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Why do men of couples hide ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with the men of MF couples, that so many of them won't show their face photo even privately, even though I've sent them mine ? I find that in most cases only the woman is willing to show her private face pic, while the men refuse even though they usually insist on seeing mine ! They can see that I'm not someone who knows them off-site, yet they expect me to play "Blind Date". Any explanations ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples have no pic of the male at all. I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the men in the couples are just like us single men, they have to fancy both and as well pussey sells lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just an observation but your profile says your straight so I'm guessing if you met a couple your not playing with him so does it matter what his face looks like? where as your going to play with her so stands to reason they will wants a face pic of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples have no pic of the male at all. I just move on."

Seen this a lot, yes they're wanting to meet a female to play with both. So surely the female would like to see the male ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be part of a couple and we had pics of both of us but found when we were looking at other couples it was always just pics of the female, bit hard to know wether i was attracted to the couple as i couldnt see him so we just moved on usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couple on our profile, he prefers to take pictures of me, I insisted he had a couple on there! We also have face pics of us both, I wouldn't like to meet a couple without seeing the male half and wouldn't expect others to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we set our profile up we were looking for single guys so no need for Clarence to be on here but before meets we send face pics of both of us.

Now we meet couples we are slowly getting more pics of Clarence xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just an observation but your profile says your straight so I'm guessing if you met a couple your not playing with him so does it matter what his face looks like? where as your going to play with her so stands to reason they will wants a face pic of you "

Yes, but if they want an MMF threesome, in that sense I will be playing alongside the male, so it's not unreasonable to want to see them; - or maybe they plan to have a paper bag over their head when playing ?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have face and body pics in ours. If nothing else the photos of Dicks face is a clearer face pic than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have face pics, even in our friends only photos. However , that said we have sent face pics of us both when a meeting is confirmed and had plenty of successes. The downside is that one will occasionally send a face pic to someone who is a timewaster, which is a bit of a risk but comes with being a member of a site like this. Besides Hubby's body isn't that much to write home about anyway so....

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Mr is in our public pics,not much of him though other than his bits.

His face pics are in our friends folder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter to the op win is straight and should only be bothered what the female looks like?

Sorry love I can have sex why you your husband is way too ugly

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

We both have face pics on no point hiding if you don't like what you see no probs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry single men and women if asked we send both. Too much generalisation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always send pics of both of us,no point in hiding if we gonna meet.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't usually swap face pics at all on this site. We will, however, swap both of ours off-site.

Sometimes I will have my face pic uploaded, but Marc never does. To put it simply, his job and career reputation are more sensitive than mine, so we are more careful with his pic.

We understand if people don't like it. We just move on.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just an observation but your profile says your straight so I'm guessing if you met a couple your not playing with him so does it matter what his face looks like? where as your going to play with her so stands to reason they will wants a face pic of you "

He might be a little put off his stride if the guy he's spit roasting a sexy woman with looks like a serial killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show mine.

Cpl profiles with no male half pics on show don't have any for a reason. No way will Nik take one for the team so we move on

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

We try to share our pic allowance evenly!!

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

we show ours when we message peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play"

Sorry - but what a load of complete and other bollocks!!!!

Are you seriously implying that, unless you're looking for a relationship, it shouldn't matter what the person you're shagging looks like?

Facial attraction is a big deal to me - as is being attracted to the person(s) body and personality!

I wouldn't even contemplate meeting a male or couple unless face pics were swapped at the beginning!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's quite simple really. Everyone has their own motivation, fantasies and likes and dislikes. Correspondingly everyone can use their fab profile exactly as it suits them. If it doesn't suit you just move on until you find a profile, complete with face pics, that appeals to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with 'peach'.

If we are chatting with a couple then it's both parties we are interested in. As great as some pictures can be its of no use to us if we don't see both.

Another annoyance is when people send pics with 'automatic delete' once seen. That's no good when we are at work. Means one of us doesn't get to see.

Grrrrrrr

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby hates pics of himself but there are a few (in his sex pants, his bum being whipped by a playmate, laying on the couch) and at least our main pic is both of us but yes generally most profiles are 95% the lady xx sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this one don't at all happily send out face pics not that a lot guys are interested what I look like only the wife lol ,but not hiding at all attraction is a must for all parties in our book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing we do is show our face pics privately so other couples know what we look like.Theres no point continuing if we dont fancy each other. I ask for face pics of the man and lady and if i dont get one I will move on no point meeting a couple and there's no attraction at all from either one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with the men of MF couples, that so many of them won't show their face photo even privately, even though I've sent them mine ? I find that in most cases only the woman is willing to show her private face pic, while the men refuse even though they usually insist on seeing mine ! They can see that I'm not someone who knows them off-site, yet they expect me to play "Blind Date". Any explanations ?

