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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"

Looks like you need better 'vetting' processes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not allowed to name and shame but word of mouth is good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is alot in 3 weeks ... what on earth going on .

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"

would be interesting to know if the other 15 have actually agreed to meet or you have just offered your services

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

search name and shame in the forum search and you will see many threads all stating why name and shame wont work

but i have to agree with Jez, maybe you need to look at your vetting process cos 15 is a ridiculously high number of let downs

i've been here over a year and think i have had 2 tops

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"

You have just named and shamed yourself by saying "I have arranged and then let down 15 times" - You bad bad man!

Or is that not what you really meant to say?

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

Did they give you notice? if so, how long?

or did they just not turn up or were they out when you called round?

Different classes of "letting down", some acceptable, some not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 potential meets in 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like you need better 'vetting' processes "

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Or he is doing something to put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"15 potential meets in 3 weeks "

15 in 30 years for me

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

interesting that the OP has only been on the site a week but has arranged asnd been let down 15 times in 3 weeks. Now I am no Mathematician but something doesn't quite add up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am experinced been on the circuit for 10 years. I know the difference between arranging and offering x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been swinging three years and not had a no show yet!

If you've arranged 15 meets in three weeks you're obviously not building up any rapport: are these all meet today?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesting that the OP has only been on the site a week but has arranged asnd been let down 15 times in 3 weeks. Now I am no Mathematician but something doesn't quite add up "
your so on the ball ,, lol xx He could be on 10 sites a stud xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falkirk here I come!! Swinging Capital of the world

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing


"I am experinced been on the circuit for 10 years. I know the difference between arranging and offering x"

It would be interesting to get an answer to my specific questions, otherwise it looks like you are evading the issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on and off the circuit for about 10 years. I do build rapport and I am not the one making the first move in some circumstances. The ammount of meets I make is irelevant and is really my business and my sex life. The problem I seem to face and its only on this site is that there is alot of arranging that goes on, time, date, venue and exchange of numbers and then either they no show or just block you. I am very genuine and I left the site for a while and rejoined as I have moved to Scotland and need company lol. I do feel very disheartened at the moment though. I think woman have more look than men and I have been a couple on here and was not once let down. This post was to find your opinions not voice yours on me as an individual xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off the circuit for about 10 years. I do build rapport and I am not the one making the first move in some circumstances. The ammount of meets I make is irelevant and is really my business and my sex life. The problem I seem to face and its only on this site is that there is alot of arranging that goes on, time, date, venue and exchange of numbers and then either they no show or just block you. I am very genuine and I left the site for a while and rejoined as I have moved to Scotland and need company lol. I do feel very disheartened at the moment though. I think woman have more look than men and I have been a couple on here and was not once let down. This post was to find your opinions not voice yours on me as an individual xxx"

Sorry but im confused, am i to understand that in 3 weeks running youve arranged 15 meets on THIS site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its not everyones way but perhaps you could look at your vetting process as the impression you give is that any hole is a goal, not sexy, well not to me hun xx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

It is hard to give anything other than what has already been said on here when it does state on your profile you have been here a week but you have said 15 letdowns in 3 weeks!

It would have had to be a very small break in between for what you stated in your OP to be accurate!

Just my take on things though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked, we answered!

If you didn't want our opinion why ask?!!

15 no shows in three weeks is a lot: most don't meet 15 times a year so to get that many no shows...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I could'nt cope with trying to arrange that many meets in such a short space of time

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I could'nt cope with trying to arrange that many meets in such a short space of time

"

Want to share my secretary?? He's a hottie and very well trained

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I could'nt cope with trying to arrange that many meets in such a short space of time

Want to share my secretary?? He's a hottie and very well trained "

Yes...yes yes yes YES!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

recap, 15 let downs in 3 weeks and only this site. yet you only been a member 1 week.

or did i get something wrong.........again

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

A 10 year veteran, with moves so smooth that a meet per day can be arranged, suddenly gets 15 no shows in 3 weeks.

Meanwhile on other threads he advertises for new contacts.

*shrugs* maybe we're all just jealous

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-Edited 11/10/10 23:43:25

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

its about time we were allowed to name and shame ive had wait for message all night when will some of us wake up a lot peeps taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recap, 15 let downs in 3 weeks and only this site. yet you only been a member 1 week.

or did i get something wrong.........again"

Yes you forgot to suspend reality

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

@ OP... Apart from the 15 letdowns in three weeks, compressed into one week on FAB the other thing that doesn't make sense is why with TEN YEARS experience you're allowing yourself to be sucked in and spat out by what you are suggesting are dick-heads and or this particular website! Your post just doesn't add up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 10 year veteran, with moves so smooth that a meet per day can be arranged, suddenly gets 15 no shows in 3 weeks.

