FabSwingers.com forum: do women like single guys in there forties with no baggage,,??

By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

OR are they after MARRIED,""cant have me"" MEN OR is it the challenge of trying to take what someone else has, or is it the safety of the power they have over these men,,? whatever just because we single guys are free i think there,s no challenge,,, just choice.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i do prefer a single man, if married man/girfriend or partner especially those who dont know the guy is playing, been with a married guy and didnt feel comfortable..... so i will stick with single guys if they have baggeage then fine by me as i have baggage as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not specific: do you mean generally or just on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I would have thought that anyone in their 40s would have a fair bit of history

Baggage sounds awful,but I understand what you mean

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

generally i do prefer a single guy as if married etc and the wife/partner dont know then...... thats cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse with the wife calling you up asking if ur fucking her husband., because she has found your number or txt on his phone.... Very uncomfortable.

Rather have the single guys

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

i do have a history,, its me that doesn't have baggage, and i prefer a single woman,, but if a man who,s married or part of a couple needs help then that's why I'm here,,and on this site we all have a nesh in life. it was only a thought in my head ppl,, thanks for your interest and answers.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I prefer single men for sure on here

I've had my share of irate women call me to acuse me of seeing "their man"

Dating wise, no kids is a must

I am free to do as I please and dont wanna be wiping someone elses kids snotty noses now mine have grown n flown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on here, no marrieds or attacheds for me.. dont bother if they got kids and seperated im never gonna meet the little demons same as they never gonna meet mine!

and the real world relationships i dont bother with so no worries there!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only single men for me...once had a guy say he was married but she allowed him to swing and had his "wife" call me..we were talking and then she slipped up saying something like "oh I know when he first messaged me on here..." and I said sorry? thought you were his wife? she started "ahhh...ummm...ahhh...sorry" and hung up...lol

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

thanks to all the people who join in and answered my topic,,its good to talk, it makes you think more i do hope i haven't offended anyone,, being single is fine ,,means your free to do what you want when you want, i always look at the positive side,, sum say are you not sorry you never married,, "HELLO" and miss all the fun of swinging, they say verity is the spice of life,, i agree ,,but as i say quality, lasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OR are they after MARRIED,""cant have me"" MEN OR is it the challenge of trying to take what someone else has, or is it the safety of the power they have over these men,,? whatever just because we single guys are free i think there,s no challenge,,, just choice."

Has it EVER crossed your mind that most people have no hidden agenda's and simply seek others for sexual social times.

The more I read posts along these lines the more I think there's an awful lot 'adults' who think the world revolves around them and if things aren't given to them they think the rest of the world is conniving in a corner to have other things.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I hope there are women who are looking for a 40's single man with no "baggage" (=kids), because otherwise I'm going to be a bit stuffed relationship-wise...

Swinging-wise, as above, most just don't want dishonesty - there is quite a cutoff at 40 thoug, in the sense that it's either at the top or the bottom of the range of a lot of people. It's a different target market, but still plenty to go round.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Has it EVER crossed your mind that most people have no hidden agenda's and simply seek others for sexual social times.

well I am here purely FOR my own agenda

noone elses

and I KNOW the world does not revolve around me

but I was married at 18, 3 children and 2 ex husbands and 20 years later, I am gonna get exactly what I want or move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I do not like kids, and peeps should not expect me to like theirs.

So yes, I would avoid gents with child/children as I doubt if I have much tolerance to fit into their childcare schedules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it EVER crossed your mind that most people have no hidden agenda's and simply seek others for sexual social times.

well I am here purely FOR my own agenda

noone elses

and I KNOW the world does not revolve around me

but I was married at 18, 3 children and 2 ex husbands and 20 years later, I am gonna get exactly what I want or move on

I know you are here for your own agenda. You don't HIDE anything. I said it's wrong to think all others have HIDDEN agenda's. You hang it ALL out in the open.

I have my own agenda too. It doesn't mean that if I ( or you ) or anyone says no to someone that we do for some dark ulterior motive. Those that get paranoid are the ones who think the world revolves around them. Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I do not like kids, and peeps should not expect me to like theirs.

So yes, I would avoid gents with child/children as I doubt if I have much tolerance to fit into their childcare schedules!

I think that's more than fair Pearl .. The majority want adult company not a ready made family. I'd feel the same as you but I wouldn't call it baggage. It's just a man with young children and NOT what im looking for xx Nowt wrong with that. xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Has it EVER crossed your mind that most people have no hidden agenda's and simply seek others for sexual social times.

well I am here purely FOR my own agenda

noone elses

and I KNOW the world does not revolve around me

but I was married at 18, 3 children and 2 ex husbands and 20 years later, I am gonna get exactly what I want or move on

I know you are here for your own agenda. You don't HIDE anything. I said it's wrong to think all others have HIDDEN agenda's. You hang it ALL out in the open.

