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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are some younger females who want older men and not for money. So any one know of any in Dorset/Somerset/Wiltshire? Any one got any thoughts or are we guys 59+ supposed to just die away? Older ladies 59+ with younger men are in vogue so is the view of society just warped in favour of ladies?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im one of those older women only interested in younger guys.....but thats maybe because I have my own money

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I am with you, Jezebel

I love the look in their eyes - like a kid in a sweet shop . . . lol

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_ezebel...o_ohjane im here 4 u both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah your supposed to just die away lol

Personally i dont really go for older or younger, i much prefure men around my own age group as i feel i have more in common with them, but i suppose its a case of each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm 50 I'll shag women who are 50 (if Siren lets me) but until then I'll shag women my own age or younger. Tks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some younger females who want older men and not for money. So any one know of any in Dorset/Somerset/Wiltshire? Any one got any thoughts or are we guys 59+ supposed to just die away? Older ladies 59+ with younger men are in vogue so is the view of society just warped in favour of ladies?"

Are you serious?!!

Personally I find it ironic that at 59 you've set an upper age limit of 58: ok for you to have a personal choice but you question those that don't want old men?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mature men! But i also like men who don't have problems performing consistently. The problem with 50+ men just struggle to repeat. There are exceptions granted but your not going to find a 50+ able to compete with a younger man in his 20's in the main. Yes there are the odd exception but in general know.

59 plus is older than my father and its a bit seedy as far as i am concerned as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you mean by not for money ????

and in regard to your question i think the main problem on this site for any guys is the quantity thing !! there are just too many guys to girls on here ...i suggest u try a normal dating site the ratios are much closer on those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like saying new car or 10 year old one. you just know the newer one will perform much better. Younger men have the energy and desire to satisfy more and frequently do.

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

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Its a bit like saying new car or 10 year old one. you just know the newer one will perform much better. Younger men have the energy and desire to satisfy more and frequently do."

I really do take exception to that. As a 50+ guy I know I have the experience to pleasure a woman. where as in my early 20's and early 30's it was me me me I couldn't have cared less about the the woman and speaking to guys at the same time/age they were all the same.

Maturity and experience count for a lot. At the end of the the day the more you give the more pleasure gained to both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if societys view is skewed or in favour of this...then about friggin time! guys have been getting away with this for centuries and women were put out to pasture 'at a certain age'. ironic when you consider our sexual peak is much later in life than mens. I cant find a man my age that can come close to satisfying me, i need some young buck with mucho stamina...!

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

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"if societys view is skewed or in favour of this...then about friggin time! guys have been getting away with this for centuries and women were put out to pasture 'at a certain age'. ironic when you consider our sexual peak is much later in life than mens. I cant find a man my age that can come close to satisfying me, i need some young buck with mucho stamina...!

Fucks me there's a guy written off straight away at 40 !!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I've always concentrated on giving a partner pleasure in the bedroom, but it's not entirely selfless, cos there's no greater turn on than knowing you're driving a woman wild. This has been since I was a teenager, so I don't think this has improved with age though my technique definately has and I suppose I'm just glad I don't still look 14 as I did at 19!

Being 32 now the older man/ younger woman thing doesn't bother me too much, but I'd like to think I'm still capable of having fun in 25 to 30 years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you serious?!!

Personally I find it ironic that at 59 you've set an upper age limit of 58: ok for you to have a personal choice but you question those that don't want old men?!!

i have to admit i look at his profile and noticed his upper age limit was younger than him too, which i also found a bit odd on a post moaning that younger woman didnt want older men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like mature men! But i also like men who don't have problems performing consistently. The problem with 50+ men just struggle to repeat. There are exceptions granted but your not going to find a 50+ able to compete with a younger man in his 20's in the main. Yes there are the odd exception but in general know.

59 plus is older than my father and its a bit seedy as far as i am concerned as well."

I also agree with this, thing is as we get older our body slows dont and i dont mean to be offesnsive to anyone whos 50+ but its just common sence a guy of that age is not going to be able to perform to the standards of a young lady of, say under 25, im 35 and im not as energetic as i was in my early 20s so what am i going to be like in my 50s lmao

As blue russian has said of course there will be the odd exception to this but but i think most guys that age would struggle to keep up with a young woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

59 plus is older than my father and its a bit seedy as far as i am concerned as well.

As blue russian has said of course there will be the odd exception to this but but i think most guys that age would struggle to keep up with a young woman"

I suppose it's each case to their own, but working out reaps benefits and I think it's common sense to change a weight based routine to one with more emphasis on cardio once one reaches 40 - 45. This should shave years off your performance in terms of energy, and thanks to the brilliant invention that is Viagra there shouldn't be any reason for other parts of your body to go soft either! There's hope for my future self yet!