Meanwhile on other threads he advertises for new contacts.

*shrugs* maybe we're all just jealous

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-Edited 11/10/10 23:43:25"

A 10 year veteran and STILL only 27!

Yep, you're jealous!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Who are you trying to meet?

Because although your profile says straight, you are looking for TV/CD and there is a very prominent picture of a man with a dildo up his arse wearing stockings......... is that you?

You also have a wedding ring blocked out in your last picture, and it looks like your hand.

I would say, IF you have arranged 15 meets in 3 weeks (??), they ain't all with single women and couples.

I think this is either a wind up or your profile is not honest, and maybe, people are winding you up for the fun of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we came across members that did that to us we would be [sorry backing out] would be enough. 15 times crazy..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be fair the 10 years experience has been gained in 5 years according to the ops profile......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could'nt cope with trying to arrange that many meets in such a short space of time

Want to share my secretary?? He's a hottie and very well trained "

If only she said nice things like that about me to my face...

But Im only 5' 6... And we never see eye to eye...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"

as we all keep on saying, the common aspect in all of this is you.... so If i had 15 let downs in 3 weeks I'd look at the way I did my due diligence and vetting process...

oh, and before you say anything about experience... been swinging for best part of 6 years and let downs I have had can be counted on 1 hand.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been let down tons but who gives a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on site 1 week ? 15 let downs in 3 weeks ? ...you a timelord ? .............just a thought

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

arent you lucky man let him have his say had of these fakers and dreamers we need some were to report these fakers of course tws its about time we cleaned up and cleared them out
"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x

as we all keep on saying, the common aspect in all of this is you.... so If i had 15 let downs in 3 weeks I'd look at the way I did my due diligence and vetting process...

oh, and before you say anything about experience... been swinging for best part of 6 years and let downs I have had can be counted on 1 hand....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been let down tons but who gives a shit "

It would appear that one of your neighbours does...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"on site 1 week ? 15 let downs in 3 weeks ? ...you a timelord ? .............just a thought "

I love being a timelord

Not counting people changing their minds or plans or offering to re-arrange (but kindly informing me) - number of times I've been let down averages once a year - last time being in January... and I've only been doing this 5 years.

Now, as a bit of a mathematician how many "3weeks" can you fit in a week? ("Carol Vordermans at the ready... pencils down!")

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

hey when sit in all night waiting for and nothing happens do i give a shit no but why should we put up with it weve all been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been let down tons but who gives a shit

It would appear that one of your neighbours does..."

that went over my head

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"hey when sit in all night waiting for and nothing happens do i give a shit no but why should we put up with it weve all been there "

chill out man,naming and shaming will never be allowed on this site so no need to get so stressed about it,if it upsets you that much then have a different selection process or maybe not swing if its causing you this much grief

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Ive been let down tons but who gives a shit

It would appear that one of your neighbours does...

that went over my head "

I think it's a suggestion that OP has lost the plot and therefore must also inhabit "lost the plot land"

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

all ive got to say your talking to an old timer peeps who waste my time why why why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been let down tons but who gives a shit

It would appear that one of your neighbours does...

that went over my head

I think it's a suggestion that OP has lost the plot and therefore must also inhabit "lost the plot land""

Sharp in dress and mind...

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

15 times in three weeks. Nah, no, just doesn't ring true. Whatever you have, bottle it and make millions!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

why do guys pick on him cant we all face up to it he speaks the truth or does it hurt ???????

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How the hell can you build a rappot with 15 people in three (or one) week. I wouldnt even remember which was which. If im arranging to meet a new contact then its usually around 4 weeks and sometimes much longer before i meet them. 10 years experience, you should of learnt how to arrange a meet by now, does make me laugh when people go on about how long theyve been swinging but still dont get it right.

As for the other guy am i right in thinking your having a hissy cause youve sent messages and sat waiting for replies or did you mean you had arranged meets and they not turn up

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"why do guys pick on him cant we all face up to it he speaks the truth or does it hurt ???????"

who's suggesting "it hurts"??????

I think you'll find two things....

a) other that ya mate, the guys aren't the ones "complaining"....

b) I think it is fair to question the way he goes about it if he has so many "timewasters" in such a short time, since most of us don't seem to have such an extreme problem.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"why do guys pick on him cant we all face up to it he speaks the truth or does it hurt ???????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its about time we were allowed to name and shame ive had wait for message all night when will some of us wake up a lot peeps taking the piss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"on site 1 week ? 15 let downs in 3 weeks ? ...you a timelord ? .............just a thought

I love being a timelord

Not counting people changing their minds or plans or offering to re-arrange (but kindly informing me) - number of times I've been let down averages once a year - last time being in January... and I've only been doing this 5 years.

