FabSwingers.com forum: rude guys !!!

By *assybutclassy OP Couple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

don't you just love it when a guy who has never ever messaged you before, with no face pics on his profile sends you a message casually saying, "i'm in your area thursday, fancy a meet", then sends you another rude message because you dont drop everything and answer him straight away !!!!, then to top it all off he BLOCKS YOU before you get the chance to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, Wouldn't it be great to have a button to press, that would blow of his tiny willie for pissing you off!!!!!!!!

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By *assybutclassy OP Couple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

lol, a girl after my own heart !!!, my thoughts exactly.....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's amazing how any of us genuine single guys ever get a response from singles or couples, when it seems the behaviour of some of the single guys on this site is just not in a proper conducted way. No wonder so many people say "no single guys", well thankfully the're are only a few who try and spoil it for the rest of us. "I hope"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, Wouldn't it be great to have a button to press, that would blow of his tiny willie for pissing you off!!!!!!!!"

Now you need to be a site supporter to get on of those babies lol....

I'm not sure if she's more peed off for not being able to tell him he's a twat or what lol....

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By *assybutclassy OP Couple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

TOO RIGHT i am....had a few choice words lined up for him i can tell ya...lol...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

To be honest I have found the worst ones for this to be couples. OK, yeah, guys do send more of the one-liner “I’m in your area” but I rarely get stroppy messages back after I’ve just deleted them. I have had a number of couples send “hey we want to meet you and are free tonight are you up for it?” which is followed by “I bet you’re a man” or a variety of other comments because they didn’t get an instant reply of “yes please”.

When men are thinking with their cock they do sometimes sulk when they realise giving themselves a wank is the only action they are likely to get in their hotel room. But, some couples can be so far up their own arse thinking they are ‘special’. Actually, I blame the single guys for that… some couples get so use to treating guys like dial-a-dildo and getting away with it they forget how to communicate like regular beings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TOO RIGHT i am....had a few choice words lined up for him i can tell ya...lol..."

Aww.... But you already know so why bother lol.. Bet your life he does too... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I have found the worst ones for this to be couples. OK, yeah, guys do send more of the one-liner “I’m in your area” but I rarely get stroppy messages back after I’ve just deleted them. I have had a number of couples send “hey we want to meet you and are free tonight are you up for it?” which is followed by “I bet you’re a man” or a variety of other comments because they didn’t get an instant reply of “yes please”.

Polo... you minx.

All couples 'are' special silly xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TOO RIGHT i am....had a few choice words lined up for him i can tell ya...lol..."

Come on, Whats your best retort, lol

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

It's not just single guys who are rude, some couples and single fems are rude too.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Polo... you minx.

All couples 'are' special silly xxxx "

Just because I think you are special my dearest chick-a-dee

it doesn't mean all couples are... though I am sure some went to school on a 'special bus' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good and bad in all races ages and genres....

Even we have good and bad days lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god, how maddening! Makes issues such as third world poverty seem trivial compared to this…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My god, how maddening! Makes issues such as third world poverty seem trivial compared to this… "

Is that a reference to the UK economy, :D

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

Great post totally agree ...!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have seen I tend to agree to a point. I have read so many profiles stating that when it comes to single men there will be no 'intimacy' during a meet and will be used for sex only. Also a lot state that single men are not welcome to even send an email and if the couple wants a single guy they will contact the one they choose themselves. Wow, makes you feel so warm inside and wanted. Personally I can't understand why someone would want to meet with people who have so much contempt for single men. And why is it some people have this notion that they are allowed to enjoy a meet but single guys are just there to be used?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Hey, it doesn't just happen to single guys....I've had several "invitations", where I've been told there will be no kissing or caressing - just sex ! Well not with me - why don't they just get a blow up doll!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Cheryl, i never dreamt this sort of thing would happen to single women too....i learn something everyday! Makes you wonder why they even bother inviting you doesn't it! Can't see the enjoyment or point of cold, mechanical sex myself.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Mechanical sex

As you say maight as well use a blow up doll

Not looking for hearts and flowers, but a bit of conversation and carressing etc,.............bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Let me tell you why I choose to find the single men we play with and not the other way around which was how our profile was set up when we first joined

Its because I could'nt keep up with the mail!!

No other reason than that...I love playing with single guys as well as couples but bloody hell my mail box was out of control so I had to change the profile

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By *assybutclassy OP Couple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

This is exactly the point i am tryin to make and why i posted this thread in the first place...i appreciate we are all on this site to get to know and hopefully meet nice people, and i must add we have nothing against single guys at all, nor do we consider ourselves to be in any way "special" as anyone who has met us will surely agree, but what i don't appreciate is anyone, be it a single guy or a couple to just expect us to meet them just because they happen to be in our area without even having the decency to introduce themselves then get shirty when we dont take them up on their "kind" offer...xx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

there's 2 types of people:

Nice people and a55holes.

black, white, male female - the proportions of good to bad are about the same.

if i meet or speak to someone rude or arrogant in any walk of life, I dont let it bother me - its like turning over the cards in a pack one by one - sooner or later you'll find the aces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

watch out you might get a couple of stroopy QUEENS pmsl

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Haha, I had just such a message from a guy and I replied by explaining that, having looked at his face pic I didn't fancy him. He retorted "Isn't it just my cock you want?" I patiently explained again, and I got back " you are a time waster - soo many on here"

I replied with a few choice phrases, pointing out that I did not appreciate his attitude, and was finally dismissed with the words: "You have a lot to learn, YOUNG MAN. I can spot you a mile off". It was me - Jane - writing all the time, but no, I had to be properly dissed because I didn't drop everything and rush to meet him......

