FabSwingers.com forum: men that play and wives that dont

By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

How many other have come across the situation where the husband is free to fuck but the wife isnt.

we like full swap fun but when a guy wants to join in and his wife isnt allowed, we think its a bit off/strange.

We came across this at a club fairly recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she isnt allowed or doesn't want to?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"she isnt allowed or doesn't want to?"

You beat me to it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i play but my husband dusnt want too so he dusnt

maybe she likes to watch

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

maybe we have got it all wrong, but when we play as a cpl thats what we do. we imagined that a cpl out to play in a club would both do the same things, if one dosnt want to play, as suggested then the other should do the same.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So it's gone from 'Not free to'....to 'Doesn't want to'

World of difference

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

If we go to a club as a cpl to play with others. We dont accept that is proper or good manners for a wife to be hit on by another husband if his wife isnt willing to partake.

If we wanted a single guy thats what we would go for.

Is this too harsh

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

not free, isnt allowed, dosnt want to, either of these dosnt change the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the same choice they do, do you not? If the wife doesn't want to play with you, then your wife can also say no...or am I missing something?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe the wife of the couple never fancied the male half of you?

If so, don't you feel that is an acceptable situation?

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

like i say maybe we have it wrong.

Maybe she didnt fancy the male half, but thats a bit hard to believe in a room where you can barely see your hand in front of your face.

We have had a similar situation on a private meet where she was allowed and he wasnt, and that was the case. not anything to do with being fancied, he could look but not touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in a club and many a time the female of the couple or the male of the couple doesn't play, their choice. Always lots of others willing to play.

I've also gone as a single female and not wished to play with anyone... depends if there is an attraction there. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to clubs on the rare occasion one of us may not be 'up for it' for varying reasons

I don't mind Tra going off to play with another couple on her own, and on the odd occasion she has.

Tra doesn't mind me doing the same but I very rarely do.

Generally if one of us isn't playing then neither of us are but its not carved in stone.

It's more about the 'right moment'

if neither of us play then,hey! we've had a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a similar situation on a private meet where she was allowed and he wasnt, and that was the case. not anything to do with being fancied, he could look but not touch."

I'd be inclined to believe that was a 'fantasy' scenario for one or both of them

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

single yes i fully agree, but cpls no i dont agree along with others that wont writee in the forum a cpl is a cpl if one dosnt play then perhaps the other shouldnt,

We wouldnt got to a private meet with another cpl and just expect one cpl to play, if either of us wasnt keen on either of the others we wouldnt meet.

Why shouldnt that apply anywhere else

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

was she told she was not allowed to play in the room ,if not how do we know this.

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

"was she told she was not allowed to play in the room ,if not how do we know this."

we dont know this, all we know is she didnt want to and he did, but he didnt get the chance,

I think the point is being missed a little,

I asked if anyone else had come across this, and they have, but wont reply in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked if anyone else had come across this, and they have, but wont reply in the forum"

So you've got your answer then: someone has!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"we dont know this, all we know is she didnt want to and he did, but he didnt get the chance,

I think the point is being missed a little,

I asked if anyone else had come across this, and they have, but wont reply in the forum"
aw right ok she didnt want to ,tbh if it was us we both would of left the room,what would you have done if it was a cpl to cpl meet and you had swapped and one half of the other cpl didnt want to play, would still keep playing .

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"a cpl is a cpl if one dosnt play then perhaps the other shouldnt"

Why not?

As a bi male in a MM relationship, I have the option, and the blessing of my OH to meet / play with females alone.

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Our 1st experience on meeting a cpl was a private meet in a flat in Manchester. It was discussed before hand that we were new to scene and they were regular Swingers. We agreed we wanted to play in a 4some - girl on girl with soft swap and sex with own partners.

Long story short - the other blokes mrs sat next to me n my mrs sat next to him we all facing each other. He starts playing with my mrs tits and gets them out, my mrs looking at me uncomfortable, I look at his mrs and whisper can I undo ur top too and she tells me she just wants to watch her hubby please my mrs.

I sat back felt awful and had to STop it as my mrs didn't like idea of he being on show when clearly it was pre-arranges that it was more fem-fem fun.

We never met them again and almost put off if swinging - so we dony agree with mrs sitting it out during a cpl to cpl meet.

