me is that someone is clean, polite, respectful and makes an effort.

The verifications show that the person does actually meet and are not just front room dreamers... wasting everyone's time!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Both!!!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"looks everytime

What even tho they might have no personality???

What good are looks if you cant talk proper????

I don't want to talk to people, just fuck their brains out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone can look physically attractive but its what comes out there mouth that seals the deal for me.

When i was young, i remember going to the pub and fancying this bloke for weeks and weeks, one night he spoke to me and within 30 seconds i couldnt wait to get rid off him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"looks everytime

What even tho they might have no personality???

What good are looks if you cant talk proper????

I don't want to talk to people, just fuck their brains out."

Well there is that lol

but is nice to talk whilst shagging???

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

i cant say looks dont turn my head at times but if i find i cant have a giggle with them im less likely to wanna meet them and people that wouldnt necessarily turn my head lookswise have found to be awesome people.its handy to know someones verified as u know they less likely to mess u about but i think each person has diff taste sexually so i like to find out meself xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Alot of people say they like to make their own mind up but how can you if you dont chat to them or meet them in the first place????

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Alot of people say they like to make their own mind up but how can you if you dont chat to them or meet them in the first place????"

Chat to them and decide amongst yourselves if you all want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All fannies are attractive to a hard prick

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

i mean i decide if i like them by chatting and meeting myself not by what it says on their profile because whats good for one person not necessarily for the next

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

The sexiest man i ever met over the net insists he is not handsome,his personality means i think he is gorgeous.

For me personality matters more than anything,an ugly personality can easily hide behind a fair face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good manners cost nothing..respect & a thick hungry cock

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

A willingness to respond to my messages is a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sexiest man i ever met over the net insists he is not handsome,his personality means i think he is gorgeous.

For me personality matters more than anything,an ugly personality can easily hide behind a fair face."

Yep completely agree xx

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By *kip123Man
over a year ago

Barry

I totaly agree that personality is more important but, as we all know, if you are are out in public the people that attract your attention are usualy attractive/ handsome/ dressed oddly etc.etc. The same goes for photographs. For the vast majority of people to show that you hace a nice personality is hard. A first time message to people to show this is very difficult to do. I have met some very nice people and friends on this site some at parties etc who had dissmised me previously when i sent messages. Perhaps we should all try reading between the lines of messages and at least reply to try and learn a bit more about people before we say "no thanks"

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By *elen HewieCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead

personality and cock. looks don't matter its what the perswon is like.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"personality and cock. looks don't matter its what the perswon is like.

I'm with you on the personality, just not sure about the cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be a fine balance of a mixture of personality, physical attributes, and manners for me.

Hence I don't meet that often - I'd rather have quality and quantity anyday!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Having just had a drop dead gorgeous 22 year old blond add me as a friend I can now confirm its definably looks.

Seems I have hidden shallows...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Looks.... who cares if they were funny after they have stopped breathing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me an old cynic, but my _iew is that the "pretty people" will always say that looks are more important.

There have been loads of threads on here where people have said they wouldn't shag a minger, no matter how "nice" their personality was.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Call me an old cynic, but my _iew is that the "pretty people" will always say that looks are more important.

In that case is definitely looks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure , still confused

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been loads of threads on here where people have said they wouldn't shag a minger, no matter how "nice" their personality was.

Well im a minger and i do ok xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've decided to settle on neither.

I seek inspiration for my playmates only from the stars and the wind, from the distant birdsong, from a ray of sunshine through the tree canopy, from heaving boosoms and a very small skirt...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Call me an old cynic, but my _iew is that the "pretty people" will always say that looks are more important.

Does that mean non-pretty people don't care what the people they fuck look like?

One man's pretty is another man's pig... just because looks are important to a person it doesn't mean they must have the looks of an magazine aftershave model.

I wouldn't say I go for 'pretty' people, in fact I like blokey looking blokes... a bit rough around the edges.

Whether someone is classically pretty or not, I have to find their looks appealling to want to arrange an evening fucking their brains out.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've got looks, physique, personality and I'm a whizz on the dance floor.

