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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When we have a request for a sex meet and politely say no thank you. When then asked for a reason, Personally as I am of the older gen in my 50s I politely say Im sorry I dont have sex with anyone younger than my children. My choice but am always polite. Why then do we get abusive messages back.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"When we have a request for a sex meet and politely say no thank you. When then asked for a reason, Personally as I am of the older gen in my 50s I politely say Im sorry I dont have sex with anyone younger than my children. My choice but am always polite. Why then do we get abusive messages back."

Cus some people hate being rejected.

Some single men (and couples) have nothing better to do than send abusive mail.

Because some people have the IQ of a lentil.

Because some people are soooo desperate to prove they can still pull that they get all defensive when told no.

Because some people are so fugly that they get rejected all the time and it's their coping mechanism.

Because some people are just jerks!

If you get abusive mail..... report it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i did ty chick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont pay it any mind. You have acted with complete and utter decency. Any problem is theirs. Paedofile fantasies are fine but actually sleeping with somebody younger than your own kids(23) is about our only taboo.

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

Madchick wrote
"Because some people have the IQ of a lentil."

And occasionally even this would be generous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we have a request for a sex meet and politely say no thank you. When then asked for a reason, Personally as I am of the older gen in my 50s I politely say Im sorry I dont have sex with anyone younger than my children. My choice but am always polite. Why then do we get abusive messages back."

Maybe you could reply to their nasty email, with a 'and that's why'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because we should all be grateful that anyone is throwing us a bone and paying some attention.....didn't you know?? lol

The number of times i've sent a back a polite 'no thanks' and had the, 'your loss, its not like you'll do any better' line

grrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some think that because we are all swingers, we will do anything or anybody.

If they like the look of you they automaticaly think that the feeling will be mutual.

As most rational people know that this is not the case thankfully this only leaves the small minority who do.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


" Paedofile fantasies are fine but actually sleeping with somebody younger than your own kids(23) is about our only taboo.

"

I think maybe that wasn't meant to come out as having fantasys about kids is fine?

As for the mail kitten, we do the same as another poster said, we send back saying " your mail just confirms we were right to say no thanks "

They normally stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no i know you never meant fantasies about kids hun. but i have sent the message and will let admin deal with it. but doesnt cost much to be polite does it, i dont understand how some people can be so arrogant and when politely refused be to abusive. still we learn more every day, or with every message i should say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had it loads of times, send a polite thanks but no thanks message and all you get back is....well i can do better than you anyway or i don't have to use these sites for sex anyway you do, or they tell you your to fat for them anyway but they though you would be easy to meet or your ugly, all i think when you get these messages is im glad i found out now how abusive you can be rather than face to face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Paedofile fantasies are fine

"

not in my book they not lol

and anyway where the hell did that comment come from she was talking about people as young as her kids not children :S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wasnt meant that way, Not at all.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"When we have a request for a sex meet and politely say no thank you. When then asked for a reason, Personally as I am of the older gen in my 50s I politely say Im sorry I dont have sex with anyone younger than my children. My choice but am always polite. Why then do we get abusive messages back."

the way I look at it is this.... if they send you back an abusive message then you were right in the first place to say no....

its not your problem, its theres, and if they have trouble accepting a no, then they are not people you want to be around...

sean xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi get alot of men with mrs robinson syndrome lol , to b honest i do wot u done point out older nuff to b my kids and point out i got nickers older then them , i just learn to laough at them but u right some peeps can,t take rejection and not always the single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, we must be really lucky (or fugly) in that we have never received any messages near as abusive as some state here (and other threads).

Problem is, there will be people here that aren't swingers but chancers, they have no idea what swinging is about, prob can't pick up a burd in a club and so try their chances here, don't feel too sexy in themselves and so choose someone they wouldn't normally consider their type , so in their minds not particularly attractive, so when refused, can you imagine how they feel, pmsl.

It shows weakness and quite frankly is rather pathetic for people to behave this way, bloody keyboard warrior fuckwits.

One mans meat, another mans poison and all that.

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to be rejected than ignored I'll be honest; I always thank a person for a rejection mail.

If my original mail is deleted then I ask why (looks/pics/profile etc), feedback can only make me a better swinger.

I am rejected about 10 times a day, are there any genuine women on here?

Greg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I am rejected about 10 times a day, are there any genuine women on here?

Greg"

define genuine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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define genuine!"

Defn Genuine - Wants to meet!! In real life I mean, not some fantasy world where we all sit around and talk about fucking, instead of actually doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

define genuine!

Defn Genuine - Wants to meet!! In real life I mean, not some fantasy world where we all sit around and talk about fucking, instead of actually doing it."

oh you did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kind of replies your talking about aren't any different to the kind women get on dating sites. Obviously, I'm not woman, so I'm going what I've been told. For every decent guy they get mail from, they get 20 tossers that reply with angry e-mails.

But like someone already said, that kind of response proves it was the right decision, and chances are they're the sort of person that can't get a date in real-life because they're obnoxious twats. If they remade the TV series Bottom, Richie and Eddie would definitely be trying internet dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that kind of response proves it was the right decision"

To be honest, that kind of reply, or rather lack of it, makes me think that I was better off down the pub!!

I'm organising nights with multiple attendees now, I think that's the way forward; save 1-1 encounters for pubbing/clubbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But our kids are catching us ip theyre getting older im getting younger Lizzy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is no ones for everyone, we are all going to reject and be rejected if you arn't mature enough to understand that your not mature enough to swing

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