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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we sent a couple of messages to a couple on here who liked our profile and we liked theirs, we sent face pics and got a really lame excuse back about how they got us mixed up with someone else and sorry blah blah. Well me not being a gullable idiot replied

'ha ha thats a good one because we aint what your looking for after sending face pics'.

they replied with this (copy and pasted)

well its no skin of our nose its good to be honest!!

goodluck with ur search u pair of models (pmsl)

so is it worth reporting these cruel freaks, i have reported someone before and got no reply from admin and the people reported are still here, some may try and make light of it and im not easily offended but it does put you off sending face pics when you get a cruel reply like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had few myself but not much you can do about did report it but it nothing happen just block an move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we sent a couple of messages to a couple on here who liked our profile and we liked theirs, we sent face pics and got a really lame excuse back about how they got us mixed up with someone else and sorry blah blah. Well me not being a gullable idiot replied

'ha ha thats a good one because we aint what your looking for after sending face pics'.

they replied with this (copy and pasted)

well its no skin of our nose its good to be honest!!

goodluck with ur search u pair of models (pmsl)

so is it worth reporting these cruel freaks, i have reported someone before and got no reply from admin and the people reported are still here, some may try and make light of it and im not easily offended but it does put you off sending face pics when you get a cruel reply like that."

Personally i would report them,there was no need for the nasty reply.

Block them and thank your lucky stars you didnt meet them,they sound like idiots.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"we sent a couple of messages to a couple on here who liked our profile and we liked theirs, we sent face pics and got a really lame excuse back about how they got us mixed up with someone else and sorry blah blah. Well me not being a gullable idiot replied

'ha ha thats a good one because we aint what your looking for after sending face pics'.

they replied with this (copy and pasted)

well its no skin of our nose its good to be honest!!

goodluck with ur search u pair of models (pmsl)

so is it worth reporting these cruel freaks, i have reported someone before and got no reply from admin and the people reported are still here, some may try and make light of it and im not easily offended but it does put you off sending face pics when you get a cruel reply like that."

You started it.......with this..


"'ha ha thats a good one because we aint what your looking for after sending face pics'."

Why would you want to report someone who didn't want to meet you?

You won't be everyone's cup of tea.

And if that's what you are reporting people for, then I'm not suprised Admin are ignoring you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i had few myself but not much you can do about did report it but it nothing happen just block an move on"

well they blocked us so we could not reply, we will move on, its just not right having people on here that are verified and treat others in this way, lying is one thing but being cruel in this way should not be tolerated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never easy to tell someone no thanks after initial interest. Do you say a white lie or tell the truth?

Think its just best left all round and more on to the next people who interest you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had few myself but not much you can do about did report it but it nothing happen just block an move on

well they blocked us so we could not reply, we will move on, its just not right having people on here that are verified and treat others in this way, lying is one thing but being cruel in this way should not be tolerated."
yeh ano the feeling get it from a few single females the same way

but i just move on to the next 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

_adchick, i was making light of their obvious lies, its good to see you think we deserved such treatment, your as bad as them

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"_adchick, i was making light of their obvious lies, its good to see you think we deserved such treatment, your as bad as them"

So what if they lied to you. At least they tried to let you down lightly.

Plenty will see a facial picture and just delete and block.

And you are sooooooo cruel for saying I am as bad as them.

Shall I report you for that remark?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you had a lucky escape, you look great to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

To be honest I would'nt have reported them either

I would have just left it when they made it clear they wer'nt interested

Whether or not you think they were lying they made it clear that you're not what they were looking for

Don't dwell on it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"_adchick, i was making light of their obvious lies, its good to see you think we deserved such treatment, your as bad as them"

The trouble here is that all we have is one side of the argument and no proof what so ever as to who said what to who and if those accused are reading this no matter what they say you have already poisoned the well so to speak.

Being brutally honest the "excuse" offered would have been enough to tell us straight away our face pics had gone down badly.

