FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting cuckold couples

By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

I have a pretty big thing for married women and I find cuckolding as a lifestyle to be so wholesome, and being the lover/bull of a hotwife is my ultimate turn on.

However, there is also the issue of finding them. What are your best tips to meet cuckold couples here on fab?

I've spoken to a few but it was after painstakingly going through numerous couples' profiles which were not into this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand the cuckold thing. As if life isn't fraught enough - and aren't you leaving yourself open to a beating? (not in a nice way)

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

It's an aquired taste I guess. But a cuckold relationship is more complex than yo give it credit.

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By *ot_couple84Couple
over a year ago

Andover

"It's an aquired taste I guess. But a cuckold relationship is more complex than yo give it credit."

Yes it's a lot more than just fucking a mans wife in front of him which is what most people seem to think. It's an amazingly rewarding and erotic lifestyle. We can't get enough.

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

Exactly! The lover is a catalyst for the relationship.

Too bad I'm so up north from you :P

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By *ot_couple84Couple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes it is

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

;)

But tell me about you. How do you usually find the right bull to bring back to your hubby.

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By *ot_couple84Couple
over a year ago

Andover

I have found some very good Bulls in different ways, one was very simple and I looked on fab for the biggest guy locally and then checked his profile preferences

I do enjoy girth!

The other way is that I've found a cuckold/Hotwife/BDSM party that's quite specifically for that and I lead my cuck around in leash and collar whilst caged, I meet and play with whoever I decide to on the night

they have a fab page with guest list so you can chat prior to meeting if you want xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very tricky. 99.99% of guys who say they are a 'bull' fall way short. We dont bother looking any more. Waste of time. We went to a cuckold themed party and it was worse!

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By *ot_couple84Couple
over a year ago

Andover

"It's very tricky. 99.99% of guys who say they are a 'bull' fall way short. We dont bother looking any more. Waste of time. We went to a cuckold themed party and it was worse!"

Yes, a lot don't understand it and mistake cuckolding for simply hotwifing (which is definitely not what we are looking for) we have been very lucky in our search but definitely had our fair share of meets that ended up disappointing us. It can get very frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's an aquired taste I guess. But a cuckold relationship is more complex than yo give it credit.

Yes it's a lot more than just fucking a mans wife in front of him which is what most people seem to think. It's an amazingly rewarding and erotic lifestyle. We can't get enough. "

Well said. The trouble, if that's the right phrase, is that cuckolding can cover such a spectrum of activity from letting hubby watch right through to him being caged long term. There is, it seems to us, on FAB a feeling that all cuckolded husbands must be bi. That's certainly not the case of us or other cuckold couples that we know and we wonder if this puts off many potential "bulls" - a term I really hate as I have fuck buddies with whom I cuckold my husband - off from contacting couples who've listed cuckolding as an interest.

Guys often forgotten that a cuckolding couple is just that, a couple. They both have needs and wants and for the cuckold himself that certainly doesn't mean having physical interaction with the other guy at all. For us at least, Mike's sole focus of interest is now much I am enjoying myself and knowing that I could in the next minute or two banish him from the room for 10 minutes or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's an aquired taste I guess. But a cuckold relationship is more complex than yo give it credit.

Yes it's a lot more than just fucking a mans wife in front of him which is what most people seem to think. It's an amazingly rewarding and erotic lifestyle. We can't get enough. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found some very good Bulls in different ways, one was very simple and I looked on fab for the biggest guy locally and then checked his profile preferences

I do enjoy girth!

they have a fab page with guest list so you can chat prior to meeting if you want xx"

That is potent.. Very hot indeed..

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have found some very good Bulls in different ways, one was very simple and I looked on fab for the biggest guy locally and then checked his profile preferences

I do enjoy girth!

they have a fab page with guest list so you can chat prior to meeting if you want xx"

That sounds like quite some night. I am long overdue to go to a cuckold theme party here.

Also that fab page would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one of my biggest fantasies to be the bull/lover. To see the man watch his wife or gf get penetrated with pleasure, its so arousing to even think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to read an intelligent cuckolding discussion. On this forum they often seem to become a slanging match over who's perception of cuckolding is the right one!

