FabSwingers.com: Lizzie (female) (39) & Jordan (male) (41) , Couple in Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

Last updated 08/11/2024 - Due to moving forward with our fun and interests, please look at our profile for an idea of what we’re about. It’s rather verbose, but it has been updated and broken down into succinct bite sized sections. Hopefully this makes it more readable and clear and concise to follow in the areas that are applicable to you. From our perspective, the sections we'd like you to consider for us; are BOUNDARIES, HYGIENE and DRUGS (only takes three mins to read).

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INTRODUCTION: Opening note.

LATEST NEWS: What's going on, current thoughts & club tours.

CATEGORIES: Information grouped by couples, single females, single males.

BOUNDARIES: Our limitations.

COMMUNICATIONS: How to contact us.

HYGIENE: Our swinging expectations.

CLUBS VISITED: We keep track year on year how many clubs we’ve visited. Always happy to share an opinion on these clubs in our list.

DRUGS: Our zero tolerance stance.

COVID NEWS: Information related to ourselves and views on Covid.

LEGAL NOTE: Our right to privacy.

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INTRODUCTION:

Hi all

Lizzie & Jordan here & welcome to our profile.

We are a sexy, easy going, fun couple (so we're told) consisting of a very bisexual female & a very straight male that are up for safe, same room fun.

We'd like to think that our travels and adventures have gained us good experience in this lifestyle to deem ourselves as swinging aficionados that are looking to sate our sexual needs and desires by meeting with likeminded couples, women and men for no strings fun (our thoughts on each group is in the CATEGORIES section and would encourage you to have a read of this part, if you don't want to go through the whole profile).

Single men we will find you. Single females we prefer you find us (read our CATEGORIES_Single Females to hear what we would like to experience). And any couples who are interested in getting to know us more, please wink, drop us a line or send pics. Due to Lizzie's work, we would prefer that you submit pics first. I think with the amount of effort we have put into our profile, coupled with the number of verifications, it’s fair to say that we have more than demonstrated our credibility and integrity as a genuine couple. If you’ve been on here for five minutes, even if you are genuine with a verification or two, you’re likely to get blocked if you think we need to prove ourselves. The COMMUNICATIONS section will explain how we transact.

We typically meet at alternate weekends (saving a weekend for family time). We do meet during the week but don't like to be out too late due to work the next day. Not saying we wouldn't play but the week is usually good for social meets.

We are very open to suggestion. After all we can say no. Though the BOUNDARIES section will describe more about our thoughts.

We are happy to meet up for a drink and take it from there.

We are open to meeting at homes but also clubs and hotels. We are also interested in party invites, in particular kickbacks. Our local club where we enjoy is Xtasia (especially Urban night) and we can also be found at Flirts during the week. We're also a fan of Chams when we fancy a dress down night and occasionally love a night at Libs, namely a specialised event. We do feel fortunate to have three great clubs in close proximity and always recommend to newbies on the scene starting out and wanting to experience a club night to head to Xtasia. As Xtasia also has a pub (Flirts) onsite, it does offer another option for a great night and social meeting (though there is a playroom if things get heated) ;-)

Oh and yes we do have a lot of verifications, but would state that the majority are socials. We are happy to publish them all (not from an egotistical, narcissistic, self esteem reason that some may do or some assume people do) but from a perspective that it’ll give you a feel for the people we are and if we could be the type of people you’d like to meet. It also builds the network of the swinging community that we support.

We look forward to hearing from you.

Jordan & Lizzie (aka justusboth2013) xx

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LATEST NEWS:

COVID-19: we have both received our vaccination and booster jabs.

2024 PLANS: Better late than never, but 2024 plans. Well after a crazy full on 2022 where we hit 28 clubs 136 times over the year, 2023 was a polar opposite! A change of job to fill a gap, crazy shift patterns left our social life into turmoil, let alone any swinging. Fortunately, the year ended with a blast due to a getting work back on track and back to a Monday Friday 9x5.

So how has 2024 started, I hear you say? Interestingly not as crazy as expected but nevertheless plans are still there to make it a fun filled year.

So this year, no challenges, no expectations, no targets but more of a go with the flow year. We’ll have some private meets, we’ll have some socials, we’ll hit the clubs, we’ll try some new ones, we’ll hopefully tick some firsts, whatever they may be. But dynamic, spontaneous and pretty much about the moment it shall be. With more time to boot, yet little time that’ll be dedicated to the lifestyle, ideally we’ll aim for more naughty fun and swing the balance in filth favour, though in a relaxed way, rather than for the sake of it. And this is where you guys come in. Please read our profile, holla at us and trigger our interests that we simply can’t turn down a meet.

