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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " yes damn it but then maybe that's why that woman's on here she maybe feels she has married beneath her ability or her good cooking skills have turned him into a fatty tatty ,to all beautiful women come on now marry a beautiful man will you hey and with this in mind I'm available for cuddling all attractive women | |||
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"Our fem is way hotter than me so nobody would meet us if they needed to fancy me but I dont play I just watch so I dont think it matters what I look like Same here , and I rarely play either although I have done more of late . Finding two people equally as attractive is difficult , but sometimes the scenario and the fun are more important than the looks alone . Some of our best meets have been with people we don't necessarily see as being ultra hot , but their personalities , kinks , and willingness to push boundaries mean we enjoy it as much as when we meet the hotties . " Yes, we totally agree with this. Eye contact, getting into role, sharing sexy thoughts, exploring boundaries, wanting to tease and please each other - all these things happen for us when we meet like- minded people - those people usually have ordinary bodies with ordinary bumps, blemishes and odd bits - just like us! | |||
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"Most couples I find its impossible to tell what the male half looks like as there's no pics" I agree and looking for couples or bi female and only pics of the female . | |||
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"Most couples I find its impossible to tell what the male half looks like as there's no pics" Same here! Agree with you too OP. I appreciate attractiveness is subjective but the lack of male pics on couples profiles makes me but also appreciate the ones who do bother to have them up | |||
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"Most couples I find its impossible to tell what the male half looks like as there's no pics" I find that very discouraging especially from a couple who are looking for bi females. It's a couple profile so there should be pictures of both. Just makes sense. | |||
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"Most couples I find its impossible to tell what the male half looks like as there's no pics I find that very discouraging especially from a couple who are looking for bi females. It's a couple profile so there should be pictures of both. Just makes sense. " Somewhere in the deeper reaches of our pics there are one or two of me . But we do fine as it is , so we must be doing something right | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " Yes I find the same - but I'm going to be completely honest and give the other side of the equation too! The women in couples are often in better nick/better looking that their husbands. I think that's why most just show pics of the wife - as they're the 'pull' - and generally the single guys are in better shape and better looking than most guys in couples - which is why I usually play with single guys! However - many of the ladies in couples tend to be far better looking/better bodies than most of the single fems on here - and yes, that includes me!! I think that's why many single guys seek couples out! As well as the psychological naughtiness - the women just tend to be better looking with better bodies! | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half?" Yes in many couples | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. Yes I find the same - but I'm going to be completely honest and give the other side of the equation too! The women in couples are often in better nick/better looking that their husbands. I think that's why most just show pics of the wife - as they're the 'pull' - and generally the single guys are in better shape and better looking than most guys in couples - which is why I usually play with single guys! However - many of the ladies in couples tend to be far better looking/better bodies than most of the single fems on here - and yes, that includes me!! I think that's why many single guys seek couples out! As well as the psychological naughtiness - the women just tend to be better looking with better bodies! " That's interesting, I never looked at it like that before. I have been part of a couple on here twice now and always thought my partners were better looking than me. I have a recent friend who wants to couple up and I think he could do way better and couple up with a hotter girl than me, not to say I'm that hot, but he definitely can. I wouldn't say I'm looking for a model couple to play with, as I know I'm not all that, but even just an initial physical attract does help. I would never take one for the team, as I have done that before and it left me feeling terrible about myself and for the guy who was sweet. | |||
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"My hubby is way more attractive than me...it's why he insisted on having his own profile." Well you have your own profile too...you did not want him to make his own, but you have your own...? | |||
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"Yes I find the same - but I'm going to be completely honest and give the other side of the equation too! The women in couples are often in better nick/better looking that their husbands. I think that's why most just show pics of the wife - as they're the 'pull' - and generally the single guys are in better shape and better looking than most guys in couples - which is why I usually play with single guys! However - many of the ladies in couples tend to be far better looking/better bodies than most of the single fems on here - and yes, that includes me!! I think that's why many single guys seek couples out! As well as the psychological naughtiness - the women just tend to be better looking with better bodies! " That is exactly what I think. However there is a flaw in this logic. Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless | |||
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"As long as I get on with the guy, that's the factor that effects the fun...he can look like Tom hardy and if we don't click, the meet won't be as good as if the guys just a normal looking guy that I can have a right laugh with ya know, I like to get horny, but I like to chat and have some big belly laughs in between too Give me a good guy, don't matter if he's 'hot' " I don't think Tom Hardy is hot. I think I'm alone in my thinking. | |||
