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Couples, who drives your profile?

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By *unning on OP   Couple
38 weeks ago

leatherhead

For us it's the female half, Fab is my playground while hubby uses Telegram, mostly to arrange meets and chat (the dirty man!). How about you? xx

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By *andaloriansCouple
38 weeks ago

Malvern

I do(male) because C has her own single profile. She still has full access though, and we discuss everything

S

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By *uffinandTheJokerCouple
38 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

Me (Mrs) on all apps and telegram. All fab Admin does by me but he's shown and consulted on everything. X

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By *elightful 2Couple
38 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

When we're actively looking to meet it's the wife that does all the messaging etc but when we're not looking it's me(hubby) that's just using the forums etc.

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By *JandSilentBobCouple
38 weeks ago

Up North

Me (Miss)

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
38 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I do the steering and pedals, Henriette does the gears.

It works well for us.

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
38 weeks ago

Barnsley

The Male runs this profile as I have to sort through all the crap messages. If someone seems decent I show her the message and his pics then I if she likes him we move it to telegram for a group chat. Where the convo usually goes to die as he starts being a dick once talking to the wife, just wanting to send dick pics or videos of him wanking. Very rare we get someone who can hold a decent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I do (C), male half has his own Single profile. We discuss everything coming in through here and he has access, but i run it because I deleted my single profile due to the select few who ruin it for everyone.

C x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
38 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

It’s usually me (Mr) as I tend to go on the forums. C reaches out to people and I deal with the message box, mainly.

Deal with means delete mostly 😬

K

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By *uriouscouple105Couple
38 weeks ago

Fife

Male driver here but with plenty input from co-pilot. I tell her about every mesaage/wink and she decides who answers. Mostly me in the forums though

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By *RWoodyCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I (Mrs) am the one you'll bump into on here 999 times out of 1000.

I'll only mainly be having some chats and fun on the forums. I don't necessarily see us as hardened swingers so there's not lots of meets to organise etc. We'll talk about things together if someone sparks my interest though and take it from there.

J x

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By *adybonersirlongswordCouple
38 weeks ago

Sussex

Mrs here though Longsword does log on to check what's happening occasionally, though he has his own single profile

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By *dible_KinkCouple
38 weeks ago

Aberdeen

We both share admin duties and both have our own singles profiles. It's probably me (Hamish) that does more in the the way of vetting for meets on this profile though, as Polly has the usual ludicrous amount of messages on her own profile to deal with.

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By *enny4itCouple
38 weeks ago

Central

Lady driver here, and hubby reaps the benefits xx

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By *hipdaleCouple
38 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Wife has last say it's her body so she the boss

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By *etwife8230Couple
38 weeks ago

Newport

Me ,Mrs but will show Mr if I fancy some fun 😉

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By *CExeCouple
38 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Male half. Chels had some bad experiences on here with guys who couldn't handle being told no and then resorted to abusive messages. Works for us.

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

somerset

Mrs does 95% of our Fabmin

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I run it as the female. Hubby occasionally does admin duty if I'm away with work.

Mainly deleting dozens of messages addressed to him anyhow (mate, your wife is…. Etc) from people who clearly can’t/don’t/won’t read.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
38 weeks ago

Leicester

We share the driving. Mr spends more time in the forums, uploads and maintains pictures and usually does messaging with couples. Mrs usually updates status and meets, and handles messaging with single guys.

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By *bflirtyCouple
38 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Generally me (Mr). Alicia doesn't have time to go through all the messages. She's much better F2F in clubs though.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
38 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

Generally me, vixen, although hound reads more on the forums than I do xx

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By *ottinghamKiltandKittenCouple
38 weeks ago

Hitchen

It's generally me (kilt), I have a good idea about what turns kittens head & we generally chat about anything that gets a fab/wink etc. Any messages are both of us

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
38 weeks ago

Stoke

I run it, fella can't be arsed.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
38 weeks ago

Midlands

Me.

He has a good nosey though and knows who's messaging, my forum posts, fabs etc.

Katie.

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By *UXEnLIONCouple
38 weeks ago

Manchester

Me mainly (Luxe),I enjoy chatting and going on the forum. Hubby barely wants to speak to people in real life haha 🤣. We usually view profiles and read messages together or he always catches up afterwards and does have the odd moment where he decides to do some messaging 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Mr in our case, we tried to do it together at first but Mrs got sick of all the stupid messages. Now I (Mr) have to sort the good from the bad before she looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

We tend to check it equally as we will sit down together and browse.

If we get any messages he will let me know and then I'll have a look before any response.

We also quite like fabing pictures together

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By *hawslut_redemptionCouple
38 weeks ago

Minehead

For us it's mainly Elizabeth. C may drop in occasionally

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By *nsure2018Couple
38 weeks ago

BASINGSTOKE

Me (Mr) is normally on here but Mrs does also go on and does some posts and fabbing as well

But Mr is the more Naughty one ...

