FabSwingers.com forum: Propositioned by Gay men on Fabswingers

By *rh_charles OP Man
27 weeks ago

bedfordshire

Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
27 weeks ago

London

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

So many straight men on here really aren't that straight, so they aren't opposed to it. I often get messages from straight guys wanting fun.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
27 weeks ago

Prestwich

All the time, doesn't bother me at all

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By *igBeardyDanMan
27 weeks ago

Bilston

No, I've blocked single men from being able to contact me

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By *he Silver FuxMan
27 weeks ago

Utero

I simply filter out single men messages.

Still get my photos Fabbed… which is nice

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
27 weeks ago

Cheshire

It has happened but not regularly. I shut them down straight away. To be fair to the gay fellas out there, when they learn my preference, they usually send a polite note of thanks & the subject closes. You've got to applaud the sensible approach that they seem to have.

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By *eturning MGMan
27 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Simply filter out guys. If you dont and your tempted then you may not be as straight as you think you are. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Yes often but I just ignore it.

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By *r.AverageMan
27 weeks ago

Hampshire

"No, I've blocked single men from being able to contact me"

This.

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By *eyeYCouple
27 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Seen a lot of complaint about guy's receiving unwanted messages from other guy's.

Wonder if it's a case of 'thou dost protest too much' those who are either flattered or tempted, fair enough.

Those who claim not to be, surely a simple filter would suffice? 🤷🤔

We only struggle with the disingenuous 'straight' 'bi' fluidity as it suits to gain attention.

There are a lot of very decent gents (and yes we use the word seriously, regardless of how delightfully filthy they may be)on here, we have 'met' spoken with and said no thanks to many, without ever experiencing abuse.

D has been a single guy in the lifestyle and is incredibly good at spotting the creeps.. 😉😘

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

All the time. It's rather nice

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never been propositioned on here by other men and wouldn't be interested even if I had been.

I've blocked all men from messaging but that was because I used to get messages asking me to be their wingman or offering to be mine and it was easier to block all rather than repeatedly saying no.

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By *owbadisbadMan
27 weeks ago

Sleaford / Grantham

I take it as flattering, if they were a tgirl it might be a different story, but so far not tried a male male situation

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By *lik and PaulCouple
27 weeks ago

cahoots

Yes it happens but it's not a turn on. The other thing is when straight men want to meet and Flik isn't here so they ask if I'm interested and when I point out that they are straight the response is along the lines of yes but I'm desperate.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Chichester

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

I get propositioned by every denomination possible I don’t think anything it’s just fab and people shoot their shot to chance it. I don’t over think it

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By *dward_TeagueMan
27 weeks ago

wolverhampton

So both genders find me attractive, it’s a burden that I must carry on these broad shoulders

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By *rh_charles OP Man
27 weeks ago

bedfordshire

Interesting responses

Yes of course you can just block all men and problem solved ....however there are lots of guys on here with couples profiles who also reach out then suggest their partner is 'ill' or 'not available \ not playing at the moment' and would I be interested in just meeting them ?

I always find it strange how they think you would be interested when you have never shown any interest or given them any encouragement whatsoever ?

But it's interesting nevertheless.

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By *ungStud4U83Man
27 weeks ago

n/a

More often than not my inbox has numerous messages from gay or bi males. While it doesnt offend me and I appreciate the compliments I would rather hear from couples or single women

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By *maginitivemindMan
27 weeks ago

notts

Take it as a compliment

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By *i-Guy-75Man
27 weeks ago

travel

Who cares, only Neanderthals would get upset tbf

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

No, I don't experience this at all.

My filters are all open and I suspect "gay men" have an aversion to my profile because it 'exudes' heterosexual qualities.