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

its funny reading them posts saying you weren't what you where when in your 20's im living it up lol

but feeling sorry for myself in a way because i know im going be the big 30 one day after that bits start falling off and not working just as fast, well so i heard

go on who's going bite first lmao!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Personally, I've always concentrated on giving a partner pleasure in the bedroom, but it's not entirely selfless, cos there's no greater turn on than knowing you're driving a woman wild. This has been since I was a teenager, so I don't think this has improved with age though my technique definately has and I suppose I'm just glad I don't still look 14 as I did at 19!

Being 32 now the older man/ younger woman thing doesn't bother me too much, but I'd like to think I'm still capable of having fun in 25 to 30 years..."

You can pleasure me anytime with THAT body ! ... Yummy yummy .... cum on my tummy ! lol

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Its a bit like saying new car or 10 year old one. you just know the newer one will perform much better."

mmmmm new family car - 7 yr old porsche 911 - cost about the same - fancy proving your analogy?

Our last car was 17 yr old very customised 300zx 3 litre twin turbo - until rich wrote it of lol - but it would take just about anything else on the road!

Actually there is a very funny story to that - Rich's passenger at the time of the accident was a 'very good friend' bi-fem we know very well - intimately in fact. Police woman asked for details and he didn't even know her surname or full address! That got some knowing looks!

In our opinion if a guy keeps him self fit (yes some gym workout helps) then he can maintain a good level of fitness and stamina

We've swung with couples of all ages - youngest fems so far for Rich were 21 and 26 (see they do exist)

Conversely oldest guy was a day off 70

And there were no complaints! That's the problem with generalisations - people are all different

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j&r

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well now this has been an interesting Topic hasn't it. For those that have sort of tried to "slag me off" a bit I have had female partners 20 years of age upwards and were quite happy. But it seems Cougars are quite the In Thing but older guys are supposed to just disappear according to most of you any way. Thanks for all your interesting replies and keep them coming and remember what you wrote when you are much older and still up for fun....cheers (off for my Zimmer now byee )

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I agree with you, young men can keep up with me whereas GENERALLY older men cant always

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Well now this has been an interesting Topic hasn't it. For those that have sort of tried to "slag me off" a bit I have had female partners 20 years of age upwards and were quite happy. But it seems Cougars are quite the In Thing but older guys are supposed to just disappear according to most of you any way. Thanks for all your interesting replies and keep them coming and remember what you wrote when you are much older and still up for fun....cheers (off for my Zimmer now byee )"

That was a Party Political Broadcast on behalf of the 'Whinging Party'

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I also agree with jez and ooo jane

I support myself

No kids no ties

younger men are soooooooooo much more attentive because they can be I guess when they have no ties also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate doin cpr on a meet....

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

Cus when they are pissing into a colostomy bag, shitting through a tube, having new dentures fitted each year and generally wasting money on bingo, dogs and a pint down the legion....... the women sure ain't gonna want to support them!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis."

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis.

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

isn't that Rod Stewart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis.

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

isn't that Rod Stewart"

and wannabees lol!! xx

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

i dont care about age younger,older or the same.I feel some people turn you on some dont ive met both ends of age range and have enjoyed them equally

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"i dont care about age younger,older or the same.I feel some people turn you on some dont ive met both ends of age range and have enjoyed them equally "

I have met older and younger

and liked both

but younger JUST have the edge

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

if i was told to decide i think i would pick older somehow more assured more confident and worth talking to afterwards as well

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

Now you tell me

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

cant stand leopard print anything except leopard print leopards wonder if this message would hold a record for most times the word leopard was used in one message

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

"cant stand leopard print anything except leopard print leopards wonder if this message would hold a record for most times the word leopard was used in one message

"
leopard leopard leopard leopard leopard nope mine has two more leopards

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis.

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

isn't that Rod Stewart"

No, Peter Stringfellow

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"Whinging ugly miserable narcissistic older men need money.

I certainly do/will!

Hopefully not for those reasons - was joking with a mate about getting some leather trousers to see me through my midlife crisis.

its when you get them and a leopard print thong you know your there!! xx

isn't that Rod Stewart

No, Peter Stringfellow

purleeez

I am eating

Both a dinosaurs

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" Any one got any thoughts or are we guys 59+ supposed to just die away? "

Nah.... someone has to be eye-candy for the 80 year olds.

" Older ladies 59+ with younger men are in vogue so is the view of society just warped in favour of ladies?"

