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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!,

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think they are !

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

and now I feel inadequate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


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Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?"

Im lost, to me it reads that the guys are lacking in respect cause they wont meet them.

Confused. The midlands

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried parsing the paragraph a few times and it doesn't make sense to me. not sure if 'nt' mean 'not' or something else since NOT is spelt correctly later. *shrugs*

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

read it again sounds like a timewaster thread and they have been messed about it happens

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?"

you should know by no now no couples are the swinging gods and they should never go away empty bedded

we singles must be on standby for when the want takes them

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"

Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?

you should know by no now no couples are the swinging gods and they should never go away empty bedded

we singles must be on standby for when the want takes them "

Dammit I forgot about that......Eve help me back up onto my high horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww poor things couldn't wangle a swingle.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?

you should know by no now no couples are the swinging gods and they should never go away empty bedded

we singles must be on standby for when the want takes them

Dammit I forgot about that......Eve help me back up onto my high horse "

will give you a bunk up any day

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"

Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?

you should know by no now no couples are the swinging gods and they should never go away empty bedded

we singles must be on standby for when the want takes them

Dammit I forgot about that......Eve help me back up onto my high horse

will give you a bunk up any day"

Wey Hey!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!, "

It maybe just me, but I think a word is missing from this sentence.

'too' they could not get too a meet.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused by the bit about a dating agency - surely men who think they're looking for long term partners would be more likely to be respectful and the ones thinking it's about a quick fuck often the ones who appear more ignorant.

Teddies, pram.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thing ive always tried to be is polite to people. sometimes that isnt always possible if someone just takesa dislike to you for no reason.

but all i have met say i have been respectful in and out of bed.

i do not intend to change that but although i am a man i do expect the same level of respect to be shown to me which i do not think is much to ask for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"although i am a man i do expect the same level of respect to be shown to me which i do not think is much to ask for."

No, it's not a lot to ask for. But when it comes to single males, I think a lot of people here forget that sometimes.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!, "

Do you know what... I don't care if it doesn't make sense... I agree with you!

Fuck it, after the amount of dross I have had to put up with this week from dickheads with stinky attitudes, people with no bollox talking bollox and a whole heap of other shite.... I AGREE!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I THINK...... what they are trying to say is that:

They normally get meets from the messages they received.

Said messages are now being sent from idiots who only do one liners/wanna fucks/meet me now types.... or one liners... or chancers.

As for the Dating Agency bit.... again, messages starting "hey babe", "wanna meet on your own" "I want you" etc are pretty much all they are getting..... and messages are being seen as disrespectful because said messages are not including the male half of the couple

After 3 years it had to happen!!!

Either the above.... they they was d*unk when they wrote that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!, "

say that again in english

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

i have just read there rambling profile and i`m suprised they get any meets at all

as they expect the guy to book and pay for the hotel for them to stay the night in

if they like him they play and then he gets sent home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i have just read there rambling profile and i`m suprised they get any meets at all

as they expect the guy to book and pay for the hotel for them to stay the night in

if they like him they play and then he gets sent home "

And not any old travelodge either,a nice posh room for £100 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm they don't want much, do they?

what's with the use of commas instead of apostrophes?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

So whats the question got to do with their profile and what they are after or the way they spell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused by the bit about a dating agency - surely men who think they're looking for long term partners would be more likely to be respectful and the ones thinking it's about a quick fuck often the ones who appear more ignorant.

Teddies, pram."

If a single guy thought this was a dating agency he'd contact a single fem surely, not a married woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I THINK...... what they are trying to say is that:

They normally get meets from the messages they received.

Said messages are now being sent from idiots who only do one liners/wanna fucks/meet me now types.... or one liners... or chancers.

As for the Dating Agency bit.... again, messages starting "hey babe", "wanna meet on your own" "I want you" etc are pretty much all they are getting..... and messages are being seen as disrespectful because said messages are not including the male half of the couple

After 3 years it had to happen!!!

Either the above.... they they was d*unk when they wrote that! "

Aaaaaah...thanks for the interpretation!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"I'm confused by the bit about a dating agency - surely men who think they're looking for long term partners would be more likely to be respectful and the ones thinking it's about a quick fuck often the ones who appear more ignorant.

Teddies, pram.

If a single guy thought this was a dating agency he'd contact a single fem surely, not a married woman! "

married women don't date single men then???? what world do you live in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your saying all of that because for the first time on 3 yrs you could'nt get a meet?