We’ll have our annual pilgrimage to Gran Canaria in March/April and most likely in October/November, with a Mediterranean Cruise in between during August.

Until then, stay safe, stay healthy, stay beautiful and hopefully see you soon xx

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PLANNED CLUB VISITS: Club recommendations welcome for 2022/23.

North:

• club - location: dd MM 202y (event)

Midlands:

• Xtasia - West Bromwich: Saturday 6th July 2024 (FFFF)

• Chameleons - Darlaston: Saturday 21st December 2024 (Xmas Party)

South:

• Vanilla Alternative - Tempsford: Saturday XXth XXXX

Overseas:

• Various Clubs - Playa del Inglés, Gran Canaria: 29th October - 8th November 2024 (Check our updates)

• Training Pedralbes - Barcelona - Spain: dd MM 2024

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CATEGORIES:

Ultimately, our preference is couples as we enjoy the dynamics and options that a mixed four can bring to a meet. Below is a summary of our thoughts, based on our experiences:-

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COUPLES: We like the meet to be just that and not a couple with one pushy partner. The interaction should be the four of us mixing, mingling and enjoying. If the dynamics don't feel right, then we wouldn't be afraid to end the meet. For any couples that also swing alone: If we feel comfortable with you both, we wouldn't rule out meeting Mr or Mrs from you alone for a MMF or MFF, but this would never be reciprocated from us. It's not bi-directional (no pun intended). We only ever meet as a couple and never alone. We are in this together to enjoy together. We are also same room swap for the foreseeable future and unlikely to change.

We've added DP to our list. There's been quite a few ladies who have this fantasy contact us. We are more than happy to help you live out this fantasy. Just a couple of things to point out: Lizzie isn't looking for DP in return, she is not interested or ready for this. Jordan (and indeed Lizzie) will happily participate but will not give anal (That's our thing for the foreseeable future), so would expect your partner to take care of this bit.

We very much welcome FF couples. We know there are not many out there. However, we have met, spoken and played with at a few. We are considerate of your boundaries, so whether gay or bisexual in your relationship, we will both be sensitive and respectful to your sexuality, needs and limitations.

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SINGLE FEMALES: Again you are meeting both of us and it will always be the two of us. Any females that we meet do have the choice of sex with both of us or just Lizzie, but never Jordan alone whilst Lizzie watches (we don't find this appealing). Though if you are new to it all and wanted a gradual social introduction and/or watch Jordan & Lizzie enjoying each other, we wouldn't rule this out either. But again remember that there are two of us and we expect you to converse with us both. Any meets will be down to Lizzie's discretion. Whilst we know there are single fems out there, as we've met them, we also know that they are the smaller group of the ones we've defined and for this reason some couples call them "unicorns". With this in mind, we are not going to over exert our efforts in finding what other couples call the holy grail, but would very much welcome you pretty unicorns (or females; single or playing alone) to approach us if what we have said above describes you and what you are looking for.

And please, no more single women who want their boyfriend or fuckbuddy to come along. We'd rather you create a couples profile, otherwise you are not really that single female that we are looking for.

Just note that we're always looking for the right female (single or playing alone) to help us share erotic experiences. Lizzie first experienced using a strap-on early 2015 (giving & receiving) and also a double-ender. So much that she orgasmed when giving at the same time as the lovely lady receiving. That was a hot experience and we are always on the lookout to replicate this with hot females who would like an experience with a very laid back couple. We've up'ed our toy collection and now have a strapless strapon in the swinging arsenal. So we would like to hear from genuine females. Please do not waste your time, and of course ours, if you are one of the following:

• A male hiding behind a female profile.

• A woman (or man using a female profile) to set up meets with you and/or your male partner (Please contact us from a couples profile).

• A woman who is stroking her ego and self esteem. You are most likely to be lovely and we are happy to give you a compliment, but there is a conflict of interest.

And with this in mind, sifting out the fakes we will only engage with women that have:

1) Met us.

2) Have credible verifications or verifications from people we know (not joined within an hour and have 2 meeting in person verifications from pointless profiles).