Shame isn't it how fashions change. Older men and younger women is so 1980's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

59 plus is older than my father and its a bit seedy as far as i am concerned as well."

Ive noticed that; one guy ive seen a few times, is rock hard straight after coming and was 59 when i met him and is now 60, another guy i met at 52 only managed to come once, seemed knackered by it yet both smoke and drink occasionally.

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

when i was 20 the problem was getting it down at nearly 40 its getting it back up again but fingers and tounge work as well and imagination has definetly improved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older men - always have done. When I was in my twenties I loved dating somebody 15 years older or more - even dated a guy who was 53 at the time (rock solid he was and knew what he was doing)

Today? As I said somewhere else before - it is not the age it is the life stage, maturity, wit etc a man brings alongside his ability to give me pleasure; generally speaking that would include 10 years either side of my age but would make exception for an exceptional man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This has been a very interesting Topic, glad I posted it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just find i get on best with guys a few years younger than me 45 to 50 ....most guys my age seem so old !! i shouldnt generalise but its just how i find it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

An addendum to this Topic is the thing I have found with younger females; they do not moan all the time about their ex-husbands, ex-lovers, ex-anything. They just like to have fun and be enjoyed for who they are rather then trying to make you believe that you (the man that is) are someone fantastic who is going to change their world. Oh and for females who ain't got a clue, most men will fuck anything female of any age, any colour, any size or shape, to them it is just a wet hole!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An addendum to this Topic is the thing I have found with younger females; they do not moan all the time about their ex-husbands, ex-lovers, ex-anything. They just like to have fun and be enjoyed for who they are rather then trying to make you believe that you (the man that is) are someone fantastic who is going to change their world. Oh and for females who ain't got a clue, most men will fuck anything female of any age, any colour, any size or shape, to them it is just a wet hole!....

do u actually like women ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he actually like anyone???

As regards most men will fuck anything. This one certainly won't. Neither will most blokes I know. Mind you, I suppose when I get to 59, my views may change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like mostly honest genuine people, few and far between and most men like females are not too honest about what they do, go try seeing how many married men go dogging and cottaging and such like. Few people are honest about what they do which is why so many STIs are around. I stand by what I stated, most men will fuck anything sometimes not even female! But please note I do say most and not all, the rest can't get i up at all!....lol

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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Keep it clean please people, you dn't want to be banned for answering someone else's comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand by what I stated, most men will fuck anything sometimes not even female! But please note I do say most and not all, the rest can't get i up at all!....lol

I actually find very few things offensive this however I do

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thought id answered this obviously it must have been one of the othe million topics on same subject im 45 partner is 67 im with him because i love and adore him, not after his money or anything it just simply works for us

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

ooo getting none is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with swingmates.

Rugby, I know I probably overstepped the mark on my post, and I apologise to the forum. I'll rein it in.

I still stand by my original comment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand by what I stated, most men will fuck anything sometimes not even female! But please note I do say most and not all, the rest can't get i up at all!....lol

I actually find very few things offensive this however I do"

certainly nothing to lol about or add smilies ?? im offended too !! but i guess maybe thats his modus operandii ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like mostly honest genuine people, few and far between and most men like females are not too honest about what they do, go try seeing how many married men go dogging and cottaging and such like. Few people are honest about what they do which is why so many STIs are around. I stand by what I stated, most men will fuck anything sometimes not even female! But please note I do say most and not all, the rest can't get i up at all!....lol

I don't think it's true most men will fuck anything.

Rather insulting, but perhaps that's your intention to get a rise out of people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's true most men will fuck anything.

Rather insulting, but perhaps that's your intention to get a rise out of people!

its possibly the only rise that happening.........

i think there nothin better than seein a nubile 19yr old with a dried up sac of a man desperately clinging onto his hair convinced she wants him for his sexual prowess.... and tryin to be down with the kids whilst she emptyin his bank account... gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside ya know!!! xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I stand by what I stated, most men will fuck anything sometimes not even female! But please note I do say most and not all, the rest can't get i up at all!....lol

I have been known to say something very similar…. Of course this generalisation is mostly fuelled by young guys responding to nature’s most basic male instinct (and because their penis is standing to attention every half hour) and the more mature guys who get lucky once in a blue moon and want to use it before they lose it.

The sad fact of this is…. the guys who will fuck anything are often deeply disappointed that there are far less women of a similar mindset…. which leaves the guy with far too much time on his hands, a disgruntled attitude and the only opportunity to talk about sex being to complain about the different groups of people who don’t want to have any with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any youger women want to shag an older man get in touch please

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