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By *owbadisbadMan
27 weeks ago

Sleaford / Grantham

If I was closer to you I'd definitely be trying my luck, you're gorgeous

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By *ettpairCouple
27 weeks ago

Kettering

Never happened to me ( Mr) although we do get the odd bi guy contact us...no issue at all with it

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

All the time, I don't mind, but it's just a bit annoying when you get the same profiles pestering you, although fortunately there's the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Happens all the time to everyone, some people obviously say yes sometimes to people outside their usual preferences. take it as a compliment and move on.

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By *haneleviMan
27 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Back when I first joined it used to creep me out. Learnt to take it as a compliment now though as long as they're not pushy!

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By *iddle ManMan
27 weeks ago

Walsall

Tha majority of my views and messages come from straight, gay or bi men

I have no idea why

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

Take a stand. Fight back.

Glue your bum hole shut.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Bristol

I get propositioned by a lot of straight men...

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
27 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Happens a lot. I’m not interested as I’m straight but I always reply even if to say no thank you. I’m

Just polite!

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By *unguy2429Man
27 weeks ago

worthing

I take it as a compliment

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By *ellhungvweMan
27 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Yawn. Just block all single guys and move on. Stops all the idiots from trying.

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By *ravellerukMan
27 weeks ago

by the sea, South West

Flattering but can be irritating when they won’t take a no.

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By *eep80Man
27 weeks ago

middlesbrough

Wish I got as many messages from couples or single fems etc but I must get 2or 3 minimum messages a day asking if I want sucking from men

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By *oldfischMan
27 weeks ago

HARROW

I get quite a lot of offers from guys who want to suck my cock. I don't really mind, quite flattering really...

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By *lrightthenMan
27 weeks ago

Bradford

Yeah. I find their efforts amusing. Though I do get a bit annoyed with people who I have repeatedly told no

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

Are you getting messages from gay men that look oddly similar to the messages you send women?

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

It doesn't bother me as I'm a bit man anyway

I dont even reply to the men that have straight on their profile

stand up and be proud of who you are

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By *ieandteaseMan
27 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I quite enjoy it and welcome them aboard

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By *r. MacMan
27 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

It varies. Sometimes it can be flattering, other times it's just low effort "Nice cock", "Wanna meet?" shite

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
27 weeks ago

Coventry

Neither or really. Doesn't bother me nor either do I get a buzz from it. Used to get it a lot on my single profile. The way I see it they're just chancing their arm. Why not? So many men are a little bi. However what is annoying if they're persistent, but that's what the block button is for.

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By *penminded7Man
27 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Any proposition would be a bonus lol

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By *uzzieboyMan
27 weeks ago

Somerset

I do get offers all the time but as my profile says straight man and still try their luck and yes, people are going to say why don’t you block men simple fact is I’ve been here many years and I do have a lot of male friends so I can just simply block but I am polite and respectful to the gay and bi men who do message me I just simply tell them thank you for the compliments and the offer, but it’s not what I’m looking for simple as that.

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By *questMan
27 weeks ago

peterborough

I often hear the complaint from the ladies that I know on Fab that men dont bother reading profiles.

And since the first 6 winkes I have had and numerous messages are from guys who are bi or gay, when I am evidently straight, proves it.

They are kind of wasting their time, and mine. Not offended, just slightly bemused

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By *otsossieMan
27 weeks ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

Happens daily.

Profile says no thanks.

I just ignore and move on.

Imagine what hassle the women get?

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By *ooleyMan
27 weeks ago

preston

It happens, but if I'm being wild in the chatrooms where anyone can have a peep, I can't really complain if there's a follow-up.

It's a bit of an insight into the messages that the female fabbers must get, at a fraction of the volume. I sometimes think, "mate, I'm not going to do that - and even if I did then I wouldn't with such a low effort message."

If the message is pleasant, I'll often message back, decline the invite and start a conversation.

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By *arc PolarisMan
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

I find it neither flattering nor a turn on as its not my thing.

I am happy to chat with anyone and I personally don't find gay men any different to messages I get from women or couples.

