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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a genuine, verified single guy i always read and understand fully the profiles that people put here.

I never use winks or 1 liners nor do i ever send a friend invite unless the other party wants to see my face pics or take things further, but what really pisses me off is why people cannot simply send a mail saying 'sorry not interested'

There are many so called genuine couples and single fems on this site that are looking for genuine verified males but who cannot even be bothered to reply with a simple no thank you!

We single guys get a lot of criticism for being time wasters when in fact my experience is that most single guys are genuine and its you couples and fems that are wasting time. If you dont want a single guy then please remove the request from your profile and we wont bother you.

Is it so hard to understand that if you put a single guy interest in your profile that you 'will' get replies from guys ??

I understand there is a minority of guys who take things too far and wont take no for an answer, but please, take the time to at least reply, for the benefit of us genuine, verified guys.

Cheers, Marty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than I go through the subject again, go down the list and check out other threads on the same subject,...`Does anyone reply to mail` for instance.

Personaly I would say a no reply is a certain `No` and move on

...and we now have a new `search` button for the forums

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi marty

Quote:

"We single guys get a lot of criticism for being time wasters when in fact my experience is that most single guys are genuine and its you couples and fems that are wasting time".

We know a lot of couples & single girls whose experience is very different to yours bud.

At a recent party two very genuine ladies told us that 80% of the fellas they arrange to meet are no shows..That's after chatting , camming & talking on the phone.

The view varies depending on which side of the fence you're on heh ?

Have fun mate,

Karen & Ian x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest mate, this is a bit of an old and ongoing issue, and i think some people may be quite blunt in saying just that.

personally, as another genuine guy, you just have to accept that this is how it is, and carry on persisting to be a nice and genuine guy regardless. as lets face it, the reason for it in the first place generally speaking is the actions of previous single guys who dont know how to behave properly and with respect.

i just see a no reply as either too busy to reply, or not interested and leave it at that. this is supposed to be fun, its not fun when you are worrying about whether a certain person will reply or not.

and also, i have a hot friend who is a single bi girl on this site. i have seen first hand the amount of idiot guys, and couples for that matter who fill her inbox with rubbish, so i am not surprised in the least about this issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whilst i understand your comments, i dont appreciate why a couple or fem would expect a reply from me but not be prepared to give one themselves.

Dont get me wrong, i dont dwell on the issue its more of a minor irritation. I too have a very nice regular fem that i play with and she shows me some of the dross she gets inundated with, but she always replies with a no thanks.

Guess its different peoples views, hey ho...... next !!!

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By *arryandlilCouple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

i do no some single females that just get so much mail that they would not be able to start answing all there mail. altho we always do reply to mail even if it is just a no thanks

larry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz u feel like this marty theres no excuse 2 ignore anyone but as larry said..us fems gets 2 many emails its impossable 2 answer on the say day we get them..it mite take me a cpl a days 2 answer but ill answer them even if its( no wat im looking 4 soz)so keep ya chin up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh an u can clean my house any day lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaaaaaaaaaar no idea why they dont reply to you

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By *uiceypeachesWoman
over a year ago

bumfucknowhere

Dear Nostringssex,

I had a look at your profile, you have been here for 6 weeks and have 6 validations, that is a bloody good ratio. Whats your problem??? So, a few people don't reply...have you considered that the reason they dont reply is that they are actually men pretending to be cpls or single fems????

I don't think your doing that bad, and just for the record if you lived closer i would want to meet you too. :D

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By *forfuntimesCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi all,

Thought we might add our thoughts & experiences here - we (as do many others) get inundated by emails ranging from the one liner - to the life story!!! - some are with pics / most without etc...

Now - at the beginning we thought it only polite to reply with a thanks - but no thanks / not this time - trouble is - you then get an email back asking why not?? - what is wrong with me?? - can you give me advice etc. etc. etc...

So, unfortunately, we have to just hit the delete button now - we do, however, reply to the guys & couples that take the time to write a decent email & profile etc...

