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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?

We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.

First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.

So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's gone well, I prefer to meet regularly, I like to develop a friendship over time and get to know someone.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

never meet with any preconceptions, if it's a good experience I believe the chances are it will result in further meetings.

If that makes any sense?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If it's gone well, I prefer to meet regularly, I like to develop a friendship over time and get to know someone. "

same here

as a single it is easy t get carried away with one off meets all the time but its much better when you can eet someone again and again and really find out how to please each other, try new things etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a one night kind of girl I always want more.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

friends with benefits definitely appeal more to me

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

We have made some good friends through swinging and stayed in touch with the ones we have got on well with... Meeting a couple from here tonight who we have met before, just for drinks for example....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Im not a one night kind of girl I always want more."

Even if the first experience wasn't up to scratch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If theres no chemistry then yes move on. But prefer meets with chemistry and the more you see them the more chemistry you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer repeat meet, as stated before i thing it just keeps getting better all the time

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

much prefer repeats... i think "one offs" have a pressure of there own that I am not the best person with coping with if that makes sense...

anyway i think repeats tend to be better for me because i get to know the person/people more and know what they like...

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Repeats repeats repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we've recently had our first meet and we now think that we would prefer repeats or regulars. Never say never to a one off but we would like 'friends with benefits' as mentioned in the posts above. If its good the first time, imagine how GREAT it could be once you all know each other. Wow, yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had a few meets and some i have decided isn't for repeats but i think one or two there will be

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

we like to meet our friends again and again, you get to know what people like and become more confident the more you know them. if we want one offs we go clubbing; sex with people you will probably never meet again is fun in a different way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends with Benefits here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some we only meet once because we didnt really click.Others we see more than once in fact one couple have become really good friends and the sex is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second that......we have met a few who we have really had a good night on a social level but been no chemistry and never met again, then we have one couple we are really good friends with and meet both socially and nawtily depending on availabilites.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we perfer to make friendship as well and have regular meets when time for all allows.....however we have had one off's as well but only due to one or the other not enjoying the person we have been with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately again if the chemistry was right

Prefer to have regular meets with whom you can trust and feel free to express with eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well if the meet is a very good one then yes I love repeats but if its not then we're the type that prefer to only meet the once and like to try new experiences

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

It works both ways for us, we often see couples again and end up being friends but then seem to play with them again but have great social times with them..

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

yes with out a doubt repeat meets and more as with the more meets you have with peeps the better it gets and you know what they like and so do they of you

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We like both. Meeting friends often keeps that friendship strong, but also meeting new couples/singles if only for a 'one off' also keeps the exitement level up.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Both.

Both types of meet have their merits.... and after all, every repeat meet was a one-off meet the first time, as neither party has any obligation to come back for seconds.

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By *assybutclassyCouple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

If a good time was had by all then i would deffo prefer to meet again and again,i believe the sex gets better the more you get to know someone plus its a lot easier on the old nerves....lol...xx

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

i would prefer regulasr meets. but cant even get a meet lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have one regular but other than that, repeat meetings with some can be difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would prefer regulasr meets. but cant even get a meet lol x"

shame you are so far away then isnt it

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I like both. With someone regular you know what they like and they know what you like. Its more relaxed with someone you already know. The excitement of someone new is thrilling though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefure on off meets, i've been 'swinging' now for about 10 years and ive never met anyone more than twice, unless they people in clubs or parties, but ive never done an arranged meet with someone more than twice and i've only every met 3 people twice all others have been one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go back for 2nds and thirds - they just get better and better cos you know what buttons to push and they know what buttons to push to get you going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats !?

A one off would be a start , lol

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"go back for 2nds and thirds - they just get better and better cos you know what buttons to push and they know what buttons to push to get you going. "

Yes and when you get to the sixth time of meeting you do know how to push there buttons and they know yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"go back for 2nds and thirds - they just get better and better cos you know what buttons to push and they know what buttons to push to get you going.

Yes and when you get to the sixth time of meeting you do know how to push there buttons and they know yours "

you know that on the first meet if you communicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 off meets there more exciteing naughtnypho you look very sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer different experiences, though we have had a couple of repeat meets and made good friends, but to be honest swinging with the same couple doesnt appeal to us. It would just be like having another partner, Id get to know his moves, his likes, dislikes, it would become familiar, im not keen on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

One off's for us.

