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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure they have anything to hide.but it seems lady pics sell the Cpl better than blokes.so I'm told.but personally I like to see both ppl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a few few theories and many threads about it

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

But isnt it annoying though? I am bi and look for such profiles but then the guy is not your cup of tea when a pic is finally shown and then you feel like you have wasted peoples time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is interesting and these forums brought this to my attention I always bear this in mind when arranging to meet couples

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

Have you noticed the status ?

It's the same ones saying male only available today

There arnt many genuine couples

Left on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usual followed by being told by the "female" that she'd love to see me play with her invisible "straight" husband in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isnt it annoying though? I am bi and look for such profiles but then the guy is not your cup of tea when a pic is finally shown and then you feel like you have wasted peoples time"
We ask for pics of both before really chatting therefore no wasted time, but also agree that pics of you girls gets more attention. We will always send face pics early if people are happy to swap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usual followed by being told by the "female" that she'd love to see me play with her invisible "straight" husband in my experience "

no...dont be silly, its the 20 messages back and forth, with a great amount of 'xxx's throughout the messages.A date is set for the meet and its then to be confirmed when the wife gets home from work...

weird that..she never does get home...

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It is a shame that there are fakes out there that set up couples profiles and yet are quite clearly single guys - it ruins it for the genuine ones out there. At least after the years I have been on here on and off that you can usually spot the fake ones a mile off. (Makes me feel cynical though)

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are. "
or at least speak to them both on the phone first. Maybe even a quick social meet to prove were all who we say we are and prove the interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are. "

phone converse(and I mean a 'hello') with the female half if I have any doubts..alot of folk nowadays dont have the cam function via mobiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are. "

I just research if there's anything good near by to them. If I turn up and they're fake I'll go have a day out ^_^

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I used to play as a couple and would always be more than happy to go on cam or chat on the phone - so frustrates me when others arent so genuine.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We have pictures of both of us and do indeed attract messages from those we are looking for ... TVs, bi couples, bi males and bi females. Mr plays the most but we are always together when we meet on our couple profile. I think if a couple is looking for a single male, there are going to be more pictures of the woman on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both. And when we send face pics we always send clear pics of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are yukky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

We are a couple but I dont play/join in at all so is there any need/point to my pic being on our profile? Why would it matter what I look like? If you cared even though I wont be interacting Id be pretty confused about why.

So not all couples profiles are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couples account with pics of us both, and pics of us together. Face pics on private thou.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ive seen this from two sides now,

When I was part of a "cpls" profile if there were no pictures of the Male half my partner wouldn't give it a second look and we would move on to find a cpl with pictures of both on the profile.

Now I am here as a Single Male I couldn't really care if there are pictures of the male half or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But isnt it annoying though? I am bi and look for such profiles but then the guy is not your cup of tea when a pic is finally shown and then you feel like you have wasted peoples time"

They wasted their own time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Experience has taught us to avoid profiles with no pictures of the man. However there are more of me than Mr N because basically I'm a show off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do but in private - we have our reasons and our friends we have actually met know what they are -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are. "

See I would say no to that. I don't even like doing more than a 2 min call to prove I'm a female. We have photos just not publicly. We always send a facephoto and body shot of us both. X

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are.

See I would say no to that. I don't even like doing more than a 2 min call to prove I'm a female. We have photos just not publicly. We always send a facephoto and body shot of us both. X "

This is us too ... we never go on cam and rarely talk on the phone. He does, but why should I. Most of our meets are in clubs, so we arrange around that. We don't expect anyone to jumps through hoops for us either ...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Our profile has far more photos of me than my partner - I enjoy posing and he enjoys taking photographs, plus we get a lot of positive feedback on fab. So it works for us - sorry if some don't like it but it works for us

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We have none of him, he just isn't comfortable having anything online, and tbh its me on Fab 99% of the time. However if we were arranging a meet we would send more pics privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile has far more photos of me than my partner - I enjoy posing and he enjoys taking photographs, plus we get a lot of positive feedback on fab. So it works for us - sorry if some don't like it but it works for us"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to play as a couple and would always be more than happy to go on cam or chat on the phone - so frustrates me when others arent so genuine. "

We are genuine (no pics of hubby on line-we send if a meet is looking to happen)Hate and will not go on cam and I never phone (mrs) not had any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

Well I am sure you are a tremendous loss to those cpls you reject for having no picture of the male on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It drives me mad! More men please, us women like to perve too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide

Well I am sure you are a tremendous loss to those cpls you reject for having no picture of the male on the profile. "

Irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know. I guess they hide hubby in the private section as they get more interests with the woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide

Well I am sure you are a tremendous loss to those cpls you reject for having no picture of the male on the profile.

