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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

now im pretty sure our profile is about as straight forward as possible, so how comes when i send a sh!tty message (which will follow) all we get is agro?

the message was=

hi would just like to say thanx for the friends invite, but would also like to say, read our profile 1st u fkin thick c*nt its wasters like you that fuck every1 off. i believe scotland is the opposite end of the country!!! go have a lamb shank over somthing else.

what is wrong with people???

argh!!!

sorri 2 rant lol x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

then his reply is= wot ever! then he blocked us. boo hoo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what? lol

is it really that bad lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanx 4 the friens invit shaga lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm, great tits you got there.

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

I see tact and diplomacy was never a strong point lol

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

wiping tea off my screen !

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond


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I see tact and diplomacy was never a strong point lol"

PMSL

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

Spose a shags outta the question then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think being brutally honest is best with some peeps on here

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"i think being brutally honest is best with some peeps on here "

or just brutal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we cant be the only ones who dont understand why people opposite ends of the country send us friends invites when we havnt even spoke to them. or are we? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow someone is cross there i would have reported that!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

don't quite understand why the guy saying 'wot ever!' then blocking you after your lovely message to him could ever be classed as agro

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"we cant be the only ones who dont understand why people opposite ends of the country send us friends invites when we havnt even spoke to them. or are we? lol"

not at all ..you might be unique in how you chose to reply tho. I just press delete ..anything else is wasted effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

true, but it does get annoying after so many people do it. hitting delete just isnt satisfying enough all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he was no agro at all but so many people call names just because they fail 2 read our profile?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"now im pretty sure our profile is about as straight forward as possible, so how comes when i send a sh!tty message (which will follow) all we get is agro?

the message was=

hi would just like to say thanx for the friends invite, but would also like to say, read our profile 1st u fkin thick c*nt its wasters like you that fuck every1 off. i believe scotland is the opposite end of the country!!! go have a lamb shank over somthing else.

what is wrong with people???

argh!!!

sorri 2 rant lol x x x"

I hope they report you for abuse.

There was a thread on here the other day that ended in chaos, defamation of all sorts of shite......

But I have NEVER read anything so disgusting in my life.

That was beyond the pale.

He had a lucky escape me thinks.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"true, but it does get annoying after so many people do it. hitting delete just isnt satisfying enough all the time"

had hoped you were joking when i read the first post - is that really your stock message to people who like yourprofile and want to be friends??

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"true, but it does get annoying after so many people do it. hitting delete just isnt satisfying enough all the time"

good job we are all different then as I dont find abusing people very satisfying at all

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"he was no agro at all but so many people call names just because they fail 2 read our profile?"

OK but thats not how it read from your opening post and being honest I would have blocked too and reported the abuse that came back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st."

omg someone didnt read the profile lol we are shocked - what we usually do if its a fella from scotland is send the application form for the jeremy kyle show. It does make you glad you dont live there every time you have a day off xxx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st."

And do you think it's fair that you are able to hurl a tirade of abuse at a bloke, just cus he likes the look of your profile and pictures?

Do you think it's fair that if a bloke had sent that message, he would have been kicked off the site for that. But because he had the sense to walk away, you are still here to verbally abuse the next one?

I don't.

It's people who send messages like that who make me sick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st.

omg someone didnt read the profile lol we are shocked - what we usually do if its a fella from scotland is send the application form for the jeremy kyle show. It does make you glad you dont live there every time you have a day off xxx"

lol x

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st"

Everyones own choice to block who ever they want for any reason they choose! That's what the feature is available for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont u have a delete button???? jst wondering cause thats what most ppl would have done should they not wanted to be friends .... maybe worth considering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st"

I can't read half your posts the first time, because of the intermingling of text speak, no grammer and your appaling english.

Does that make me illiterate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st.

And do you think it's fair that you are able to hurl a tirade of abuse at a bloke, just cus he likes the look of your profile and pictures?

Do you think it's fair that if a bloke had sent that message, he would have been kicked off the site for that. But because he had the sense to walk away, you are still here to verbally abuse the next one?