We did the repeat thing with one couple over a couple of years......... fricking messy when their split up ended in all out war.

Never again!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

was looking for another meet with a guy i met last week but it has now come to light that he has a partner of 8yrs but told me single lol..... oh well wont meet him again

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I like repeats. It's great to get to know people a bit more and feel relaxed around them, you also start to learn about each others bodies and what they like.

One-offs are fun too, and I will always consider them, but repeats are great for me.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

meet, thank and wave.. ( wave is optional)

take chisel, notch bed post.

next........

just cause it is Valenties Day soon, I aint into this romance shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority are one-off's, only a handful turned out to be repeats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both... and rarely does anyone make It back for repeats..

But I do like my repeats. I tend to pair people up the same too.

Katie x

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I like one-offs, especially in a club situation. I also like repeats - there's the element of getting to know which buttons to press and also boundaries can be pushed further - I'll do more with someone I've met before and can have an element of trust with than with a one-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every meet starts off as a one-off . For me its with a _iew to meet regularly .

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Every meet starts off as a one-off . For me its with a _iew to meet regularly ."

Me too. You cant guarantee meeting someone again, especially as more and more people seem to prefer one-offs, but I like the friendship aspect of swinging so being able to meet on a regular basis is much more rewarding.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We rather have repeats much nicer and more relaxed when you get to know ppl better. Also get to know what they like. Nice to make new freinds especially if they are local.

But one offs can be nice too if they are far away for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a low boredom threshold so I like to ring the changes - part of the reason I like swinging.

Do have a few semi regular single male friends but couples tend to be less regular or one offs.

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Both it is for us.

Love reg meets as dont have to go through the awkward stuff at the beginning and just get down to the naught stuff.

One off meets can always give u something new to play with mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both as in reality it depends on what they were like the first time; some ive been with i wouldnt meet again, others id like to meet again, they me but being available at the same time is difficult. I do have one that i like to meet regularly but both of us have kids, so it can be tricky; whilst mine would be at work, his are not working, given up on college so at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ones for clubs and and can't agree on 'internet couple' meets so stick to our swinging friends, who we met years ago before the advent of the internet. Know some voyeur pals from student days almost thirty years on! Word of mouth and experience widens the circle. Much rather have sex with couples we have met in social situations if I'm honest.

I don't hear many experiences from members, on this site, who also just play in their established offline swinging circles exclusively. Anyone else like to share their experiences of this? From what I can see these types of site and clubs are the only sources of swinging for most couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I play it tends to be repeat meets. Most of my meets are from when I first started three years ago: it just get better.

I do meet new people as I like to keep things fresh and exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meet, thank and wave.. ( wave is optional)

take chisel, notch bed post.

next........

just cause it is Valenties Day soon, I aint into this romance shit. "

there was me thinking you were a softie too!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i like repeat meets .sadly just as i think it could become a regular summit happens .ahh such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?

We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.

First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.

So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner? "

blimey, we didn't realise we had to choose

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Repeats for me, unless im at a club. You never know whats going to happen when you first meet someone so cant possibly say beforehand. But majority of the time they become repeat meets.

Im very lucky that over the years ive gathered a nice selection of men. Occassionally i will meet someone new but these days thats getting less and less. I know what i want and i got guys that can supply it, so im a happy bunny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just like to meet people and see how it goes. i love friends and alot of fun so regular meets definatly, but sumtimes a one nighter can be fun but only had one of them off here lol i just love seconds i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to go back for seconds....and agree it gets better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some of my bi lady friends known them 8 years , and if i like people i meet i think its lovely seeing them again . x

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Much more relaxed on subsequent meets, and the social side gets better too! We've had to remember to knock off the chat and get to bed on a few occasions!!!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

always always meet peeps again thats if they want even have few friends who have left the site still contact me for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet friends on a more than once as other posters have said it gets better and you are more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?

We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.

First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.

So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner? "

the feeling of one night can feel great get the blood pumping but its not ideal as you never know what ticks what boxes

i like reg meets as you can see what makes each other tick and push boundaries and really experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to prefer one offs, but lately thats changed, its much easier just arraging meets with people you've met before than go through the whole chatting / camming / social meet when time is limited

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