Irony."
lol yes as they don't got pics of the man there

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide

We are a couple but I dont play/join in at all so is there any need/point to my pic being on our profile? Why would it matter what I look like? If you cared even though I wont be interacting Id be pretty confused about why.

So not all couples profiles are the same "

Thanks for the message - but having read your profile it does state you don't play so that is there for everyone to see if they read your profile. I wouldn't even question why your pics weren't up if I had read that - it is the other profiles where they are supposed to be playing as a couple and both taking part

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are.

See I would say no to that. I don't even like doing more than a 2 min call to prove I'm a female. We have photos just not publicly. We always send a facephoto and body shot of us both. X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

Nothing to hide in our case but we find it difficult to take photos of male half - time constraints and lack of patience! M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of our pet hates, if as a couple you are looking to play with couples, then why not have pics of both of you in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems most think the female half is the selling point. even for a straight single guy it's the package not just one half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of our photos are me (Mrs) because I'm the only one who plays with anyone else. We have face pics of both of us but generally don't see the point in advertising Mr when he's not available. I do understand your frustration though as it's not often a couple is equally as attractive as each other. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of our pet hates, if as a couple you are looking to play with couples, then why not have pics of both of you in your profile?"

easy answer?

having a female automatically gets that interest in..unfortunately this also brings in some feelings of entitlement..

I've seen a few new single males/hubbys over the years going solo(with permission), realizing they just cant get what they want without having the fanny they once had...

*some even had boasts about how great they were, cockwise,oral etc on their cpls profiles...weirdly there wasnt many reports of this in their future solo careers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile has far more photos of me than my partner - I enjoy posing and he enjoys taking photographs, plus we get a lot of positive feedback on fab. So it works for us - sorry if some don't like it but it works for us"

exactly - do what you want - people can have their profile set up however they want - we send pics happily if people are chatting and want to see face pics - pics of both of us for friends - verifications showing from well verified people and always happy to chat fem to fem - we will go on cam purely to prove we exist but have found a lot of times its just a bloke on the other end wanting us to play - have had males on the end of the phone too - so they just get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get when couples have no displayed profile picture but have images on their profile O.o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of our pet hates, if as a couple you are looking to play with couples, then why not have pics of both of you in your profile?"

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We only have a couple of pics of him on our profile as I'm guilty of taking pics of myself and putting them on. We have more of him in friends only pics and an equal amount of face pics we send to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

Move on. We're as interested in the guy (if not more interested in the guy) as we are in the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have public pics of Mr Iconic, we send pics of both of us if we are interested in meeting someone.

I am an exhibitionist, I like pictures of myself, I'm vain. I don't do to sell myself, I'm not used as a lure for anyone, the amount of our verifications prove there are two of us, he is not ugly.

We simply want the profile this way and we swing on our terms, noone else's, so I couldn't give a monkeys who passes us by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get when couples have no displayed profile picture but have images on their profile O.o"

Just as many singles do that as couples.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

We only look to meet single straight guys so no real need for Johns pics

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

My pet hate! Surely it's just as important for the lady of a couple to be attracted the the other guy?

Where are his pictures ffs!

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By *in344 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"My pet hate! Surely it's just as important for the lady of a couple to be attracted the the other guy?

Where are his pictures ffs!"

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There's more of her than me as she's better looking and more of a show off but mine show that I'm a skinny twat (Her words) and not bald. We do send full face and body pics to people who we're interested in though.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Is a couple of me, will be more after I have been to gym more and grown some hair . Till then, I'm having to much fun taking pics of wiggles .

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

We have more pictures of her as I take them mostly but a few of me, one gone on tonight in my tux

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate couples profiles where there are no shots of the man. Although our profile has more pics of me we find it important to keep Pauls pics updated too.

However all this crap about camming and phoning would be a big no-no for me, I wouldn't do either, not willing to prove anything, our veris show who we are and we always have social meets first anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have public pics of Mr Iconic, we send pics of both of us if we are interested in meeting someone.

I am an exhibitionist, I like pictures of myself, I'm vain. I don't do to sell myself, I'm not used as a lure for anyone, the amount of our verifications prove there are two of us, he is not ugly.

We simply want the profile this way and we swing on our terms, noone else's, so I couldn't give a monkeys who passes us by. "

Well said

We play with couples and single ladies and never had an issue exchanging face pics pre meet .

There's only one of me on public display , and that only recently went up .

If couples and single ladies don't like the fact that we run our profile the way we want to , never mind . We won't lose any sleep over it .

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's one of our pet hates, if as a couple you are looking to play with couples, then why not have pics of both of you in your profile?"