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
38 weeks ago

newcastle

I do. Used to be hubbies. Trying to make dates but it's far easier me than passing messages. And Pete doesn't mind. He still posts pics etc. But. It's easier. And I get to choose without asking xx

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By *erbys_coupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Derby

It’s Mr, wish Mrs wouldn’t leave it to me as much. When she gets involved she really does

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By *alaciousDeviantsCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds/York

I (M half) runs our account and our messages as F finds it too much. F logs in to check conversations and look at profiles then we decide together if we want to meet with a couple/single.

We usually set up a group chat with everyone prior to meeting

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By *morousCouple8Couple
38 weeks ago

Cumbria

Mrs here in forums and DMs. Mr catches up once a day or so to see if anything interesting is going on.

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By *udley hotwife86Couple
38 weeks ago

dudley


"I do(male) because C has her own single profile. She still has full access though, and we discuss everything

S"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"Mrs here in forums and DMs. Mr catches up once a day or so to see if anything interesting is going on."

Snap

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By *aandLoCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

J(M)reads all the messages and checks profiles, but I am the one chatting 99% of the time.

If we get a message from a couple I chat with J about it before replying but single guy messages are driven by me almost entirely. L(F) x

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
38 weeks ago

Scotland

Me (G) basically runs our account. A will periodically come on to read messages but he leaves the finding guys and answering messages up to me as in his words “it’s you that’s fucking them so it’s your decision” 🤣

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By *omRachCouple
38 weeks ago

Wirral

I (Tom) do, mainly due to a altercation Rach had with a very rude and stupid imbecile of human being on here one time.

She has me cut the wheat from the chaffe and if I find somebody I believe can offer her/us something then the 1st thing i do is get her take on it.

It's worked relatively well so far in terms of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Mr does most of the fabmin as he has more free time, then tells me to look if there’s something to see as we both have access to it

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By *e and him 2021Couple
38 weeks ago

stoke on trent

I do all the fabmin. Show him messages when we get them. He also has access at any time x

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By *wo 4 fun with womenCouple
38 weeks ago

Aldershot

That'd be me (Mr).

Tend to be the one searching and sending messages but G-S jumps in now and then

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By *ool and curvygirlCouple
38 weeks ago

Liverpool

I run it (m) but (s) is shown everything and she has the final decision x

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
38 weeks ago

Lurgan

It’s nearly 50/50 for us. We both be on and chat on forums at different times. Only really reply to messages and post pictures etc when we are together…though sometimes I (Mrs) like to surprise him with posting a pic or putting a status on for him to find when he’s at work

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By *irstrodeoCouple
38 weeks ago

South Wales

Me - Mrs drives and usually initiates conversations and chats in the forums.

Mr has full access and checks the inbox too

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
38 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Male half deals with our to sort the wheat from the chaff and out time wasters

Then we go through potential profiles

It also means A doesn't have to deal with the nasty and abusive messages we receive

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
37 weeks ago

London

Mr 99% of the time, mainly because I'm often up latest and she's tired of all the rubbish we receive

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By *abulincsCouple
37 weeks ago

near a bridge

Mostly him I do look and check all mail and if looking to meet a guy or couple have input obviously needs to be attraction

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By *inks_apeyCouple
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Me (apey) is the fabmin on here. Kinks does the perving

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By *ixcplCouple
37 weeks ago

Fulham

Baby mainly - have more time and like to chat

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
37 weeks ago

Cheshire

Mr has the control. Mrs says we have our own roles in life. I'm better at fab than I am with the dishwasher & washing machine.

And that's the secret to a happy marriage, apparently.

Look at that, relationships sorted in 1 short paragraph.

She's a wise woman is Mrs RC. I know this, she said so just this morning.

Oh & don't get all uppity please. It's based on a serious scenario, but it's still fun.

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By *ezandcCouple
37 weeks ago

Telford

I’m (mr) the one who posts etc. but everything goes through kez. She gets most active when we go on cam.

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
37 weeks ago

Waterlooville

Both

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By *o longer 1st timersCouple
37 weeks ago

South Birmingham

Male runs profile ,but louise will look and pick profiles that intrest her , then I must make contact and any arrangements if we meet

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
37 weeks ago

South Wales

I (H) run the profile and mess around on the forums…..my husband dips in and out and has a quick look at the messages to see if I’ve missed anyone interesting xx 😄

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By *alesandWestCouple
37 weeks ago

ceredigion

We both jump on here, and never delete any conversations so each ither csn see whats been said

So could be Wales or West someone could be tslking to

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By *wistedTooCouple
37 weeks ago

Frimley, Surrey

Dave. Sammi doesn’t like messaging on any platform. She’s super sub and only occasionally goes on, but for the most part she likes being told what and who we are doing

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By *aster and HWCouple
37 weeks ago

Derby

Master does all the arranging. The whole point is he’s in charge! He knows exactly what I like and don’t like though.

Our rule is, if it’s a no for either of us, then it’s a no, no questions asked.

HW

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