I enjoy getting to know cuckold couples and what makes them both tick. Understanding what they both desire from the situation.

Eddie

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Is it an option in the interests page?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it an option in the interests page?"

Yes, you can add to your profile and search for couples with it as an interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played the hubby part with my ex gf n loved every minute of it. Would love to be the bull for a couple as it's a very special thing to do and so erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for cuckold parties at clubs and keep messaging

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

Loads of great opinions on here. I like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very tricky. 99.99% of guys who say they are a 'bull' fall way short. We dont bother looking any more. Waste of time. We went to a cuckold themed party and it was worse!

Yes, a lot don't understand it and mistake cuckolding for simply hotwifing (which is definitely not what we are looking for) we have been very lucky in

our search but definitely had our fair share of meets that ended up disappointing us. It can get very frustrating! "

What's hotwifing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good few words there I've met a couple before n there is more to it then doing things with his wife it has to be enjoyable for every1 it's very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy watching each other having sex with other people - but don't enjoy any form of humiliation in front of others - is this hotwifing/hubbying or cuckold/cuckquean ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is like a tree (bare with me) the trunk is that the husband and his wife enjoy another person in there bed, marriage sexualy.

From there on there's lots of different branches, and none are totally right or wrong to cuckolding, it's what the people involved want that's important not fitting in a box of compliance.

I THINK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the lifestyle. It has really spiced up our sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Where are these parties. We must go ????

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

To clarify the OP's comment and to answer some of the people that have asked, Hotwifing is where the married couple are on a level field as such. No humilation or anything like that. It is simply a hot wife being shared/sharing herself with other people and the husband will watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a pretty big thing for married women and I find cuckolding as a lifestyle to be so wholesome, and being the lover/bull of a hotwife is my ultimate turn on.

However, there is also the issue of finding them. What are your best tips to meet cuckold couples here on fab?

I've spoken to a few but it was after painstakingly going through numerous couples' profiles which were not into this lifestyle.

You state you are looking to contact cuckolds and want to enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but then you set up your profile so that no cuckold husbands can contact you or wink at you

interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a muscle bound bull to a hotwife sounds like fun to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although something that really interests me, this thread proves that in certain areas you really need to understand what you claim to be up for. I would have blindly said ok to this and not known the first thing about it. Good read this thread and hopefully people like me read it and realise the differences. Feel very uneducated right now!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Totally a agree I enjoy taking my wife to club and enjoy just watching wife being taken by guys , sometimes I join in but mainly like to watch and have my fun after

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

We love hotwifing. Always take pic's and vids.so horny watching them back.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

"Totally a agree I enjoy taking my wife to club and enjoy just watching wife being taken by guys , sometimes I join in but mainly like to watch and have my fun after "

Its really hot when you get to 'reclaim' her at the end of the night

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

"Although something that really interests me, this thread proves that in certain areas you really need to understand what you claim to be up for. I would have blindly said ok to this and not known the first thing about it. Good read this thread and hopefully people like me read it and realise the differences. Feel very uneducated right now!"

At least your honest enough to say that. I would say go out and try doing the practical exam!

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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago

gwent

"Totally a agree I enjoy taking my wife to club and enjoy just watching wife being taken by guys , sometimes I join in but mainly like to watch and have my fun after

Its really hot when you get to 'reclaim' her at the end of the night

Plus we get to relive the experience in both our minds and bodies, talk about who why and what we've done, this could last for several days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a tread in "Chatroom feedback" with everyone asking Admin to open a cuckold chatroom, if any haven't added there name to it, it would be a good thing to do, will help with meet arranging

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"We love hotwifing. Always take pic's and vids.so horny watching them back."

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Just this.