M & J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just us or are there other ppl on here who groan inwardly when they see yet another thread on this topic? There must be one a week from (mainly) guys that don't get replies,for whatever reason.Isn't there some way that any new threads on this theme can be filtered and redirected to all the previous threads on this topic.That way the poster/s could sit and peruse the 1000's of previous replies to their hearts content.It would then leave the forums for new topics instead of raking over old ashes every week.

Trace & Ric

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the post juicy, yes i do ok because i actually meet when i say i am going to and perhaps i am just greedy lol

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree Trace and Ric, if there was some way to filter out old topics it would save a lot of time and going over old things, but then you dont actually have to read it if you dont want to participate

Thanks for your comment anyway, for the record, i would prefer to be releasing steam in another way than sat posting here

have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not one to post in forum often but I think this proves a point, I got this message 5 mins ago needless to say wont be meeting him.

im a toned dark lad with an insatiable sexual appetite - i am very easy going and fun and have a great sense of humour so none of those awkward silences...so mayb we can chat an get to know each other?

i wud love to feed her my blk throbbing veiny cock...then drop to the bed when i will spread her legs and hold them on my shoulder while i slowly slide my blk hard throbbing cock into her wanting wet pussy...i will rhythmically pound her getting faster and faster....

sound like fun?

talk to women in the first party helps!!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

hey what's your secret mate...i am amazed the pussy posse have not cut you to the bone and fed on your entrails for moaning about no responses......they must be sleeping

MR X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Must be because i am a friendly geordie with a smiley face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol no we are awake and admiring the very sexy view in the private gallery Mmmmmmmm float float float lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Oi oi pleasure.........

I'm backkkkkkkkkkkkk

and to answer the whinging whining op...

Yawn yawn yawn......

ADMIN: how long have I been suggesting that threads are looked over before they are posted? Yet ANOTHER.. why don't they reply wimper.......

blah blah blah

All hail the pussy posse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww but Maddie he is a babe!!! let me play with him...perleaaaaaaaaaase xxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

it was just a matter of time .......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

total agree on you lot

but give time n u get their been here for 6 months now n only met 1

takes time 2 build up friendship n get 2 no people n not 2 jump the 1st 1 u see or meet

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Usual Suspect......... In English please.......!

Pleasure ............ you asked, I answered the call for the Pussy Posse to appear! hehehhehehe

Fussier......... if you must, but please remember to put him back where you found him and don't swipe his boxers as a momento....... it's very bad form!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok wont swipe the boxers.....can i keep a testicle instead?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Only if you don't wear it as a necklace or an odd earing.

I prefer to keep testicles in a pickle jar by the side of my bed. It reminds Mr Madchick to behave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if I would accessorise with genitalia lol thats why god invented Harvey Nics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually used to be offended in the first few months on here when I did not get a reply from a woman who I thought I ticked all the boxes for (on her profile I mean) but then slowly came to realise that:

a) Just as in life, people are choosey

b) woman on the site can afford to be very very choosey as they are inundated with messages

c)In the cold light of day I'm an ugly bastard

So, all in all, if I don't get a reply or get deleted, I just shrug my shoulders and say oh well, then patch up the blow up doll and give her a good seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tim and Steve

u no shows - i gave up my kids for you this weekend

Wot a waste

Tossers - we cancelling our Fab Swingers Account as a result

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Just to prove how vintage some topics are - this was posted in 2009!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to prove how vintage some topics are - this was posted in 2009!"

The original clique...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me that is chuckling to myself that in a thread about timewasters is full of profiles that are no longer users on site or what bahahaha

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"Just to prove how vintage some topics are - this was posted in 2009!"

and there is another topic posted last week saying time wasters are a recent thing. i knew they weren't.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Yes, but at least discussions on bareback sex, people who play without partners and why do men have such a hard time help keep the forums fresh as.....

(I wont say what I was thinking there)

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