Or if they are a couple looking for single women only, it would make sense to show the male half too because if I see the lady I'll only want girl fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" However all this crap about camming and phoning would be a big no-no for me, I wouldn't do either, not willing to prove anything, our veris show who we are and we always have social meets first anyway "

Yeh good veris make up for a lack of male pics I reckon. Everyone has their reasons for what they do or do not post up... Might be worth investigating if they have a good veri. It would be a pity to pass over a genuine profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I find a couple I like - I will always ask to go on cam with them both to prove they are who they say they are. "

As a well verified and photo verified couple with plenty of pictures of both, we would decline to go on cam, we don't see any need to. Not about to start jumping through hoops to prove ourselves. Holding a certain amount of fingers up in front of a clock for example.

Can completely understand your reasons but it's not something we've really got any interest or time for to be honest. We'd hope people wouldn't need that much proof we are who we say.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We only meet single straight blokes so there's no need for us to have pics of hubby on show. We do have them in private that we can send to people we are talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" However all this crap about camming and phoning would be a big no-no for me, I wouldn't do either, not willing to prove anything, our veris show who we are and we always have social meets first anyway

Yeh good veris make up for a lack of male pics I reckon. Everyone has their reasons for what they do or do not post up... Might be worth investigating if they have a good veri. It would be a pity to pass over a genuine profile "

It wouldn't for us - why would we play with someone we hadn't seen just because they had good veris? We might find them repulsively unsexy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" However all this crap about camming and phoning would be a big no-no for me, I wouldn't do either, not willing to prove anything, our veris show who we are and we always have social meets first anyway

Yeh good veris make up for a lack of male pics I reckon. Everyone has their reasons for what they do or do not post up... Might be worth investigating if they have a good veri. It would be a pity to pass over a genuine profile "

I disagree as stated we have pics of both of us and we have plentiful face and body shots of us both in our friends photos. We expect to see photos of both in the other couple too and we insist on social meets first as photos can be misleading.

The point I was making was all this jumping through hoops mallarky, having to phone or cam, there is no one that we are that desperate to meet which would mean we would jump through hoops our veris state that we are who we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people find that there are a lot of couples who dont have a picture that they can share of the male half, because we have never found that. When we are interested in getting to know a couple , we have always found that the other couple have face pics of both of them to send, as we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a picture of my willy on our profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile has far more photos of me than my partner - I enjoy posing and he enjoys taking photographs, plus we get a lot of positive feedback on fab. So it works for us - sorry if some don't like it but it works for us"

Us too!

As S also has tattoos, we want to avoid getting them in photos - you have no idea how difficult it is to get a photo of him without a tattoo or a face in... I'm far less distinctive. We keep meaning to get photos of him too, but we tend to get distracted when we decide to take photos...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is something that annoys us too, if you are a couple show a cple

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"this is something that annoys us too, if you are a couple show a cple"

Sorry you are annoyed - but the bottom line is that you can do what you want with your own profile and therefore you should give others the opportunity to do what they like with theirs.

Our profile is there for our benefit not anyone else's. If it works for us we are happy, and we don't particular care if someone else doesn't like it - there are plenty that do and those are the people we want to interact with

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By *XnaughtyandniceXxCouple
over a year ago

Derby

We are a couple mainly playing with other couples, so L wants to see if she likes the bloke, and A wants to see if he likes the woman. We show both of us in our profile, and we would like to see the same, yes a woman 'sells' the profile more but it wont be just the woman at a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is something that annoys us too, if you are a couple show a cple

Sorry you are annoyed - but the bottom line is that you can do what you want with your own profile and therefore you should give others the opportunity to do what they like with theirs. "

True, but I guess many like us would completely ignore the profile if both aren't visible. To us it makes little sense if you are trying to sell yourself as a package. Even if the hubby was only there to watch we'd still want to know what he looked like before sending the first message.

We have more pics of the mrs but that stems a bit from not wanting to use a camera weighing in at a couple of kilos, something about her wrists hurting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What views do you have on a couples profile where it is all about showing the lady off but no picture of the guy?

First thoughts on seeing it - mine is move on - if they cant even put one pic up they have something to hide"

Don't have strong views on this as rarely play with couples!

Only play with them at clubs and parties where I can see what they look like clearly and get to know them first! X

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It is a shame that there are fakes out there that set up couples profiles and yet are quite clearly single guys - it ruins it for the genuine ones out there. At least after the years I have been on here on and off that you can usually spot the fake ones a mile off. (Makes me feel cynical though) "

Call me naive, but why don't folks make more use of the photo verified system? I have it set as a search parameter, am I missing something?