3) If you are new and genuine, and do not fall into the above (we know there are genuine ladies that have to start somewhere), then expect to have a Skype or Phone call very early on with both of us to give us comfort that you are just this. And yes we have heard all the tired excuses that single men try and if you are one of the genuine that slips through the nets because these time wasters are using this excuse, all we say is c'est la vie and wish you the best of luck.

Please see the following link to help you understand the process flow: https://www.dropbox.com/s/vv4m7ajxaehxns3/F_process.PNG

A couple of scenarios we'd like to play out are:

1) Jordan taking control of the session where Lizzie and you will be at his beck and call. He will call the shots.

2) You will take control of the session where you will have both of us at your disposal and become your playthings.

Others possibilities are:

3) You and Jordan take control of Lizzie.

4) Lizzie and Jordan to take control of you.

5) Lizzie to take control of you and Jordan.

Lizzie isn't confident enough to take the lead yet but she is spontaneous and who knows. However, if you think you can help us (and us you of course) with any of these scenarios, then get in touch and let's see if we can make it happen.

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SINGLE MALES: The mass market but unfortunately only a small handful of this market are actually nice guys worth our time. However, sifting you out is hard work, time consuming & more effort than we care for. We can utilise that time to find more genuine fun couples. However, if you are fortunate to ever catch our eye and attention, a few tips that you should really read. You are here to catch both of our attentions, not just sucking up to Jordan or all over Lizzie with no respect for Jordan. Failing to make either of us comfortable, like any of the groups above, simply means it's not going to happen. Trying to be something you are not & we will see straight through it. So be yourself & answer yourself honestly. Am I decent looking? Have I been successful with other couples? And if you can honestly say yes to both, then who knows?

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BOUNDARIES:

SUMMARY:

• Safe Sex (Condom for Sex/Oral without ok)

• No pain, poo, pee (The 3 Ps)

• No anal (including fingers & tongues gents, that's for us. Please respect this!)

• No cum in mouth or face for Lizzie (not her thing)

• Genuinely (very) Bi-women welcomed

• Same room swap (full/soft/girl-girl/social)

• No Dogging (not our thing)

• Light Spanking (not looking to be assaulted)

• No Drugs (prefer people drug free when swinging)

• No lotharios or pillow princesses (looking for mutual pleasure all round)

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We are a safe sex couple and feel strongly about this. That means that any penetration is with a condom including touching the outside. No bare contact. If you are looking for bareback from the start when we do not know each other, then please pass us by. We are not what you are looking for and you are certainly not what we are looking for. If we meet and you fail to respect our feelings, then play would instantly stop and we will up and leave. We hope we don't get an awkward moment and we can have lots of fun because we do genuinely enjoy the lifestyle.

We will also add that we do not do the 3 Ps and we also do not do anal with others.

Anal is the one thing we would like to keep just for us. Gentlemen please respect this area. No fingers or tongues too.

Lizzie also doesn't do cum-in-mouth/face at the moment (currently in training with Jordan, by her choice lol)

Couples: We would like women that are genuinely bi curious or bi sexual and not pressured into it because that's what their partners want. We truly believe that couples should be transparent and open to each other's needs and not feel they have to because they are pressured to selfishly satisfy an individual's fantasies. Ultimate turn off for both of us!

We only play in the same room. The purpose of our swinging is to enjoy it together. We do full swap but happy with soft swap, girl on girl, own partners or just a social drink and chat. Do bear in mind that as lovely as you are, our ultimate is full swap, so unless you are local or we are in the area, it isn't realistic that we would travel miles and miles for a social or some girl on girl. Nevertheless, we are happy to keep in contact and if you are near us or vice versa, then anything is possible! :o)

Dogging is really not for us. Horses for courses we appreciate, but we have no pleasure or desires to be in the environment. A little too creepy and seedy for us!

Lizzie does like a bit of spanking and I don't mind giving but this is nothing hardcore. No marking or bruising, just a light stinging sensation is plenty for Lizzie to enjoy and enough for Jordan to give.

Not good past experiences with drugs and the night is very disjointed. So rather not swing with profiles who want to do drugs on the meet. Alcohol and adrenaline preferred.

If you are in it just for yourself and your own pleasure, then unless it's in a moment's kink for us, it's most likely going to result in a disaster. We all have our personal wants and needs, and for this reason, it should be a collaborative and mutual engagement for us all to feel fulfilled. If we all haven't left happy or fulfilled, then something is broken and hasn't gone to plan.

