FabSwingers.com forum: asking for face pics first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is your view on people who message you first then ask for face pics of you? When they have not revealed thier's.

We have had this a few times and stop all contact as soon as this happens

had it this weekend.someone said they think they chatted to us in chams.then asked for face pics. Ignored them since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one has to ask first

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If someone messaged me asking for a face pic, I'd expect them to attach one first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some one has to ask first

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. I was just thinking this

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By *amantha45Woman
over a year ago

blackpool

Me personally want to see some ones face. I have to fancy some one to have sex with them. and I always send mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel rude asking but I always sent one when asking for one

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We saw it early on in our time here, someone posted they felt proper etiquette dictated that if you are the one who initiates contact, then you should be the one to send face pics first.

That made sense to us and we have stuck by it in all but the rarest of cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messaged me asking for a face pic, I'd expect them to attach one first. "

But I have still refused to send one if they are to close to home or haven't got any verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away "

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some one has to ask first

If I ask for one I send mine with the request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx"

I've seen worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx"

You ant ugly no way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx

You ant ugly no way!!"

Thanks!

I wasn't fishing for compliments though!

Think I'm getting ready for something more meaningful than screwing guys who are looking for their next meet almost as soon as they've shot their load!

I envy the couples in here who are clearly crazy about each other!

I think it's time I looked for that!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I tend to send mine when requesting, but won't send his until he's seen them. I won't send mine first if I feel unsure, or they have no veris.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"If someone messaged me asking for a face pic, I'd expect them to attach one first. "

This definitely. If I like the look of them and they are fairly close etc I will send mine.

It does say in my profile that I ask early on for a face pic. You can tell if there's a basic attraction from a face and asking early can save time chatting if they turn out to be a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right. Some men are up their own a**e or just want to get through the site quick lol.

You look great. I'm sure you have loads of likes on your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens, remember women call the shots as they know many wouldn't say no, as there will always be someone that would meet them with no pics. Personally if they ask if I got a pic I say, do you got one too? Then usually the conversation ends there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really mind people asking for face pics as long as we've had at least one message to start a chat.

What I can't stand is people with no pics or verifications at all and message saying "No face pic, deleted!"

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Depends how the face pic topic comes up. I wouldnt expect anyone to meet blind so no issues showing my face. However a random email from a complete stranger saying 'face pic ?' aint going to turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx

You ant ugly no way!!

Thanks!

I wasn't fishing for compliments though!

Think I'm getting ready for something more meaningful than screwing guys who are looking for their next meet almost as soon as they've shot their load!

I envy the couples in here who are clearly crazy about each other!

I think it's time I looked for that!

I can't mail you.....stop leaking

whatever this weekend has brought you, shake it off get your Christmas head on and not the ohhh no he's fucked off head....or whatever it is.....this isn't the Peach I've come to recognise....this is a bruised peach....STOP IT!.in the nicest possible way....of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't email her to tell her the same

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By *oliteandfunmanNWMan
over a year ago

england

I've no issue with sending face pics. I choose not to show them on my profile for the world to see and don't want to have a profile full of my cock- think it's the right thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my major bug-bears....people who expect to see your picture, but will not reciprocate and still want to chat away and meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We saw it early on in our time here, someone posted they felt proper etiquette dictated that if you are the one who initiates contact, then you should be the one to send face pics first.

That made sense to us and we have stuck by it in all but the rarest of cases."

Yep that's exactly how we do it , but with single guys we like to see a face pic with the first message

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx"

Say's one of the most attractive girls on here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away "

We used to have one like that we looked awful in it. We stopped using it when we realised the one we think we look really nice in scared more away

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I had a couple profile talk to me recently and ask me about the club I attend and say they wanted to know when I was going

Then they asked foe a face pic.i said I dnt do them as stated in my profile which people clearly dnt read.

Then I got a message roughly saying that they knew why and blocked me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to get us a bit worked up ...

Then we put our face pics on public gallery - problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! Xx"
Omg peach, ugly?!!!! Sod off! Lol, your on my hot list! And as for 47, you still look in your 30's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will send a face pic with my first message, that way people know who they are chatting with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messaged me asking for a face pic, I'd expect them to attach one first. "

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I do find it funny the number of ladies profiles that demand a face pic with a first message even though they have no face pic on show themselves - guess that's the reality of the odds on here lol

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What is your view on people who message you first then ask for face pics of you? When they have not revealed thier's.

We have had this a few times and stop all contact as soon as this happens

had it this weekend.someone said they think they chatted to us in chams.then asked for face pics. Ignored them since.

We personally think the etiquette would be for the couple mailing first to share their face pics first.

Of course there are exceptions to the rule.

As Lizzie has a sensitive job, she prefers to see before she shares any. If we have met before, or they are further afield, then we may share.

In the case of a couple saying did they see us at chams, as you experienced. I had the same issue. I did share on the basis that they looked genuine and had good credible verifications.

But our personal stance is that they are making the first move and should as a courtesy send pics before requesting, unless an acceptable reason that can be backed up by credibility. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We saw it early on in our time here, someone posted they felt proper etiquette dictated that if you are the one who initiates contact, then you should be the one to send face pics first.

That made sense to us and we have stuck by it in all but the rarest of cases."

Completely agree with this, if someone asks for face pics with attaching theirs or having visible ones they just get deleted

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I had a couple from Blackpool get in touch and they would not send a pic and they wanted me too pay for a taxi to and from home blocked?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them if they wanted to see my face they should have sent theirs. I have an ugly face pic I send to people I want to scare away

I'm fucked then! All my face pics are ugly - but they're on my public pics anyway!

I'm well aware that this will probably bite me on the bum one day! XxOmg peach, ugly?!!!! Sod off! Lol, your on my hot list! And as for 47, you still look in your 30's xx"

Thanks Hun! Most kind but wasn't fishing for compliments! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was approached by a couple with no pics the other day....said you can see me...I want to see you...! No reply...deleted my messages. Could be fake...but it ain't blind date. I would not meet anyone without a face PIC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we want face pics we send ours first as a sign of good faith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can click on a box that removes your picture when the recepient has viewed it if you're looking for extra security!

I used to use this! X

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Ladies and couples hold all the aces on here so they tend to ask first

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think you can click on a box that removes your picture when the recepient has viewed it if you're looking for extra security!

I used to use this! X"

you can indeed - very helpful feature x

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