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By *onnyBGoode OP   Man
over a year ago

Bury

i still speak to my ex wife because we had a child together and recently I have had some saucy thoughts about us rekindling our sex life even though we are apart.

Sex when we were together was amazing and I do kind of miss it. Texts between us get a bit flirty sometimes and I get a bit forward - but I can't bring myself to send a naughty text to see what reaction I'd get.

Anyone else ever been in similar position?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Nope, in my book an ex is an ex for a reason... and will stay that way.

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By *onnyBGoode OP   Man
over a year ago

Bury

The texts wouldn't get flirty if she didn't want it right?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd guess it all depends why you split up.

personally, for the sake of your child and being able to stay civil with your ex, I'd knock it on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tittilation is dangerous my man, be careful but most of all be honest with yourself if not with her.

If you only want sex be upfront and clear, this path you are walking can be full of pitfalls.

Be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that. Ended badly.

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By *onnyBGoode OP   Man
over a year ago

Bury


"Tittilation is dangerous my man, be careful but most of all be honest with yourself if not with her.

If you only want sex be upfront and clear, this path you are walking can be full of pitfalls.

Be good"

Agree with you totally... I mean she is gorgeous, and the sex was unreal. We get on well and flirt on text with loads of kisses on the end.. She must be up for it right?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Tittilation is dangerous my man, be careful but most of all be honest with yourself if not with her.

If you only want sex be upfront and clear, this path you are walking can be full of pitfalls.

Be good

Agree with you totally... I mean she is gorgeous, and the sex was unreal. We get on well and flirt on text with loads of kisses on the end.. She must be up for it right? "

You know what, you have persuaded yourself she is up for it... so go over, whap your cock out, waggle it about with a bit of "how about it love" and then see what happens... I mean its never going to end badly, and noone will get hurt... and your child won't be confused by you being on and off like a cheap tarts pants.

Really, whats to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like there's still something there my friend , for her and you. Follow your instinct

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Don't go there mate! Seriously just find someone on the site to have this "amazing sex" with but just keep things with the ex wife civil and simple for the sake of the relationship you have with your child things are good right? Don't rock the boat!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I shagged my ex husband for two years after we split till we both met someone else. The sex was fantastic and I wasn't going to cut my nose of to spite my face. We both new it was just sex and wouldn't get back together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex tells me about dreaming of me even though he has remarried, I'm just civil because of our children and I would never go back he is an ex for many reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tittilation is dangerous my man, be careful but most of all be honest with yourself if not with her.

If you only want sex be upfront and clear, this path you are walking can be full of pitfalls.

Be good

Agree with you totally... I mean she is gorgeous, and the sex was unreal. We get on well and flirt on text with loads of kisses on the end.. She must be up for it right?

You know what, you have persuaded yourself she is up for it... so go over, whap your cock out, waggle it about with a bit of "how about it love" and then see what happens... I mean its never going to end badly, and noone will get hurt... and your child won't be confused by you being on and off like a cheap tarts pants.

Really, whats to lose?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i still speak to my ex wife because we had a child together and recently I have had some saucy thoughts about us rekindling our sex life even though we are apart.

Sex when we were together was amazing and I do kind of miss it. Texts between us get a bit flirty sometimes and I get a bit forward - but I can't bring myself to send a naughty text to see what reaction I'd get.

Anyone else ever been in similar position?"

I had sex with my ex husband for many years after we split, once even whilst his girlfriend (now wife) was sat in the car waiting. I did it because I could sex was amazing when we were together and was good after. He still flirts asks for photos etc. It's a dangerous game for him to be honest as I have saved all the texts!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"i still speak to my ex wife because we had a child together and recently I have had some saucy thoughts about us rekindling our sex life even though we are apart.

Sex when we were together was amazing and I do kind of miss it. Texts between us get a bit flirty sometimes and I get a bit forward - but I can't bring myself to send a naughty text to see what reaction I'd get.

Anyone else ever been in similar position?"

if she balks at it you could always apologies with something like oooh! sorry that explains why I didn't get a response from .......

Or Chuffin Baz! he thought it would be a good idea when I was at the bar, he's always thought we should get back together!

Baz I've just found out wanted to make sure it was OK for him to chance his arm by making sure I wasn't in the frame! I'll bollock him when he gets back off holiday/ when he docks next! he's got such a tiny dick and I'd already explained it wouldn't touch the sides! cor! there must be loads and loads of excuses to get yourself out of trouble! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of your child!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I'm in the same boat. Yes I have kids who I luv to death but have to be in contact with there mom (my x). No way no how would I have sex with her again even if she begged me!!

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You left her for a reason mate. Move on life is too short to waste on people who are not right for you.

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By *onnyBGoode OP   Man
over a year ago

Bury

So tonight I sent a seductive text.. And she sent one in return... Either a big tease or she wants it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So tonight I sent a seductive text.. And she sent one in return... Either a big tease or she wants it "

Tell you what, don't ask for opinions, just think with your dick and go for it. To hell with the consequences

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"So tonight I sent a seductive text.. And she sent one in return... Either a big tease or she wants it

Tell you what, don't ask for opinions, just think with your dick and go for it. To hell with the consequences "

well said!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm best of mates with my ex-wife and we get on really well, it means our son gets the best of both of us. Although I still fancy her and we are well past any chance of getting back together, I would never risk that just for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why you've posted...as you seem to have made your mind up already.

Just be careful it's not a trap. Texts can be saved an used against you!

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By *lfresco40Man
over a year ago

Moulton, Northampton

Don't do it, you have moved on, and most importantly your kids think you have moved on. It's not about you or her, it's about your kids' happiness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So tonight I sent a seductive text.. And she sent one in return... Either a big tease or she wants it "

Or she's laughing her ass off that you have the audacity to think she'd be up for it and is seeing how strong you'll come on before she shoots you down in flames. Just sayin.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"So tonight I sent a seductive text.. And she sent one in return... Either a big tease or she wants it "

wrong move but you have to live with it now!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope nope.

things couldnt have been that great, else you'd still be together now.

ffs man, get laid elsewhere and get over your ex!! *slap*

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

nay .. nay... and thrice nay .... not ever gonna happen

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