We would have acted as mature and grown up adults, taken the rejection on the chin and moved on and we would certainly not have started a totally unsubstantiated thread looking for sympathy

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"its just not right having people on here that are verified and treat others in this way"

Oooooooooooo you should read some of the replies we've received!!!! they've made us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I'm with Maddie and HPC on this one. They were trying to be nice and let you down gently. People do it all the time. Yeah they told a white lie so that they didn't have to say "we don't find you attractive", no need to pick up on that fact, light hearted or not.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"we sent a couple of messages to a couple on here who liked our profile and we liked theirs, we sent face pics and got a really lame excuse back about how they got us mixed up with someone else and sorry blah blah"

at least you got a reply (lol) but we too have had similar and taken that as a "no thanks" and yes moved on

indeed some replies can sound harsh but unless they are abusive then just block/move on as others above have posted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i guess i just expect people to be better at lying

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"well i guess i just expect people to be better at lying "

some are, many not sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"well i guess i just expect people to be better at lying "

Would you rather they called you an ugly munter

Not for one minute suggesting you are but they let you down gently and you have responded by calling them cruel freaks because you pushed the issue and forced them to respond further

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"_adchick, i was making light of their obvious lies, its good to see you think we deserved such treatment, your as bad as them

The trouble here is that all we have is one side of the argument and no proof what so ever as to who said what to who and if those accused are reading this no matter what they say you have already poisoned the well so to speak.

Being brutally honest the "excuse" offered would have been enough to tell us straight away our face pics had gone down badly.

We would have acted as mature and grown up adults, taken the rejection on the chin and moved on and we would certainly not have started a totally unsubstantiated thread looking for sympathy "

Saves me typing as I am lazy today so I would echo what this post and others have said.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

ok i've been o9n this site for several months now, and i'm a regular user of the forums,and i've seen similar threads to this pop up on an almost weekly basis, lets face it there will always be an element that enter these sites, who are here for one thing and one thing ony,TO WIND PEOPLE UP, and they seem to do it with great skill and applumb, years ago as a kid my parents taught me " sticks and stones will break your bones, but names are never going to hurt you".

if they are on this site with profile's it's a sure bet they can read these threads too, and i'll lay a £10 to your £1 they are sitting there laughing at the fact you are in the forums moaning, groaning and whinging because some one had the cheek to say in what ever tone they chose to use " that your not the one for them".

come on i thought this was an adult site, stop acting like spoilt children when someone throws your ball in someone else's garden, just go recover it and play with those you know and trust.

sorry but i see these kind of threads as fuel for the fire and of no use in any way shape or form.

like i said at the opening of this i've been here a while , and yes i've sent many a message to many a lady or couple, and yes i've had more than my share of nasty replies, but you'll never ever see me on the forums complain, i just delete and look for new pasture's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's far too logical Touvak!

Have you decided to grow yourself a bit of a mullet over christmas?

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"That's far too logical Touvak!

Have you decided to grow yourself a bit of a mullet over christmas? "

i have indeed lol and as for being far to logical, it's also far to simple for some to comprehend that htreads like this do no good what so ever, in fact i'd go so far as to say they just cause others to shy away from those who have posted such threads, for fear of if they reject them they themselves will be reported

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"That's far too logical Touvak!

Have you decided to grow yourself a bit of a mullet over christmas?

i have indeed lol and as for being far to logical, it's also far to simple for some to comprehend that htreads like this do no good what so ever, in fact i'd go so far as to say they just cause others to shy away from those who have posted such threads, for fear of if they reject them they themselves will be reported "

You could be right about that one

But as this thread is about another member who shouldn't have to put up with being being bad mouthed on a forum. then maybe it is time to shut it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well im not here for sympathy and i alread said i am aware we should just move on, we are better off not meeting these kind of people so we have been fortunate in that way.

im just peeved that people can do this and nothing is done about it, so basically admin wont bother with such things and the offenders are free to offend others.

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