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By *imonjane OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

weekly

So what gives you the ick on a profile that you have to delete or block immediately?

For me it’s just a cock pic, or an ass picture or some utterly horrendous underwear

Come on guys, you have to win us over not put us

Off

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By *ISSchievous CoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

County Durham

For us it’s:

- Only cock or pussy close up pics, one is ok but when that’s all there is no thanks

- little to no bio

- no profile pics

- only one or two profile pics

- photos that don’t factor in the surroundings e.g toilets

- profiles claiming they are bi but the bio only talks about women

- Messages from profiles that don’t match our boundaries. It’s clear they’ve not read our profile

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
2 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

I don't typically immediately block.

I won't really be very interested if they have no profile, no pics or just random genitals ha.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
2 weeks ago

norwich ish

A close up of an unkempt garden

Pics in the loo

First message is “hey”

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Long list of demands with no indication of what they bring to the table.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Any pics of them wearing crocs.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
2 weeks ago

norwich ish


"Any pics of them wearing crocs."

🤣

With or without a Pineapple Jibbitz?

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By *ogerroger69Man
2 weeks ago

West Yorks

A gaping arsehole

No need x

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By *isser44Man
2 weeks ago

fylde Coast

A long list of demands with little to no effort put into their profile

One word messages, just fuck off why even bother.

Dirty scruffy rooms in background of pics, just screams poor hygiene.

Rough feet 🤢

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By *carlettsWoman
2 weeks ago

Harpenden

All of the above

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By *oul_Man-MedwayMan
2 weeks ago

Kent

Not really an ick or block worthy, but if someone can't string a few meaningful sentences together for their profile, it does make me wonder if they can hold an intelligent conversation in real life.

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By *cott45hullMan
2 weeks ago

Hull

A statement about Facebook

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

[Removed by poster at 04/07/26 08:41:00]

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

Passive aggressive comments to the effect that we're rude and ignorant if we don't reply to their message.

(Edit for spelling!)

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By *aandLoCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton

If it's a single guy and his profile pic, or even the first pic in his gallery, has another person in it, we delete immediately. We want to find out about him, not who he's been in. Plus, the issues of consent....

Lists in bios just seem dull, lazy, and somewhat proscriptive. We need paragraphs with reasonable spelling and punctuation.

If any part of their bio is needlessly graphic or crude we're turned off. It's just not our vibe - well not until we know them better anyway.

There are more but I'd hate this to become a list. 😬

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By *lainJane23Woman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

A wedding ring. DOH

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Profiles full of action shots, where they are hanging out of various women bare.

Single male accounts that have profile pics not of them ie a woman's arse/vag. I'm not after women, I'd be wanting to see the man.

Condoms full of jizz hanging off a cock 🤢.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also no public pics at all, delete.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Oh and nasty status updates, seen one lately implying some women are 4 in the real world, so shouldn't be picky.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

Some ranting whining woman/couple profile text that is like an essay to read .. I can shorthand it for them to a sensible level .

Any profile with that dogshit term hint of snow / party etc

Alpha / CNC / dominant master etc

Stupid photo quality / positioning / composition. It’s not hard this day and age to get a basic understanding of framing shots. YouTube is a thing

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By *rolicerMan
2 weeks ago

Abergele

When it looks like they wouldn't meet themselves, lol

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By *luebutterfly24Couple
2 weeks ago

Sphincter on sea


"For us it’s:

- Only cock or pussy close up pics, one is ok but when that’s all there is no thanks

- little to no bio

- no profile pics

- only one or two profile pics

- photos that don’t factor in the surroundings e.g toilets

- profiles claiming they are bi but the bio only talks about women

- Messages from profiles that don’t match our boundaries. It’s clear they’ve not read our profile

"

All of the above except we do like an occasional cock and pussy close up 🤣

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By *andb69Couple
2 weeks ago

leeds

There are plenty of things that put us off a profile (gynaecological photos, gaping orifices, women's arses sticking in the camera, men in women's underwear, vulgarity rather than eroticism etc, etc) but we don't block any of them because everyone has a right to post whatever pictures they choose. We just quickly move on.

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By *eekyTattsCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Tyne and Wear

A profile that sounds really patronising and photos of close ups.

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By *avyBlueManMan
2 weeks ago

St Trinian's Academy

Aggressive profiles or those full of don't wants. Hardly anything about what they have to offer or being friendly.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Empty profiles

Fill in later

A gross pic that freaks me out

Zero info

Happy to go unprotected

Men being like 'make me interested'

Hidden profiles creeping

Statuses that talk about women like they're a commodity

Sooooo much

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Oo jizz shots and any profile with them hanging out of a woman whose consent they 💯 didn't ask for to share the photo

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By *RONMAN16Man
17 hours ago

Coventry

Bad grammar.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
17 hours ago

Ilfracombe

What puts me off is seeing a couples profile with no pictures of the male half.

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By *uimquiveringqueenWoman
17 hours ago

the land of vagina

Gaping cum dripping holes

People who put a stupid word like "juice" and say quote juice in you message - no i wont you pleb.

Couples profiles thats just all of the lady and we dont know if the man exists or is just locked in the cupboard.

