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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

I didn't know what one of these was (although it turns out I had actually seen them being used in porn videos)...it looks as if they can be hugely stimulating for women (perhaps even men too)...I'd love to use one on a woman as part of the play. Any thoughts/experience of using a wand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs half loves hers, best thing she ever brought her other toys soon got put to the bottom of her play box,with the wand always on the top within easy reach.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Mrs half loves hers, best thing she ever brought her other toys soon got put to the bottom of her play box,with the wand always on the top within easy reach. "

I've actually just purchased one with a view to trying it out on willing 'subjects'...lol

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By *rab74Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

My ex got one, and it immediately became her favourite toy!

Do learn how to use it yourself though. If (like me) you enjoy sexual torture through making her cum too much and getting so sensitive she's begging you to stop, then a wand is exactly the tool for the job. Keeping it solidly on her clit takes a little practise though.

The main problem is hygiene. Much better to get a fully waterproof one. The more basic ones can be harder to keep clean - hers even had grooves in the head, which of course just accumulated juices and were damn near impossible to clean out, and you don't want a mains item in the sink if it's not fully sealed. Plus if she squirts then you need to be careful it's out of the line of fire. :/

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover."

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol! "

I have the LH mini wand too. That's better but still nowhere near as good as my egg.

The trouble with the egg is that it's difficult for a man to keep it on the right spot, and if I wriggle, it's difficult even for me to do it.

I do need that fairly specific focus though, which is a problem I haven't yet found a good solution for.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol! "

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have one great for both of us. Sexy used one on a man at a party and you could hear him making noise in a good way from two rooms away.

Always go for the mains powered one if you can.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"We have one great for both of us. Sexy used one on a man at a party and you could hear him making noise in a good way from two rooms away.

Always go for the mains powered one if you can. "

I remember you talking about that before...when I had to ask what a 'wand' was....lol

Damn though, I've gone ahead and ordered a mains rechargeable one as I thought it might be more practical...fingers crossed its just as good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not long received mine (lovehoney) and it's still in the box!- looks like something he should put in the garage with all the other tools.. it's not appealing to the eyes

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I have the LH mini wand too. That's better but still nowhere near as good as my egg.

The trouble with the egg is that it's difficult for a man to keep it on the right spot, and if I wriggle, it's difficult even for me to do it.

I do need that fairly specific focus though, which is a problem I haven't yet found a good solution for."

I haven't seen the egg. Will have a look...

Have you tried the Ann summers rabbit ears? They're really good but again you have to do your best to keep them on your clit which can prove difficult if having sex at the same time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not long received mine (lovehoney) and it's still in the box!- looks like something he should put in the garage with all the other tools.. it's not appealing to the eyes "

Pretty weighty things you could probably take down a burglar with one!!

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By *ammieandalex12Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Although a little expensive, if you love the wands the lelo ones are pretty great. I brought myself the medium one ,as it was smaller and easier to handle but they do a larger version ,and I have to say I you like your toys powerful then that's the one !:p they have loads of settings ,and are cometlely waterproof and easy to clean, and is rechargeable so does not need to be plugged in constantsly .I love mine and would definately recommend one!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol "

It may be worth looking at attachments that allow the vibrations to be directed in a more focused manner, or internally, or in other ways. That will make it more versatile if you're with a partner that has the same issue with it that I do.

Also, consider the cleaning and sterilising aspect. I don't think I'd be keen on a wand that had been used on someone else being used on me, unless I was absolutely confident it had been thoroughly, effectively cleaned and sterilised.

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol "

Lovehoney allow returns.... Maybe Bondara do?

I found this out too late after buying a wi-vibe that cost a bloody fortune and does nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not long received mine (lovehoney) and it's still in the box!- looks like something he should put in the garage with all the other tools.. it's not appealing to the eyes

Pretty weighty things you could probably take down a burglar with one!! "

'A'burglar? Reckon I could wipe out 3 or 4

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol

Lovehoney allow returns.... Maybe Bondara do?

I found this out too late after buying a wi-vibe that cost a bloody fortune and does nothing. "

That's interesting...actually I was only joking about the idea of returning an item like a wand once used...I do hope they don't resell such items... ..lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I haven't seen the egg. Will have a look...

Have you tried the Ann summers rabbit ears? They're really good but again you have to do your best to keep them on your clit which can prove difficult if having sex at the same time.."

I'm not a fan of rabbits.

Search for Ez-pleaser for the egg. Though the last one I bought, (From Amazon this time. I'm on my 6th now, in about 15 years!), was a bit different to the previous ones and seemed a bit more cheaply made.