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

"we dont know this, all we know is she didnt want to and he did, but he didnt get the chance,

I think the point is being missed a little,

I asked if anyone else had come across this, and they have, but wont reply in the forumaw right ok she didnt want to ,tbh if it was us we both would of left the room,what would you have done if it was a cpl to cpl meet and you had swapped and one half of the other cpl didnt want to play, would still keep playing ."

Ahh thats exactly what we did, left the room. Jane didnt actually know at the time she thought he was a single guy, it was only when i had seen it that i whispered to her so we got up and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of a couple who frequent a club I used to go to, she has a queue out the door of guys waiting to shag her, her husband says who can and who can't and he never gets involved in any other way. He remains by her side the whole night till she is satisfied, and I have never seen him indulge with anyone at all... I offered him a bj after being down on his lady and he thanked me and declined. He explained he gets all his thrills watching his wife being pleasured.

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

"I know of a couple who frequent a club I used to go to, she has a queue out the door of guys waiting to shag her, her husband says who can and who can't and he never gets involved in any other way. He remains by her side the whole night till she is satisfied, and I have never seen him indulge with anyone at all... I offered him a bj after being down on his lady and he thanked me and declined. He explained he gets all his thrills watching his wife being pleasured. "

I get a thrill watching my wife being pleasured but she also gets the same watching me hence the same room fun.

if i just want to sit and watch her we will see single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we dont know this, all we know is she didnt want to and he did, but he didnt get the chance,

I think the point is being missed a little,

Ahh thats exactly what we did, left the room. Jane didnt actually know at the time she thought he was a single guy, it was only when i had seen it that i whispered to her so we got up and left."

then you did the right thing. immaterial of whether he was a single bloke or part of a couple,if you're uncomfortable with it then you stop and leave. some people are happy to play with half of a couple,some are not. you can only do what you feel is right for you. If you're in a club you can't second guess everything that's going to happen around you,especially in an open room so its always best to have some personal ground rules. in all honesty if couples like to play separately or alone that's their choice. as you have yours

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

so end of day we in the scene and for all diffrent reasons some do some dont some watch some play each to there own ,in clubs in a one off its hard to think whos into what ,some ppl are into things you dont like ,if we all in same things we be boring

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I wander off and let Jason get on with it sometimes.

Mind you, tis normally cus the other bloke is a gormless grunt with BO and no teeth.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

she has no choice in the matter?

only guys HE selects??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe we have got it all wrong, but when we play as a cpl thats what we do. we imagined that a cpl out to play in a club would both do the same things, if one dosnt want to play, as suggested then the other should do the same.

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like i say maybe we have it wrong.

Maybe she didnt fancy the male half, but thats a bit hard to believe in a room where you can barely see your hand in front of your face.

We have had a similar situation on a private meet where she was allowed and he wasnt, and that was the case. not anything to do with being fancied, he could look but not touch."

They should've told you about this beforehand, that is just downright bad manners on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"was she told she was not allowed to play in the room ,if not how do we know this.

we dont know this, all we know is she didnt want to and he did, but he didnt get the chance,

I think the point is being missed a little,

I asked if anyone else had come across this, and they have, but wont reply in the forum"

Yes, we had this but not at a club it was one of our earlier "home" games. We were most dissatisfied as they did not state that the man would only be able to play with the permission of the woman. She did not give him permission. That meet came to a swift end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a thrill watching my wife being pleasured but she also gets the same watching me hence the same room fun.

if i just want to sit and watch her we will see single guys."

Shaz plays with both males and females while I just watch, it's what I like and I find real horny.

And same when we are in a club also, I just watch her with others.

And same when we meet a couple, I just watch her with others.

And.. lol If I realy fancy the woman Shaz is playing with I will still just watch

Nothing to do with what I'm allowed to do as Shaz likes to watch me also, it's just what I like

Tony

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

hence we look to talk with both before hand (not just fem to fem as see on many profiles) and even then ... if only 1 wants to play on either side its a no-no ... thankfully when we've then gone on to meet that couple we've not had a "no thanks" yet... hence seeing face pics first saves the pain of rejection on either side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough we even cammed with this couple. The problem was that she had obviously (but not overtly) decided not to give him permission to play with me (tigress for whatever reason)but we were not aware that they had this kind of relationship. Since then we have made it clear on our profile that we both like attention.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We've been at a private party where the male played and she didn't. He was like a kid in a sweety shop, he couldn't get around the ladies fast enough. Meanwhile his wife just sat in the dining room eating and drinking, generally ignoring what he was up to.

