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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? " err to keep in contact with friends you have made and to still engage on the forums and second to stop people like yourself messaging them asking why they are still on the forums and not meeting.. + they can.. + to some of us its actually quite nice, if someone you know and like is having a good time and is happy.. quit your whinging and maybe one day youll have the same status as these people, you are moaning about by the way..i answered this knowing full well all my filters are on. i am meeting, but at the moment it seems my happy demeanor is attractive and i am what others are looking for...  | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? " Back up plan if things don't work out . | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " Then they've served their purpose! We have a similar thing in our profile. We have plenty of friends we've met and keep in touch with. We're still going to clubs. The clue is in the words. They don't want to meet anyone else. It's really not rocket science. A | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? " 1. Because they can be. 2. Because they want to. Glad to have cleared that up for you OP | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " Surly the idea of them is to put you of messaging so guess what it worked! | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? 1. Because they can be. 2. Because they want to. Glad to have cleared that up for you OP "Thank you kindly | |||
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"Think it must be a woman thing " Nope. Just checked. Stephen and the twins are still there! 
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"Think it must be a woman thing " selective, not wishing to understand cos it doesnt suit me ...must be a man thing | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? 1. Because they can be. 2. Because they want to. Glad to have cleared that up for you OP
Thank you kindly "You're extremely welcome... | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? err to keep in contact with friends you have made and to still engage on the forums and second to stop people like yourself messaging them asking why they are still on the forums and not meeting.. + they can.. + to some of us its actually quite nice, if someone you know and like is having a good time and is happy.. quit your whinging and maybe one day youll have the same status as these people, you are moaning about by the way..i answered this knowing full well all my filters are on. i am meeting, but at the moment it seems my happy demeanor is attractive and i am what others are looking for... " | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " That's the idea lol, they want to put people off because they're not looking to meet. How do you not understand this? | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? " If you've made friends on this site there's no reason why you should have to ditch those friends just because your circumstances change. And let me answer your question with another question; Would you prefer it if they didn't display these words, you messaged them and they either didn't reply or replied saying "Actually I've met someone and I'm no longer actively looking for meets"? Them putting that on their profile acually saves time for the both of you. | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " Its good that they do put you off They're meant to | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " Won't matter, they're not meeting anyway | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? " There is no requirement for every post\thread to mean something to everyone There is no requirement for any one person like every post\thread Get over your precious little self and ignore the ones that don't appeal to you | |||
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"1. So why are u still here? 2. Why is it necessary to inform everyone ? There is no requirement for every post\thread to mean something to everyone There is no requirement for any one person like every post\thread Get over your precious little self and ignore the ones that don't appeal to you " Get over my precious little self ??? What ??? | |||
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"What does it matter?? We aren't meeting anyone new at the moment either, does that mean we should disappear as well?" Did u update ur status telling everyone about it? | |||
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"What does it matter?? We aren't meeting anyone new at the moment either, does that mean we should disappear as well? Did u update ur status telling everyone about it? " Not our status but our profile header yes, same thing really just more permanent. Still don't see why it matters though. | |||
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"What does it matter?? We aren't meeting anyone new at the moment either, does that mean we should disappear as well? Did u update ur status telling everyone about it? Not our status but our profile header yes, same thing really just more permanent. Still don't see why it matters though." Like most things in the forum, it's doesn't matter just putting the question out there cause I don't understand it, no offence meant | |||
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"What does it matter?? We aren't meeting anyone new at the moment either, does that mean we should disappear as well? Did u update ur status telling everyone about it? Not our status but our profile header yes, same thing really just more permanent. Still don't see why it matters though. Like most things in the forum, it's doesn't matter just putting the question out there cause I don't understand it, no offence meant " None taken, was just curious myself really as we had posted a similar update. | |||
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"What does it matter?? We aren't meeting anyone new at the moment either, does that mean we should disappear as well? Did u update ur status telling everyone about it? Not our status but our profile header yes, same thing really just more permanent. Still don't see why it matters though. Like most things in the forum, it's doesn't matter just putting the question out there cause I don't understand it, no offence meant None taken, was just curious myself really as we had posted a similar update. "It was not pointed at anyone specific, just generally, I put random updates on so not judging anyone, | |||
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"Why did you post this OP? "Touché Cause I was curious Why do u ask ? | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " Dont read them then. I think its ok to do this, lets people know that you still want to chat, probably someone else has already said this but I didnt read further down | |||
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"Why did you post this OP?
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Cause I was curious
Why do u ask ? "Because A) I can B) you can and C) they can | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, " when you wrote that.... was it the "little brain" or the "big brain" you were thinking with...... and in a way there you have your answer...  | |||
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"So why say anything? These updates put me right off, when you wrote that.... was it the "little brain" or the "big brain" you were thinking with...... and in a way there you have your answer... "It was my 'I'm bored ' brain Don't misunderstand me, people are free to put what they want, and no one has any reason to judge, I've just seen it so many times now, I just wondered why, cause if I was in that situation I'd just hide my profile and be done with it. | |||
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