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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....are assholes

That is all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....are assholes

That is all... "

Only some, i thought according to a few that we were all assholes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....are assholes

That is all...

Only some, i thought according to a few that we were all assholes "

No not all.... Just a few.

Actually, some are more bitchy than us women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yes some are - I can also introduce u to a few cpl that would meet that definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can be an asshole, you just have to pick carefully and not mind a bit of trial and error. I read your profile and I do like the look of you but I didn't feel I meet your criteria so I didn't message. Not all guys are that bad, just wait and see. Check me out just in case I was wrong about not being your type lol

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend

Don't think the term "arseholes" applies to just guys, there are some right arseholes who are couples and single fems lol. However, arseholes (the two legged kind and not the point of exit for excrement) are thankfully in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hang them all!!!

jokin!!

ones iv met have been mostly lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say there are and they dont know when to stop but have meet a few nice ones so they make up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....are assholes

That is all... "

That's ok for people who like anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mainly meet guys and have to say that we have been lucky and met some really lovely guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input guys. Like I said not all just some are assholes. Some real sexy and very funny guys here too and have a few meets planned next few weeks but some sad fuckers dont like rejection and start getting abusive. Its those kind of single guys I am referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are real jerks, but there are plenty of other single women and couples who really give the site a bad name.

I like to think I am a non jerk! Some will doubtless disagree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes am beginning to think i should stick with couples judging by the inappropriate texts in the early hours, the "i wont text you non-stop" when they do, thinking its fun to bring along a mate on a first meet and he's fit and genuine and think that just cos we've had a social meet, i cant wait to jump into bed with them waste of bloody space

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes am beginning to think i should stick with couples judging by the inappropriate texts in the early hours, the "i wont text you non-stop" when they do, thinking its fun to bring along a mate on a first meet and he's fit and genuine and think that just cos we've had a social meet, i cant wait to jump into bed with them waste of bloody space"

I arranged to meet a guy off here a couple of weeks ago and he turned up with 4 mates in his car. I just cancelled the meet. Some single guys do take the piss and dont even realise how they screw things up for genuine guys. You are right, some are a waste of space.

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By *ick_olasMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes a shame because genuine people dont get a lookin

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

When i was meeting alone, most single guys were lovely, shame just a few spoil it for what i think are mostly great guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am busy fashioning a foreskin out of bacon rind...

I thought you said uncircumsised.

what an arsehole I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are many dicks on here, no pun intended lol, who spoil it for the rest but some really good genuine guys who know how to behave turn up and have fantastic genuine verifications like me xxx

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By *en6813Man
over a year ago

st. helens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll second that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....are assholes

That is all... "

Maybe you meet like minded blokes...

Try changing what or how you do it and you might get a better bloke....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a shame because genuine people dont get a lookin "
yes i agree with your statement. some of us genuine guys dont get a look in.

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By *arlitos WayMan
over a year ago

Brighton & Hove


"....are assholes

That is all... "

Some profiles are written in such an aggressive way that makes me feel whether it ‘s not the personality of that person to facilitate singles guys being “assholes” perhaps you should try to be a nicer person and genuinely nice in your approach, of course that does not mean you have to fancy them only because we they are on a swinger site!!! Profile are indeed personalised, but they tell you a lot about that person and if I feel a person is likely to be aggressive and cause me trouble I would avoid contacting that person.

In a few words, try re-writing your profile in a much more gentle way so as to attract a better group of well mannered guys and see how it goes, there would always be the odd one out, but you should not push away the nicest one and encourage the “assholes” to contact more likely then others!

Well that is what I think and I hope this may be of some help to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a load of single guys in here that give the good guys a bad name.. took me nearly 6 months to get to the point of a meet after loads of deleted messages and no replies.

Few rules I guess are -

- Don't Lie

- Don't Bullshit

- Don't be rude

- Turn up

- Don't put your cock on your profile pic!

Love the site and met some great people so hopefully there is hope for some of us singleton's in here

Have fun all - Lee x

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

iv a great asshole at home just a shame she wont let me poke it well i do try when she sleeping but sssshhhhhh lol

but on a more serious note, if people dont like what they hear and if they turn nasty then thats people with problems or people who try wind people up for no reason etc thats being an asshole to me trying be cocky when there just not!!!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

And then you have the arseholes that don't turn up.

Personally, we've given up on single men.

Shame really, cus I know many couples and single females who just give up cus the bad outway the good!

It does affect the nice guys..... but then on a site like this, the majority of single men will be time wasters, knob jockeys, married, anally retentive, emotionally retarded or just complete fuckwits!

The 10% minority are lovely though and I'm lucky enough to know a fair few of them...... but even those haven't stopped us giving up on single men on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been meeting guys of here and of another site for years now and and in all that time we have had 1 bad experiance with a guy.

We must have been lucky as we have found they guys we have met to be lovely,definatly not complete fuckwits.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im very lucky all the guys i know are lovelyx

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

could some guys that are really nice etc etc be putting on an act!! could they be diff once they not in a company where they have a chance to get laid...

single guys dont take this as im pointing you out or putting you in a bad light, not ment sound bad if thats they way you take that...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Im very lucky all the guys i know are lovelyx"

So are we then cos the majority of the guys we have met have been great

Is it luck though or is it the stringent interrogation process I put them through before meeting?