I don't.

It's people who send messages like that who make me sick."

well im afraid its people like you that take this way to seriously, and you arent actually aware of what type of people are out there.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"its a single male, miles away, timewastin, this is not facebook. y would we wan2 be frinds with poeple who we will never meet. it states that on our profile. so we dont think its fair that people cant read our preferences 1st.

And do you think it's fair that you are able to hurl a tirade of abuse at a bloke, just cus he likes the look of your profile and pictures?

Do you think it's fair that if a bloke had sent that message, he would have been kicked off the site for that. But because he had the sense to walk away, you are still here to verbally abuse the next one?

I don't.

It's people who send messages like that who make me sick.

well im afraid its people like you that take this way to seriously, and you arent actually aware of what type of people are out there."

I've been swinging for 10 years. I am well aware of what type of people are out there.

People like you........!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st"

ummmmmmmmmmmm sp???? (*jumping on the spelling nazi band wagon unashamedly* )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st

I can't read half your posts the first time, because of the intermingling of text speak, no grammer and your appaling english.

Does that make me illiterate?"

see what i mean? poeple are way to uptight. this site is meant to be fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are not nasty, quite the opposite, just fed up with people trying to waste our time. 1 outbust and everyone goes mad?!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"[Removed by poster at 05/02/10 20:23:48]"

See there is delete buttons on here after all

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st

I can't read half your posts the first time, because of the intermingling of text speak, no grammer and your appaling english.

Does that make me illiterate?

see what i mean? poeple are way to uptight. this site is meant to be fun "

so you think that sending vile messages to someone who likes your profile makes this site more fun???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having jst read your profile you clearly state

QUOTE; Please dont message us if you live miles away as it will be totally pointless and we will not reply.

u then take the time to reply to the person in an abusive way and to top it all post your reply in the forum

perhaps the ignoring part would have been your best option dont u think????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is writing an abusive and insulting message against the site rules??

I think it is.

Did you in your first post admit that you wrote the abusive and insulting message?

I think you did.

Perhaps not the smartest way to start a thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes, but as said earlier it is very annoying. we have 1 outburst and everyone goes mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, but as said earlier it is very annoying. we have 1 outburst and everyone goes mad?"

then grow up and treat ppl with some respect then !!!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"having jst read your profile you clearly state

QUOTE; Please dont message us if you live miles away as it will be totally pointless and we will not reply."

maybe you should take the time to read YOUR OWN profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

respect??????

they dont respect our profile so y should we???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a friends request is not against site rules, however, sending abusive messages is.

Jeez, we have had hundreds of friends requests that we have ignored, it's simple to ignore, in fact I (this profile) got my first friends request recently, it was a bi male from I don't even know where, certainly not what I am looking for, guess what, I ignored it.

I too was in hope the OP was tongue in cheek.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"respect??????

they dont respect our profile so y should we???????"

how have they disrespected you?? all they have done is chanced their arm at being friends. you never know, they may have been visiting near you etc and wanted to meet.

you have verbally assaulted them, calling them vile names etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"respect??????

they dont respect our profile so y should we???????"

They sent a friends request, not abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, would you like to be my virtual friend, no feck off ya tosser, big difference there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some ppl have a bit of growing up to do ..... what did they do that disrespected your profile ????..... FECK ALL

other than think you looked nice, perhaps they work in your area, are gonna be visiting your area and thought

hey look at these nice ppl .... lucky escape one thinks!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does anyone here know what a friend is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone here know what a friend is?"

yip not u!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"does anyone here know what a friend is?"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmmm, single male, newly joined, no friends, no pics, in scotland id say he was wasting our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone here know what a friend is?

Yes!"

bb am i ur friend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone here know what a friend is?"

Yes, do you know when abuse is tolerated?

Never, not really, and not through sending a friends request, jeez, I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the chances are if you got a big friends list on here, your frieds list outside of this site is very small

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"does anyone here know what a friend is?

Yes!

bb am i ur friend lol"

Yes!

