FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging Stupidity!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

I pulled into a carpark last night & there was a few cars & a guy chatting to a couple so I stayed where I was with my window open & worked on the premise of use your senses I couldn't see them that well but I could hear them & if the conversation stopped then they might be up to something & then stroll past & maybe get to watch from a stand off position & maybe a invite if they wanted another!!

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

after all that said... dogging has a real buzz about it still !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging sounds complicated

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It's those pesky single males again.

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?"

The simple answer is its not safe.. sorry but that's the truth and anyone who tells you differently is a liar.. Stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

I (the fem) have been dogging alone, mostly daytime dogging although i have been alone at night when i have seen a vehicle belonging to someone i know from the scene.

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?

The simple answer is its not safe.. sorry but that's the truth and anyone who tells you differently is a liar.. Stay safe x"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?

The simple answer is its not safe.. sorry but that's the truth and anyone who tells you differently is a liar.. Stay safe x

Thanks x"

Welcome x

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out....."

Yeah check out the op's profile pic. Very strange looking fella ??

Agree with everything there. It can get spoiled by idiots and a single female is not the safest idea. At the very least have a social with someone. Get to know them a bit and go with them. Ok you still dont truly know them but probably safer. And tell someone else where you will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

Obviously don’t keep your engine running or the OP might tell you to bugger off!

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

Yeah check out the op's profile pic. Very strange looking fella ??

yo're calling him STRANGE !!.. pot and kettle ?

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By *cobMan
over a year ago

here

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

I could pick you up and chaperone you

Just to keep you safe

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

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Why not just pay to go to a club . At least in that environment everything is safe and in control.

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Each to their own.Never been Dogging never would I ever want to either!..

I find it distasteful...(sorry) just my opinion.

Like I said each to their own..

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

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I could never understand how anyone could enjoy dogging .

A few years ago some men were robbed at a well known site in London. The police publicised the risk and the site is closed now .

Risking a conviction for indecent exposure or walking around like a peeping Tom has no appeal to me whasoever .

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

Ethics not a problem.

Personal safety is.

Please, please take care, T.

Lxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?"

weve met a single female out dogging she was bold as brass though and a lot more experienced than us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously don’t keep your engine running or the OP might tell you to bugger off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding paying to go to a club post.

Poster seems to think that it's sleezy going dogging - peeping tom etc, but standing in a clubroom with a group of guys watching a couple isn't ? (Especially when they've paid for the privellige)

A lot of doggers don't share or get out of their locked cars, so possibly safer for them.

I'm not knocking either, it's all about personal taste, but i don't think anyone can take the moral high ground there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, i'm very voyeuristic, (don't know if that is a real word) i would love the opportunity to just watch, preferably without being noticed. Some of the most erotic things i have witnessed were just from chance glances, maybe just a couple being overamorous as they thought they were alone. However lapdances etc just leave me cold. It's just too in your face, unsubtle.

I'd love to go to dogging sites to watch, but as some of the postings say, it isn't really safe (not just for lone women) and lots of younger couples just go to these places because they don't have anywhere else to go, not because they want watched. For as much enjoyment as i would get, i'm not interested in getting a kicking for my troubles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

Know exactly where your coming from, I particularly like it when you give a couple a bit of space and a guy pulls in parks inbetween you and stares at you smiling and ruins any chances you had.

Also the guys who play musical carpark, when the music stops change spaces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

This forum is internet gold....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself? "

I wouldn't recommend it TBH!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be ethical for a single female to go along by herself?

Ethical or not it does happen but very rarely. Also there is a definite security issue to bare in mind.. you get some very strange people hanging around carparks when the lights go out.....

I know what your saying but how can it be safe for a fema as i dont have anybody to go with?

The simple answer is its not safe.. sorry but that's the truth and anyone who tells you differently is a liar.. Stay safe x"

no way would i ever do this alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

Why not just pay to go to a club . At least in that environment everything is safe and in control. "

Not if you belive the numerous threads we've had where women have been sexually assulted and even raped in clubs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed Dogging over the years & watched how things have ebbed & flowed & I suppose I've become a bit of a purist with its not Dogging if it's a arranged meet!!

But after last nights fruitless endeavour & the Stupidity of my fellow Doggers I think there could be something too the arranged meet

But one of my fellow Doggers decided he was going to sit there with his engine running thus denying every one the sense of sound!!

Then another went & stared in through her window & they drove off ...

A little later I tried another couple of car parks & all the more secluded spots in them which are a little darker & you can see before being seen had single guys parked in them!!!!

FFS guys set the conditions if you want couples to park up give them the better positions you can always walk across to them!!

So I've come to the conclusion Single Doggers are there own worse enemy at times..

Why not just pay to go to a club . At least in that environment everything is safe and in control.

Not if you belive the numerous threads we've had where women have been sexually assulted and even raped in clubs..."

id say that was very rare - well run clubs are very watchful

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