Now, as a bit of a mathematician how many "3weeks" can you fit in a week? ("Carol Vordermans at the ready... pencils down!")"

all join in ... countdown woman sings this song doo da .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"recap, 15 let downs in 3 weeks and only this site. yet you only been a member 1 week.

or did i get something wrong.........again"

double recap

recap, 15 let downs in 3 weeks and only this site. yet you only been a member 1 week.

or did i get something wrong.........again

30 let downs in 6 weeks 2 weeks on site - maths don't lie.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

maybe one day when it happens to you again see how it feels ???
"why do guys pick on him cant we all face up to it he speaks the truth or does it hurt ???????

who's suggesting "it hurts"??????

I think you'll find two things....

a) other that ya mate, the guys aren't the ones "complaining"....

b) I think it is fair to question the way he goes about it if he has so many "timewasters" in such a short time, since most of us don't seem to have such an extreme problem....."

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

i have been on site 6 months ive had meetings with 6 girls no one has ever let me down because i talk to people over period of time eventually exchange numbers talk some more agree to meet talk some more talk a little bit go for coffee or beer talk a little bit more then maybe meet for more i couldnt imagine getting one reply to a message in a week let alone arranging a meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"15 potential meets in 3 weeks "

Not bad for someone who has only been a member for ONE week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 meets arranged in the Falkirk area of Scotland in 1 week, have all the swingers moved to this normally barren area of swinging ?

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By *icurious40sCouple
over a year ago

kendal

We can all sympathise with those who feel that they have been "let down" or "stood up" for whatever reason.It is just plain rude not to show up and not even to contact the other party beforehand.However the name and shame "remedy" can never be a good solution.We have to agree with posters above that the "foreplay" online needs to be more important and phone contact is essential to prove trust.

For what it's worth!We've never been stood up though.xx M & A

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

It is bad when meets dont show, the least they could do is contact to give a reason why.

Thats why i would never meet anyone i had not previously met at a social, at least then you get chance to meet them, suss them out lol, and see if you click with them also.

Only my opinion, but i do know others will only meet at clubs for this very reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"on site 1 week ? 15 let downs in 3 weeks ? ...you a timelord ? .............just a thought "
.... now thats someting you dont see evenyday

* sits in crypt *

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

15 is indeed a lot... select better !!! as there are great people in Scotland.

Also, you are going to CJ's on Sat night and you will meet fantastic people there as she hosts great parties. Network there and get known.

Also the socials in Scotland are very regular.

15 meets in 3 weeks.. wow.. you may need to speak to the The Priory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x

would be interesting to know if the other 15 have actually agreed to meet or you have just offered your services"

i was thinking the same thinh, i find it very hard to believe that a single guy has had 15 women/couples actually agree to meet him in 3 weeks,

I was more thinking maybe hes been chatting and then been blocked etc to me thats not really worthy of naming and shaming

you can see why they dont allow it tho, can you imagine all the niffed off peope who couldnt get a shag posting peoples names for all kids of stupid reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without reading any of the other responses, in short no you cannot. Whether you like it or not, there are loads of people who are not who they seem and also we are only seeing one side of the story not both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus your profile says you have only been on the site 1 week so have have you been let down by 15 people over a 3 week period?

attention seeker my thinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 10 year veteran, with moves so smooth that a meet per day can be arranged, suddenly gets 15 no shows in 3 weeks.

Meanwhile on other threads he advertises for new contacts.

*shrugs* maybe we're all just jealous

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must admit when i see people moaning about meets on the Forums i always think that really they are looking for meets as opposed to sending messages, i guess they do it, sit back in the armchair drink in one hand, cock in the other and wait for messages to come flooding into their inbox reminds me of the joke stature one can buy of a skeleton sat at a computer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without reading any of the other responses, in short no you cannot. Whether you like it or not, there are loads of people who are not who they seem and also we are only seeing one side of the story not both"

Agreed.

I think there was a perfect example of why naming and shaming shouldn't be allowed on the forums yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus you say you have been swinging 10 years and your only 27?

im going to be honest i find that very hard to believe, i think a 17 year old lad on the swinging scene would be less welcome than a fart in a wet suit

you only have to read the post by young lads saying how hard it is for them to gete meets who are in their early 20s so what chance would a 17 year old have

im sorry but theres something about you over all that just dont add up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down and messed about also...par for the course im afraid..why???