Does that mean i get to send you a friends invite without getting abuse back???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmmm, single male, newly joined, no friends, no pics, in scotland id say he was wasting our time"

No, you are wasting your time, you could choose to delete the request and ignore, or message with abuse then start a thread celebrating your rudeness, now, which would take the least time?

Not hard really, just roll your eyes and delete.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits. "

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry nobody got my point, was just a rare lashout after lots of wasters. peace!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"the chances are if you got a big friends list on here, your frieds list outside of this site is very small"

or your friends on here are friends out there and you are out having lots of fun whilst others are wasting their own time abusing innocent members to get their kicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too? "

Yeah!!

High Five!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i jst say one last thing on this topic cause quite frankly im bored now ......

many ppl on this site (not all before ppl shoot me down in flames) wouldnt meet ppl of ur age with the concern being they are not mature enough to swing...

you havent done yourselves any favours whatsoever in proving ppl wrong...

perhaps a rethink on your reply to the next poor soul that sends u a friends request or use the delete button.

good luck ur gonna need it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry nobody got my point, was just a rare lashout after lots of wasters. peace!"

I think we all get your point, just not your reasoning for such a reaction, very much over the top, and I think this thread will put you in very bad light, and put a lot of people off.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

Yeah!!

High Five! "

High Five! Right back at ya!

Want to be my cyber friend or should I go read your profile first? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hands up, maybe it was wrong, just thought other people may have had simular views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

Yeah!!

High Five!

High Five! Right back at ya!

Want to be my cyber friend or should I go read your profile first? lol "

I only have one friend on this profile, meant to stay that way too, makes it easy for people to find my actual swing profile.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

Yeah!!

High Five!

High Five! Right back at ya!

Want to be my cyber friend or should I go read your profile first? lol

I only have one friend on this profile, meant to stay that way too, makes it easy for people to find my actual swing profile. "

You must have loads of friends outwith the site then if only one friend on this profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

Yeah!!

High Five!

High Five! Right back at ya!

Want to be my cyber friend or should I go read your profile first? lol

I only have one friend on this profile, meant to stay that way too, makes it easy for people to find my actual swing profile.

You must have loads of friends outwith the site then if only one friend on this profile lol "

erm, erm, erm, yeah ok then.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I bet there's a few placed you on the block list after this, not me mind, I'm shallow and like your tits.

Am liking the tits pic reappearing too - does that make me shallow too?

Yeah!!

High Five!

High Five! Right back at ya!

Want to be my cyber friend or should I go read your profile first? lol

I only have one friend on this profile, meant to stay that way too, makes it easy for people to find my actual swing profile.

You must have loads of friends outwith the site then if only one friend on this profile lol

erm, erm, erm, yeah ok then. "

It was me turning around what was said earlier about folk with lots of friends in lists on here having very few outwith the site

Right, seeing as Lost is about to restart again on TV and this thread has had me Lost from the start am offski!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i understand where your coming from kind of i think the language was un needed. i have the same issue with people not reading my profile before messaging or sending friend invites but all i do is either send a polite reply or just delete them.

ive even had people get arsey with me cause i just deleted them and for those people i hit block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"sorry nobody got my point, was just a rare lashout after lots of wasters. peace!"

That "rare " lashout could end up you being banned from the site if the man you abused reported you. I for one is hoping the man does.

To the man who this couple abused, please report it to Admin.

It is inappropriate to be bragging on how you have abused someone, so thread closed.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"well then maybe he should be blocked for being illeterate and not reading 1st

I can't read half your posts the first time, because of the intermingling of text speak, no grammer and your appaling english.

Does that make me illiterate?

see what i mean? poeple are way to uptight. this site is meant to be fun "

So I'm uptight and illiterate now am I?

Thank god we have rules in place that stop us meeting people who have the ability to send such vile drivel.

And I tell you what, you are the same ages as my kids, and I would never ever allow such filth to come out of their mouths. They have respect for others.

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


" what we usually do if its a fella from scotland is send the application form for the jeremy kyle show. It does make you glad you dont live there every time you have a day off xxx"

How very small minded of you.

A

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