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COMMUNICATIONS:

We don't mind a wink to catch our attention and may even wink back if you've caught ours.

We are also happy to verify ourselves on skype and also have a "bat phone" that can be called to speak to us both.

We can also Kik but reluctant to use Whatsapp initially as this means giving out our phone numbers to strangers, which we are uncomfortable with until we get to know you.

*Please do not add us to any Kik Groups without our permission. We have no interest!

We don't play online/skype/Kik currently. We use them purely for verifying purposes.

We both use this account equally, so you could be talking to J (male), L (female) or both. We will use our initial first when we are writing. We don't delete the conversation so we can pick up the conversation and be consistent. We are honest and upfront and this profile is as a couple (we only play together as a couple!!!) We expect the same from the profiles we are in contact with. If you are a couple profile, we expect to converse with a couple. Otherwise get a single account and contact us.

Please bear in mind that we get a lot of mail lately, so please bear with us as we will endeavour to reply to all and sincerely apologise anyone that we've accidentally overlooked. It certainly isn't intentional, so feel free to give us a gentle nudge if we've not got back in touch after a few days.

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CLUBS: We're also happy to hook up in a club (club meaning any type of swinging venue - pub, club, bar, meeting point, swinger friendly etcetera). Typically, you will find us in Xtasia, but always venture out spontaneously, as you'll note from our club tour in 2014.

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HYGIENE:

I think it's a no brainer to say that we like people who look after their personal hygiene. And on a meet, we would expect that you've showered, groomed & smell nice. Of course, in return, you can expect the same from us.

We do enjoy kissing when swinging and bad breath is a turn off! (Seems crazy to state the obvious, but don't want to miss out on any detail).

We are shaven (f) and closely trimmed (m) and would prefer the same from you both as Lizzie's skin is very sensitive to hair.

Also men. Please take pride in your hygiene. If you have dirty fingers or haven't trimmed your finger nails. It's highly unlikely you'll be inserting them into Lizzie so please have a think.

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CLUBS VISITED:

Swinging Club Tour 2014: Together, we've done 12 clubs in 12 months. 28 visits to Partners (1), Xtasia (the local)(6), Infusion (2), Adventures in Lust (1), atlantisEVOLUTION (1), Liberty Elite (11), La Chambre (1), Cupids (1), Mystique (1), The Attic (1), Chameleons (1), New Paradise (1).

Swinging Tour 2015 (unofficial but 45 in 15!): Liberty Elite (2), Xtasia (15), Partners (7), New Paradise (2), Infusion (3), Cupids (1), Secrets (1), 2x2 (1), Kiosk 4 (1), Secret (4), Fun4All (1), Full Swap (3), Eternity (1), Venus (1), Chameleons (2).

2016 (42 from 12 Clubs): Partners (3), Chameleons (1), Cupids (5), Xtasia (10), Midswingers (2), Secret (9), Eternity (2), Fun4All (6), ComeBack Bar (1), Amour (1), Quest (1), Infusion (1).

2017 (51 from 17 Clubs): Xtasia (5), Chameleons (12), Partners (1), Club Paradise in Amsterdam (1), Sameplace (1), Paradise in Blackpool (1), Infusion (1), Liberty Elite @ Chic13 (1), Le Boudoir (1), Secret (8), Eternity (2), Imagine Bar (6), Fun4All (5), Kiosk 4 (3), Bude4 (1), 2x2 (1), Moonlight Dream (1).

2018 (55 from 19 Clubs, including a 12 in 2 days swingathon): Open Swinger Club (1), Oops (1), Uhomo (1), Xtasia (16), Chameleons (2), Imagine Bar (8), Fun4All (5), Secret (8), Eternity (2), Kiosk 4 (2), Venus Resort (1), Moonlight Dream (1), ComeBack Bar (1), Cäsar’s (1), Bude4 (*1), 2x2 (1), Patricia’s Swing Inn (1), Infusion (1), Partners (1).

2019 (29 from 7 Clubs): Xtasia (4), Chameleons (7), Imagine Bar (6), Secret (7), Fun4All (3), Eternity (1), 2x2 (1).

2020 (15 from 5 Clubs): Chameleons (3), Xtasia (1), Imagine (6), ComeBack Bar (1), Secret (4).