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By *etwife8230Couple
17 hours ago

Newport

Will fill in later

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By *pongeFab-SwingPantsCouple
17 hours ago

Pineapple under the sea


"Will fill in later "

^^ This. Along with 18 to 99 age ranges, silhouette profile pic, not verified genuine, no veris, only 1 cock pic despite being couples profile, any form of legal bollocks at bottom.

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By *r lotharioMan
17 hours ago

newcastle under lyme

yeah, and it stays that way forever. shocking lack of effort

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
17 hours ago

Gloucestershire

Profile pictures of just 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆 extra minus posts for his hand choking his 🍆 till it matching the emoji in colour.

Single male pictures of him fucking various other people bare especially giving anal.

And I need mind bleach for a view of man's arsehole winking at me whilst his 🍆🥜 hang down 🤢🤢

A person in their late 40's 50's 60's with will shag anything from 18 to 99.

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By *hrisANtifCouple
17 hours ago

Napoli, Italy

Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!!

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By *eroLondonMan
16 hours ago

Mayfair


"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!! "

This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):

"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."

ㅤㅤ

I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.

Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles.

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By *ukaMan
16 hours ago

Chester

A blank profile picture and anything about Sydney university.

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By *asteandteaseCouple
16 hours ago

c

No profile pic

Not photo verified

Someone who is miles away

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By *hrisANtifCouple
16 hours ago

Napoli, Italy


"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!!

This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):

"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."

ㅤㅤ

I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.

Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."

Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous.

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By *aomilatteCouple
16 hours ago

Midlands


"Single guy profiles where all the pics are of women. Seriously we’re really happy for you that you’ve had sex before, but a full body pic of a woman with a tiny snapshot of your balls going in her is not much use. You’re selling yourself, not her!!

This is my comment from two weeks ago on this thread (higher up):

"Women's profiles displaying gratuitous action shots or crass videos of them having sex with other men. I'm well aware that enjoy sex but I don't need to see the evidence of it."

ㅤㅤ

I'm going to expand on this: I don't often use the search facility on here but I did last night. Out of the 300 single women's profiles approx' 200 of them had videos and photos of them engaged in sex, with their quims being pummeled and looking like yesterday's jam, with seminal fluids spurting onto them like a bottle of Champagne that's just been popped.

Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."

Do you think any of those women's profiles are run by men? We've spoke to couples who also have a "single woman" profile and it's the man who runs it.

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
16 hours ago

Leeds

Requests for bareback is an immediate no from us

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By *eroLondonMan
16 hours ago

Mayfair


"Do you think any of those women's profiles are run by men? We've spoke to couples who also have a "single woman" profile and it's the man who runs it."

No. They were proprietary profiles owned by women, photo verified, invested with gold/silver site supporter and with a clutchfull of verifications leading to a breadcrumb trail of other well-established profiles, including people on the forums.

Perhaps a handful might have been but that hardly detracts from my original point.

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By *eroLondonMan
16 hours ago

Mayfair


"...Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous."

I think some introspection might be advised: I've looked at your profile.

The irony.

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By *hinstrapMan
16 hours ago

sheffield

Anything gaping.

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
16 hours ago

Gloucestershire


"

Men aren't blind to the exploits of some women. Crass videos and photos exist on both men and women's profiles."

I totally agree and as a woman who is only interested in men I can only comment on what I see, as I don't look at women's profiles.

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By *inchyorksMan
16 hours ago

huddersfield

Arsey status updates ,if things make you that angry you have to put it in a status, makes me cringe!

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By *otYourKind666Man
16 hours ago

Horsham

Profiles with nothing on demanding face pics

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
15 hours ago

UK

Nothing but pics of genitalia.

“Will fill in later”

18-99 age range.

Photos of people who are not the profile owner

Couple’s profile with no pics of the man or just pics of his dick.

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By *ecretindiancoupleukCouple
15 hours ago

London / Midlands / Manchester

Blank profiles with no narrative to understand more about the individual or couple. X

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
14 hours ago

Eastbourne


"So what gives you the ick on a profile that you have to delete or block immediately?

For me it’s just a cock pic, or an ass picture or some utterly horrendous underwear

Come on guys, you have to win us over not put us

Off "

It has to be the "sat on the toilet cock pic"

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By * Bourne1Man
14 hours ago

Southbourne


"Any pics of them wearing crocs."

😆😆😆😆 absolutely awful things I hate them, my sister has said when I die she's going to bury me in a pair 🤮🤮🤮

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By *lirtatious JadeWoman
14 hours ago

Wakefield


"If it's a single guy and his profile pic, or even the first pic in his gallery, has another person in it, we delete immediately. We want to find out about him, not who he's been in. Plus, the issues of consent.... "

Absolutely this!

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By *ackInBlackMan
5 hours ago

Caerphilly

A profile pic showing either couple smoking. Fag smoke....ugggg ...

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
2 hours ago

Newport

Sat on the toilet photos

Vulgar or rude first messages

Cheaters

People you message with incoherent text talk and show no intelligence.

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By *hrisANtifCouple
2 hours ago

Napoli, Italy


"...Not really talking about the crass aspect, that’s to each their own, I’m talking 99% of the picture being someone else. It’s like showing someone a satellite picture of the earth and telling them it’s a picture of your house. It’s disingenuous.

I think some introspection might be advised: I've looked at your profile.

The irony."

We (mostly the hotwife side of us given that is what our profile is) are the main subject of every single one of our pictures. So there I’m sorry to tell you there is absolutely nothing ironic in this post.

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