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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex.

who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex.

who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell."

maybe try using condoms then you wouldnt be stunk in a rut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus...hope you have a metal cod piece mate as you wont get much sympathy here with that tale - you sound a right prize!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Bloody hell m8

You need to decide what you want from life first and then get some sex education as well.

Aint you any idea on how not to make babies

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry mate... no offence but you sound like a self pitying cheater... yu made the baby.....

it is one thing to cheat, truly not my business... but to disrespect your wfie/gf and make out it hers fault.. is kinda low.

again no offence but my opinion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor woman, really do hope she finds someone who finds her worthy who deserves her love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck in finding sympathy for getting yourself in this situation.

I have no sympathy for anyone, male or female, who blame the other person for not taking precautions against prenancy risk, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sad story for all involved.

if you leave her you will both be happier.

and you can see the "kid" when you want far better than the "kid" growing up in a unhappy house

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow


"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex.

who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell."
try the samaratians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you hate your life... change it

Agree with most others on here, your attitude is not a healthy one and whilst it might be hard to leave, frankly, you really should. If you need to grow a set... then do it. If you don't do it now you will do it later when the 'kid' is more aware and it will be harder on everyone.

Have you tried talking to your partner instead of cheating?

I'm not judging, but if you take a step back from the situation, it's really not that hard to see the solution!

Just make sure that when you leave you keep paying your share.

How does your partner feel? is she as miserable? is staying with er the best thing for her? for the child?

Simple questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have had to take posts down that attack the poster.

The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it.

He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation.

If you have any comments to make please keep it clean.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster.

The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it.

He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation.

If you have any comments to make please keep it clean.

"

No probs rugby i kinda lost the plot with this 1

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

uve got balls 4 putting this up

cause ur just getting shot down

in flames for it but ur being honest

but never in a million years would i

ever stay with anyone cause of kids

soz but its just no worth it..at the

end of the day its the kids that

have to paid for mistake's..an think its

abit selfish 2 say u cant get out for

swinging partys an meets is a joke lol

take a min 2 think wats best for ur

kids then do wats right..all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster.

The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it.

He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation.

If you have any comments to make please keep it clean.

"

yea i agree hope i wasnt 2 harsh im

no here 2 judge but can only advice

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster.

The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it.

He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation.

If you have any comments to make please keep it clean.

yea i agree hope i wasnt 2 harsh im

no here 2 judge but can only advice"

No of course not...I was just about to say what good advice you have given.

It was name calling on previous posts from others that was the problem thats all xx

I do agree with you though, he isn't happy, and no amount of staying just for the kids won't make you any happier. If he can't make a go of it with 100% comittment then he needs to do the decent thing for him AND his wife and kid and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see rugby im no just a bawbuster

im no bad at times eh

no i realy do hope he gets sorted

it makes me sad 2 see other ppl

sad if only i could make ppl happy

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I know you have a soft side and not just busting baws....you just pretend you havn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey rugby shhhhh i got a rep

2 keep up on here lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

My mouth is clamped shut ( needs a zipped smiley )

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Some questions for you to think about.

How long do you intent to live a life (the one and only life you will have) in circumstances you don’t like… for the sake of the kid? Another 12 years, 14 years, more?

If you stick it out for 12 years that will be over 1/3rd of your life spent in an unsatisfying situation.

If it’s this bad now what will it be like 2 years from now… 6 years from now… 10 years from now?

How long can you keep up the façade?

If after thinking about those questions you still think it’s worth sticking at, then it should be worth doing well… whole heartedly… 100% commitment to making it work; so that 12 years down the line you are not sinking in a sea of resentment for what you feel is the sacrifice of your sexual freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was with my ex partner for 23years

an 5 years ago i thought feck this

i love him as a friend but not as a lover

i ended it couldnt go along with it

anymore for the sake of it an there

wasnt any kids involved just thought

i couldnt go on liven a lie not only

was i holding myself bck but i was

holding him bck 2..so now im single

he's single an we r gd friends after

23years together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bale out give her a chance of a life without a cheating scumbag and give you the chance to do what you need to do!! i hope to god you are playin it safe and i mean condoms not no gettin caught!!

best thing u can do is make the split stayin together for kids does more damage than seperation ever does.

i believe in karma.....

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby

Call me old fashioned...but once you create kids, you just sacrificed your needs being the most important....

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

NO ONE seriosly doesn't know how to make babies in this day and age

Being a man doesn't mean fucking a lady

Being a man means being resposible for your actions

Don't breed em if you don't want um for gods sake.

I hope you learned your lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was ya missus I'd have more than tabs on you mate

I'd order a hit man

Be a man and lave her if it's so bad but most of all don't involve other swingers in your nasty little sordid life ....

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell."

You need to sort your prioritises out, sex is plain and simply that sex, mush more important issues in life to worry about.

There's only one person I.m really sorry for in the this tangled triangle, and that's the child.