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We've been swinging for a few years - never, ever once been let down - we've had a couple of cancellations and we've had to cancel but that's life! If you can't spot when a single females profile is a guy there's not much hope! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - missed the point there with my post! Name and shame? Yep - really good idea - the OP arranged to meet me last night - didn't turn up - didn't ring or anything. Z

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"lol - missed the point there with my post! Name and shame? Yep - really good idea - the OP arranged to meet me last night - didn't turn up - didn't ring or anything. Z"

Bugger me! You too Zo, did it to us too. Do you know what... at this rate two a day, 14 per week, 42 in 3 weeks!!!! It's getting worse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope foxie who did this post come back and tell us ..... how in one week being on this site have been let down 15 times ...in 3 ... is this from others sites to? But he is saying on here ... its very strange or could be one of them people with more then one profile on here even keep swaping names new profiles .. maybe thats why?

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"I hope foxie who did this post come back and tell us ..... how in one week being on this site have been let down 15 times ...in 3 ... is this from others sites to? But he is saying on here ... its very strange or could be one of them people with more then one profile on here even keep swaping names new profiles .. maybe thats why?"

I think you’ve got it sussed out now… open 15 accounts, get let down by the same person once on all 15 accounts, and if he opened 3 accounts per day for a week then 1 week could look like 3. NOW it all makes sense

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"

I need more info...

1 - how many of the 15 were arranged in the two weeks before you joined? As you have only been here for one week.

2 - How many were arranged as 'instant meets'

3 - How many messages were exchanged to arrange these meets?

4 - How many did you speak to on the phone before agreeing to meet?

5 - How reliable is your maths?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol - missed the point there with my post! Name and shame? Yep - really good idea - the OP arranged to meet me last night - didn't turn up - didn't ring or anything. Z"

Hehe lol how did he get through your "single male filters" to arrange a meet with you lol

What's his secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"on site 1 week ? 15 let downs in 3 weeks ? ...you a timelord ? .............just a thought

I love being a timelord

Not counting people changing their minds or plans or offering to re-arrange (but kindly informing me) - number of times I've been let down averages once a year - last time being in January... and I've only been doing this 5 years.

Now, as a bit of a mathematician how many "3weeks" can you fit in a week? ("Carol Vordermans at the ready... pencils down!")"

Dear Mr Time Lord .. please please send me back in time so I am 19 again with firm tits, no hanging ass but don't wipe my memoir so that I have still all my naughty thoughts ! Tapping my finger nails waiting for zoom back H.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"lol - missed the point there with my post! Name and shame? Yep - really good idea - the OP arranged to meet me last night - didn't turn up - didn't ring or anything. Z

Hehe lol how did he get through your "single male filters" to arrange a meet with you lol

What's his secret?"

Now you’ve just started another theory… ‘circumnavigating filters’ to talk to people who are absolutely not interested… that could lead to a lot of letdowns (especially for an overactive imagination)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hope foxie come back and tell us so we can sort this one out. Never know we may learn somthing. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also want to know if 15 let downs how many overs actually met him?

If my 1 let down from my 20 something meets is anything to go by then with a 20:1 ratio that's 300 meets for him to have arranged lol even if it's 1 in 4 that's still 60 meets!!!! Wow - should I be jelous? He must be out of work - I just couldn't do it let alone drink enough Red Bull

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Or.....he could be dreaming

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"Or.....he could be dreaming "

No its not always about dreaming, many things are possible if you can control time, now I know about these things being that I am in fact a Time Lord myself. This actually makes it possible for me to be the fasted lover on the planet… So here’s my question Jane… did you enjoy it? What you mean I was so bloody fast you didn’t notice!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"maybe one day when it happens to you again see how it feels ??? why do guys pick on him cant we all face up to it he speaks the truth or does it hurt ???????

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well like I said, which you obviously didn't read in the thread, been swinging for 7 years ish now, count the amount of timewasters I've had on one hand.....

so the question of how you end up picking and chosing potential playmates and doing due diligence I think is a very valid one.... cause obviously if you are having the same problem then we are doing things differently....

so care to share an insight with us then? and it is a genuine request.... because people always complain, but never go about sharing how they go about trying to get meets.....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"lol - missed the point there with my post! Name and shame? Yep - really good idea - the OP arranged to meet me last night - didn't turn up - didn't ring or anything. Z

Bugger me! You too Zo, did it to us too. Do you know what... at this rate two a day, 14 per week, 42 in 3 weeks!!!! It's getting worse!!! "

Had to go to work - drat it! Yes, I agree - this man needs to be stopped! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think that everyone goes through bad patches. We've been swinging for about 4 years - never had any no shows before... until the last 3 months and we've had 6... I'm hoping that this is just a bad patch that won't last for us!!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"In the space of 3 weeks I have arranged and then let down 15 times. Should I or is there a place where you can shame these people as they are spoiliing the fun for me x"
if you been swinging for 10 years you should no the name and shame policy on any site

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