FabSwingers.com forum: timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi, its a shame we cant name and shame timewasters,!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe after looking at you profile that anyone would let you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We hav'nt been let down on a meet ,its all the bullshitters on here that waste time talking,we dont just want to meet verified but we find that we have to ,just so we know the meet will be sound... thanks for the compliment your look good too

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

The site does'nt have a name and shame policy as it just be abused, and I can see why it would,I have seen name and shame sites and they're just full of people slagging others off

How would you suggest a name and shame facility be monitored?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I cannot imagine why anyone would not turn up to see you, you look just amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

your profile explains your forum comments

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Whose profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple way of naming certain types of timewasters would be being able to post peoples messages to you (minus any personal details obviously) which could then be compared to their profiles So people who say one thing on their profile and another in a message could be exposed that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ok so what do you class as a timewaster as people have different thoughts about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your profile explains your forum comments"

and your profile explains why u get timewasted lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naming and shaming is a pointless exercise and open to far too much abuse.

Shit happens. Rough with the smooth and all that.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"your profile explains your forum comments

and your profile explains why u get timewasted lmao "

I wanted to say that Kitty......

Blast, beaten to it by a chav!

ppppffffftttttt

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"your profile explains your forum comments"

And your profile explains why you will have people pull out of meeting you.

Look, at the end of the day, everyone (regardless of what they say), will have their own preferences.

Maybe (and this isn't a dig at barebackers) you've been talking to one half of the couple, and when the other half looks at your profiles, realises that they are NOT prepared to go bareback. Rather than explain this to you, they just back off.

No one has the right to any explaination of the other party chooses not to give it. Yes it would be polite, but life isn't like that.

Maybe some people pull back when they see photo's of BOTH of couple, maybe some people pull back because it just doesn't seem right, or they realise they are perhaps a bit too far away, or because of something another person may have inadvertantly said in a message. Or maybe they just pull back because they've got cold feet.

If you haven't been let down for a meet, I actually can't see what you are complaining about. At least you haven't had the time wasted by cleaning the house, arranging a babysitter, spending money on booze and food and then waiting, and waiting, and waiting ... for a no show.

From reading your profile, I would say that your preferences means that you loose the interest of a lot of couples from the word go. Your other 'rules' mean that you will lose another load and your insistance of pictures of both on a profile (when you only have Mrs showing strangely enough), means you will loose another percentage.

Your profile will only appeal to a certain (smallish) percentage of people on here. Therefore, by the ratio of probabilities, you will get many many many timewasters contacting you because they either can't or won't read or because they just want to wind you up or think they can go ahead, when really they can't.

Get over it. It's an adult sex site, crap happens all the time.

If you really want a system of name and shame then speak to Admin, let them introduce it and I'll name and shame you as people who don't turn up, even though we will never even talk. And I would do that because you have made a personal and childish remark (on this thread) to someone I consider a friend.

See........... open to abuse before it even gets to the discussion stage.

Can you now see why no name and shame policy will ever work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with that _adchick.

What i will say though is since we have been more upfront about our preferances,

and written it in bold on our profile.

We have had a lot more mail off interested couples than we used to have

And even we find that suprising x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

init mad u tell them ffs, honeypot is my bitch so no stupid comments to her taaaaaaaaaa lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"init mad u tell them ffs, honeypot is my bitch so no stupid comments to her taaaaaaaaaa lol"

LMAO xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"init mad u tell them ffs, honeypot is my bitch so no stupid comments to her taaaaaaaaaa lol"

Aaawww Kitty.....

It is soooooo good to have you back my little Pussy Chavlete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only bareback? No No and No again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only bareback? No No and No again xx"

And we respect your right to think that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree this site is to have fun and lots of it x which at the present moment in time im not getting as people who have my address and number agree to meet but dont bother turning up or even informing me that they have to cancel.

IF YOU MAKE A DATE THEN BLOODY STICK TO IT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its always nice to see people getting on..lol xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

And shows what the thought of a name and shame section means to people

It would be open to so much abuse and vindictive people to run amok on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you know something i think your right

its not worth the hassle!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"you know something i think your right

I must be, as I am female

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report them instead, they may get caught out.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh, story of my life, it looks like I am talking to myself again now ;-P

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

opps.. thank god the edit button now ... so try again lol . . .

On here would say that timewasters = those guys pretending to be couples who when asked to have either a (i) chat on cam in Fab Chat, (ii) an MSN chat - or - (iii) phone call with all 4 present to prove they are gen... they are the time wasters !!

We would love to name & shame at least half a dozen of those here now - but do agree that such could be open to abuse [no doubt by those same fakes who cant get meets bcoz they're not gen]

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By *imStaffsMan
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Surely instead of naming and shaming just block em, then they never bother you again.

Whenever I meet any genuine people even if it's for a coffee I always verify them and they always verify me. Which is why I get plenty of meets.

The worst type of people on here are the ones that never bother replying to your message...How long does it take to say " Thanks but no thanks"... Moan over, happy swinging....Actually the real worst people on here are single guys who advertise on the events list when their interpretation of an event is actually a 1 to 1 at theirs...Guys, just be honest, go on the meet today page instead...Taking soem stranger to a porn cinema is not an event...

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"Surely instead of naming and shaming just block em, then they never bother you again.

It is about then letting others know to avoid those knob heads..

Have just looked at the profile of such a twat we were chatting to on Sun morning - who thos still has the profile of a couple ... the words are clearly of a lone male [of course have posted a report to the management]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking people's email doesn't stop them from messing some one else around.