It's worth bearing in mind, children NEVER ask to come into this world, they're created!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh.Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection...that has no relevance to this any way!

Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start.

This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again.luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll. i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry .......... now I can think of nothing pleasant to say so I am going to say nothing..

wish your wife and child every happiness in the world..

ps....... the more harsh were deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow!!!! i do believe u prob love her in your own way but loving someone and being IN LOVE with someone is two totally different things....

the honest and most sensible thing to do imo would be to end your relationship quick sharpish, you get one stab at life dont waste it thinking what if all the time, let her go, move on and learn from your mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start.

"

Doid you marry her or her parents and family. ?

I left my wife over six years ago and I didn't give a flying fuck what her family thought of me for doing it. I had to leave and that was that !

I then met another woman to whom I've been married for over 4 years and have never been happier in my life.

Funnly enough all my ex's family still speak to me ...

Food for thought

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"that has no relevance to this any way!"

It has every relevance to this seeing as YOU mentioned it in your opening thread.

And seeing as you now have a child, your happiness doesn't really come into it, it's for you to ensure your child happiness.

I'm not here to offend you, but your OP annoyed me, it's seems it's all about "YOU"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely "

I was just about to say the same...

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely

I was just about to say the same...

"

I was just about to post about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol .... some ppl are so cynical

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely "

lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely

lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!"

well if he says he has 7 toes on one foot... and athelete foot !!!....... I am going for wind up.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i left after 23years an my ex's

family still chat 2 me

stop making up excuse's an do ur

partner a favour an leave ull be

thanked for it in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the post about not informing your partner after you have picked up a STI and just hope for the best re-affirmed two things for me.

You are selfish and your partner deserves better!

It will be one hell of a fine mess when it is time to finish this sorry affair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely

lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!"

sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!

sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol

"

.

Not mine for certain!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

My last post was removed for being too harsh but in hindsight i dont think it was harsh enough but hey i aint allowed to call him a self pleaser so i wont.

Steve

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner?

This has really got to be a wind up surely

lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!

sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol

"

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

As my Dad use to say, you have made your bed so you have to lie in it.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"As my Dad use to say, you have made your bed so you have to lie in it."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate ya on the wrong site that ain't swinging that is cheating there are plenty of affair sites around suggest ya find one

Swinging ta most on here is about truth and honesty and not a quick easy shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this guy caught chlamydia,how many other people has he infected?

He couldnt/wouldnt tell his own wife so doubt he told the women he has met.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh."

I think people are being fairly diplomatic, considering what most will really think.


"Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection"

That may be true, but very rare, if suitable precautions were being taken. If she lied to you about the precautions she was taking, then you really don't need to be with someone who has 'trapped' you into staying with her, but by the same vain, if you really didn't want children, you would have ensured that the protections you were both taking were adequate.. I have a certain amount of sympathy, but not much.


"...that has no relevance to this any way!"

It has every relevance, you are cheating on a wife and the fall out for a child would be horrendous.


" Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start."

So fecking what? You are not married to her family or your family. Believe me, the day they find out you are cheating, the recriminations will be far worse than if you grow a set of balls and actually leave.


" This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia"

So you have already been cheating.....


"...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again."

Who? Your missus or whoever you are having an affair with?


"luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll."

Chlymidia is a higly contagious sexually contracted infection and the chances are, you might have got rid of the first dose, but if your missus has it, you'll get it back.

Chlymidia can make a woman infertile and if she decides to have another child and can't get pregnant, believe me, they will test her for it and you will be dead meat then mate.

And you are still shagging your wife if there is a possibility she has it.......

So you are trying to keep your cake and eat a donut at the same time!


" i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way."

No you don't.... your profile is still on here, you are still looking to cheat. Does the woman who you got chylmidia from know you are on here as well, or if she is on here, does SHE know you've had this STI.

The only way you will learn a lesson is to get your self off here, either sort out your marriage or leave and then, and only when you are single do you come back on here.

Cheating men, and women, need to realise that just because we are swingers, we are not easy shags........ and by admitting you've had an STI, you are going to find it alot harder to get any form of meeting.

You need to stop acting like a spoilt 16 year old who is stamping his feet at the injustice of being send to bed early, and grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'You love your partner in a certain way'

That's not true love is it as it doesn't sound like it to me.

Best to leave than be in a hopeless marriage but i would really think about what you want as believe me the grass is not always greener on the other side. Think on what you have, a kid, a partner, possibly a job, a car. Do you want to lose all that, do they really make your life a misery???

Oscar Wilde once said 'Every saint has a past, Every sinner has a future.

If you did want to stay with your partner and kid and lead a family life without cheating then there is still time to correct your wrongs.

Not everyone is perfect and all holy in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is he on the wind up??

chlymidia can lie dormant for years do the poor girl a favour tell her she got it then leave so what if her family wont look at you the same way again your the one in the wrong here not her!! there is more i could add to this but dont fancy joinin the banned list!!!

anyone got the number for jeremy kyle...