There are some pushy vulgar messages but yet I've also had more amazing conversations than bad. I will never have filters up as I don't see the need, I have a block button instead

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I find it flattering.

Nice to be considered desirable. A nice CD fancying me is a bit of a turn on too.

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By *onk the builderMan
27 weeks ago

Sunderland

Found it awkward at 1st now I look at it a different view I enjoy messages off hot tvs

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By *octor ProdMan
27 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Doesn't bother me, a civil "Thanks, but I'm afraid I'm not interested" message is my standard response to that type of message

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By *ew MaldenMan
25 weeks ago

New Malden

As a gay guy, I would love to service a bi married dad bod-guy on a regular basis. Must be safe and completely nsa.

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By *owbiguyMan
25 weeks ago

Lowestoft

I'd love to shoot my shot over you

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
25 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Here we go again. Everyone is bi.

No ,we aren’t.

I’m totally straight. I have no problem speaking to gay men and I defend their rights. I get propositioned, I respectfully decline.

People who claim to be straight and then have sex with men simply lie in their description.

Not difficult.

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By *ike_looking_forMan
25 weeks ago

Cumbria

I just delete the messages - if you try a follow up it's a block

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By *ormagenericlblokeMan
25 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

Nope, you must just be a gay icon

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
25 weeks ago

Stroud

I try and reply politely to all messages, even if just a thanks but no thanks. My preferences are i my profile, so it should be pretty clear!

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By *ickedwillyCouple
25 weeks ago

Bangor

Being bi I find it very flattering.

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By *hinstrapMan
25 weeks ago

sheffield

Flattering but annoying. As profile says straight. I suppose god loves a tryer

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I was so flattered by it I discovered a bit of a kink and created an account just for guys attention.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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25 weeks ago

Central

"Flattering but annoying. As profile says straight. I suppose god loves a tryer "

It keeps your options open

whilst not using filters

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By *ew MaldenMan
25 weeks ago

New Malden

"I'd love to shoot my shot over you

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By *ngelLordCouple
25 weeks ago

Newport

"Seen a lot of complaint about guy's receiving unwanted messages from other guy's.

Wonder if it's a case of 'thou dost protest too much' those who are either flattered or tempted, fair enough.

Those who claim not to be, surely a simple filter would suffice? 🤷🤔

We only struggle with the disingenuous 'straight' 'bi' fluidity as it suits to gain attention.

D has been a single guy in the lifestyle and is incredibly good at spotting the creeps.. 😉😘

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yeah I have had a lot. I mostly find it flattering, even an occasional turn on, but some can just be knob heads.

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By *ogerroger69Man
25 weeks ago

West Yorks

I don’t mind x

Offers welcome x

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By *onk the builderMan
11 weeks ago

Sunderland

I get lots of interest from gay guys I don't know why

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By *m just me 78Man
11 weeks ago

Preston

Daily😂😂

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By *osie888TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Bathgate

often propositioned

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By *ornyguy666Man
11 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

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yes lots turned off and no way

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By *illiam101000Man
11 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

I'm bi on my profile and get a lot of straight men message me.

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By *raitor696969Man
11 weeks ago

Centralised he/him/his

Interesting question

Cracking profile my compliments

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By *arkylad1981Man
11 weeks ago

Havant

Had more gay fellas pull up then woman... might have to fvcking think about changing team!😄

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By *ingle12Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

We probably all do given the amount of men in here.

Oddly, yesterday when I fancied a meet, no one was interested.

Perhaps they are all talk?

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By *CFun22Couple
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

We don’t mind x

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By *igblue70Man
11 weeks ago

Bootle

A few times, no problem at all either it, good chat is good chat

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By *onin25Man
11 weeks ago

Durham

It's flattering but not a turn on. Gets very annoying if they message more than once though and they are then risking a block.