He is still on the site, so beware!

Jane x

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"watch out you might get a couple of stroopy QUEENS pmsl"

I walked into that didnt I

seriously tho - you're gonna come across a55holes everywhere.

I remember on another swingign site I'm on saying hi to a couple who lived nearby in the chatroom.

"Nice to see someone else in wales on here, not many of around " I said.

"I'm not effin welsh and I aint looking for blokes"

Ironic then that me and them had exactly that much in common - you would have though we might have got on

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Haha, I had just such a message from a guy and I replied by explaining that, having looked at his face pic I didn't fancy him. He retorted "Isn't it just my cock you want?" I patiently explained again, and I got back " you are a time waster - soo many on here"

He is still on the site, so beware!

Jane x"

You see I know this is a site for swingers, and to be a swinger I think you need a thick skin, because you are not going to be every persons cup of tea...but we would never tell someone "I don't fancy you " we would just say no thanks.

The man coming back on the defensive isn't a surprise really.

I like straight talking with the best of them, but tact goes a long way too I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollox, tell em straight, if they look like a bag of spanners ( in yr own opinion) tell em, i do, like u say u gotta be thick skinned on here lol so take it like a man if someone dont fancy ya....

no point beating about the bush ....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And if it was on the other foot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care. if a guy dont fancy me i move on, i will never ever get offended by anyone on ere, lifes to short to care about wot ppl think of me..

altho i can add, ive only ever been blown out once by a guy who said i was fat .... lol guess wot, he just asked me for a meet, as if

haha xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"i dont care. if a guy dont fancy me i move on, i will never ever get offended by anyone on ere, lifes to short to care about wot ppl think of me..

altho i can add, ive only ever been blown out once by a guy who said i was fat .... lol guess wot, he just asked me for a meet, as if

haha xx"

You sound offended by him calling you fat, so much so that you won't meet him now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not offended, been called worse. i just enjoyed tellin him were to go, in a nice way tho i might add ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy with a 'bugger off'!

I don't think my inbox is working!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equally though, nobody likes to have their feelings all bent out of shape.

Treat people how you'd like to be treated... it's the only way.

Seems a bit needlessly cruel to "not beat around the bush". A simple, "thanks but no thanks" should be enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day we are all here for the same reasons and we all have likes and dislikes through choice.

I for one know what i dont want.

Also you have to be thick skinned on here and move on

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"bollox, tell em straight, if they look like a bag of spanners ( in yr own opinion) tell em, i do, like u say u gotta be thick skinned on here lol so take it like a man if someone dont fancy ya....

no point beating about the bush ....

xx"

I tell them I'd rather wash a corpse.

I still get the return email though...... "why not?... (whinge whinge) Whats wrong with me?" (whinge whinge)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

What am I doing wrong? I don't get any of this rudeness

I do get some very strange requests though lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Snap honey, we never get rude mails either.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Do you get the strange requests though? when I read some of them I need to go and exfoliate my eyeballs lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No lol

I am not amused now, why don't we get any !!

We did get one on another site of offering me to have the use of his labradors....but that is the only weird one I think.

You should start a thread and see what odd things get offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a quick point from a new bloke, this site is about having fun, in a safe and respectable way, I would prefer someont to say thanks but no thanks, I will say thanks and be on my way, I do not ask for a shag in the first message, I ask to chat, what does get my back up though is when the message just gets deleted, you would not ignore someone in a bar face to face if they said hello, why do it here.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"a quick point from a new bloke, this site is about having fun, in a safe and respectable way, I would prefer someont to say thanks but no thanks, I will say thanks and be on my way, I do not ask for a shag in the first message, I ask to chat, what does get my back up though is when the message just gets deleted, you would not ignore someone in a bar face to face if they said hello, why do it here."

Because emails are like junk mail...... you can throw them away with no concience.

Mind you, I've ignored a few muppets in my time down the local. And a few in swinging clubs....

But then, I'm just a horrible, rude, bitch who's got no sense of right or wrong.

hahahhahahahhahahha.

Seriously........ some people get a message, will look at the profile before opening and decide not to bother. To be honest, half the time we get the whingers mailing back or being extremely rude and calling me a fat, old slag.

I am too old and too wise to bother.....

I therefore, check profiles, delete and block at the same time.

It's called........

CHOICE.

Not rudeness

CHOICE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh no, another moaner about replies, lol

well said _adchick, lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept your comment on choice, and I would add that I never reply with a nasty or rude or insulting message if I don't get a reply, likewise if I get a thanks but no thanks I will message back and say thank you, but that's the way I am.

I must learn not to judge people by my own standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and by the way scrummy, It waa not a moan

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