Am I reading this right?"

its hard to tell what they are saying...i dare not read the profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!, "
The way you wright this on forum it come across like you have a lack of respect For men here... Was it you got white men mailing not just well hung black men that got you mad as thay never read your profile. Some will just have a go .... thats men for you if horny and need sex i am sure thay was not doing it to disrespect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give men more respect ! lol

no seriously do

;P

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!, "

I must admit that if you take out all the commas and read the thread and profile as it was intended to be written (give them the benefit of the doubt) then you'd have to agree that they are perfectly entitled to meet on their own rules and comment on time wasters if the feel they've been slighted!

I'm not sure what a not typical voyeur or cuckold is? if you call yourself this then that's what you are.

Also they have a cheek demanding a quality hotel (£100 a night) but that's up to them to. if there are any silly sods willing to pay then more fool them as that just feels like paying for sex to me? She must be one hell of a shag! quite possibly in the wrong job? (porn industry beckoning maybe?)

I'm surprised that they haven't had more than one let down in three years, in fact I would go as far to say hmm a little fishy that one..

but as the rest of us mere mortals know and have accepted it's the way the world works so get over it, if that's the only time how awful for you and I really can't conjure up a great deal of sympathy...

oh and there are pig ignorant couples and single females, but as usual we men are always to blame and the devil incarnate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!,

I must admit that if you take out all the commas and read the thread and profile as it was intended to be written (give them the benefit of the doubt) then you'd have to agree that they are perfectly entitled to meet on their own rules and comment on time wasters if the feel they've been slighted!

I'm not sure what a not typical voyeur or cuckold is? if you call yourself this then that's what you are.

Also they have a cheek demanding a quality hotel (£100 a night) but that's up to them to. if there are any silly sods willing to pay then more fool them as that just feels like paying for sex to me? She must be one hell of a shag! quite possibly in the wrong job? (porn industry beckoning maybe?)

I'm surprised that they haven't had more than one let down in three years, in fact I would go as far to say hmm a little fishy that one..

but as the rest of us mere mortals know and have accepted it's the way the world works so get over it, if that's the only time how awful for you and I really can't conjure up a great deal of sympathy...

oh and there are pig ignorant couples and single females, but as usual we men are always to blame and the devil incarnate! "

Why not start a thread about the pig ignorant couples and single females then, it’s only about men because that’s all they’re looking for

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!,

I must admit that if you take out all the commas and read the thread and profile as it was intended to be written (give them the benefit of the doubt) then you'd have to agree that they are perfectly entitled to meet on their own rules and comment on time wasters if the feel they've been slighted!

I'm not sure what a not typical voyeur or cuckold is? if you call yourself this then that's what you are.

Also they have a cheek demanding a quality hotel (£100 a night) but that's up to them to. if there are any silly sods willing to pay then more fool them as that just feels like paying for sex to me? She must be one hell of a shag! quite possibly in the wrong job? (porn industry beckoning maybe?)

I'm surprised that they haven't had more than one let down in three years, in fact I would go as far to say hmm a little fishy that one..

but as the rest of us mere mortals know and have accepted it's the way the world works so get over it, if that's the only time how awful for you and I really can't conjure up a great deal of sympathy...

oh and there are pig ignorant couples and single females, but as usual we men are always to blame and the devil incarnate!

Why not start a thread about the pig ignorant couples and single females then, it’s only about men because that’s all they’re looking for "

yeah Thea who is without sin cast the first stone! another thread on this done to death subject! don't think so! you should know better! tut! tut!

and if i feel like pointing out it's not just men caus who knows they may change their preference at some time so for warned is for armed! lol so there!

and I'm now going to block you! damn! you've blocked me already! lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!,

I must admit that if you take out all the commas and read the thread and profile as it was intended to be written (give them the benefit of the doubt) then you'd have to agree that they are perfectly entitled to meet on their own rules and comment on time wasters if the feel they've been slighted!

I'm not sure what a not typical voyeur or cuckold is? if you call yourself this then that's what you are.

Also they have a cheek demanding a quality hotel (£100 a night) but that's up to them to. if there are any silly sods willing to pay then more fool them as that just feels like paying for sex to me? She must be one hell of a shag! quite possibly in the wrong job? (porn industry beckoning maybe?)

I'm surprised that they haven't had more than one let down in three years, in fact I would go as far to say hmm a little fishy that one..

but as the rest of us mere mortals know and have accepted it's the way the world works so get over it, if that's the only time how awful for you and I really can't conjure up a great deal of sympathy...

oh and there are pig ignorant couples and single females, but as usual we men are always to blame and the devil incarnate!

Why not start a thread about the pig ignorant couples and single females then, it’s only about men because that’s all they’re looking for

yeah Thea who is without sin cast the first stone! another thread on this done to death subject! don't think so! you should know better! tut! tut!

and if i feel like pointing out it's not just men caus who knows they may change their preference at some time so for warned is for armed! lol so there!