I agree with you

but hey paranoia is ok in small doses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but hey paranoia is ok in small doses

Oy, I heard that, what you said, and know what you really meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but hey paranoia is ok in small doses

Oy, I heard that, what you said, and know what you really meant

Ha! Well I heard what you thought !

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

well i dont have them cueing for me

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"well i dont have them cueing for me "

Looks like you're snookered.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"well i dont have them cueing for me "

No photos

No verifications

Can't accommodate.

Of course you are snookered!

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

WHO started all this,,,hi scumqueen,,

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

i am not quite 40 yet big party when i do all invited i have history and i feel thats what has made me who i am if you get to 40 without "baggage" i think youve not lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHO started all this,,,hi scumqueen,, "

Wasn't me

Hi hun, hope you're well xx

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

it might have been something i said,,but hey everybody's got an opinion,,right,, hi scumqueen,,love your pics,,xxx sometime babe,

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

look at it another way,,""do guys look at women the same way"" ?? think about that one,,or do guys think she,s a MILF ??

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

bit of friendly advice mike,i think you might find most of the ladys on here dont like been called babe;;; not having a go mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bit of friendly advice mike,i think you might find most of the ladys on here dont like been called babe;;; not having a go mate"

It beats "bitch" or "shithead"

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

iv chatted to scumqueen and she,s an angel sent from heaven,,its a friendly term that friends use,,mate,, hi babe, and she is a million dollar one,,XX, that's for scumqueen,, lol byeeee,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi group, im new to this scene & have been a member over a week, & I A M S I N G L E

& not one womans contacted me!!!

Maybe women like to play dangerously? im unsure lol, anyway, any girl want to contact me, feel free. xxx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Hi group, im new to this scene & have been a member over a week, & I A M S I N G L E

& not one womans contacted me!!!

Maybe women like to play dangerously? im unsure lol, anyway, any girl want to contact me, feel free. xxx"

I really really hope that the above post is tongue in cheek......

Or I'm gonna scream!

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

AARRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them as much as i like santa and the easter bunny and the tooth fairy.

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

the debate is about the above question, to all that replied thank you,, its only a simple ? ,glad its got ppl talking, have fun with it, and ""don't take anything personal"",, life,s far to short,, lets have fun,, any sexy women want to play this weekend ,,say hello, i might play with you,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi group, im new to this scene & have been a member over a week, & I A M S I N G L E

& not one womans contacted me!!!

Maybe women like to play dangerously? im unsure lol, anyway, any girl want to contact me, feel free. xxx

I really really hope that the above post is tongue in cheek......

Or I'm gonna scream!"

Take a deep breath and go for it hun: sadly I think he's deadly serious!!

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I prefere to meet married/attached men with baggage..

Single men tend to make demands on my time and dont really understand family life..

Married men have as much to loose so tend to be more careful and discreet, NO late nite phone calls etc, which suits me fine...

I know I'm gonna be shot down for this, but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefere to meet married/attached men with baggage..

Single men tend to make demands on my time and dont really understand family life..

Married men have as much to loose so tend to be more careful and discreet, NO late nite phone calls etc, which suits me fine...

I know I'm gonna be shot down for this, but each to their own

Here here! Discretion is an absolute must for me and married or attached men are certainly more considerate, because they have to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefere to meet married/attached men with baggage..

Single men tend to make demands on my time and dont really understand family life..

Married men have as much to loose so tend to be more careful and discreet, NO late nite phone calls etc, which suits me fine...

I know I'm gonna be shot down for this, but each to their own

well credit to you both for being brave enough to stand up and admit it but have to say , if it had been a married guy that said somethin along those lines all hell would break loose!

im the opposite from you two i wont have married attached near me but thats just my choice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefere to meet married/attached men with baggage..

Single men tend to make demands on my time and dont really understand family life..

Married men have as much to loose so tend to be more careful and discreet, NO late nite phone calls etc, which suits me fine...

I know I'm gonna be shot down for this, but each to their own

well credit to you both for being brave enough to stand up and admit it but have to say , if it had been a married guy that said somethin along those lines all hell would break loose!

im the opposite from you two i wont have married attached near me but thats just my choice xx"

would just rather a man admit it than say he was single when not. I'm never convinced all of these 'single men' actually are. the amount i've talked to that have "something to admit...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah thats always a problem!!! dont know how many times iv nearly been caught out but most times they have slipped up! honesty is a big thing to me and i hate being lied to!! xx

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By *aintmike OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

glad to see everybody,s talking,, think i,ll post another question, not as controversial as the last one,,mmm, let me think,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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