It does the job but I have a feeling I may be looking for a replacement sooner than I would like).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol

Lovehoney allow returns.... Maybe Bondara do?

I found this out too late after buying a wi-vibe that cost a bloody fortune and does nothing. "

It wasn't a Wi-vibe II was it? I have one here I've had for ages and haven't tried yet.

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol

Lovehoney allow returns.... Maybe Bondara do?

I found this out too late after buying a wi-vibe that cost a bloody fortune and does nothing.

That's interesting...actually I was only joking about the idea of returning an item like a wand once used...I do hope they don't resell such items... ..lol "

Well... You never know. Hopefully not. Lol!

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I haven't seen the egg. Will have a look...

Have you tried the Ann summers rabbit ears? They're really good but again you have to do your best to keep them on your clit which can prove difficult if having sex at the same time..

I'm not a fan of rabbits.

Search for Ez-pleaser for the egg. Though the last one I bought, (From Amazon this time. I'm on my 6th now, in about 15 years!), was a bit different to the previous ones and seemed a bit more cheaply made.

It does the job but I have a feeling I may be looking for a replacement sooner than I would like)."

I've just had a look. At that price, its worth me getting one to try. How noisy are they? I'd imagine quieter than the wand. Lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I haven't seen the egg. Will have a look...

Have you tried the Ann summers rabbit ears? They're really good but again you have to do your best to keep them on your clit which can prove difficult if having sex at the same time..

I'm not a fan of rabbits.

Search for Ez-pleaser for the egg. Though the last one I bought, (From Amazon this time. I'm on my 6th now, in about 15 years!), was a bit different to the previous ones and seemed a bit more cheaply made.

It does the job but I have a feeling I may be looking for a replacement sooner than I would like).

I've just had a look. At that price, its worth me getting one to try. How noisy are they? I'd imagine quieter than the wand. Lol!"

Yes, quieter than a wand

Not silent but not horrendously noisy. It depends on the speed you have it on.

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've got one, (the Lovehoney one), and I don't like it at all. The head is too large and the vibrations are spread over too great an area. I need more focused vibrations directly on my clit.

I might have more luck with some of the attachments but I'm loathe to spend more money on it.

The most effective vibrator I have is a small multi-speed egg with a jelly like cover.

Mines from lovehoney too and I don't like it for the same reason. The area it vibrates is far too big. It confuses the hell out of me! Lol!

I've ordered one from Bondara...I do hope it is better than the lovehoney one you both mention...perhaps, once tested out, if its no good, they'll allow me to return it...lol

Lovehoney allow returns.... Maybe Bondara do?

I found this out too late after buying a wi-vibe that cost a bloody fortune and does nothing.

It wasn't a Wi-vibe II was it? I have one here I've had for ages and haven't tried yet."

Yes and it was about £90. If I concentrated hard enough, I could "just" get an orgasm from it. But having it in with a man in too, I couldn't feel the vibration.

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I haven't seen the egg. Will have a look...

Have you tried the Ann summers rabbit ears? They're really good but again you have to do your best to keep them on your clit which can prove difficult if having sex at the same time..

I'm not a fan of rabbits.

Search for Ez-pleaser for the egg. Though the last one I bought, (From Amazon this time. I'm on my 6th now, in about 15 years!), was a bit different to the previous ones and seemed a bit more cheaply made.

It does the job but I have a feeling I may be looking for a replacement sooner than I would like).

I've just had a look. At that price, its worth me getting one to try. How noisy are they? I'd imagine quieter than the wand. Lol!

Yes, quieter than a wand

Not silent but not horrendously noisy. It depends on the speed you have it on."

Ah... That's a relief! I think the noise itself puts me off too. I can't concentrate on all those kinky thoughts. Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love my Doxy the best £69 i have spent

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down


"Mrs half loves hers, best thing she ever brought her other toys soon got put to the bottom of her play box,with the wand always on the top within easy reach.

I've actually just purchased one with a view to trying it out on willing 'subjects'...lol "

Mmmmm love to be your guinea pig lol

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Mrs half loves hers, best thing she ever brought her other toys soon got put to the bottom of her play box,with the wand always on the top within easy reach.

I've actually just purchased one with a view to trying it out on willing 'subjects'...lol

Mmmmm love to be your guinea pig lol "

Little bit of water in the way sadly...lol

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

Hitachi wand, fantastic vibes really hits the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got the LH plug in one and wasn't that impressed. Although you can remove the plastic head covering to clean it as those grooves are a pain to clean. I'm going to try a doxy as I'm told they're more powerful. The Hitachi was the best one I ever used, but I don't think you can get them anymore.

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