FabSwingers.com forum: Single female and dogging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Hi

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x"

Wear a stab vest, there are some strange people out there if you are a single female alone

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Hi

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x"
Brave lady

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

We wouldn't recommend you go alone for all the obvious reasons.

Why don't you ask a man you trust to accompany you as someone who can look out for you x

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

If you don't want a man to accompany you could you pair up with another female? It's not something I would be comfortable doing alone, too many things could go wrong

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"If you don't want a man to accompany you could you pair up with another female? It's not something I would be comfortable doing alone, too many things could go wrong"

This x

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Hi

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x"

Just be careful you don't get crushed in the stampede!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd go on my own too if it wasn't likely that everyone there would think it was Christmas come early!!

Apart from anything else, the safety is a big part of it for me but I'd want to watch and not take part but I'm not sure if there's much call for that.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and watch for the cars following you home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want a man to accompany you could you pair up with another female? It's not something I would be comfortable doing alone, too many things could go wrong"

And anyone that's luck enough to meet up with you thinks all their birthdays have come at once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not unheard of. Ideally you need to speak to women who have done this.

They will be able to give you sensible advice rather than the more hysterical variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg far too dangerous and dodgy.

Some unsavoury characters about .

Not my thing but it's risky .

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Dogging by the very definition of the activity carries the potential for some risk. I'd like to think that people would behave, but at the end of the day you are placing yourself in a secluded spot, in the presence of a bunch of blokes there for sexual activity and saying "I'm available."

A no should always mean no in any circumstances but sadly some don't choose to hear.

Be it male or female you need someone to watch your back. Please be careful.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Dogging by the very definition of the activity carries the potential for some risk. I'd like to think that people would behave, but at the end of the day you are placing yourself in a secluded spot, in the presence of a bunch of blokes there for sexual activity and saying "I'm available."

A no should always mean no in any circumstances but sadly some don't choose to hear.

Be it male or female you need someone to watch your back. Please be careful. "

Blimey!!

Hello stranger! I was just thinking I need Dippy for this kind of conversation!! She'd show us how it's done! How the hell are you?

/sorry for hijack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its the thrill of random public sex in the open air you want why not just go out during the day somewhere public, find a quiet corner of a car park and look for a guy you like who pay be a passer by, a driver, maybe a company vehicle driver. Try to make eye contact or speak to him with some spurious enquiry,,chat him up,signal your availability and lead him on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many weirdo's knocking about. Take someone along who would take a very low profile and keep an eye on things, just in case.

Even if they're there to help clean the cum off you it's got to be worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want a man to accompany you could you pair up with another female? It's not something I would be comfortable doing alone, too many things could go wrong"

It's not somethkng I'd do with another woman to be honest

I used to go dogging with my ex and I loved it but some guys did get pushy so I would never go alone, as hard as some women like to think they are there's no way one or two women can fight off a group of horny men

Be realistic and seriously think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep sure there would be someome you know who would shadow you not get too close but could keep an eye out he could park at opersit end of car park laybye you could say hit your hazard lights if you needed help

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Hi

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x"

Please don't go alone, there are some unsavoury characters about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'The lady walking ahead of me sped up so I did too.

She began running so I ran too.

She screamed so I screamed as well.

I never even saw what the fuck we were running from.'

This just came to mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like it's a no then !

Oh well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no

DO NOT go alone

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By *ufaloMan
over a year ago

Fun town

Never been ! And somethings I like to try.

Can anyone PM any spots in northwest.

Thanks in advance

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"Looks like it's a no then !

Oh well !

If it is the exhibition thing that is the turn on why not go to a club and use one of the rooms with curtains.

I agree with others, FAR too dangerous for a single woman sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like it's a no then !

Oh well !

No it's just take appropriate safety steps.

As I said previously there are women that do this and they are the best people to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like it's a no then !

Oh well !

If you have any sense you shouldnt even be considering it.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not a good idea, if you do go make sure you have a Ferrari to out run your followers

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

So if one guy gets in the car, who is there to stop another getting in and then another?

If you're busy with one and get a bit of a queue going but you decide to stop...3-4 horny guys are going to be upset, so a friend could warn guys that you've had your fill, so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watch yourself but also have a good time ive lurked about in loads of carpark n woods dogging for yrs enjoy yourself u have one life

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By *revorAndTraceyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Turn up in a police car and watch everyone else leg it Apart from the fact its too cold for dogging. Sometimes the reality is worse than the fantasy....Take a friend and if you must go alone at least take a fecking geet big dog....

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By *aughty1978Woman
over a year ago

north west

"'The lady walking ahead of me sped up so I did too.

She began running so I ran too.

She screamed so I screamed as well.

I never even saw what the fuck we were running from.'

This just came to mind"

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Wow wish you was down in the north west we need more ladies like you dogging.

Everyone warns of the dangers but it's a danger for men too plus not to mention the TVs that go alone.

I am sure going to certain locations you know where you can go which have limited numbers of doggers . I am sure there are genuine doggers who would protect you when your out from the idiots plus you could just put on shows with doors locked.

Another thought would be daytime dogging that way more general public around to run too if any problems.

You don't have to open your doors and let people in just give them shows I am sure you will get some decent guys that will be pleased for the show.

It depends what you want from it

Maybe arrange a meeting at a dogging location with a decent guy of here who could be your silent protector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'm a single female who wants to go dogging alone ( that's without a male partner with me ! )

How would that be received at a site by regulars ? Is there anything I should be particularly mindful of ?

And I'm not looking for anyone to accompany me before anyone kindly offers !

Tia x"

If it's what you want to do, go for it, but make sure someone knows where you're going and make sure you let them know when you're safe as there are some messed up people out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Organise this as a meet with verified people.

Have fun!

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