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By *ic70Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

I cant beleive someone turned up with his mates now that just does take the piss and ruins it for us geniune guys that turn up and treat you girls with respect. Some just dont know how to behave and some think because they go to a club think they have a right to a shag. For instance i went chams other week with a lady friend of mine. went into the sauna. Now nobody normally goes into the sauna but we were followed by at leat 3 guys. Why we were only having a sauna not playing or anything. We sweated them out tho.lol.

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By *ic70Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Thank you diamond you are a true and lovely lady too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been meeting guys of here and of another site for years now and and in all that time we have had 1 bad experiance with a guy.

We must have been lucky as we have found they guys we have met to be lovely,definatly not complete fuckwits."

I agree! Yes I get some bizzare messages from single men but it's the couples that contact I find weird: I'm straight and don't play with married men, so contacting me is an exercise in futility!

With the exception of one, the single men I've met have been great fun.

I think people are probably not selective enough if they've come to the conclusion the vast majority of single men are to be avoided!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"on a site like this, the majority of single men will be time wasters, knob jockeys, married, anally retentive, emotionally retarded or just complete fuckwits!

"

Hang on, I'm at least three of them!

D'oh - self awareness moment.

I'll get my coat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"on a site like this, the majority of single men will be time wasters, knob jockeys, married, anally retentive, emotionally retarded or just complete fuckwits!

Hang on, I'm at least three of them!

D'oh - self awareness moment.

I'll get my coat.... "

Lol...

Personally hate to hear of guys being slagged of like that,yes there are guys who are idiots on here but they are the minority.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

How many couples have messaged me/us with a lame " Hi, would you like some fun with us?" and having absolutely nothing that we are looking for ??

Have a look at the profile, it is not rocket science !

There must have been hundreds and when I return a message with a slight hint of exasperation, they get very defensive. they should not have bothered in the first place! When I write something on my profile you can trust me to mean it !

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had for more hassle and lack of respect from couples than single men. I have put this down to the "swinging is for couples" attitude that seems to be adopted by some. If everyone was polite to each other then we would have far less upset people all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had for more hassle and lack of respect from couples than single men. I have put this down to the "swinging is for couples" attitude that seems to be adopted by some. If everyone was polite to each other then we would have far less upset people all round."

ahh but its being polite that a lot of people seem to struggle with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had for more hassle and lack of respect from couples than single men. I have put this down to the "swinging is for couples" attitude that seems to be adopted by some. If everyone was polite to each other then we would have far less upset people all round."

Very true, some couples do seem to think that they 'own' this site and have a very lofty opinion of themselves, however they are in the minority, thank god

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By *ay112Man
over a year ago

northwest

Some or Most Single girls are bigger Assholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told."

I am not here to be "used and abused ...." as anyone "sees fit"

I am here to have mutual fun for all concerned in any meet and that includes me whether or not I am a single male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told."

If a man had posted that there would be uproar

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


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I am not here to be "used and abused ...." as anyone "sees fit"

I am here to have mutual fun for all concerned in any meet and that includes me whether or not I am a single male! "

Ah shut up and take your punishment

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


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I am not here to be "used and abused ...." as anyone "sees fit"

I am here to have mutual fun for all concerned in any meet and that includes me whether or not I am a single male!

Ah shut up and take your punishment "

From you Jane anytime x

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told.

If a man had posted that there would be uproar "

I did my wee protest reply though!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I have met some truelly wonderful men

so they're not all arseholes

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"on a site like this, the majority of single men will be time wasters, knob jockeys, married, anally retentive, emotionally retarded or just complete fuckwits!

Hang on, I'm at least three of them!

D'oh - self awareness moment.

I'll get my coat.... "

As it's you........ ssshhhuurrrruuuppp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told."

I really wish that was a joke but the irony is that some people come on here and actually believe that kind of thing.

Which leads to the crazy profiles where you expect Cindy Crawford's picture to pop up. Usually accompanied for requests that the guys have a minimum 9 inch cock, 6 pack, millionaire status and phd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice post swing22 - Some Single guys are decent as are woman whether attached or otherwise.

It's manners on here that I find lacking... doesn't take long to reply and hey if your genuine it should be fun - ain't that what we are here for?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told.

I really wish that was a joke but the irony is that some people come on here and actually believe that kind of thing.

Which leads to the crazy profiles where you expect Cindy Crawford's picture to pop up. Usually accompanied for requests that the guys have a minimum 9 inch cock, 6 pack, millionaire status and phd."

I think you need to stop taking this swinging thing too seriously, it was obviously a tongue in cheek post and I should think that 99% of the guys who read it realised that....hence the lack of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single guys r ok give em a break some cpls on here can be twice as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what the single men fail to realise is that they are here to be used and abused or not as the female of the species sees fit. Lets face it single men are ten a penny and its not hard to find one who will do exactly as he is told."

Hope thats just abit of "high camp" Domme talk...if not...thats a nasty attitude missy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single guys r ok give em a break some cpls on here can be twice as bad"

totally, the status of being single, or a guy or a combination of those two, does not result as a logical consequence, in a deterioration in character

Have met and continue to meet lots of really decent ones xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm, I would've thought that most single guys would be arseholes, which might explain why they're single....?

*just realised that I've called myself and arsehole, damn*

Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmmm, I would've thought that most single guys would be arseholes, which might explain why they're single....?

*just realised that I've called myself and arsehole, damn*

Matt "

Think about it man, if they were... how do they (most) end up in relationships eventually...lol

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By *ottongue49Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

think they need to go to either match.com or harmony.com then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said provocateur, i guess people always learn sometime... or find someone who's blind/deaf/mental (although isn't everyone a bit mental?)

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