FabSwingers.com forum: couples are just as bad

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have thought about this one and decided to meet couples again (selected few as im very fussy) when i put it on my profile the other day i have been unandated with friends requests and e-mails from couples.

I have in the past knocked single guys and given them a rough time about not reading my profile and sending one liners but to be fair there are a lot of couples that dont bother reading also, saying that their missus is away for the night! so im gonna apologise to you single guys as i didnt realise that couples where just as guilty.

any thoughts on this one?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Yes they are as guilty!!!

I have on my profile that i will approach couples as i like to choose my female myself (not just be expected to play for the man in other words) but i get loads of friends requests - some off couples who dont even say hello!!!

If i dont fancy them i do the same as i do to the boys - that fabulous button called Delete :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same problem, we have winks and messages constantly from couples who want to meet but our profile clearly says we only meet at Chams, we have also put that we will not accept friends requests untill we have met them..but..they still send them? Reading can be a big problem,perhaps its because of the care in the community nowa days...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I also agree.....there are people that don't read profiles or fit criteria that get in touch they could be single guys,couples or single fems...its not an exclusive club for single guys and im glad you have mentioned it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't...

If the ugly ones do makes no odds.. if the pretty ones don't... bonus!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in our experience couple are worse than single blokes but the singlies tend to get backlash from lots of ppl on here.....good luck to all single guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in our experience couple are worse than single blokes but the singlies tend to get backlash from lots of ppl on here.....good luck to all single guys xxx"

I bet you don't see the usual single men bashers commenting on this thread and have a go at couples!

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By *ancladMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have always found couples to be very rude. NO SINGLE MALES-ARE YOU THICK

SINGLE MALES-DONT MSG, WE WILL FIND YOU.

How fucking rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Is that aimed at every couple on here?

Only I have on my profile that as much as I love single guys I will find you....I don't consider that rude at all just a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always found couples to be very rude. NO SINGLE MALES-ARE YOU THICK

SINGLE MALES-DONT MSG, WE WILL FIND YOU.

How fucking rude."
Not very nice saying "are you thick" but it may have been a last straw thing where guys messaged and obviously didn't read the profile properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though i don't play with couples (or anyone else lol) i have to say 99% of couples i have spoken to have been a great laugh and much fun. There are a few who are rude, arrogant, obnoxious and treat people like dirt but i suspect that goes for some single men and women too.

Honeypotcouple are one of the good ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Though i don't play with couples (or anyone else lol) i have to say 99% of couples i have spoken to have been a great laugh and much fun. There are a few who are rude, arrogant, obnoxious and treat people like dirt but i suspect that goes for some single men and women too.

Honeypotcouple are one of the good ones!"

Cheque is in the post

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have no single males, simply because wiggles is a domme, so has all the single male slaves/attention she needs, without several hundred mails a day asking "Do you want to fuck" (not that she dosn't get them anyway)

If a guy at a club grabs her atenttion, though, she will happily let him know (no this dosn't equal trying to stick your cock in her face, as a certain single seemed to think on friday)

People are people though, couples are just as bad as singles, single fems can be worse than both, since they seem to think they are the holy grail of the swing scene!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I have thought about this one and decided to meet couples again (selected few as im very fussy) when i put it on my profile the other day i have been unandated with friends requests and e-mails from couples.

any thoughts on this one? "

I agree.

When I was a single female it was always the couples who were the worst.

They seem tothink that cus you are a single female, you should be a performing seal.......

I leave that for the single men !

We have never messaged a single female because thats not what we are looking for but, we've had a few message us. It's plainly obvious what they are after and to be honest......on a site like this......

Everyone is as bad as each other sometimes!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I leave that for the single men !"

I put that in, just for Gothica!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"I have always found couples to be very rude. NO SINGLE MALES-ARE YOU THICK

SINGLE MALES-DONT MSG, WE WILL FIND YOU.

How fucking rude.Not very nice saying "are you thick" but it may have been a last straw thing where guys messaged and obviously didn't read the profile properly."

Yeah but if it is "the last straw" ad i know they get loads of unwanteds ...why dont they just turn on the no mail from single men filter ,instead of all the insults ...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, good manners cost nothing and with luck the standards will rise if people start to realise that bad manners = no meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have not been online for a few hrs just signed in OMFG! i have 28 friends requests and would you believe it half of them are from couples, not new ones but couples that have been on here for a few months with very good profiles, does and donts on and verifications, dont they know better ?????

Time to change my profile again grrrrrrrrrrr

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I have not been online for a few hrs just signed in OMFG! i have 28 friends requests and would you believe it half of them are from couples, not new ones but couples that have been on here for a few months with very good profiles, does and donts on and verifications, dont they know better ?????