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By *XnaughtyandniceXxCouple
over a year ago

Derby


"It is a shame that there are fakes out there that set up couples profiles and yet are quite clearly single guys - it ruins it for the genuine ones out there. At least after the years I have been on here on and off that you can usually spot the fake ones a mile off. (Makes me feel cynical though)

Call me naive, but why don't folks make more use of the photo verified system? I have it set as a search parameter, am I missing something? "

Why? We are verified by meets, why do we need to verify our photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame that there are fakes out there that set up couples profiles and yet are quite clearly single guys - it ruins it for the genuine ones out there. At least after the years I have been on here on and off that you can usually spot the fake ones a mile off. (Makes me feel cynical though)

Call me naive, but why don't folks make more use of the photo verified system? I have it set as a search parameter, am I missing something? "

I'm not photo verified! Every bugger on fab knows me though - so I think I could be genuine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that people have expectations of what they want to see on a profile and are disappointed when it doesn't deliver. I don't run my profile on what others want.

I've had the comment 'we want to see what we're getting' upfront', and I find this kind of statement silly. The chances are we wouldn't meet you. We only send pictures to those where there is a likelihood of meeting, not every tom, dick or harry on the site

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

We didn't put a pic of shrek on, then we read a few posts such as this and now have a pic of us both.

We've not had a sniff since

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By *indmill and weetabixCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Put one up just now

The problem is I'm overweight and if I'm not erect my cock looks tiny...now you tell me any couples who want to meet a hot bi brunette but she comes with a tubby with a stubby because I expect they are rarer than unicorns

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"The majority of our photos are me (Mrs) because I'm the only one who plays with anyone else. We have face pics of both of us but generally don't see the point in advertising Mr when he's not available. X"

Am confused.

Why are you not a single lady profile then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of our photos are me (Mrs) because I'm the only one who plays with anyone else. We have face pics of both of us but generally don't see the point in advertising Mr when he's not available. X

Am confused.

Why are you not a single lady profile then?"

Exactly: if this was a single guy he'd be getting slaughtered. If a couple wants to meet a couple or a female then surely the females have equal rights to be given an idea if Shrek or Mr Adonis is part of the package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our original profile had pics of us both but many people didn't realise as they hadn't read the blurb

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"The majority of our photos are me (Mrs) because I'm the only one who plays with anyone else. We have face pics of both of us but generally don't see the point in advertising Mr when he's not available. X

Am confused.

Why are you not a single lady profile then?"

Guessing they're a bit like us and he watches only, just guessing.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"this is something that annoys us too, if you are a couple show a cple

Sorry you are annoyed - but the bottom line is that you can do what you want with your own profile and therefore you should give others the opportunity to do what they like with theirs.

Our profile is there for our benefit not anyone else's. If it works for us we are happy, and we don't particular care if someone else doesn't like it - there are plenty that do and those are the people we want to interact with"

100% agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of our photos are me (Mrs) because I'm the only one who plays with anyone else. We have face pics of both of us but generally don't see the point in advertising Mr when he's not available. X

Am confused.

Why are you not a single lady profile then?

Exactly: if this was a single guy he'd be getting slaughtered. If a couple wants to meet a couple or a female then surely the females have equal rights to be given an idea if Shrek or Mr Adonis is part of the package "

I (him) dont play on our meets only my wife but I am always there so we are a couple. If my wife went out on her own she would have a single lady profile. But she doesnt, Im always there so we are a couple. But like the couple you were replying to there is no point putting my pic up as I dont play so who gives a shit what I look like? Guys sure as hell dont and if a lady will base wether or not she plays with my wife on what the guy watching looks like then shes not for us quite frankly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is something that annoys us too, if you are a couple show a cple

Sorry you are annoyed - but the bottom line is that you can do what you want with your own profile and therefore you should give others the opportunity to do what they like with theirs.

Our profile is there for our benefit not anyone else's. If it works for us we are happy, and we don't particular care if someone else doesn't like it - there are plenty that do and those are the people we want to interact with

100% agree with this "

Yes - when hubby and I last has one of those long conversations about life, the universe and everything we ended up reviewing our profile and verifications - I am the most active one on fabs, he gets involved when and if he feels like it - we talked about whether I should have a single profile aswell as a couples profile but we decided against it. His involvement is very important to me -planning the meet beforehand, agreeing the boundaries with all parties, talking about the meet when I get back......all these elements would be less exciting if I had a separate profile.

Single woman with a single profile - no that is not me.

More photos of me on profile than hubby because - Married lady, couples profile and meeting as a couple occassionally, meeting others with hubbies full knowledge and agreement - it says all that on our profile - why would we need more photos of us together?

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