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Totally a agree I enjoy taking my wife to club and enjoy just watching wife being taken by guys , sometimes I join in but mainly like to watch and have my fun after

Its really hot when you get to 'reclaim' her at the end of the night

Reclaiming is such a turn on. Fantastic sex

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

I agree that cuckolding comes in many interpretations and who is to say which is "right"? In my own experience I have been lucking enough to be the additional man (I do feel "bull" rather over simplifies things!) for several couples over the years. My best and longest experience was with a couple with whom I formed a long term cuckold relationship - we were all three friends and all had our own roles. His was to be husband, partner and all that that entailed, I was friend to him, lover to her and sex friend to both (straight relationship between us men - but did he like to watch!). She was partner to him but firend and lover to me. Eventually, it was agreed (not at my bidding or request) that sexually she was mine and she did not want him in that way any more - he found this even more of a turn on. There was no coarse or unsubtle humiliation but he did like me to use the marital bed with her while he slept elsewhere. Once I parked her bum on the dining table in his place while I fucked her - he said he could hardly eat without getting an erection thereafter...

Sadly, it all came to an end because they had a change in family circumstances - but we are still friendsa dn remain in touch. Different strokes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to try meeting a cpl where the male was a cuck or watcher but no luck so far it's on our to do list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to find a cuck couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the male half of a "cuckold" couple I'd love to meet a man capable of knowing how to deal with a cuckold couple! Physically and mentally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy a mild aspect of it. Never any abuse to me but A gets to play around while I watch and occasionally join in and all of our meets have been good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the male half of a "cuckold" couple I'd love to meet a man capable of knowing how to deal with a cuckold couple! Physically and mentally."

Nah scratch that...if you want to meet my wife, bring a woman with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've played around with the cuck scenarios. Never truly done it as a lot of people believe Bull=arsehole and that bareback is a mandatory part of it. We never do bareback during swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To clarify the OP's comment and to answer some of the people that have asked, Hotwifing is where the married couple are on a level field as such. No humilation or anything like that. It is simply a hot wife being shared/sharing herself with other people and the husband will watch. "

That's exactly what we think, great way to describe hot wifing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a sexy thread!

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

I think that you're roght you know. I've blocked single guys after I was receiving messages from guys asking me to meet.

Might have to change that.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We are not exactly a cuckold couple . More a husband with a hot wife . We prefer guys to approach and chat with us like the wife being chatted up . And prefer blokes talking to me if they fancy wife to. If they want to fuck wife I prefer them to let me know they like her . We only go to the club for fun so why beat about the bush as long as they are respectful come up chat some banter . A bit of flirting breaks the ice . Don't like the quite guys who just sit and stare or follow you around the club.. I like to make sure my wife likes the guy feels safe . So far we have been lucky met some nice guys , have even let her play solo with two and a few have been repeat meets

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I have a pretty big thing for married women and I find cuckolding as a lifestyle to be so wholesome, and being the lover/bull of a hotwife is my ultimate turn on.

However, there is also the issue of finding them. What are your best tips to meet cuckold couples here on fab?

I've spoken to a few but it was after painstakingly going through numerous couples' profiles which were not into this lifestyle.

I have generally found that it works best to let them find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to explore this lifestyle as a couples controller. Find it a huge turn on involving both it mind games and submission...

Rarer than rocking horse poo though unfortunately...

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Looking to explore this lifestyle as a couples controller. Find it a huge turn on involving both it mind games and submission...

Rarer than rocking horse poo though unfortunately...

I'm not convinced that is true. I have not been swinging for years and I have already had several cuckold encounters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to explore this lifestyle as a couples controller. Find it a huge turn on involving both it mind games and submission...

Rarer than rocking horse poo though unfortunately...

I'm not convinced that is true. I have not been swinging for years and I have already had several cuckold encounters.."

They must be more abundant up in Cambridgeshire...

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Looking to explore this lifestyle as a couples controller. Find it a huge turn on involving both it mind games and submission...

Rarer than rocking horse poo though unfortunately...

I'm not convinced that is true. I have not been swinging for years and I have already had several cuckold encounters..

They must be more abundant up in Cambridgeshire...