2021 (57 from 18 Clubs, including a 8 in one night challenge): Xtasia (12), Flirts (7), Chameleons (4), Liberty Elite (1), The Attic (1), Club Amigos (1), Studio 69 (5), Secret (6), Eden (2), Black Bulldog (2), Heikes (1), Before SMP (1), ComeBack Bar (5), Klamotte (1), Fun4All (5), Sweet Moments (1), Pandora (1), Secrets (1), 2x2 Meeting Point (*1), 2x2 (*1), Moonlight Dream (*1), Temptations (*1).

2022 (136 from 28 Clubs): Chameleons (9), Flirts (14), Club Amigos (1), Xtasia (8), Townhouse (1), Studio 69 ((4)5)6, Moonlight Dream (1)2, Eden ((1)2)5, Before SMP ((2)5)12, ComeBack Bar ((8)15)26, Lux Club (1)2, Temptation ((1)2)3, Fun4All ((5)8)17, Secret ((5)7)11, 2x2 Meeting Point (1)2, Sweet Moments (1), Black Bulldog (2)3, Liberty Elite (1), Hot Scandal Cinema (1), 2x2 (1), Infusion (1), Club Play (1), Partners (1), Lemur (2), Tantra (2), Klamotte (1), La Suite (1), Chameleons - Newport (1).

2023 (56 from 17 Clubs): Xtasia (7), Chameleons (5) Before SMP ((1)3), Secret ((3)4), ComeBack Bar ((3)10), Eden ((1)2), Route 69 ((2)1), Peaches & Cream (1), Club Play (1), Mystique (1), Fun4All (2), Mario’s Bar (2), Red Hot Reenie’s (2), Black Bulldog (2), Kiosk 7 (1), Incógnita Boat Party (1), Tantra (1).

2024 (55 from 15 Clubs): Xtasia (4), ComeBack Bar (((8)3)6), Secret (((4)2)2), Fun4All (((5)2)4), Before SMP (1), Eden ((1)1), Black Bulldog ((1)1), Las Locos (1), Route 69 (1), Flirts (1), Club Play (1), Kiosk 7 ((1)1), Penthouse Playrooms (1), Plan B (2), Peaches & Cream (1).

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COVID NEWS:

Invincible Covid-19 proof couple donning our superhero protective layer - Well nearly...

...we still have to be realistic. But as of November 2021, we have both received the full Covid vaccination and the 3rd booster jab. We still sanitise, wear masks, keep space, limit our movement, eliminate pointless travel, test every Monday and Friday to ensure we minimise any risk of transmission.

Albeit the light hearted reference, we appreciate this is real and people have suffered, lost loved ones and as such, we do take a sensible approach to our life decisions, not only out of respect, and to protect ourselves and family, but also believe it’s paramount we do our bit for society.

That said, we also appreciate that life needs to go on and we have to move forward to drive our economies, keep people in work, build our immune system for every other germ, bacteria and virus we’ve been shielding from during the pandemic, and of course, for our mental health.

As guidance evolves, we will follow the guidelines and also make pragmatic decisions that are right for us.

Stay safe people, enjoy life and do your bit. We can all minimise risk and have fun as long as we take a sensible approach.

Over the past year, I’ve heard people bark about their civil rights, but let’s also think about our civil responsibilities.

Let’s get the world back to normal as best as we can, so we can get our wonderful, amazing lifestyle moving again.

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DRUGS:

Finally we want to say that if you are into Class A drugs and feel you need a sniff or whatever to enhance your life or sexual activity, then please pass us by. It's not for us and neither are you!

This isn’t being judgemental in what you do in your time. If you want to do drugs whilst swinging, then we have found in the past that we are on two different wavelengths and swinging is best to stay aligned with whoever you’re swinging with. We haven’t enjoyed the experience.

There’s plenty of other couples that do drugs when swinging and we’d suggest that it’s a better match up meeting a couple that want to do drugs whilst swinging. You’ll all be wired and on the same wavelength so a better experience for you, rather than meeting a couple that aren’t and everyone ends up disappointed. A wasted night for all. So for us…

No brown, no diesel, no uppers, no downers, no meth, no acid, no m-cat, no roofies, no ice, no flake, no rock, no snow - no go!

If you are part of the 420 club, please do it in your own time.

I love S E X, but I don't want no L S D! Give me a durex, but please no bong for me!

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PREVIOUS YEAR NOTES:

Probably not relevant for readers but more of a memory note for ourselves and our swinging journey.