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By *arkylad1981Man
11 weeks ago

Havant

I talk to a cupple of gay fellas in here they're cool as fuck, actually trying to match one up with a mate of mine...they don't give up though..can tell em ain't your flavour 100 times still try to tell ya what ya missing haha

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By *ornyguy666Man
11 weeks ago

Nottingham

"I talk to a cupple of gay fellas in here they're cool as fuck, actually trying to match one up with a mate of mine...they don't give up though..can tell em ain't your flavour 100 times still try to tell ya what ya missing haha"
exactly they never g8ve up they just say closed your eyes

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By *vaRoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit

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By *arkylad1981Man
11 weeks ago

Havant

"I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit "
dress as a plummer, they'll be all over ya...ain't having you missing out...not on my watch darlin!

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By *ieandteaseMan
11 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit "

Can't think why not?

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By *oldfischMan
11 weeks ago

HARROW

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

Every week.....no problem, its quite interesting TBH to see who fancies me!

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By *oelMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

All the time, they also see to get confused if we chat and I say no. They can be insistent, it's not clear how it would work. It's obviously a massive gay fantasy, but just that. It's interesting,

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Bolton

Yeah happens a lot lol x

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By *ocktailSausage-Man
11 weeks ago

Wirral

I have to admit, the majority of fans on my profile are from men, I just have men blocked because I can’t be bothered with it, it would be lovely if there was that much attention from the girls 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *ilberryMan
11 weeks ago

Scarborough

"I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit "

Bummer that!!

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By *ulsaKinggMan
11 weeks ago

stafford

"I have to admit, the majority of fans on my profile are from men, I just have men blocked because I can’t be bothered with it, it would be lovely if there was that much attention from the girls 🤷🏻‍♂️"

So true. Even when u try to filter them out, they somehow find a way!

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By *ocktailSausage-Man
11 weeks ago

Wirral

They can’t message but they can still see and fab the pictures, if I don’t have the block on I get inundated, some guys are weirdly persistent as well, I can see why people on here get annoyed lol

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By *ein-guyMan
11 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I just take it as a compliment personally.

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By *ustnosinghereMan
11 weeks ago

;)

Only recently changed my settings so men could message. I take it as a compliment though will politely explain I don't swing that way. Most have been understanding, I just block any that don't.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
11 weeks ago

Didcot

LOL the vast majority of propositions I get on here are from so called straight men, go figure?

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By *eyeYCouple
11 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

I'd love to have D propositioned by bi guy's for my viewing pleasure, then my physical pleasure from both/all of them.

However we have blocked all guys, because it's normally straight listed guy's trying to convince us they're bi..

So we just proposition them, problem solved 😉🤷🤣

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

I find it flattering, and on a site where it is very difficult to receive any positive comments as a single, straight guy, it does help your self confidence, knowing that you are attractive to someone.

It also proves your inbox hasn’t actually been sealed off……🤪

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't tend to get this, as they're not looking for femininity

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
11 weeks ago

Debauchery

I mean ok I don’t get approached by gay men but I wish I was approached more by actual women and not the single men pretending to be them. For some reason I don’t seem to attract them 🤷🏽‍♀️.

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By *rNightMan
11 weeks ago

Coventry

The amount of guys who’s profile says “straight” that message me is about the same as guys who’s profile says otherwise. I think alot of guys leave it as straight as it could negatively affect their chances with wome_ and couples.

I used to do the same but realised it wasn’t making much difference at all.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
11 weeks ago

Didcot

" I think alot of guys leave it as straight as it could negatively affect their chances with wome_ and couples.

It certainly negatively affects their chances with me, I have no time for guys who can't be honest about their sexuality on a hook up site, if they say they are straight but are interested in me, they aren't straight, they are being dishonest to the wome_ and couples on this site.

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By *ohnhomeMan
11 weeks ago

Carlisle

I finding 50% of the straight guys on here out straight they are bisexual. They just say it for the women as everyone else has said because they think women are turned off by bisexual men. If you are, but it’s their problem, just be yourself please.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
11 weeks ago

Norwich ish

Why would anyone feel offended to be found attractive by someone whether same sex or not.