Sadly not, but then I travel far and wide for quality meets...if I remained within Cambridgeshire I'd seldom get my leg over

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I like hot wife scenarios, but I'm open to this cuckholding too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not for everybody. If you dont understand it then dont try to. Some lads think its another way of getting sex and query why the hubby would allow his wife to have fun with another man. Theres more to it than that. Both get lots of enjoyment from it. So just cos they may have a 8+" cock, doesnt mean thats all you need to be a bull. Can be very exciting as a scenario unfolds. Its great fun for all.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

It is shame about your age limit we could all enjoy some fun

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We are pretty much a lifestyle cuckold couple. We have been together for almost 18 years and in that time 10 years have been as a cuckold couple. It's something that works very well for us, I can't explain itbut we both get off on the mental side to it more than anything.

I like nothing more than being picked up in bars by men, women and couples while my cuck looks on from afar while in chastity, he loves watching things unfold before his eyes. When I'm ready I give him a sneaky wink as I leave the bar with my new lover.

We hope to be doing alot of this in Gran Canaria from May 2nd.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not a bad thread at all, very refreshing for the definition of "cuckold" not to crop up and ruin the chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, love watching guys fucking her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a bad thread at all, very refreshing for the definition of "cuckold" not to crop up and ruin the chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already said, this is a really good thread on the subject.

We aren't a cuckold couple at all but we do absolutely love playing with and using a cock cage. It brings an additional erotic charge into our sex life and adds an element of power exchange and D/s for us to enjoy.

...just thought we'd introduce the idea that they (cuckolding and chastity cages) don't always go hand in hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...I find cuckolding as a lifestyle to be so wholesome, and being the lover/bull of a hotwife is my ultimate turn on.

As we understand it a 'Hotwife' and the female of a Cuckold couple are completely different disciplines. ( especially to the male of the couple)

Just being pedantic

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By *omwastonMan
over a year ago

Galway

Any couple wanna chat

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

"It is shame about your age limit we could all enjoy some fun

I only put them as guidelines. Does it actually stop people from messaging?

Have to change that then.

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

"We are pretty much a lifestyle cuckold couple. We have been together for almost 18 years and in that time 10 years have been as a cuckold couple. It's something that works very well for us, I can't explain itbut we both get off on the mental side to it more than anything.

We hope to be doing alot of this in Gran Canaria from May 2nd.

For me it's the thrill i get knowing that she will go back to her hubby all filled up and he cleans up.

So satisfying.

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not a bad thread at all, very refreshing for the definition of "cuckold" not to crop up and ruin the chat.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"...I find cuckolding as a lifestyle to be so wholesome, and being the lover/bull of a hotwife is my ultimate turn on.

As we understand it a 'Hotwife' and the female of a Cuckold couple are completely different disciplines. ( especially to the male of the couple)

Just being pedantic

not pedantic at all they are very different lol

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By *ontinentalCock OP Man
over a year ago

London

As we understand it a 'Hotwife' and the female of a Cuckold couple are completely different disciplines. ( especially to the male of the couple)

Just being pedantic

Very true. But I like both

Shoul have phrased it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree that cuckolding comes in many interpretations and who is to say which is "right"? In my own experience I have been lucking enough to be the additional man (I do feel "bull" rather over simplifies things!) for several couples over the years. My best and longest experience was with a couple with whom I formed a long term cuckold relationship - we were all three friends and all had our own roles. His was to be husband, partner and all that that entailed, I was friend to him, lover to her and sex friend to both (straight relationship between us men - but did he like to watch!). She was partner to him but firend and lover to me. Eventually, it was agreed (not at my bidding or request) that sexually she was mine and she did not want him in that way any more - he found this even more of a turn on. There was no coarse or unsubtle humiliation but he did like me to use the marital bed with her while he slept elsewhere. Once I parked her bum on the dining table in his place while I fucked her - he said he could hardly eat without getting an erection thereafter...

Sadly, it all came to an end because they had a change in family circumstances - but we are still friendsa dn remain in touch. Different strokes etc."

Nice. That lucky couple sound very similar to ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a couple

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

Sadly, it all came to an end because they had a change in family circumstances - but we are still friendsa dn remain in touch. Different strokes etc.

Nice. That lucky couple sound very similar to ourselves."

Thank you Zippy! Shame you are so far away and I am outside your age range! I think I was at least as lucky as the couple involved and wish I could find another, similar couple who are still involved and want a new gentleman friend.....

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