About an hour later and after sex with just about every woman there, he got dressed and they both left.

What's that all about?

We've always had the rule, 'both play or no play' Its not fair on your partner or on others, who expect to be playing with a couple, not a single, be that a man or woman.

I know the party hosts now stipulate that rule when sending invites out

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

well it could be she dont enjoy sex so if he gets his oats with others at a party (and she is there to upstand that he is part of a couple) then all the better for her??

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

esp if she has a free buffet to gouge upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many other have come across the situation where the husband is free to fuck but the wife isnt.

we like full swap fun but when a guy wants to join in and his wife isnt allowed, we think its a bit off/strange.

We came across this at a club fairly recently."

Making provisions for all the individual/joint preferences people have during play is just not practical in clubs, furthermore impossible to control, without communication.

You for instance appeared to have entered entered a dark room (couldn't see hand in front of face) you haven't mentioned whether this was on a couples only night at this club ?

Immediately on discovering an individual playing outside your own personal preferences, you left the room. This in many peoples view is about all you could have done under the circumstances.

Now personally I would not enter a dark room for the exact reason I have mentioned above, you enter 'at your own risk' as preferences will vary considerably between people. I consider that is the point of a dark room.

The alternative would be with group play rooms that are busy:

Anybody entering a group room that has a preference that is, in the main, outside the norm would need to make certain all within 'know their/this preference'. Just how they would manage this without either whispering in everybodys ears or shouting to all how they play, causing a disturbance, I really don't know - semaphore maybe lol

Whether this particular preference is outside of the norm, I will not personally judge, I will say that any couple playing in this way, as a single, should perhaps stick to single guy nights and stay out of couple only rooms.

I don't see dark rooms as couple only rooms, I see them as 'you pays ya money and take your chance'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent come across the wife not playing in a club yet.

But ive seen plenty of couples where the husband is not allowed!

And i do mean not allowed by his wife.

Ive also seen it where the husband couldnt control himself and got himself in a compromising position, then all hell broke loose!!!

Domestics in clubs are not nice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many other have come across the situation where the husband is free to fuck but the wife isnt.

we like full swap fun but when a guy wants to join in and his wife isnt allowed, we think its a bit off/strange.

We came across this at a club fairly recently.

Making provisions for all the individual/joint preferences people have during play is just not practical in clubs, furthermore impossible to control, without communication.

You for instance appeared to have entered entered a dark room (couldn't see hand in front of face) you haven't mentioned whether this was on a couples only night at this club ?

Immediately on discovering an individual playing outside your own personal preferences, you left the room. This in many peoples view is about all you could have done under the circumstances.

The alternative would be with group play rooms that are busy:

I don't see dark rooms as couple only rooms, I see them as 'you pays ya money and take your chance'.

Ooooooh, don't you write nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I havent come across the wife not playing in a club yet.

But ive seen plenty of couples where the husband is not allowed!

And i do mean not allowed by his wife.

Ive also seen it where the husband couldnt control himself and got himself in a compromising position, then all hell broke loose!!!

Domestics in clubs are not nice!!

I have to admit I find that bizarre. Then again no, I'm off the view some couples are "odd". There was the female of a couple posting the other day how upset she was her boyfriend had kissed a playmate. She was allowed to kiss mind: he wasn't.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I'm off the view some couples are "odd""

I'm resisting the urge to comment

Not sure if I'll succeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i play but mr p does not. its our choice. he always has said he doesn't want too and truthfully i would hate it if he did. that might be selfish but when he got me into this it was the way it was and has always been for him.. but i find nights with bi guys ok? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of a few cuckolding couples who go to clubs, he is not allowed to partake in any fun whatsoever.

However the guy has his pleasure later when they go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been approached by "couples" who wanna play but when it comes down to it, the wife can't make it for some reason.

Personally in these cases, I don't think there even is a wife.

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

"i play but mr p does not. its our choice. he always has said he doesn't want too and truthfully i would hate it if he did. that might be selfish but when he got me into this it was the way it was and has always been for him.. but i find nights with bi guys ok? xxx"

I had a meet last year where she offered her camera for any photos of us if I didnt mind..agreed but no face etc..had a great session for a few hours and agreed to meet again....Second meet I found out that the photos were shared with Mr at bedtime for his/their thrills. I liked the thought of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about people getting their sexual kicks in whatever way suits them. However I do think that what most people are on about though in this thread, is one partner not allowing it.

