FabSwingers.com: Graham (50) , Man in Huntingdon, East Midlands, UK

A bit about me. Medium height, reasonably in shape, shoulder length shaggy hair, non-smoker. That's the basics.

What am I into? The key element is D/s and kink generally - not necessarily heavy bondage and all that, but there's always likely to be spanking and some loss of control for you, in ways we both enjoy.

Discussion of what is and isn't enjoyable is important there. Safe, sane, consensual - with the caveats that my definition of "sane" is pretty loose and "consensual" can include CNC, but I don't compromise on "safe". I have few limits myself, and I'm certainly not on the fluffy-handcuffs 50-shades end of things, but I do want to make sure it's good for both of us. I've got a reasonable collection of hitty things, rope and restraints, and I'm open to whatever anyone wants to try, but a simple sexy spanking can be just as satisfying. Whether I play hard or sensuous (or both!) entirely depends on what feels right for us both at that time.

I'm happy to join another guy in playing with a girl. Double dom sessions are very hot! But I'm afraid I'm not even slightly bi so I won't be doing anything with a guy.

I do have a partner, and we're happily open about playing with other people, especially for types of play which aren't exactly in the other's wheelhouse. (Yes, I'd actively encourage you to chat to her so we're all on the same page.) We'd consider both playing together too if that works.

Any more questions you want to ask me, feel free to sling me a message.

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