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Can the moderator please close this thread?/?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can the moderator please close this thread?/? "

.

Nooooo, let it run, it is entertaining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not judging but from a womans point of view id rather not have a guy whos a serial cheater and doesnt want to be with me also as someone who grew up in one of those house holds it aint fair on your child (the term kid really is annoying!)your best splitting up and if shes one of the women who stops a guy from seeing their child you just go the legal route then everyone happy in the long run

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

This does not sound very real.

Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction.

Big pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the O.P.

I don't care what anyone says,in this day and age there is no such thing as an 'accidental' pregnancy.

Its caused through carelessness or stupidity.

You either take precautions or,if you don't,you have kids.

If your partner was on the pill and had a bout of vomiting etc, then YOU should have taken precautions until after her next cycle,whether she did or not.

Its as much your responsibility as hers,more so by the sound of this fiasco.

You say you contracted Chlymidia,well this probably goes to show that you still haven't learned your lesson about unprotected sex.

Good job it was just Chlymidia.....this time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh.

I think people are being fairly diplomatic, considering what most will really think.

Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection

That may be true, but very rare, if suitable precautions were being taken. If she lied to you about the precautions she was taking, then you really don't need to be with someone who has 'trapped' you into staying with her, but by the same vain, if you really didn't want children, you would have ensured that the protections you were both taking were adequate.. I have a certain amount of sympathy, but not much.

...that has no relevance to this any way!

It has every relevance, you are cheating on a wife and the fall out for a child would be horrendous.

Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start.

So fecking what? You are not married to her family or your family. Believe me, the day they find out you are cheating, the recriminations will be far worse than if you grow a set of balls and actually leave.

This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia

So you have already been cheating.....

...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again.

Who? Your missus or whoever you are having an affair with?

luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll.

Chlymidia is a higly contagious sexually contracted infection and the chances are, you might have got rid of the first dose, but if your missus has it, you'll get it back.

Chlymidia can make a woman infertile and if she decides to have another child and can't get pregnant, believe me, they will test her for it and you will be dead meat then mate.

And you are still shagging your wife if there is a possibility she has it.......

So you are trying to keep your cake and eat a donut at the same time!

i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way.

No you don't.... your profile is still on here, you are still looking to cheat. Does the woman who you got chylmidia from know you are on here as well, or if she is on here, does SHE know you've had this STI.

The only way you will learn a lesson is to get your self off here, either sort out your marriage or leave and then, and only when you are single do you come back on here.

Cheating men, and women, need to realise that just because we are swingers, we are not easy shags........ and by admitting you've had an STI, you are going to find it alot harder to get any form of meeting.

You need to stop acting like a spoilt 16 year old who is stamping his feet at the injustice of being send to bed early, and grow up!"
Mad Chick I salute you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This does not sound very real.

Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction.

Big pinch of salt!"
A gritter lorry load I think! The more you read it HAS to be a wind up: would someone really post letting the world know that not only was he a cheat, but a health risk too?!! Hmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This does not sound very real.

Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction.

Big pinch of salt!"
A gritter lorry load I think! The more you read it HAS to be a wind up: would someone really post letting the world know that not only was he a cheat, but a health risk too?!! Hmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the op is obviously winding everyone up ,,,,,, i hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so who is in his boat.....and will they kindly sink it!!

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

And dont waste the grit on him either

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"so who is in his boat.....and will they kindly sink it!! "

The sub is on its way to sink his boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex.

who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell."

you should never stay with anyone because of a child, you can still love your child and be part of lts life without being with its mother

Personally i think the best thing you can do for all of you is leave, your not happy, your mrs obvioulsy isnt happy if she has to 'keep tabs' on you and in the end your child will not be happy being with parents who dont want to be together

oh and on your way out go buy a packet of condoms so it dont happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh.Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection...that has no relevance to this any way!

Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start.

This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again.luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll. i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way."

i wasnt going to reply to this post as i was gob smacked i didnt know what to say, then i was, then i wasnt, i went away and come back

are you seriously telling us you picked up a STI and didnt even tell your wife so she could get treatment for it?

nope im going away again cause im still gob smacked

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

wow!!! how can any1 not tell thier partner they have an STI.. your scrapping the bottom of the barrell..

i truly feel for your wife and child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has been on here for a year, is verified and one has to assume has been meeting people from here, unfortunately he has chosen to hide his verifications, I hope those on his friends list who may or may not have played with have read this thread, perhaps someone should send them a link to it just in case, perhaps all those he has met might want to get themselves checked.

Perhaps he got it off his wife who realising just what kind of partner she has decided to go and enjoy herself with someone who could romance her and sexually satisfy her ?

Just perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This does not sound very real.

Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction.

Big pinch of salt!"

Got to say I'm with OKC on this one, can't be anything other than a wind up, especially after the second post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unbelievable...well whether its an attention seek or his idea or a joke i still pity him

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