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"As long as I get on with the guy, that's the factor that effects the fun...he can look like Tom hardy and if we don't click, the meet won't be as good as if the guys just a normal looking guy that I can have a right laugh with ya know, I like to get horny, but I like to chat and have some big belly laughs in between too Give me a good guy, don't matter if he's 'hot' " Well put , there's hope for me yet | |||
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"It's no anyway,I don't think the women of couples are more physically attractive than the men. " Are you serious...? | |||
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"As long as I get on with the guy, that's the factor that effects the fun...he can look like Tom hardy and if we don't click, the meet won't be as good as if the guys just a normal looking guy that I can have a right laugh with ya know, I like to get horny, but I like to chat and have some big belly laughs in between too Give me a good guy, don't matter if he's 'hot' I don't think Tom Hardy is hot. I think I'm alone in my thinking." He was a generic example...you can use your own hot guy instead | |||
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"I think it's easier for women to make themselves look good. Hair, makeup, lingerie - all of these things can have a dramatic impact on improving the way they look. Men have nowhere to hide. I'd be fucked if I was a man and couldn't tart myself up with all that stuff. " This is a really good point. Lingerie, especially, can do loads for a woman's body in a way that men simply can't achieve. -Courtney | |||
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"As long as I get on with the guy, that's the factor that effects the fun...he can look like Tom hardy and if we don't click, the meet won't be as good as if the guys just a normal looking guy that I can have a right laugh with ya know, I like to get horny, but I like to chat and have some big belly laughs in between too Give me a good guy, don't matter if he's 'hot' Well put , there's hope for me yet " Hope?! Nowt up with you man | |||
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"I think it's easier for women to make themselves look good. Hair, makeup, lingerie - all of these things can have a dramatic impact on improving the way they look. Men have nowhere to hide. I'd be fucked if I was a man and couldn't tart myself up with all that stuff. " Very true! If it wasn't for hair, make-up and lingerie I'd look average at best! | |||
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"I think it's easier for women to make themselves look good. Hair, makeup, lingerie - all of these things can have a dramatic impact on improving the way they look. Men have nowhere to hide. I'd be fucked if I was a man and couldn't tart myself up with all that stuff. " Yes the makeup makes a huge difference. We should use it too!?!? I need to add that for a girl is much much MUCH easier to mantain a sexy body | |||
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" That is exactly what I think. However there is a flaw in this logic. Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless " You really can't understand why couples like to meet other couples? We meet singles, both men and women, but I don't think it is that difficult to see why meeting both at the same time would offer both halves of a couple something to enjoy? And to be frank, it is much easier to meet single men on here than single women, so if we didn't meet couples pretty often then Marc wouldn't be seeing much action at all... Unless I have misunderstood you -Courtney | |||
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"I think it's easier for women to make themselves look good. Hair, makeup, lingerie - all of these things can have a dramatic impact on improving the way they look. Men have nowhere to hide. I'd be fucked if I was a man and couldn't tart myself up with all that stuff. Yes the makeup makes a huge difference. We should use it too!?!? I need to add that for a girl is much much MUCH easier to mantain a sexy body " I don't know that it's easier to maintain one - but it's easier to fake it. I like a bit of guyliner, go for it! | |||
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" That is exactly what I think. However there is a flaw in this logic. Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless You really can't understand why couples like to meet other couples? We meet singles, both men and women, but I don't think it is that difficult to see why meeting both at the same time would offer both halves of a couple something to enjoy? And to be frank, it is much easier to meet single men on here than single women, so if we didn't meet couples pretty often then Marc wouldn't be seeing much action at all... Unless I have misunderstood you -Courtney" hey chip is marc attractive I know you are and I think your taste in other things in life is pretty spot on but is he hot to trot ,I'm up for cuddles today | |||
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" That is exactly what I think. However there is a flaw in this logic. Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless You really can't understand why couples like to meet other couples? We meet singles, both men and women, but I don't think it is that difficult to see why meeting both at the same time would offer both halves of a couple something to enjoy? And to be frank, it is much easier to meet single men on here than single women, so if we didn't meet couples pretty often then Marc wouldn't be seeing much action at all... Unless I have misunderstood you -Courtneyhey chip is marc attractive I know you are and I think your taste in other things in life is pretty spot on but is he hot to trot ,I'm up for cuddles today " Marc is the sexiest man I have ever met But that is my opinion. He could well be one of the guys that everyone finds unattractive I don't really feel like cuddles, though, thanks! I'm on a sex high and cuddles just won't cut it today -Chip | |||
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"My hubby is way more attractive than me...it's why he insisted on having his own profile. Well you have your own profile too...you did not want him to make his own, but you have your own...? " Talk about twisting what i said I never said it was a problem. ....and for the records i was joking.. . .some people | |||
