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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women or couple play with asian men in clubs, I'm would very much like to go to xtasia or chams very soon which are my local clubs, but i have heard from various asian males that women and couples are not very inclined in playing with asian men at clubs. I am just hoping to get peoples opinions on this and if they would play with me as an asian man if i attended a club.

Thanks for you time guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't. No offence just not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't. No offence just not for us."

None taken. Thanks for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it's nothing to do with colour of skin or ethnicity it's about the person nothing more

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do women or couple play with asian men in clubs, I'm would very much like to go to xtasia or chams very soon which are my local clubs, but i have heard from various asian males that women and couples are not very inclined in playing with asian men at clubs. I am just hoping to get peoples opinions on this and if they would play with me as an asian man if i attended a club.

Thanks for you time guys. "

Some people will, some people will not. All down to what people are looking for.

As a single male, you will be typed into the same category: Single Male. And couples that aren't looking for single males will not care about your colour.

All you can really do is suck it and see. Be genuine, respectfull, polite and not pushy, but not too reserved and you never know.

And if it doesn't work out, try again. No two nights are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To us it's nothing to do with colour of skin or ethnicity it's about the person nothing more "

Thanks for the reply and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't. No offence just not for us.

None taken. Thanks for the reply."

Your most welcome.x

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't but that's my personal choice x marie

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we have been known to, yes. its personality that matters. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as an asian guy ive been to clubs sometimes there has been play other times not.

The key for me is no expectations i go to chat to like minded people and to enjoy myself i will talk to people if anything happens great if not ive still had a great time

Just because its a sex club dont behave a like a sex pest thats my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women or couple play with asian men in clubs, I'm would very much like to go to xtasia or chams very soon which are my local clubs, but i have heard from various asian males that women and couples are not very inclined in playing with asian men at clubs. I am just hoping to get peoples opinions on this and if they would play with me as an asian man if i attended a club.

Thanks for you time guys. "

Personality is king (or queen). If you don't have that then it doesn’t matter where you hail from, you're already on a negative footing.

I would suggest working on your profile and arranging a club meet here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look at people profiles on here they put no Asians Duno what clubs are like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been Chams/ xtasia many times and yes people do enjoy playing with Asians but not all, just as I would only play with someone I'm attracted to

Just go, introduce yourself pleasantly and socialise

But be respectful and you'll be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only experience of asian men at clubs has been a group of 4 of them, not talking to anyone, only talking to each other in another language, and then trying to push into a group sex situation (not a gangbang) without asking permission. which resulted in them all being thrown out. First impressions count.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As with any race, colour, creed or age it depends entirely on the individual man (or woman)

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"My only experience of asian men at clubs has been a group of 4 of them, not talking to anyone, only talking to each other in another language, and then trying to push into a group sex situation (not a gangbang) without asking permission. which resulted in them all being thrown out. First impressions count."

So as long as you don't bump into those 4 guys again you won't have to worry about the bad first impression you have of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My only experience of asian men at clubs has been a group of 4 of them, not talking to anyone, only talking to each other in another language, and then trying to push into a group sex situation (not a gangbang) without asking permission. which resulted in them all being thrown out. First impressions count.

So as long as you don't bump into those 4 guys again you won't have to worry about the bad first impression you have of them. "

I'll make sure i avoid them.

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By *ute_n_sweetWoman
over a year ago

battersea

Why wud it make a difference?

When playing at a club, black, brown or white is equally welcome

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well my experience it is an issue

Seen this Few times where couples been happy for white or black guys to touch / join in...soon as an Asian person -no thanks

Again I don't know what drives this, it could be a mixture of things.

In the situations I have seen they appear to just follow couples females around and join in without being invited, maybe also women just don't like Asian guys.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we play with Asian guys, no issue at all, and have done so in Chams before. Echo the other posts about it's all how the guy comes across, nothing to do with ethnicity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you went to a club and didn't play, I wouldn't assume it was because you were Asian

Your age may be an inhibitor

Your build may be an inhibitor

It could just be because you are a lad there on his own

You may not socialise easily

You might have dodgy teeth

You might have a wonky eye

You might have one big toe bigger than the other

OK, I am being fascetious now but I am drawing attention to the fact that in this game we call swinging there are a million and one reasons someone might not want to play with you.

It is also situational. You could go to a club one night and feel like a fish out of water and alienated by the crowd in there. Go another night, different folk, different vibe, wholly different outcome.

Most of all though - and I am going to put this in capitals -NEVER go to a club assuming that by paying a membership and/or an entrance fee, you are going to play

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