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At what stage will any females or couples allowing single male into their home ?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Just wondering at what stage you think is right to allow single male into your home.

when is the right time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno how anyone can answer that universally..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the guy. However, if we have chatted for a while, we generally set up as social where we then invite the guy back to ours if we like him.

I'm not worried about anything because I have Marc there. Nothing even remotely sketchy has ever happened. Plus, if people are no shows or not who they portrayed themselves to be, then we didn't have to travel at all and waste our time

-Courtney

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Depends. Prefer a social first but if there's been enough chat and spark built up, on occasion I'll invite someone round.

However, late night, tipsy and randy once invited someone round after a very brief flirtation. Came round, had a chat and he turned out to be a homophobic tit, told him "we're done here" and he left.

Luckily

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I would have to have met them many many times and know them very well before I would even let someone know where I live - you hear of too many bad things that happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my meets come straight to my home. I only meet admin verified and I tell my open minded mother details of whom I'm meeting and when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was enough of a spark and we had spoken for a while I would invite someone to my home.

I would go with my gut feeling, how I felt about them from the messages we had exchanged, their profile etc.

If I was meeting someone for a random hook up then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no universal rule. Its all down to what people feel comfortable with and listening to ones instincts.

I always consider it a privilege when a couple invites me to their home. I see it as an expression of trust and I always appreciate the gesture when it is offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the dynamic. With us I am happy to invite a group of men round because I am able to deal with any situation if anything got out of hand. For others it may be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Just wondering at what stage you think is right to allow single male into your home.

when is the right time?"

For me; after meeting him half a dozen times, over 6 months and after having visited his home; then, maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's never. We keep the swinging side of our lives totally seperate to real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's never. We keep the swinging side of our lives totally seperate to real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I don't go to other people's houses either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most my meets come straight to my home. I only meet admin verified and I tell my open minded mother details of whom I'm meeting and when"

What's 'admin verified'?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I've known a couple of guys for years now,If we accommodated I'd be happy to have either of them here for the weekend

Not a chance with random people though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long after they have knocked on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one man that I have known for years. He knows where I live, I know where he lives, we trust each other. He's the only man who comes to my house...ever.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

After on guy we met in a pub for a social, arranged to play at ours, email/text on day asking for address - we sent it - then never heard from again or turned up..

So we were prepped ready and just no show.... His phone not answered etc etc

So sadly he ruined it for all, so never now.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Just wondering at what stage you think is right to allow single male into your home.

when is the right time?"

We would never because our children are around. I did let Mr into my home as a single fem, though, to meet the kids ... somehow it got to that stage, but only I visited first ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me never...... Well not till all the kids have left home and that's not happening for yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After on guy we met in a pub for a social, arranged to play at ours, email/text on day asking for address - we sent it - then never heard from again or turned up..

So we were prepped ready and just no show.... His phone not answered etc etc

So sadly he ruined it for all, so never now."

It's very unsettling when someone goes to that extent and then no reply or show. I tend to give the postcode and street and i have a church landmark next to me, so i say will you call me when you get to the church and give them the door number then. Its a shame to have the cloak and dagger stuff but it saves that awful uncomfortable feeling you are left with when someone goes to the extent of getting your address with no intention of coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly for us... Never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow they would be two very lucky guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what stage you think is right to allow single male into your home.

when is the right time?"

After a social. If I'm going to let him put his willy in me, then honestly I'm not bothered by him seeing my house.

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Never

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We keep our swinging life quite separate from our real life. We have found it is the best way of avoiding complications, stalkers, clingy playmates etc. So the answer would be never for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what stage you think is right to allow single male into your home.

when is the right time?"
When it feels right. We've had many single guys come to our home and never had any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't invite couples or single ladies into our homes either so its not just guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was on here as a single (and i might add in a topsy turvy state of mind) i was foolish and let guys here - now i always and only meet people with him with me - except for single girlmates i know and trust -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionaly women friends from Fab get invited to my house, but all guys will have to wait for a strict year and a day after hell freezes over....

The only men who have been allowed into my bedroom in the past 20 years are the ones who fitted my lovely double-glazed windows - and that's all that they did for me!!!

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