Time to change my profile again grrrrrrrrrrr"

Most of them are probably trying to see what you look like before the email ping pong crap, since you have tons photos but zero in public for them to get an idea first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always found couples to be very rude. NO SINGLE MALES-ARE YOU THICK

SINGLE MALES-DONT MSG, WE WILL FIND YOU.

How fucking rude.Not very nice saying "are you thick" but it may have been a last straw thing where guys messaged and obviously didn't read the profile properly.

Yeah but if it is "the last straw" ad i know they get loads of unwanteds ...why dont they just turn on the no mail from single men filter ,instead of all the insults ...??? "

Ours is on.. but trouble with that is those guys who are genuinely sociable can't mail either..

We leave it on though, just easier.

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

One half of most couples is based on a mans input.... So therefore a male is still a man and single or not they have a cock-a-doodle-doo, It's just that the single males have a cock-a-doodle-don't... Very often these days lol

The mind remains intact... Until the blood rushes else where in our anatomy and we all start to jabber oneliners of cock thinking woffle.

Peace xx

Ps... Self control is the aim of all worthy of trust men in the land of freedom and fun, and the ultimate self improvement lesson for a happier time.

Print that bad boy at the end of a jerry Springer show :P lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them ...

It ain't no big deal

Time to change my profile again grrrrrrrrrrr"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to say that...

but couldn't be arsed lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to change my profile again grrrrrrrrrrr"

Delete them ...

It ain't no big deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah the delete button does come in handy ....i know its no big deal but it has really surprised me about the couples as i thought single guys where bad enuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally at least someone has realised, lol.

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

wouldnt we all be moaning if we never received any winks, messages or friend requests??? you would think no one liked your profile! you should take it as a compliment so many people find your profile nice, then delete the undesirables lol!!!

as a couple we have no single men only because thats not our thing, but we still get messages from them and i always replie with a polite thanks but no thanks, no harm done, also we would never request any1 as a friend without either chatting to them or have met them. anyway happy swinging lol!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely its down to the individual not a section of the swinging scene as a whole?

I get quite a few messages from single females asking to meet when my profile states quite clearly im not bi, and bloody countless from coouples, to be honest i find single guys now days to be the most polite, obviously not all of them, i think its because women and couples think they can do what they like where as guys know they have to try a bit harder, to be honest the worse people i find in swinging are the male half of couples, some of the talk to single guys of here like something they have scraped off their shoes and think because they have a woman to offer out they can basically talk to people how they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"surely its down to the individual not a section of the swinging scene as a whole?

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

i can only speak for myself but im not that far up my own arse that i think i can do anything lol!!!! im always polite and read peoples profiles and wouldnt mail any1 who found me unsuitable.

i think there are luvlie and rude people whether its single male/female ,couples out there and you cant paint all with the same brush!!

we have had 1 or 2 rude comments but on the whole its all been good!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's a message???

i think my recieve box if bust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what's a message???

i think my recieve box if bust"

you can borrow mine for a day then, i get bloody loads lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Lets see...

I met a couple at a social who, during conversation say they stopped going to Chams on Fridays cause he couldn't stand the way single guys were oggling his missus and some even groping. So they stick to Saturdays where they can meet other couples o play.

Another couple (friends of mine) were contacted by this couple and met them for a drink in a pub. As soon as they walked in the male half of the first couple (Mr Saturday) gropped my friend's ass (the female) and said "Just a friendly hello - in hope of later". Neither her nor her partner liked that, so they kept he meeting polite and short (15 mins), making it clearly "later" would have to stay fantasy and left.

Couples can be as bad.

I was in a spa once and this girl (not my type but I had seen her there once or twice) came up to me while at the bar, grabbed under my towel and said "Is your dick hard? good, lets go fuck...". To which I pulled back and said "I'm waiting for someone". She looked at me puzzled (maybe wondering why I turned down a direct "offer").

Single fems can be just as bad.

My point? Anyone can be as bad, depends whats going on in their heads at the time.

PS: And for the couples that like to use the phrase "NO SINGLE MALES - YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER" (I've seenthis once or twice), since when did your partner or any other female become "something to offer"? I'm glad you view your female halves as commodities and not people if that floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it ever crossed your mind that you get friends requests because it's the only way to see your private photos.

It's not because you are special or something, its simply a means to an end. We get friends requests from couples and singles alike and those we fancy we add as friends, those we don't like we just delete/reject them.

We're all here to swing and if everybody adopted the policy that they won't make contact unless contacted first then nobody would contact anybody and we'd all be swinging our dicks in the wind. Get real people ffs.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

I have had a cpl look at me and send a wink, so i looked at there profile and it said no singles we will find you,

so thinking that as they had winked i sent a message thanking them for the wink , and got the most stroppy reply ,

saying why dont i read there profile

i`m confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send em a snotty one back reminding them that they winked at you first - maybe female likes the look of you but male ain't so keen.

Whatever the reason, it's bad manners on their part.

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