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

its all about choice,communication and assumption..dont assume that because its a couple that they are going to play by your rules or find you desirable enough to play with especially in a club scenario.

if it happens in an arranged meet then both parties clearly haven't communicated clearly enough or one or the other has gone out to deceive....so ask them to leave or get up and leave and move on and learn from it...ask the right questions and if you have a doubt dont meet.

no body should feel compelled to play just because there other half is and that to me is either a break down in communication between the couple or is how they want to play and if all four play the bril..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"How many other have come across the situation where the husband is free to fuck but the wife isnt.

we like full swap fun but when a guy wants to join in and his wife isnt allowed, we think its a bit off/strange.

We came across this at a club fairly recently."

just because I like playing devils advocate

can I ask a question.....

"if it had been the other way round... where the wife had played and the bloke hadn't, ooooh... ffm with the other hubby just watching... would we even be having this converstion right now?? "

I'm probably guessing.... no......

double standard... absolutely....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldnt every situation be dealt with as it happens and leave the stereotyping and expectancies outside the door....lol

I'm in a situation where I am married but playing alone....now immediatly that puts me in a pretty low place to most people! but if you knew why would you change your mind?

My wife is disabled and we havent had sex for nearly four years because she cant...now she has a big downer because of this already and if she knew I was here she would feel even worse...

so I keep it secret to protect her...but why should I be labled as a cheating git in the same way that others are?

mmmmm food for thought

please feel free to be open in your replies as I am really interested in opinions...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know of a couple who frequent a club I used to go to, she has a queue out the door of guys waiting to shag her, her husband says who can and who can't and he never gets involved in any other way.

she has no choice in the matter?

only guys HE selects??

That is the way she likes to play.... she very definitely has a say, she always plays that way in the club. She trusts her husband to select the type of guy she likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its about people getting their sexual kicks in whatever way suits them. However I do think that what most people are on about though in this thread, is one partner not allowing it.

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander"

Well almost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldnt every situation be dealt with as it happens and leave the stereotyping and expectancies outside the door....lol

I'm in a situation where I am married but playing alone....now immediatly that puts me in a pretty low place to most people! but if you knew why would you change your mind?

My wife is disabled and we havent had sex for nearly four years because she cant...now she has a big downer because of this already and if she knew I was here she would feel even worse...

so I keep it secret to protect her...but why should I be labled as a cheating git in the same way that others are?

mmmmm food for thought

please feel free to be open in your replies as I am really interested in opinions...xxx

me thinks this is gona be a start of another thread......can just see peops picking their rocks up as we speak !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldnt every situation be dealt with as it happens and leave the stereotyping and expectancies outside the door....lol

I'm in a situation where I am married but playing alone....now immediatly that puts me in a pretty low place to most people! but if you knew why would you change your mind?

My wife is disabled and we havent had sex for nearly four years because she cant...now she has a big downer because of this already and if she knew I was here she would feel even worse...

so I keep it secret to protect her...but why should I be labled as a cheating git in the same way that others are?

mmmmm food for thought

please feel free to be open in your replies as I am really interested in opinions...xxx

me thinks this is gona be a start of another thread......can just see peops picking their rocks up as we speak !!!!"

Thanks Jan....lol...I love being controversial....not the shy retiring type either...lol

Honesty is always brutal but hopefully I can take it.....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldnt every situation be dealt with as it happens and leave the stereotyping and expectancies outside the door....lol

I'm in a situation where I am married but playing alone....now immediatly that puts me in a pretty low place to most people! but if you knew why would you change your mind?

My wife is disabled and we havent had sex for nearly four years because she cant...now she has a big downer because of this already and if she knew I was here she would feel even worse...

so I keep it secret to protect her...but why should I be labled as a cheating git in the same way that others are?

mmmmm food for thought

please feel free to be open in your replies as I am really interested in opinions...xxx

Sorry, I don't see where your situation compares to that of the OP. Or am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Sassy, it was more to do with the stereotyping of men, women and couples and the way they decide how and what to do with swinging and their relationships...not everyone or every situation is the same...sorry I was just trying to give another more personal example from experience...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Sassy...maybe Jan was right...should be another thread...lol...x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

me thinks this is gona be a start of another thread......can just see peops picking their rocks up as we speak !!!!"

i just got this image in my head of the regular women in these forums donning false beards like in Life Of Brian to stone the unbelievers lol

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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Just a point that may have been missed for OP. Isn't it possible that the female half of the couple may have been taking a breather ? Maybe you caught her in between as it were ?

