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"Genuine question, does anyone actually ever get messaged from these types of posts? It's never happened to us x Mrs x" Yes, but not often. | |||
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"Genuine question, does anyone actually ever get messaged from these types of posts? It's never happened to us x Mrs x" Probably rare but it's nice to feel a little bit of the pressure is off and if anything at least you'll see who might have looked and then it's over to the couple. | |||
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"Genuine question, does anyone actually ever get messaged from these types of posts? It's never happened to us x Mrs x Probably rare but it's nice to feel a little bit of the pressure is off and if anything at least you'll see who might have looked and then it's over to the couple." Only if they aren't looking in ninja mode that is, most people do have ninja mode on. Mrs x | |||
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"All IN ! Even after being catfished about 5 times even by girls who have verifications and photo verified ! Lol " Pretty sure we nearly got caught out once, called it as just didn't feel right. | |||
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"We are in . drop us a message and we will reply with our face pics as profile friends only and can maybe get to know one another xx" We are in,we have spoken to a few beautiful single ladies,done the same as you’ve mention by sending face pics,spoke for a few weeks with her being the eager one,then nothing, | |||
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"As a couple we find the idea of Lolly playing as a Unicorn quite intriuging. " If a couple wanted another lady and there was an attraction between us all, then C could play with another couple and then the lady or gent could then join us. We’d love a scenario like that where it doesn’t have to be the four of us always playing as it becomes too hard to arrange. K | |||
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"As a couple we find the idea of Lolly playing as a Unicorn quite intriuging. If a couple wanted another lady and there was an attraction between us all, then C could play with another couple and then the lady or gent could then join us. We’d love a scenario like that where it doesn’t have to be the four of us always playing as it becomes too hard to arrange. K" We've had a couple of experiences like this in clubs now where the other couple have only wanted females, we've gotten on socially and they've asked if they can drag her off to play rooms. I'm completely cool with it so long as I know she's safe because as you say, it's often hard to find a match for all four. | |||
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"The issue I keep finding is that the F of the couple doesn't seem to be fully bi. Either only doing it because it's the guys fantasy or seems happy to receive but not reciprocate." I find this too. Plus distance and I smoke and some don't meet smokers x | |||
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"The issue I keep finding is that the F of the couple doesn't seem to be fully bi. Either only doing it because it's the guys fantasy or seems happy to receive but not reciprocate." Is this an issue if the female in the couple is not bi? I'm straight, and appreciate a lovely lady as much too enjoy light touching our kissing, but I get more out of seeing my husband playing with us both in FMF. We are very much open to bi ladies and straight ones, but seems the boundaries of FF put people of we find. We see it like MFM. Not expecting the guy to join us to play as MM, rather put me as centre of the fun | |||
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"We’re in xx" Oh forgot to say.. We are in! X | |||
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"I wonder if it’s easier for a single guy, I’ve never found it difficult to meet some of the hot single women on here - maybe it’s just a couples thing?" The problem is, for couples the woman has to be attracted to 2 people not just one, but also a lot of couples treat single women as an object, someone who comes to fulfil their fantasies, not mutually beneficial fun. I know of a few women who hate the term unicorn. | |||
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"As the last one got closed and we've finally had our forum issue solved (thank you admin) so we can now post, here's a new thread. Yes I've kind of copied the other posters text, thank you We're in 😈 xx | |||
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"The issue I keep finding is that the F of the couple doesn't seem to be fully bi. Either only doing it because it's the guys fantasy or seems happy to receive but not reciprocate. Is this an issue if the female in the couple is not bi? I'm straight, and appreciate a lovely lady as much too enjoy light touching our kissing, but I get more out of seeing my husband playing with us both in FMF. We are very much open to bi ladies and straight ones, but seems the boundaries of FF put people of we find. We see it like MFM. Not expecting the guy to join us to play as MM, rather put me as centre of the fun If I'm meeting someone for a FFM meet, I expect to play fully with the other woman, and possibly play with the man, unless it's very specifically been made aware beforehand that the other woman is only soft swap. Problem is, that it's often only when we actually meet that they bother to inform me of the change in the dynamic. What I find interesting is that in a MFM scenario, it seems to be acceptable that the men won't play with each other, and the attention is focussed on the lady. In a FFM dynamic however there seems to be the assumption that the man will get to play with both ladies. The other interesting one are the number of women seeking FF, who assume that it will get ok for a male partner / friend etc to be somewhat involved. Why?? I think that as long as the facts have been communicated and all parties can make an informed choice, then all well and good | |||
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"We’re in (couples profile because I’m having technical issues with my solo account on the forum) That being said as someone who is willing to play solo, I just figured I’d give some of my views on what I’ve noticed with couples.. - you don’t have photos of both of you on your profile, I agree women have sexier bodies but at the end of the day I’d meet a couple that I find both attractive not just the woman else I may aswel just meet single women - you need to send face pictures privately if you don’t have any to view - got to admit a lot of messages are very centred about your fantasy, I want to feel involved rather than I’m just someone to for-fill that fantasy for you. Solo females have so much choice and when you aren’t doing enough to make that connection then I’m not into it. Telling me I’m sexy just isn’t enough. Also my preference is couples who play with couples not just single females because the ones I’ve spoken to that are only into female meets is often just because the guy wants it and she wants to please him. I’d rather be confident the woman wants me rather than a man XD - a big thing for me aswel is I prefer straight to the point, tell me your interest, what you’d enjoy from the experience, ask me what I’d want too, tell me if you are bisexual, any experience you have had (I try not to play with bi curious or straight girls) then get to know me. - you are strangers to me, and I get nervous. Couples have it a little easier because they have eachother to bounce off and settle their nerves, as a woman meeting alone I have no one, so if I suggest having a social first like coffee but that my partner will come to that then don’t be offended.. it’s to help settle my nerves and to ensure my safety a little bit, just because he’s there for the social doesn’t mean he will be there for the play if we got on well. Ive had a couple that I got to know a little then when I suggested this they told me they will check with their partner and now its gone dead.. that just made me feel unsafe, why did it bother them by my partner being at the coffee shop for a social, they would go out with friends so why were they so adamant on him not being there for a social.. it’s respectful to him anyway, he’s the one happy to share me to allow others to have those experiences with me.. little off putting to say the least That all being said, I know that’s not every couple but it is a majority that’s messaged me And I know how hard it is to find a single woman as a couple, we often struggle because of our age gap I hope this didn’t come across negatively but more as hints on what you can try to get more successful conversations " Wow wish I'd read further down before posting, you've said what I wanted to do much better than me xxx | |||
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" I hope this didn’t come across negatively but more as hints on what you can try to get more successful conversations " Not in the slightest! 👍😘 | |||
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