FabSwingers.com forum: Substance Abuse

By *asquatch43 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

So if you turn up for a meet and your playmate or mates are hammered or off their face, do you leave or crack on?

I would make my excuses and go, I find wasted folk very annoying unless I’m in a similar condition

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By *ealitybitesMan
7 weeks ago

Belfast

I would seriously question the thought process of anyone who would "crack on".

I would leave even if it was alcohol involved.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

Leave.

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By *earditallWoman
7 weeks ago

Lancaster

If they were in that state how could anything happen...I would leave

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By *ootnootboopCouple
7 weeks ago

Cheshire

Anyone under the influence of any substance -including alcohol, can't adequately consent and so we leave right there and then

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
7 weeks ago

west midlands

"Anyone under the influence of any substance -including alcohol, can't adequately consent and so we leave right there and then "

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By *um n raisinWoman
7 weeks ago

taunton

if someone needs to be high or tipsy / d*unk then im going nowhere near then if i turn up and this then i simply walk away ...

same goes for tipsy/d*unk in clubs i/we totally avoid..

also the amount of men who message me wanting to get booze involved ..i wonder why???

plus if a person is tipsy/d*unk then consent goes out the window and that spells trouble sadly mainly for guys

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By *um n raisinWoman
7 weeks ago

taunton

"Anyone under the influence of any substance -including alcohol, can't adequately consent and so we leave right there and then "

this

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By *igrobboMan
7 weeks ago

Sunderland

For some blokes, like my self.

I am very shy and nervous when I meet anyone new any where.

I have very little self confidence.

So a couple of drinks to me would help me be more relaxed and un shy,

But I would take it to the point where I would be bladdeed to the point I couldn't walk straight.

For some it helps.

But for substance abuse (cocaine).

Then I would definitely walk away or even use.

I openly admit I was an addict.

2 and half year clean now.

So if I seen anyone using in front of me then no thanks.

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Leave, those people can change moods very quixk. I value my safety

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would know well in advance if my "playmate" / partner / paramour was into such substances. They wouldn't be in my company or social circle to begin with.

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By *elloSidneyCouple
7 weeks ago

Darlington

We don’t play with anyone who has “HnH” in their profile. We see enough smackheads in every day life, never mind in swinging.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
7 weeks ago

Portstewart

Honestly we would run like fuck.

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By *asquatch43 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"We don’t play with anyone who has “HnH” in their profile. We see enough smackheads in every day life, never mind in swinging."

What does HnH mean?

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By *estinysswingersCouple
7 weeks ago

Worsley

Leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

There’s a lot of room to question with this thread. We’ve had party nights at ours drinking with tunes on for hours and invited people round for a drink and chill leading to fun afterwards but would always tell our potential meet almost immediately that we were drinking, like you should. Most times this happens it’s usually one of our regulars invited though. Same way that if we arranged a meet through the day or wasn’t partying we’d expect to be told if they’d be drinking, or taken. Would completely understand someone walking away from a scenario the OP has put if no one was made aware and walked in to them more than merry

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By *estinysswingersCouple
7 weeks ago

Worsley

"We don’t play with anyone who has “HnH” in their profile. We see enough smackheads in every day life, never mind in swinging.

What does HnH mean?"

High and horny.

Nobody heard of urban dictionary anymore?

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By *he MinionMan
7 weeks ago

Surrey

I have found i tend to drink less and less each time i go to clubs.

As others have said, HnH or 420 friendly isnt for me either

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
7 weeks ago

Paignton

Drugs in any form is an instant no from us, wouldn’t want to be involved with anyone who does

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By *essTTWoman
7 weeks ago

Birmingham

"So if you turn up for a meet and your playmate or mates are hammered or off their face, do you leave or crack on?

I would make my excuses and go, I find wasted folk very annoying unless I’m in a similar condition "

This happened to me once and I genuinely didn't understand what was happening

We carried on but I didn't realise he had taken drugs until It was too late

He messaged me and apologised the next day but I just blocked him

Thankfully it hasn't happened since but if would defo leave, as long as it was safe for me to do so, if i got that inkling again

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By *urlycatMan
7 weeks ago

Southampton

I'd be gone!

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By *ichaelsmyMan
7 weeks ago

douglas

defo leave it

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By *hisfuckingguyMan
7 weeks ago

Bradford

They can't really consent. Also intoxicated people are so annoying when you're sober. I'd just leave

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