//2023 PLANS: So as always, we recap on 22 and what a fucking year! We said we were going hardcore and that’s exactly what we did. After a miserable couple of years of Covid, and we do appreciate it’s still doing the rounds, it was nice to see that the lifestyle and life around us started to get more aligned with each other and as such, we went for it. To Lizzie’s despair, Jordan set some challenges including how many clubs we could do in a year, coupled with a few mini challenges; essentially breaking all our little records in our personal swinging world. Three trips alone to Fun Island last year meant that over 12 months we had spent nearly two months out of Blighty, which was refreshing to say the least. We started the year at Secrets in Totnes (well 2022 NYE) before driving back to the Midlands and heading to Chams. From there we managed to get to 28 swinging venue in 22 and visit them 136 (29 and 137 if you include Secrets as we partied into New Year’s Day but we’ll let you decide on that). So our highlights were

• 28 venues in one year.

• 3 new clubs in the UK.

• 136 visits in 12 calendar months.

So what have we got planned for 2023? Well I’ve been banned from setting challenges after burning out last year, but with work patterns, our club and travelling will be a bit restricted. As such, we will be limited hitting the clubs so the plan is to start having more private meets around our calendar, including meeting in the week. We have already set the precedent and had our first private meet on the 1st January. More of the same please Fab!

We will focus on people we have met but we will meet new people as well. As our time is limited, therefore precious, we will look at meets with an intent to play. Of course we want a relaxed, no pressure setting, but we don’t want to spend our time just having socials.

We’ll have an annual pilgrimage to Gran Canaria somewhere on the calendar and will head to Tenerife in August and possibly pop to Mystique, as we haven’t been since they moved location.

There’s probably a few weekend breaks on the cards and the Netherlands and Germany are on our radar, along with Ireland and Scotland.

We’ll continue to keep you fuckers updated through our profile and updates, and thank everyone who we met last year and made our 2022 a fabulous one. It’s been mental and can’t wait to recap on 2023. But in the meantime, we need to create those moments and that’s where you guys come in. HIT US UP with pics you sexy couples and hot females.

//2022 PLANS: it’s been a rough couple of years for the lifestyle so plans have been more spontaneous and dynamic rather than being proactive. We spent the first half of 2021 strictly social and kicked back outside Xtasia quite a bit keeping our good friend Pammy10 company during a quiet period. When indoor service finally resumed but Social only, we were there to support our local club and Xtasia did a fantastic service to the community giving them some stimulation without physical stimulation. It certainly helped us during this tough time.

Our holiday to Gran Canaria had to be postponed from April until the end of the year and what a second half of the year it had been for us. Whilst keeping safe and sensible, vaccinated, regular testing, pragmatic and decisions of common sense, we managed to somehow beat hit the lifestyle a record 57 times from 18 clubs. Would have easily broken the 20 mark but a couple of clubs were closed. With that we did the 8 ‘til late Cita challenge, which was 8 venues in the Cita Center in one night from 8 o’clock. Sadly, one was closed so resulted in 7. But hey, there’s always this year.

So what’s in store for 22? Well it’s hard to plan anything with any substance as we’ve lived to learn things can change at the drop of a hat. That said, hopefully we’re steering into a life where this becomes an endemic and we learn to live with it and get on with our lives as best and safe as we can.

As such, we’ve got a few challenges, which will be aiming to beat the 20 club mark. As we stand to date, we’ve been to 3 venues in the first couple of weeks in January (4 if you include that we were in a club from NYE into NYD, and then at another club later that evening), but we have omitted this.

We have booked Gran Canaria for April 2022 and will make a decision closer to the time as to whether we will go, but would also like to get there October/November also.

So targets are:

• 20 venues in one year. - COMPLETED June 22

• 8 ‘til late Cita Challenge (though there’s 9 at the time of writing, so essentially every swinging venue in the Cita in one night. - COMPLETED TWICE 22/04/22 & 17/06/22

• At least one club in 3 different countries. - COMPLETED 02/12/22

• At least 3 new clubs in the UK. - COMPLETED 02/12/22

• NEW: 100 visits in 12 calendar months. - COMPLETED 27/10/22 Currently at 136 on 18th December.

• NEW: 25 venues in one year. - COMPLETED 28/10/2022. 28 in total.

//2021 PLANS: Well 2020 was an unprecedented year! Like most things, the world went upside down and swinging wasn’t an exception.