It is flattering regardless of gender or orientation.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Motherwell

I will fab any guys picture I think is attractive, but I would never solicit a first message to them. Mx 👿

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I get it all the time but I take it as a compliment for sure!

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By *vaRoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit "

I take it back

It’s happened now!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
11 weeks ago

Didcot

"I’ve never been propositioned by a gay man. Dammit

I take it back

It’s happened now!"

I can promise you, if they propositioned you they are not gay, they are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Yes a lot despite filters !

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By *ray_BTWMan
11 weeks ago

Worcester

Yes I do, and im not offended by it at all.

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By *erry 58Man
11 weeks ago

doncaster

I do and politely refuse

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By *tudlyboyMan
11 weeks ago

Reading

It's happened and it's a compliment. Just a shame, it's like a currency I can't spend.

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By *artorialMan
11 weeks ago

weymouth

I used to but tbh I got fed up with the one or two word introduction - tedious

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Cheshire

Gay men are generally not interested in my type I get more interest from the bi guys.

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By *ikeExMan
11 weeks ago

Near Alfreton, Derbyshire

Yup.. quite a lot

Had one guy tell me to go for a drink so he could "have" me.

The block button couldn't get hit fast enough!

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By *inkywelderMan
11 weeks ago

Hull

Happens a lot but it’s a compliment! More interesting opening lines would be better though

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By *rchie300Man
11 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I find it flattering….. but one guy wanted me to pee on him …. Which I was a bit errr about …. I much prefer to piss myself than on other people 😂

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
11 weeks ago

Didcot

"Gay men are generally not interested in my type I get more interest from the bi guys.

I have the same issue as an effeminate gay man, that said, strangely I quite like effeminate and cross dressing men.

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By *rikki1967ukMan
11 weeks ago

peterborough

Doesnt really bother me.profile is pure str8 but if guys want to compliment or chat so what.each to their own.

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By *ikemilfloverMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Chatted to a few gay guys on here, nothing wrong with that, good to broaden your horizons.

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By *adbod451000Man
11 weeks ago

cardiff

Had a few messages from gay guys and had some good conversations im straight and always will be but no harm in chatting to people.

Only thing does frustrate me is when u get a dick pic when my profile clearly states straight i get a lot actually arent straight but unsolicited dick picks not for me can see why women get frustrated

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By *andTlondonCouple
11 weeks ago

sw london

I don't think Men are attracted to each other as much as Women,i think it's often a Kink thing,the fun of Sucking cock,being Sucked by a man,it's a turn on but I honestly couldn't be attracted to a Man,just his Cock !!

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By *an SummersMan
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

I find it annoying, so they’re filtered

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I don't think Men are attracted to each other as much as Women,i think it's often a Kink thing,the fun of Sucking cock,being Sucked by a man,it's a turn on but I honestly couldn't be attracted to a Man,just his Cock !!"

I used to think that - I wasn't attracted to men but got off on sex with them. A while later I realised that I had changed and I was into men. Sexuality is fluid.

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By *itrimmedMan
11 weeks ago

london

Anyone who hasn’t done this is happy for the attention IMO

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By *avidNPMan
11 weeks ago

manchester

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

If you tried it you are not straight.

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By *avidNPMan
11 weeks ago

manchester

"I mean ok I don’t get approached by gay men but I wish I was approached more by actual women and not the single men pretending to be them. For some reason I don’t seem to attract them 🤷🏽‍♀️. "

I really do wonder why men pretend like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Yep get a few messages from gay men and also straight men, doesn’t bother me to be fair I’ll talk to anyone

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By *haneleviMan
10 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Always getting asked by men. Mainly them wanting to suck me off.

Ill talk to anyone but does become annoying when they're persistant

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By *an SummersMan
10 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Always getting asked by men. Mainly them wanting to suck me off.

