FabSwingers.com forum: Moral dilemma, thoughts?

By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Moral dilemma here. Been to a gangbang. Fairly normal set up other than we were told by the host we must all wear masks. The slut was amazing (not naming as she’s on here) learned later that it was organised by a mate of her ex husband. The ex husband wanted to fuck her again and knew he had no chance otherwise. She has no idea he was in the group. Interested to know if you thoughts was it was fair play or out of order?

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By *arleycplWoman
20 weeks ago

Frodsham

If she wanted the GB, then he was just another cock

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By *ellhungvweMan
20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"If she wanted the GB, then he was just another cock"

I am with this. She could easily have checked identities if she had wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Don’t get me wrong I’m not planning on being some white knight. Ha

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
20 weeks ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough

Sorry but if she was comfortable having an ‘anonymous’ gangbang arranged by someone who was a friend of her ex-husband, assuming she knew who his friends were… there is no moral dilemma here

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
20 weeks ago

Essex

Whether she wanted a GB or not its completely out of order, if shes made it clear to the guy she doesn't want to have sex with him then he has taken away her consent. Just because a woman wants sex with multiple people doesn't mean anyone gets to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Seems to be a 50/50 divide on this.

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By *ormagenericlblokeMan
20 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Feels like a made up story anyway

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
20 weeks ago

Port Talbot

"Feels like a made up story anyway"

100%

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
20 weeks ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough

"Feels like a made up story anyway

100%"

Also this

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
20 weeks ago

Next Door

The organiser didn't have much respect for the lady concerned.

But then she could off vetted the guest list beforehand, so there wouldn't have been no one who she didn't want there.

If that happened to me, (I'm not into gangbangs), then I would be really annoyed at the organiser and trust broken so it would never happen again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Feels like a made up story anyway"

As in she knew about it?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Even with a mask I'm sure she could recognise her ex husband

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"The slut was amazing (not naming as she’s on here) "

Have you asked her for a verification ?

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By *vaRoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Her ex husband knows she won’t consent to sex with her. He has sex with her - that’s assault (can’t use the R word on the forum sorry mods).

If the organiser also knew this and helped orchestrate it is complicit to that assault and should be charged accordingly

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By *hitelotusMan
20 weeks ago

london

Was it an anonymous gang bang? As much as the idea is exciting , how could be sure about their age for example ?

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By *otsossieMan
20 weeks ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

I don’t believe you’d fail to recognise someone you’ve previously been that close to. Even with a mask.

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By *otsossieMan
20 weeks ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

"Feels like a made up story anyway"

Also this. Feels like a weird fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

not my fantasy if so

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"I don’t believe you’d fail to recognise someone you’ve previously been that close to. Even with a mask. "

It would have to be a sack over y

the head because with a mask you can see their eyes

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"not my fantasy if so"

Why did the organiser tell you the ex was there ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"Her ex husband knows she won’t consent to sex with her. He has sex with her - that’s assault (can’t use the R word on the forum sorry mods).

If the organiser also knew this and helped orchestrate it is complicit to that assault and should be charged accordingly

Did the woman previously say "I want a gangbang but I don't want my ex to fuck me" ?

If so and she saw a group of men in hoods, wouldn't she be suspicious ?

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By *tannersMan
20 weeks ago

stanley

Geez, I can see both sides but it feels a bit creepy and disingenuous to me

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By *ny1localMan
20 weeks ago

READING

If you can excuse the pun,sounds like a load of bollocks.

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By *eturning MGMan
20 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

"Moral dilemma here. Been to a gangbang. Fairly normal set up other than we were told by the host we must all wear masks. The slut was amazing (not naming as she’s on here) learned later that it was organised by a mate of her ex husband. The ex husband wanted to fuck her again and knew he had no chance otherwise. She has no idea he was in the group. Interested to know if you thoughts was it was fair play or out of order?"

Well if shes on here and knows you she wont need to be Jessica Fletcher to work it out of she reads forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Spoken to the lad who arranged it was a last minute addition and regrets it on reflection. Thanks for the views especially the females. Defo putting it in the lessons learned pile

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By *ev_1Couple
20 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Think she would have known who her ex-husband was even if he had a hood on

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
20 weeks ago

Waterlooville

"Whether she wanted a GB or not its completely out of order, if shes made it clear to the guy she doesn't want to have sex with him then he has taken away her consent. Just because a woman wants sex with multiple people doesn't mean anyone gets to do it. "

100%

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
20 weeks ago

South Wales

"Feels like a made up story anyway

100%"

This for sure

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's feels v predatory to me tbh.

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By *ellinever70Woman
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire

My thoughts are she's quite the woman to be asking the mate of her ex husband to organise a gang bang for her

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By *overs4loversCouple
20 weeks ago

Shropshire

We live a gangbang, it’s our favourite thing to do, so heres our 2 pence worth…

1. Seems like a bullshit story.

2. IF it is true it’s definitely a sexual assault on the part of the ex and the organiser. They have both completely taken her consent and thrown it out of the window.

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By *nionbearMan
20 weeks ago

holmes chapel

Doesn't sit right with me

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
20 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Totally morally unacceptable, but is it illegal?

I think that the sympathy of the court would be with the woman. Her ex clearly believed that she wouldn't consent, or he would have asked her.

I'd suggest that the OP informs the woman, if this isn't a made up story. He doesn't want to end up being an accomplice.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
20 weeks ago

bluebell woods

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By *og and MuseCouple
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Ok it's made up but hypothetically if you say you don't want sex with someone then go into an anonymous gang bang without checking names I think you've waived your consent.

Thats like saying I'm definitely going on a diet in the new year and then on Jan 2nd stuffing your face with pies.

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By *vaRoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Ok it's made up but hypothetically if you say you don't want sex with someone then go into an anonymous gang bang without checking names I think you've waived your consent.

Thats like saying I'm definitely going on a diet in the new year and then on Jan 2nd stuffing your face with pies.

But the ex knew she wouldn’t consent

That makes it assault

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