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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Same lol

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By *eturnofthemanMan
37 weeks ago

maidstone

I think there are a lot of people In the same boat. It’s hard to people able to pin point what it is.

For me personally, not looking to shag my way through the site but I am polite for started (don’t get abusive if turned down, I hear that happens a lot).

Some people have suggested attending clubs. I think the main thing is to become pic & face verified.

Just be patient and I’m sure you’ll get a meet with someone who tickles your pickle 👌🏻

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By *rchie300Man
37 weeks ago

Hamworthy

That isn’t long mate …. I’m not sure what the ratio is for men for women….. it could be 20 - 1 ….. maybe widen your search area …. Try and just chat , be yourself , don’t bombard her with cock pics …..

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
37 weeks ago

South Wales

We're picky and fickle fuckers.

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
37 weeks ago

South Wales

Some women aren't looking to meet anyone new, some are just here to look and not touch, so, that reduces numbers even more..

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By *unguy2429Man
37 weeks ago

worthing

Because the ratio is massive ifs not easy.

And there is men out there that ruin it for others.

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By *ew cpl 666Couple
37 weeks ago

pontefract

Someone on here for everyone, it’s just patience and putting in the hard graft and it will work out , takes time but worth it eventually 👍

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By *heFatFuckerMan
37 weeks ago

London


"We're picky and fickle fuckers. "

That’s my new tongue-twister! Say it ten times fast

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By *atinaChica54Woman
37 weeks ago

Marlborough


"We're picky and fickle fuckers. "

This⬆️. Sorry not sorry

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up."

OP, you have 4 verifications in the 4 months you have been here. You must be doing something right as a lot of men can't even manage 1.

I know I am not your target audience as I am not currently looking for anything or anyone, but if I was looking, I'd be wary of someone who can accommodate but cannot travel. I just wouldn't feel comfortable going to a random man's place, even after meeting for a social. But that's me.

Also, your bio tells me absolutely nothing about what you're into and it's negative.

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By *exs345Man
37 weeks ago

northolt

I love to just meet a women who wants to share pics and vids with eachother but it seems the only ones who want to do this are guys lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up.

OP, you have 4 verifications in the 4 months you have been here. You must be doing something right as a lot of men can't even manage 1.

I know I am not your target audience as I am not currently looking for anything or anyone, but if I was looking, I'd be wary of someone who can accommodate but cannot travel. I just wouldn't feel comfortable going to a random man's place, even after meeting for a social. But that's me.

Also, your bio tells me absolutely nothing about what you're into and it's negative. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up.

OP, you have 4 verifications in the 4 months you have been here. You must be doing something right as a lot of men can't even manage 1.

I know I am not your target audience as I am not currently looking for anything or anyone, but if I was looking, I'd be wary of someone who can accommodate but cannot travel. I just wouldn't feel comfortable going to a random man's place, even after meeting for a social. But that's me.

Also, your bio tells me absolutely nothing about what you're into and it's negative. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

Ty. The only reason I don't travel is that I don't drive. Could be a problem. I appreciate your comments.

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By *xydadbodMan
37 weeks ago

towcester


"I love to just meet a women who wants to share pics and vids with eachother but it seems the only ones who want to do this are guys lol. "

Well, no offence dude but thats coming off as a bit creepy.. you probably dont have ill intentions with that but not many people are into that.. besides, build a rapport with people.. have a conversation, get to know people..

it starts with trust.. and with trust, its something you earned

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford


"Ty. The only reason I don't travel is that I don't drive. Could be a problem. I appreciate your comments."

No worries, I don't drive either. Maybe (totally up to you) put that in your bio? As people may think you'd expect them to come straight to yours?

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford


"I love to just meet a women who wants to share pics and vids with eachother but it seems the only ones who want to do this are guys lol. "

Look for women who have "cybersex" ticked as their interest. It does nothing for me, I don't even like sharing my private photos or videos with people I know and trust, let alone randoms off the internet. But there are, most likely, women who are into it. They may all be on other websites though

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By *atty CoramWoman
37 weeks ago

Wimbledon


"Someone on here for everyone, it’s just patience and putting in the hard graft and it will work out , takes time but worth it eventually 👍"

I disagree; there most definitely is not someone on here for everyone.

The ratios alone tell you that.

You can be patient but most people are not attracted to most people.

Maybe focus on the social side - making connections without the expectation of sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Exactly this.

The piece of advice I often give out is "be the answer to someone's need".

Back when I was a single guy I offered to be the bi +1 for bi couples. It took some time to get my first gig but I was clean, respectful, confident, fun and most importantly I listened. When they had a fantasy to fulfil I was all about that. One couple led to another and eventually I was a go to guy for a few couples.

These days as a couple we see either three word intros or a guy setting the tone himself (you are the service provider not the customer boys).

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I’m just an ugly fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

You'd be surprised. Some couples like a bit of rough and being an "ugly fucker" can lean into that. It's like being an actor. So many pretty boys but the right look becomes a niche

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
37 weeks ago

Home


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up."
unless you look like Thor you might struggle

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By *ysonfuryMan
37 weeks ago

Stockport

This can be a great place to meet lime minded folk. Be polite when you message new people, make sure you have read their profile and just accept that you cannot be everybody's cuo if tea. The organised socials are also a good way to meet people. Happy fabbing everyone

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By *ysonfuryMan
37 weeks ago

Stockport

Oh and check your message for errors before you post them

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By *hades Of GreyMan
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up."

You are not too old! Get yourself to a swingers club. Mingle, chat, be polite, have condoms (and lube?).

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By *icked-GameCouple
37 weeks ago

Antarctica

5 months on here is nothing, go to socials and build up some connections and make friends and things tend to happen

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford


"Been on here for months and have never met a female. Give me a clue people before I just give up. unless you look like Thor you might struggle "

Yes, particularly the depressed Thor, with massive beer belly!

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
37 weeks ago

Stoke

Make sure you only search for people who are looking for your age group 👍

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