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Feel free to point it out, but if people that meet men only are going to rant on forums it's pretty obvious its because its men they meet that its about men, but actually I think you were just taking all personally with you being a man, they are not demanding anything of the sort, they prefer to accommodate and make that clear, if they do have to travel, they expect a quality hotel, that’s hardly demanding a £100 a night hotel to meet them is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has no one heard of full stops on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused by the bit about a dating agency - surely men who think they're looking for long term partners would be more likely to be respectful and the ones thinking it's about a quick fuck often the ones who appear more ignorant.

Teddies, pram.

If a single guy thought this was a dating agency he'd contact a single fem surely, not a married woman!

married women don't date single men then???? what world do you live in? "

A simple one. Going on the OP's comment about this not being a dating site, if I were looking for a date, theatre, weekends away etc I wouldn't look to a married man. But as I said, I take a simple approach to things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has no one heard of full stops on this site? "

full stops are being gradually phased out. this is to ensure that the diminishing stock of black pixels we have in stock can be eked out until new stock arrives at the start of the new financial term

Unconfirmed Sources report that the world supply of black pixels is running out. The shortage is believed to be caused in part by the overuse of exclamation points (!)

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"we,ve been on and off site for 3 years,and for the first time we could,nt get a meet this week,are,nt some men just pig ignorant,its NOT a dating agency guys!!,yRESPECT!!!our FIRST message is IMPORTANT!!!,

I must admit that if you take out all the commas and read the thread and profile as it was intended to be written (give them the benefit of the doubt) then you'd have to agree that they are perfectly entitled to meet on their own rules and comment on time wasters if the feel they've been slighted!

I'm not sure what a not typical voyeur or cuckold is? if you call yourself this then that's what you are.

Also they have a cheek demanding a quality hotel (£100 a night) but that's up to them to. if there are any silly sods willing to pay then more fool them as that just feels like paying for sex to me? She must be one hell of a shag! quite possibly in the wrong job? (porn industry beckoning maybe?)

I'm surprised that they haven't had more than one let down in three years, in fact I would go as far to say hmm a little fishy that one..

but as the rest of us mere mortals know and have accepted it's the way the world works so get over it, if that's the only time how awful for you and I really can't conjure up a great deal of sympathy...

oh and there are pig ignorant couples and single females, but as usual we men are always to blame and the devil incarnate!

Why not start a thread about the pig ignorant couples and single females then, it’s only about men because that’s all they’re looking for

yeah Thea who is without sin cast the first stone! another thread on this done to death subject! don't think so! you should know better! tut! tut!

and if i feel like pointing out it's not just men caus who knows they may change their preference at some time so for warned is for armed! lol so there!

Feel free to point it out, but if people that meet men only are going to rant on forums it's pretty obvious its because its men they meet that its about men, but actually I think you were just taking all personally with you being a man, they are not demanding anything of the sort, they prefer to accommodate and make that clear, if they do have to travel, they expect a quality hotel, that’s hardly demanding a £100 a night hotel to meet them is it? "

love it!! ha ha!

if i had a pound for every couple i've met and played with who's profiles say no single men i'd be paying £100 a night for a hotel for a shag for a couple of hours! ha ha! the number of couples who have viewed my profile that clearly shows a single guy!!!! it must be all the secret fantasists! lol lol you do make me laugh and chuckle!

i take it you're going to have a pop at the other people here who have commented they think a little respect for single men is called for? no I doubt it! lol lol still if it makes you happy and your life complete please carry on! lol lol lol lol

oh and as for taking it personally... we were asked for views or should i just give yours instead?? oops better not caus its your view not mine! lol lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it!! ha ha!

if i had a pound for every couple i've met and played with who's profiles say no single men i'd be paying £100 a night for a hotel for a shag for a couple of hours! ha ha! the number of couples who have viewed my profile that clearly shows a single guy!!!! it must be all the secret fantasists! lol lol you do make me laugh and chuckle!

i take it you're going to have a pop at the other people here who have commented they think a little respect for single men is called for? no I doubt it! lol lol still if it makes you happy and your life complete please carry on! lol lol lol lol

oh and as for taking it personally... we were asked for views or should i just give yours instead?? oops better not caus its your view not mine! lol lol lol "

Hey I’m quite happy to admit to spouting drivel on here on occasion, in fact more often than not, it all adds to making it fun, if you want to take everything so serious then knock yourself out, but it’s easy for anyone to see that every time a thread is started mentioning a man you seem to feel the need to let everyone know its not only men, do you really believe people don’t already know that? but like I said, I’ll happily admit to talking drivel on here, but what I don’t do is post on every thread that’s started about a couple just to accuse men of doing the same.

And please stop trying to put words into my mouth, I’ve never once said men should not be respected.

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