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What turns you 'off' a lady...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me it can be a fair few things..but a top few are

Arrogance

Laziness

When trying to be sexy is cringey

Rushing...

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Bad hygiene and ignorence towards stds and safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...

-Courtney"

Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who believes in her own publicity and allows herself to get carried away simply by the amount of attention she gets on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for ladies but if I was any hint of a diva like attitude would be a major turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...

-Courtney

Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews..."

For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about asking to see you rather than waiting to be be asked if they can see you? Messaging too much, telling someone you like them, freaking out if you don't message back for ages!

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Women with body issues and moaning about being fat

(I have body issues and moan about being fat but NOT when arranging or during meets)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who believes in her own publicity and allows herself to get carried away simply by the amount of attention she gets on this site "

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Ranting profiles...mostly directed at single men.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Jealousy

Neediness

Wanting exclusivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial hair...smelly pits...and bits ewww!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facial hair...smelly pits...and bits ewww!!! "

Pfftt. Picky picky.

-Courtney

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Thinking they're a princess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dental plaque

Poor diet or poor feminine hygiene causing a no go zone downstairs

Huge bush

Diva behaviour

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales


"Facial hair...smelly pits...and bits ewww!!! "

..are we still talking women here?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "why haven't you messaged me" ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who believes in her own publicity and allows herself to get carried away simply by the amount of attention she gets on this site "

Which has been the downfall of many in the end I would imagine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they are arrogant or when they lead you on and mess with your head.

Saying that guys are just as bad for that.

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By *rab74Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Smoking. Compromised on that once, not again.

Being over-judgemental, especially if they haven't got anything much to shout about. Double and treble if they manage racism, sexism or homophobia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facial hair...smelly pits...and bits ewww!!!

..are we still talking women here?..."

Shockingly, yes!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facial hair...smelly pits...and bits ewww!!!

Pfftt. Picky picky.

-Courtney"

Lol I know, can't beat a woman with a beard, right?! Phwoar!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad hygiene and ignorence towards stds and safe sex."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

inane Facebook type status updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the attention seekers usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Princess attitude, sexually lazy, lack of confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Princess attitude, sexually lazy, lack of confidence. "

Yes 100% this !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I notice about people are their teeth, other things put me off but initially bad oral hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chipped nail varnish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Princess attitude, sexually lazy, lack of confidence. "
yes just this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking they're a princess."

I am!

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Demanding that meet fits category that should be stripping on stage yet in pics looks like bag a spanners. No picture myself but don't expect to meet play boy bunny ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual laziness. Unhygienic. Sun shines out their arse attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking they're a princess.

I am! "

Me too, a slutty princess

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"The "why haven't you messaged me" ones "

But you haven't!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Chipped nail varnish "

Yikes..where's my polish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who believes in her own publicity and allows herself to get carried away simply by the amount of attention she gets on this site "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Smoking. Compromised on that once, not again.

Being over-judgemental, especially if they haven't got anything much to shout about."

Sounds just like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking for ladies but if I was any hint of a diva like attitude would be a major turn off for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...

-Courtney

Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews...

For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly. "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long curly teeth

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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Poor hygiene, too much body hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hairy arse

Pencil eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile."

I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first thing I notice about people are their teeth, "

They don't have to be perfect but I do like nice smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Princess attitude, sexually lazy, lack of confidence. "

In addition to the obvious suggestions, yes, this!!! Women who just 'lie there' are so frustrating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad manners, no sense of humour, arrogant or a diva...no thank you

-- Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile.

I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly!"

Many are very prickly. It can be a nightmare chatting to cpls and the few single females on the site. Friendly and open to fun is the way to go x

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

Hygiene top of the list. Lank hair is a give away.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I don't know about single women, but what puts us off women in couples is arrogance. I can't stand it. But that goes for anyone, really...

-Courtney

Arrogance can be sexy but it has to played right...some people fudge it up and end up being proper meldrews...

For me, confidence is sexy. Arrogance is ugly. "

We have to agree, Courtney.

We also find that smoking is the largest turnoff at a meet. The other stuff we can gauge before the meet in normal contact. If someone comes across as pushy, we stop contact. Arrogance can be spotted a mile off, almost at initial contact, so not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally and talking purely physically, pubic hair that isn't at least trimmed. I know its a matter of taste, but i ccan't stand an untamed bush.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Delusional regarding their real world level of attractiveness, and allowing this to create a Fab monster, spewing demands and lists in place of a welcoming profile.

I agree..I like nice profiles. Ok have rules but some women come across as very prickly!

Many are very prickly. It can be a nightmare chatting to cpls and the few single females on the site. Friendly and open to fun is the way to go x"

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

Oh dear this is starting to feel like a misogyny thread, surely most of these complaints are just as valid for men. Let's celebrate the turn ons and focus on the positive. We're all gorgeous and lovely to someone. X

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Attitude and laziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chipped nail varnish "
ha this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear this is starting to feel like a misogyny thread, surely most of these complaints are just as valid for men. Let's celebrate the turn ons and focus on the positive. We're all gorgeous and lovely to someone. X"

I agree. Certainly my complaint is equally aimed at men, and i always try to provide what I would like to receive lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crudity.

Yeah, we all know why we're here, but still...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad dental hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chipped nail varnish "

I thought it was only me. Thank God. It literally makes me want to vomit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off by:-

Women who assume all men want her...

Arrogance (As said by many - see above)

Aggression (Too far for me, men are aggressive not women)

Women who assume too much..Like ONLY a man like this or that is good enough for me. So they also reject out of hand guys (Or girls) who would make them very happy if they just took the blinkers off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chipped nail varnish

I thought it was only me. Thank God. It literally makes me want to vomit. "
I wouldn't go that far! Ha but it doesn't look good for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chipped nail varnish

I thought it was only me. Thank God. It literally makes me want to vomit. I wouldn't go that far! Ha but it doesn't look good for a meet "

I had a horrible aunt and she always used to have Chipped red nail varnish. I think that's what's done it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needyness for me *shiver*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgemental people somepeople have medical problems , if someone is attractive and a turn on yet they no have perfect smile dont kiss them lol , but seriously if it a one sided meet and awkward atmosphere then that big no , just be your self if it aint enough move on

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By *lways_horny444Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Body hang ups. If its a problem why are you meeting strangers for sex.

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