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" That is exactly what I think. However there is a flaw in this logic. Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless You really can't understand why couples like to meet other couples? We meet singles, both men and women, but I don't think it is that difficult to see why meeting both at the same time would offer both halves of a couple something to enjoy? And to be frank, it is much easier to meet single men on here than single women, so if we didn't meet couples pretty often then Marc wouldn't be seeing much action at all... Unless I have misunderstood you -Courtneyhey chip is marc attractive I know you are and I think your taste in other things in life is pretty spot on but is he hot to trot ,I'm up for cuddles today Marc is the sexiest man I have ever met But that is my opinion. He could well be one of the guys that everyone finds unattractive I don't really feel like cuddles, though, thanks! I'm on a sex high and cuddles just won't cut it today -Chip" chip you probably can't cuddle I've found your weakness | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " No ...to women i am far more attractive and as a couple we are an attractive pair...there are a thousand scrotes a day would fuck her but in reality they would also fuck a barbers floor as soon as they saw hair on it...lol | |||
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"we find it hard as mildred has to like the guy of a cple and she can be fussy, and as others have said not many cples have pics of the guy , why is this" pics of moi on here...no point hiding if you want to play | |||
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"Our fem is way hotter than me so nobody would meet us if they needed to fancy me but I dont play I just watch so I dont think it matters what I look like Same here , and I rarely play either although I have done more of late . Finding two people equally as attractive is difficult , but sometimes the scenario and the fun are more important than the looks alone . Some of our best meets have been with people we don't necessarily see as being ultra hot , but their personalities , kinks , and willingness to push boundaries mean we enjoy it as much as when we meet the hotties . Yes, we totally agree with this. Eye contact, getting into role, sharing sexy thoughts, exploring boundaries, wanting to tease and please each other - all these things happen for us when we meet like- minded people - those people usually have ordinary bodies with ordinary bumps, blemishes and odd bits - just like us! " So glad to see its just not us then | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? " Well, durrr! That's because in couples the man has endured a lifetime of hard work and drudgery just so his wife could while away the hours reclining on the chaise-longue being fed grapes while watching Strictly. Obviously it takes it's toll eventually! (Dont worry, the frying-pan and rolling-pin are currently inaccessible) But, seriously, we look for good sex rather than good looks. Even for a wife 'physical beauty' wasn't high on my list of criteria (I just got lucky) Mr ddc | |||
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"I think it's easier for women to make themselves look good. Hair, makeup, lingerie - all of these things can have a dramatic impact on improving the way they look. Men have nowhere to hide. I'd be fucked if I was a man and couldn't tart myself up with all that stuff. Yes the makeup makes a huge difference. We should use it too!?!? I need to add that for a girl is much much MUCH easier to mantain a sexy body I don't know that it's easier to maintain one - but it's easier to fake it. I like a bit of guyliner, go for it! " You know, I use it when I am working ...anyway depending on the city and country you are, many guys use makeup Anyway yes, trust me. Have you any idea how much do you need to eat to maintain a muscular body? If I wouldn't use it to get some money, it would not be worth at all | |||
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"However as we've never seen a couple where we both fancy each half we have never met a couple for fun. And as i dont feel like being a cuckold and my Mrs really doesn't like the idea of me meeting other women....well you can probably see why we're only here for the forum. Kind of celibate swingers ! " Maybe that's because you haven't met us ? | |||
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"Is that the reason why couples hide the man in the pics? Lol." From our point of veiw its a definite no ,the female half ( moon) is the centre of attention on our profile and we always send pics of the hubbie if asked . | |||
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"Is that the reason why couples hide the man in the pics? Lol. From our point of veiw its a definite no ,the female half ( moon) is the centre of attention on our profile and we always send pics of the hubbie if asked ." you realize that it is not an equal "Fab relationship", right? | |||
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"Is that the reason why couples hide the man in the pics? Lol. From our point of veiw its a definite no ,the female half ( moon) is the centre of attention on our profile and we always send pics of the hubbie if asked . you realize that it is not an equal "Fab relationship", right? " Why should it be? - they run their profile as they want, which is exactly what they should do. | |||
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"Is that the reason why couples hide the man in the pics? Lol. From our point of veiw its a definite no ,the female half ( moon) is the centre of attention on our profile and we always send pics of the hubbie if asked . you realize that it is not an equal "Fab relationship", right? Why should it be? - they run their profile as they want, which is exactly what they should do. " Yes sure, sorry | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. " He sounds, as you say, a real gentleman. My advice, if you haven't already done so is simple. Forget about swinging, get married, have kids. Live a long and happy life. | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. " If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney" Excuse me, did you just suggest her to masturbate in a club...? | |||
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"What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless " Really, L? When we play with a couple we can play soft, own-partner, full-swap, mfm, ffm, ff and/or one big bundle. In couples where both men are bi the possibilities are even greater. With singles the permutations are simply smaller, especially for us since I am straight. Plus, with a proper couple, you don't have to worry about where the other person is emotionally, since they have their partner to look out for them in that regard, so you can just concentrate on their sexual desires. (If that makes sense) But it's not a 'rule', we play with all. Mr ddc | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney" Never had a wasted evening in a club - even if we play together there is the excitement of an audience. | |||