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if we are going to meet a couple we will send a pic of us both if it's just a guy then it's just the wife pic as your not meeting the guy for fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a local couple to us, she is hot but we have no idea what he looks like and quite frankly aren't bothered enough to ask them. Had they had a picture of him we would probably have messaged them.

We know we have more pics of her but I suspect that is like with a lot of couples she is less willing to hold the camera.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I got a profile on here as a Cpl but no longer with her left it there so if I meet some one eles we can jjust open it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with the men of MF couples, that so many of them won't show their face photo even privately, even though I've sent them mine ? I find that in most cases only the woman is willing to show her private face pic, while the men refuse even though they usually insist on seeing mine ! They can see that I'm not someone who knows them off-site, yet they expect me to play "Blind Date". Any explanations ?

if we are going to meet a couple we will send a pic of us both if it's just a guy then it's just the wife pic as your not meeting the guy for fun lol "

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Two points here: 1. If I'm meeting for an MMF threesome, then I'll be playing alongside the man, so naturally I do want to know what he looks like. 2. The woman's face may not be anyone I know from daily life, but how do I know the man isn't someone who knows me ? If he is, well, he will probably already have 'deleted' me, but if not it could be embarrassing to find out only on meeting up !

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"When we set our profile up we were looking for single guys so no need for Clarence to be on here but before meets we send face pics of both of us.

Now we meet couples we are slowly getting more pics of Clarence xx "

Clarence, you shy boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play"

Bollocks! I wouldn't meet someone if they didn't show me their face photo because a) how would I recognise them, by their cock or tits? and b) to be attracted to them I have to be attracted to their face.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"What is it with the men of MF couples, that so many of them won't show their face photo even privately, even though I've sent them mine ? I find that in most cases only the woman is willing to show her private face pic, while the men refuse even though they usually insist on seeing mine ! They can see that I'm not someone who knows them off-site, yet they expect me to play "Blind Date". Any explanations ?

"

We've never had a couple that has refused to provide a face pic of them both.

Though there are a lot of couple profiles with no photos of the man at all.

We want to see what they both look like, so we have photos of us both, and have private face pics.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play

Bollocks! I wouldn't meet someone if they didn't show me their face photo because a) how would I recognise them, by their cock or tits? and b) to be attracted to them I have to be attracted to their face."

This made me chuckle. ..

Had visions of having to ask them to strip off ad soon as you meet to check they match their photos

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

In our case it's because I play hubby don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play

Bollocks! I wouldn't meet someone if they didn't show me their face photo because a) how would I recognise them, by their cock or tits? and b) to be attracted to them I have to be attracted to their face.

This made me chuckle. ..

Had visions of having to ask them to strip off ad soon as you meet to check they match their photos "

What, just comparing cocks to their photos? Checking for moles and piercings?

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

Tbh I do not care of the male partner at all

However I think that the male needs to play with other girls pics of him in the profile are required. I think it is a pretty basic thing

PS: sorry for the extensive use of emoticons but I discovered a lot of them yesterday and I am still happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seldom send face pics as there are too many picture collectors out there.

If you want to make a collection to wank over fair enough if you want to meet real people to play with you don't need a photo.

We are not here to meet a lifelong mate just here to meet and play

Bollocks! I wouldn't meet someone if they didn't show me their face photo because a) how would I recognise them, by their cock or tits? and b) to be attracted to them I have to be attracted to their face."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have pics of both on show , we send a face pic of us together if we get to a meeting stage,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't hide just no now ask's to see there picks so don't bother putting them on !

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I totally agree with 'peach'.

If we are chatting with a couple then it's both parties we are interested in. As great as some pictures can be its of no use to us if we don't see both.

Another annoyance is when people send pics with 'automatic delete' once seen. That's no good when we are at work. Means one of us doesn't get to see.

Grrrrrrr

Mrs x"

This proves the point possible picture collector now no longer on site

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By *i mandzCouple
over a year ago

luton

Why lie.....we both large and ugly.....rather than be turned away or waist someone time....we do show....

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We don't have any pics of John on his own as we are only looking to meet straight guys but will send face pics of us both if arranging a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with the men of MF couples, that so many of them won't show their face photo even privately, even though I've sent them mine ? I find that in most cases only the woman is willing to show her private face pic, while the men refuse even though they usually insist on seeing mine ! They can see that I'm not someone who knows them off-site, yet they expect me to play "Blind Date". Any explanations ?

"

If you don't like it block and move on to the next

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