Clubs closed though we were fortunate to get three visits before it happened. Xtasia managed to open as a pub on the 4th July, which we chose to attend. We were fortunate to get to Gran Canaria where there was some remnants of normal life and we were able to finish the year on a good note, granted we chose no naughty fun.

So with 2021, what are our plans? At this point no plans but to stay safe and healthy. We’ll get our hot tub working again, and plan to get our little micro pub up in the summer, all being well.

We expect that there will be some normality to what we knew and enjoyed this year, but not until August. So until then, we will watch the world go by and make decisions as and when the situation enables us to.

We have booked Gran Canaria for April 2021 and will make a decision closer to the time as to whether we will go.

Until then, stay safe, stay healthy and hopefully see you soon xx

//2020 PLANS: Previous years info still below for the time being, so skip to CATEGORIES after reading the next paragraph if you want to focus on the future (as it’s more of a recap for ourselves).

A recap on last year, until October, we didn’t really hit the clubs like we’ve done in recent years and a lot less meets too. The occasions we did get out were typically with people we’ve met before and an emphasis on quality time that we really enjoyed. Vanilla life as expected did take precedent and the final couple of months we did more swinging than we had all year, but still nothing close to our previous adventures.

2020 is likely to keep us in the swinging world (as long as the swinging world still wants us) but will follow a similar path to 2019 and our meets are most likely to be reactive and spontaneous, rather than proactive and planned.

//2019 PLANS: Well I’ve left last years plans in the profile, as a recap to where the thought process is now.

2018 was an interesting one, as we started the first few months at a crazy pace. To the point where we have broken a few swinging records again. We had 55 occasions spread across 19 clubs and 3 countries. Gran Canaria we did 12 swinging venues in 2 days and converted a vanilla friend to enjoy the delights of the swinging world.

2019 has started in the way we had intended for last year. We’ve only been out twice to two clubs and that’s mid March! The second half of last year we were less active on fab and this continues.

So where are we for 2019 and into the future? Well, we’re still swinging but would tag it as reactive swinging. We have made some great friends over the years and it would be a shame to break away completely from swinging when they are in the lifestyle and we do sincerely enjoy the dynamics.

Therefore, we will continue with our good friends. Hopefully have fun with friends we have yet to play with but hope the mood will find it’s moment. We will occasionally get out and may have the odd meet from fab. So please feel free to be proactive and contact us with pics. We still are spontaneous and like to live in the moment.

But no record breaking this year. Just good fun in broken spells and still always happy to share our opinions and advice to swingers, especially if new in the lifestyle and want a go to for advice.

//2018 PLANS: 2017 has been a quieter one for us in terms of actual swinging action. However, it’s been a year where we’ve made some “swinging records”. We visited our most clubs in one year, across 3 countries and went out more times than ever. I think we even done 5 venues in one day (got to love Gran Can for this!).

More importantly, we’ve made some fantastic friends this year and have cemented some existing ones. We look forward to continuing these over the coming year.

So after 4 years of clubbing and out over 150 times in 34 different swinging venues, all I can say is that we love our clubs and will continue to enjoy. We've met some great people along the way. Each club has been fun in it's own way and we wouldn't rule out visiting any of them again.

So 2018, will be our last year swinging (we hope we will continue any great friendships we’ve made & may still play with these great friends, but we will not be active in fab and the clubs as previous years). But for now, we hope to continue with the clubs and also more one on ones, home & private meets. With our love shack sorted, we have our own little swinging club from club. Club Jub-icana drinks are free, fun, no sunshine but JustDance, hot tub and pool table. There really is enough for everyone.

We’ve purposely had a bit of a break from Xtasia (our fave club) last year, but will definitely be looking forward to renewing our membership this year and enjoying again.

I’m (Jordan) also planning a swinging club crawl in April to see how many venues we can do in one day. If I’m counting correctly, then I think 9 will be feasible.

When out we are most likely to be found at Xtasia on Urban Night if we are clubbing. At home, we're looking to host single fems, couples & small kickbacks; some will be planned and others spontaneous after a movie or having fun on the PS4, so be prepared for JustDance! We added a swinging cavern to to our home, complete with a 5 seated hot tub, pool table, and table football to add to the fun.

We've met some great people, or some we are looking forward to meeting, so let's make it happen!

We are looking to corrupting vanilla on our vanilla night outs, so any ideas how we can make this happen, please share!

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