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"What I cannot understand is the reason behind this coupling rule...it leaves me clueless Really, L? When we play with a couple we can play soft, own-partner, full-swap, mfm, ffm, ff and/or one big bundle. In couples where both men are bi the possibilities are even greater. With singles the permutations are simply smaller, especially for us since I am straight. Plus, with a proper couple, you don't have to worry about where the other person is emotionally, since they have their partner to look out for them in that regard, so you can just concentrate on their sexual desires. (If that makes sense) But it's not a 'rule', we play with all. Mr ddc" I was referring about the fact that men in couples are less attractive than the female partners...which is the OP | |||
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". Mr ddc I was referring about the fact that men in couples are less attractive than the female partners...which is the OP " My mistake, I read " Couples look mainly for single girls and other couples: so life for single guys is still hard " as a bit of an 'off-piste' whinge that couples were chosing to 'couple up' mainly with other couples or single 'girls' and you felt a bit left out... | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney Excuse me, did you just suggest her to masturbate in a club...? " She mentioned that she goes to clubs with a partner. She specifically mentions going to clubs as a couple and the experience she has when doing so looking for other couples. So unless the guy she is with doesn't want to have sex with her, which I doubt, there is no need to masturbate. She can have sex with him. -Courtney | |||
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"The main reason I posted this, was because I recently went to a club. Beautiful place and some great people. I found the women to be ace, but I found it hare to say the same about the men. I could tell that a lot of the women were eyeing up my date, as I believe he was one of the more attractive men that night, but I didn't feel the same about their male counterparts. I kept telling him if he wanted to play he could, but bless he was a gentleman. He indicated to me that a lot of men were looking my way, but for the life of me I didn't feel attracted to them. It was so frustrating for me to not think about it too much, but I know my body wasn't turned on. Unfortunately the couples where I found both attractive didn't play that night. Do I just forget my standards of what I find personally attractive and just get lost in the moment? Doesn't help either that I don't really drink alcohol for liquid courage. If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney Excuse me, did you just suggest her to masturbate in a club...? She mentioned that she goes to clubs with a partner. She specifically mentions going to clubs as a couple and the experience she has when doing so looking for other couples. So unless the guy she is with doesn't want to have sex with her, which I doubt, there is no need to masturbate. She can have sex with him. -Courtney" Which we certainly did But would be nice to share that with another couple x | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " Same with me if I'm honest. We're no posh and becks but there has to be attraction. I find alot of pretty woman but no so male partners but hey were all different. | |||
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"As long as I get on with the guy, that's the factor that effects the fun...he can look like Tom hardy and if we don't click, the meet won't be as good as if the guys just a normal looking guy that I can have a right laugh with ya know, I like to get horny, but I like to chat and have some big belly laughs in between too Give me a good guy, don't matter if he's 'hot' I don't think Tom Hardy is hot. I think I'm alone in my thinking." No I totally agree...much hotter out there and not just celebrities | |||
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"It's no anyway,I don't think the women of couples are more physically attractive than the men. Are you serious...? " Yes but I'm only going by pics on here. Maybe it's different in clubs and Elle McPherson look a likes often turn up with Giant Haystacks types. | |||
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" If Marc and I don't find a couple that we both find attractive then we just have amazing sex together. A club can be fun without ever playing with anyone else. -Courtney" This! | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " Yes...and my partner would agree on this, we get more meets because of me than him, but since he's a Voyeur and just prefers to watch me play with a single or a couple and doesn't join in then that suits us ...ps...he's not that ugly ...lol | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " Hahaha , this is funny , just let the other half wank and watch | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. Hahaha , this is funny , just let the other half wank and watch " Spot on | |||
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"To the op, this is exactly the case. Princess is by far the most attractive element in our pairing. This is the main reason why we can struggle to meet couples nowadays. Once we swap face pics the interest often fades on the other couples part. That said, when we have met couples were sexual attraction is all around then the meets have often been repeated and very enjoyable. So in response to the original point, yes your right but don't rush to judge the proverbial book by its cover because there is the chance you can miss out on a memorable all round experience X" | |||
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"Do you find that in most couples the female is more attractive than the male half? I find it difficult to meet or swap with couples because of this. I'll often find the lady hot, but the guy not so much which makes it easier to select single guys to meet, but when I'm with a partner at a party or club it's hard to find that compatibility. Am I over thinking it? I know most genuine couples are together because the lady was attracted to her fella for more than just looks alone, but I just can't seem to get over that feeling of wanting to be physically attracted to both. " In my experience, there is little to no pics of male half. This is what puts me off | |||
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