I expect nothing less from anyone who associates with me.

You're either perfect or get fecked!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Call me an old cynic, but my _iew is that the "pretty people" will always say that looks are more important.

Does that mean non-pretty people don't care what the people they fuck look like?

One man's pretty is another man's pig... just because looks are important to a person it doesn't mean they must have the looks of an magazine aftershave model.

I wouldn't say I go for 'pretty' people, in fact I like blokey looking blokes... a bit rough around the edges.

Whether someone is classically pretty or not, I have to find their looks appealling to want to arrange an evening fucking their brains out."

did someone say something about a pig

looks arent everthing but are to a lot of peeps on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks for us

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"looks for us

Wahey!! I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their sexiness, which I guess on balance is a reflection or by-product of their personality.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Their sexiness, which I guess on balance is a reflection or by-product of their personality."

Ohhh, like it, very good answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say anything if it gets me a shag

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

oh dear this is turning in to one of them threads for the shallow ones

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I'll say anything if it gets me a shag

ahhh, ya ruined it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, in all seriousness, my first answer was the truth. I have met one or two "stunnas" but most of us are averagely attractive and I can honestly say the sex was not nearly as good with the beautiful people. I have to make a mental connection to take it above the mere insertion of my cock into a vagina.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'll say anything if it gets me a shag

Thats not a good thing to say its set in Fab swingers stone now

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'd sooner be in bed with someone who only had to look at me to know why they were fucking me, rather than someone I had to tell jokes to, remind them of my charity work and offer to take their granny to the park in order to keep their dick hard.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

personality every time....... Please, have you seen my photos ffs?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

same, old hasbeen thats me. lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'd sooner be in bed with someone who only had to look at me to know why they were fucking me, rather than someone I had to tell jokes to, remind them of my charity work and offer to take their granny to the park in order to keep their dick hard."

Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x"

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?"

I think its the granny bit hes more interested in

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?

I think its the granny bit hes more interested in

You use your bait and I'll use mine thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, but if made to pick one

Looks please….

On here for sex not to find a partner

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?

I think its the granny bit hes more interested in

You use your bait and I'll use mine thank you."

ok his str8 jacket and padded cell are waiting for his weekend break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I fell of the ugly tree, but on my way down i fucked every branch on the way down hehehehe

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?"

It's working... *funky goes cross eyes his knees buckle* (much like Jim Dale in a Carry On movie)

Are there... any *grunt*... pedalos in the lake? *fnar*.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?

It's working... *funky goes cross eyes his knees buckle* (much like Jim Dale in a Carry On movie)

Are there... any *grunt*... pedalos in the lake? *fnar*."

7... and 3 are shaped like swans... I think I hear an icecream van... you want me don't you?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

...can we have a third option?

Money...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Mmmmmmmm talk more about the granny in the park thing, I quite liked it mmmmmmmm fuck! x

Bowling green... park cafe and plastic cups... feeding the ducks.... are you hard yet?

It's working... *funky goes cross eyes his knees buckle* (much like Jim Dale in a Carry On movie)

Are there... any *grunt*... pedalos in the lake? *fnar*.

7... and 3 are shaped like swans... I think I hear an icecream van... you want me don't you?"

Karkarkarkarkar Kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... wimper

(the sound I make when I jizz)

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Karkarkarkarkar Kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... wimper

(the sound I make when I jizz)"

Ahhhh that's what it was

Last time you did that on the phone I just thought you'd got your tongue stuck in the stapler again

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

tricky one to test out this one because no matter how well written, polite humorous, cheeky the message very few people actually take the time to reply even to say no thanks.

Therefore I would suggest that personality based selection is not common practice on here, in my limited experience and humble opinion.

Are my grapes sour??? sorry!

;-)

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Karkarkarkarkar Kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... wimper

(the sound I make when I jizz)

Ahhhh that's what it was

Last time you did that on the phone I just thought you'd got your tongue stuck in the stapler again

ive he has a thing for drawing pins and table tops and it not his tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there... any *grunt*... pedalos in the lake? *fnar*."