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

"We've been at a private party where the male played and she didn't. He was like a kid in a sweety shop, he couldn't get around the ladies fast enough. Meanwhile his wife just sat in the dining room eating and drinking, generally ignoring what he was up to.

About an hour later and after sex with just about every woman there, he got dressed and they both left.

What's that all about?

We've always had the rule, 'both play or no play' Its not fair on your partner or on others, who expect to be playing with a couple, not a single, be that a man or woman.

I know the party hosts now stipulate that rule when sending invites out"

Well said glad someone is with us on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across this ....man can play have full sex with woman... But woman only looking to have sex with own man and bi .... yes ome across this today in my post people asking ... saying man can do as he like .. its each to there own here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have come across this ....man can play have full sex with woman... But woman only looking to have sex with own man and bi .... yes ome across this today in my post people asking ... saying man can do as he like .. its each to there own here .."

each to their own maybe but if Joe is not free to fuck his woman then her man is not gonna get to fuck me. We prefer proper sharing.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"We prefer proper sharing."

Depends who were sharing

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By *rmoblk4uMan
over a year ago

Plymouth London Malta

Running a club UNIT 18 in Plymouth l have come accross it many times where one or other of the couple are not allowed to play . and domestics have had to be nipped in the bud very quickly as one or other have over stepped the boundaries. A foursome can be a very hard dynamic to manage without someone "Taking one for the team" so to speak. We were at club in London playing with a couple and it was blatantly obvious that she didnt want to play (probably a ticket to get him in or l am an ugly fecker) and he was given carte blanche. As this became more and more obvious a little whisper to the mem-sahib and we left them in the room. When we play as a couple WE PLAY AS A COUPLE. Just as l wouldnt expect her to watch me get my rocks off

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If a couple don’t play as a couple it’s ‘not fair’.

If one plays and the other doesn’t it’s not fair they are not being allowed to join in.

If someone has had a bit with your partner and theirs isn’t playing with you … it’s not fair.

What a load of bollox!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Running a club UNIT 18 in Plymouth l have come accross it many times where one or other of the couple are not allowed to play . and domestics have had to be nipped in the bud very quickly as one or other have over stepped the boundaries. A foursome can be a very hard dynamic to manage without someone "Taking one for the team" so to speak. We were at club in London playing with a couple and it was blatantly obvious that she didnt want to play (probably a ticket to get him in or l am an ugly fecker) and he was given carte blanche. As this became more and more obvious a little whisper to the mem-sahib and we left them in the room. When we play as a couple WE PLAY AS A COUPLE. Just as l wouldnt expect her to watch me get my rocks off"

We have got the message with your posts about you running a club, you can drop the advert now

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You played on my scooter, now I should play on your bike! FFS

I always thought if you included another person into a sexual activity at a party or a club it was to enjoy the inclusion of that person or persons into the situation…. not to establish the first part of a trade-off, so you could demand a return of the ‘favour’ as payback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As another poster puts it "taking one for the team"...sorry but NEVER..breeds resentment amoungst a couple in my opinion...

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By *arkandjane OP Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

hmm caused quite a stir, good to see so many agree with us.

Glad we left

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think if it is a couple you are meeting as a foursome and one half decides they are not playing when they get there, that would be a pisstake.

But if it was in a club that everyone had gone to and the female half of a couple who happened to be there didn' play, then I would say it is up to them what they do, and if we were looking for couples to play with, we would avoid them...simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if it is a couple you are meeting as a foursome and one half decides they are not playing when they get there, that would be a pisstake.

Love the new pic Ruggers, you just luv flashing yer tits at me, you sure you dont want to be converted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own maybe but if Joe is not free to fuck his woman then her man is not gonna get to fuck me. We prefer proper sharing."
I Like proper sharing to . Love it when we meet couples its good fun full swap when you all click . x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I think if it is a couple you are meeting as a foursome and one half decides they are not playing when they get there, that would be a pisstake.

Love the new pic Ruggers, you just luv flashing yer tits at me, you sure you dont want to be converted

lol Positive ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the wife came on her period that night and didn't fancy full sex? Just a thought.

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