It's so annoying to arrange a meet and then to turn up and for no one to be there. I'm a single guy, so people looking to play are a bit like rocking horse shite. It's very frustrating to find that some of the needles in this haystack are not realy needles at all!

Still, this site seems much better than all of the others which i have tried before..................

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"Have just looked at the profile of such a twat we were chatting to on Sun morning - who thos still has the profile of a couple ... the words are clearly of a lone male [of course have posted a report to the management]"

ffs ... the management were quick.. within 15min his profile has been changed from MFCouple to Male

Thank you guys

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Oh, story of my life, it looks like I am talking to myself again now ;-P"

thats it i am naming and shaming you ...talking to yourself is so bad ....!!!

i used to dso that ..but got to the point where i ignored myself as well ..in fact i may well block and ban myself in a futile gesture ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a name and shame site????

Where lol... are we on it yet??

Never even knew they were around lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... googled it.. yahoo'd it bugger all lol...

Ahh who cares anyway...... pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the name and shame site was soooooo funny, i read it while eating frosties made me laffffffffffff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohh ff's pm me the details then lol.... need a laugh xx

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

dont know what all the fuss is about,weve had 1 no show ,but if wed had loads me n andy have plenty of things to do together.wouldnt have a hissy fit just cos i didnt get to play .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx"

Its early lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a no show but had plenty of me email me askingme to meet in a random place give him a blow job and the go home.

as if anyone would

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

pmsl

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By *peedypeteMan
over a year ago

derby

No shows if they are coming to your hoem maybe are annoying but not the end of the world. I have been on sites abotu 7 years, no one used to "no show." Lots of folks on now just liek the thoughts of a meet but never actually intend to follow through.

I,ve had couples agree to meet and date settled and room booked, only for them not to show, cancel or even leave phone on to check. Even yestreday I drove 2hrs and was almost at my destination, text to say will be with u soon and got a reply, saying "we can't make it."

So I drove a 4hr round trip and and paid £50 for a private nurse to look after my ailing mother, so I could ahve a break. Does this constitute a timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would have texted or phoned before I had even left the house just to make sure the meet was still on,its unfair and frustrating....if we had made that much effort to meet and been let down then we would have been a tad miffed to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha try this one for size.....arranged a meet at mine with a very sexy guy one evening. He never mailed or text to confirm he was still coming so i called in a FB to while away the afternoon and planned an early night.

Lovely afternoon spent and as my FB left..opened the door......and there stood my evening meet.....God I nearly died

Texting first is a good thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

downright cheek asking for others to have pics of them BOTH on when they only have fem pics on theirs !!

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

maybe u should have the male on your profile as you request a pic of both parties on peoples profiles, also bareback is your choice but we defo wouldnt do bareback (we dont fully swap cum to think of it anyway lol!!) and if someone couldnt spare the time to have a social drink and get to know a bit about me first then i sure as hell wouldnt be getting my pants off for them either!!

just my wee tuppance worth lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your all timewasters who wrote on this thread, now stop moaning and go to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your all timewasters who wrote on this thread, now stop moaning and go to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why u bloody changed ur name, u not fussy no more lol any thinnnnnnnnng will do hahahah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why u bloody changed ur name, u not fussy no more lol any thinnnnnnnnng will do hahahah xx

lmao no still fussy babes.....cept when it comes to chav lurve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"maybe u should have the male on your profile as you request a pic of both parties on peoples profiles, also bareback is your choice but we defo wouldnt do bareback (we dont fully swap cum to think of it anyway lol!!) and if someone couldnt spare the time to have a social drink and get to know a bit about me first then i sure as hell wouldnt be getting my pants off for them either!!

just my wee tuppance worth lol!!

hi, cant remember asking you to meet..lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx"

Smuggness is a really unattractive quality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx

Smuggness is a really unattractive quality."

if i remember it was us who started this thread,and my point was that just because we've not had a no show ,does'nt mean we dont get timewaster's ,we all come across them in one sharpe or form,a bit like when people get personal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"downright cheek asking for others to have pics of them BOTH on when they only have fem pics on theirs !!

there in the private gallery mate,and thats all we ask of others,

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

i didnt say you did, did i?????? i said if someone, not you!!

god some people are so far up their own arses!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i didnt say you did, did i?????? i said if someone, not you!!

god some people are so far up their own arses!

ya , are'nt they just ...lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx

Smuggness is a really unattractive quality.

A timewaster is generally construde as a person or couple who does not turn up for a meet.

Not someone who has decided that they don't want to talk to you anymore.

Your..."we've never had a no show" comment, written slap bang in the middle of peoples stories about real timewasters, smacked of smugness.

One day you will find out what a real timewaster feels like.

Maybe you won't come across so smug at that time.

You may think I'm being personal but it's constructive critisism about the way you have written something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hi,just like to say we've never had a no show, xxx

Smuggness is a really unattractive quality.

A timewaster is generally construde as a person or couple who does not turn up for a meet.

Not someone who has decided that they don't want to talk to you anymore.

Your..."we've never had a no show" comment, written slap bang in the middle of peoples stories about real timewasters, smacked of smugness.

One day you will find out what a real timewaster feels like.

Maybe you won't come across so smug at that time.

You may think I'm being personal but it's constructive critisism about the way you have written something."

so what part of that message is'nt personal,

why not put your own thread on instead ,because you always have so much to say,

bully comes to mind!!

but im sure your not ! maybe you feel you have to target people who disagree with you, smug we are not !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

This thread seems to have run it's course now.

Thread shut

R xx

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