No, but I did see a couple of shifty-looking blokes hanging around the kids play area

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"tricky one to test out this one because no matter how well written, polite humorous, cheeky the message very few people actually take the time to reply even to say no thanks.

Therefore I would suggest that personality based selection is not common practice on here, in my limited experience and humble opinion.

Are my grapes sour??? sorry!

;-) "

I get what you mean, my most carefully crafted messages often get deleted or just ignored for months...

...I think dice are involved somewhere in selecting a single male...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both for me...looks attract intially but then if you can;t stand to be around them for more than 5 minutes you are hardly going to want to fuck them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both for me...looks attract intially but then if you can;t stand to be around them for more than 5 minutes you are hardly going to want to fuck them!"

Hey, you can do a lot in FOUR minutes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both for me...looks attract intially but then if you can;t stand to be around them for more than 5 minutes you are hardly going to want to fuck them!

Hey, you can do a lot in FOUR minutes!

Ha ha you're not wrong mate...even less!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Bit of both for me...looks attract intially but then if you can;t stand to be around them for more than 5 minutes you are hardly going to want to fuck them!"

Most men can cum in well under 5 minutes if they just let go and don't hold back.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"tricky one to test out this one because no matter how well written, polite humorous, cheeky the message very few people actually take the time to reply even to say no thanks.

Therefore I would suggest that personality based selection is not common practice on here, in my limited experience and humble opinion.

Are my grapes sour??? sorry!

;-)

I get what you mean, my most carefully crafted messages often get deleted or just ignored for months...

...I think dice are involved somewhere in selecting a single male...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both for me...looks attract intially but then if you can;t stand to be around them for more than 5 minutes you are hardly going to want to fuck them!

Most men can cum in well under 5 minutes if they just let go and don't hold back."

You gotta get to that stage first though eh! You don;t just make eyes at someone then go over, lift up their skirt and push your dick up them and fuck them flat our for 4 mins in the hope she doesn;t say anything about politics/coronations street/how to look good naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have a person who looks out of this world but as a person a real let down .... nasty peace of work so vain and up there own bum .. Yes i do go on looks to start but i like to get to know a person. As one time i did meet a man who in my eyes best looking man i had ever seen had not got to know him well and what a let down. IT WAS BIG TIME X.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think dice are involved somewhere in selecting a single male...

Nah, it's Eeny, meeny, miny, moe

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"You can have a person who looks out of this world but as a person a real let down .... nasty peace of work so vain and up there own bum .. Yes i do go on looks to start but i like to get to know a person. As one time i did meet a man who in my eyes best looking man i had ever seen had not got to know him well and what a let down. IT WAS BIG TIME X..... "

Fred West wasn't a looker though was he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fred West wasn't a looker though was he?"

?????

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

For me its personality first. Looks second.

In a club I look for eye contact and a smile (and yes looks too) but if they come near me and open their mouth to say "hi wanna fuck" then thats it, its me gone and not interested thanks.

I dont just want a fuck thanks. If I am in a club I want to chat and say hi maybe swap names and a bit of a conversation and in that time I am deciding if there is any chemistry for me.

If they are the most handsome sexy man ever but they are an arse then no way its not gonna happen.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

all this goods out the window if you throw drink in the mix.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Think its a bit of both, cause at the end of the day, they could have a great personality but if there isnt a bit of attraction then hard to get it on. In the same instance could be great looking with no personality. So i like a bit of both as for veries, yehh we look at them as we think in general if they have got on with the ppl they have met and turned up when said they would proves something. But you dont now 100% for sure if there will be a click untill you meet. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fred West wasn't a looker though was he?"
No i dont think he was And ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fred West wasn't a looker though was he? No i dont think he was And ??"

whoooshh

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Personality everytime for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does funny = good sex --no.. you want a fuck not marriage...look for the imagination, get them to tell you their fantasy easy to read the wank mag readers from the real guys..

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