Ill talk to anyone but does become annoying when they're persistent"

This is why I have them filtered and why I sympathise with the women on here. I don’t think ‘no’ exists in some men’s vocabulary. Plus, the opening line of ‘the best blowjob of my life’ wears very thin.

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By *umking3000Man
10 weeks ago

Portsmouth

All the time. I don’t mind it tbh. I’m pretty laid back and after Iv explained I’m not interested the majority back off. I guess if you don’t ask you’ll never get. For the minority that persist, that’s what the blocked button is for…..

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By *haneleviMan
10 weeks ago

Kidderminster

"Always getting asked by men. Mainly them wanting to suck me off.

Ill talk to anyone but does become annoying when they're persistent

Yeah I used to have ot filters also but made some good male friends on here to removed them. Same women must get it really bad.

Ive had the same opening line plenty of times. Or can they suck me off to completion ffs

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By *an SummersMan
10 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Always getting asked by men. Mainly them wanting to suck me off.

Ill talk to anyone but does become annoying when they're persistent

Yeah I used to have ot filters also but made some good male friends on here to removed them. Same women must get it really bad.

Ive had the same opening line plenty of times. Or can they suck me off to completion ffs "

I’m sure they all must think offering the best blowjob I’ve ever had is unique to them. I’ve also been offered anything up to £300 to be sucked off and been asked if I could be paid to fuck a working girl while they watched. All at their expense.

I’ve enough mates in real life, so the filter is firmly on.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I get messages from straight men . That’s good as my profile says I’m bisexual so it’s clear they may be interested!

Long may it continue

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By *rightonsteveMan
10 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m bi, it doesn’t bother me. I’m confident of my sexuality enough not to get upset by such things.

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By *ogerroger69Man
10 weeks ago

West Yorks

I love it personally x

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By *an SummersMan
10 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I get messages from straight men . That’s good as my profile says I’m bisexual so it’s clear they may be interested!

Long may it continue

If it’s about anything sexual, they ain’t straight

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By *otathletic1Man
9 weeks ago

plymouth

I get propositioned by men on here all the time. I like it. It turns me on to be honest!

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By *ustincider888Man
9 weeks ago

Chorley

I used to get propositioned regularly by gay and bi guys, I just used to humour them and just be friendly.

It never turned me on in the slightest, but some of the compliments on my pics I did find a little flattering.

Now I have blocked men from messaging me unless we've spoken before of course.

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By *hornyx69Man
9 weeks ago

dover

All the time wish I had more messages from single ladies and couples in my inbox

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By *iscreetfunin24Man
9 weeks ago

Halesowen

Appreciate any compliments

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By *ohnhomeMan
9 weeks ago

Carlisle

I am bisexual, but on my profile I don’t say I’m seeking men and I get asked out by men every day which I don’t mind but it’s not on my profile

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By * and cCouple
9 weeks ago

wellingborogh

Im straight but really enjoy chatting with guys and wanking 2geather

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

It’s not a problem really. I find it flattering and has, on occasion, lead to wanking.

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By *JoshMan
9 weeks ago

Cambridge

Don’t really like this virtue signalling kind of post but I can tell you that as an openly bi man, the number of “straight” guys who message me eager to suck cock or be fucked in the ass is excruciatingly high.

I wish I could just block “straight men” and not just blanket block men.

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By *igma01Man
9 weeks ago

Co Durham

The anonymity afforded by this site means it’s bound to happen, as people feel safer to experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Don't mind it as long as they aren't to pushy or get pissed off when you say that.your not interested.

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By *loydyMan
9 weeks ago

British

"No, I've blocked single men from being able to contact me"
but we can on here lol

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By *outhcoast MrMrsCouple
9 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Yes I’ve had many propositions done of which have drawn a good laugh from my good lady and myself ranging from are you still in TGI send your fella down to the gents and I’ll suck him off, and then there’s the would you consider having a sugar daddy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Doesn't put me up nor down. Has no bearing on anything. Easy to ignore if you want to.

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By *uzyjonesxTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Gay men or straight men it’s always flattering x

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By *onk the builderMan
3 weeks ago

Sunderland

Wonder what it's like

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By *ornyguy666Man
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?

Do you find it flattering or a turn on ?

Interested to know your thoughts or if you have ever been persuaded to try ?

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turned off but I don't judge

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
3 weeks ago

Perpigna_ and cap

Yeah all the time. I enjoy the compliments and the open conversations too.

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By *eardedmickMan
3 weeks ago

near you

I’ll be honest I find it a turn on and it’s really got me quite curious. Sometimes I even dream about sucking cock. I’ve never been or done anything with a guy but it’s becoming a need more than a want. I think it’s the fact of how many dick pics you see too

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By *avidNPMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Why would a gay man want to meet a couple?

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By *F99Man
3 weeks ago

North Staffs

Quite often. Doesn't bother me, probably is slightly flattering. Doesn't hurt to send a polite message declining. Either give it a go or block single guys.

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By *he pleasure giverMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

I've been asked few times but always nice to be polite and that and nice to know someone likes you suppose

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By *ornyguy666Man
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

They always say closed your eyes it be same as a woman 🤔

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By *evilinyouMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"They always say closed your eyes it be same as a woman 🤔 "

As I have bi on profile it's fine.

It's the straight guys messaging or sending winks that confuses me.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Durham

People should read a profile before messaging and respect people’s interests.

That way they wouldn’t waste their time and yours.

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"People should read a profile before messaging and respect people’s interests.

That way they wouldn’t waste their time and yours.

Agreed! Out of interest is ours vague/ambiguous?

Had 4 messages today which makes us wonder if we are unclear.. 🤷

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By *elrose57Couple
3 weeks ago

reading

would not bother me, and if you don't ask you don't get, and who knows i might take him up on his kind offer

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By *penminded7Man
3 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

No harm in it

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By *otsossieMan
3 weeks ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

"Do any other straight men get propositioned on here by gay men ?"

Every single day.

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By *ebauchayMan
3 weeks ago

swindon

Often. It’s flattering mostly but occasionally cringeworthy. And the amount of times I just get “hey” or “hi” is bonkers.

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By *aveyP800Man
3 weeks ago

Derby

I get propositioned all the time by straight men on here, not gay, according to their profiles.

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By *otsossieMan
3 weeks ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

If I was happy to go man to man I’d be permanently exhausted

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By *om4384Man
3 weeks ago

Waterloo

Quite often and don’t see any harm in it… If you don’t ask etc… 😉

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By *assage4yourpleasureMan
3 weeks ago

canterbury

I guess there's no harm imin it, take it as a compliment

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By *imbo748Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

On a regular basis. No real harm in it. Could stop it with filter.

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By *irtyKentCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Kent

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By *irtyKentCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Kent

Doesn’t bother us. Love hearing how much people enjoy Mr’s cock

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
3 weeks ago

London

I am a bi guy and I get loads of messages from "straight" guys. I don't have any problem with it. If you are not interested, just say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Its flatttering, someone finds you attractive, when is that not. I did used to answer thanking, but that seems to give them ideas lol. But all good, keep the atmosphere positive.

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By *alistraWoman
3 weeks ago

Stafford

Lol the fab straight men baffle me. It's 2026, you can come out the closet my guy

You also piss off all the actual straight men and make it difficult for them and yourselves

Personally I don't wana be with anyone who isn't 100% comfortable and confident in who they are and hiding behind straight to suck dick is odd. Chasing straight men (who don't want you) is also bizarre but a different topic.

And if it's cause women don't like bi guys, *makes wrong buzzer sound* try again! Alot of us very much like bi guys, but we're looking at a sea of 'straight' bros

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Just block single men from messaging. It's not hard. They can still like your pictures, if it's cheap Fabs you want.

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