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By *ustlookingabc2024 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

We are quite new to this lifestyle.

We spoke to a few single women (only Interested in meet women) Conversation is flow quite well As in lady’s would like to meet and the other Conversations were at the point of exchanging face pics

then all of a sudden, they just disappear and don’t read the messages. We’re not the people to keep messaging and chasing after them as we all know That’s not attractive

Just wondering if we are doing something wrong or is that just how it is on here?

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab.

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By *eliusMan
2 weeks ago

Henlow


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab."

They said: Conversations were at the point of exchanging face pics, my take on that, even though I agree with you that it happens, is that they didn’t.

I think the ghosting is just a FAB and dating up thing. Either cold feet, playing away and guilty conscience or just seeing if they can manipulate someone. I wouldn’t take it too personally OP

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably guys pretending to be woman in the hope of some wank fodder.

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By *altercCouple
2 weeks ago

london


"We are quite new to this lifestyle.

We spoke to a few single women (only Interested in meet women) Conversation is flow quite well As in lady’s would like to meet and the other Conversations were at the point of exchanging face pics

then all of a sudden, they just disappear and don’t read the messages. We’re not the people to keep messaging and chasing after them as we all know That’s not attractive

Just wondering if we are doing something wrong or is that just how it is on here?"

Fabmin challenges can be real, especially with us logging in at different times, sometimes we log in to dozens of messages and miss out responding to people we have been having good chats with.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If you asked for face pics and they stopped reading, they don't want to send you face pics.

If you sent yours, maybe they didn't like the look of them.

Or the bloke pretending to be a woman finished his wank and will wander back next time he needs fapfodder 💜

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By *ustlookingabc2024 OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab."

We normally look to see if they’ve uploaded more than one photo, obviously verified and photos are prime things we look for

We’ve not an exchange any face photos. It got to that point in the conversation but there was nothing exchanged on either party Conversation still had stuff to talk about

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
2 weeks ago

Falkirk

Think it’s just how it is on here.

1. Fake profile

2. Cold feet

3.if you’re sent pics first they may decide you’re not their type

4. Your message has been lost in the sea of messages women no doubt get on here.

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By *iGuyForCouplesMan
2 weeks ago

Staines

Way too many fantasists on here pretending they are women and couples. Every Friday my inbox becomes alive with messages from "couples" wanting to meet me on Sat. Tell me what you would do with her bla bla bla. 9/10 they end up blocking me or ghosting me Saturday morning.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
2 weeks ago

UK


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab.

We normally look to see if they’ve uploaded more than one photo, obviously verified and photos are prime things we look for

We’ve not an exchange any face photos. It got to that point in the conversation but there was nothing exchanged on either party Conversation still had stuff to talk about "

Sounds frustrating. You can really simplify this down though.

If someone stops messages then they aren’t interested enough. Which you shouldn’t take personally, it doesn’t mean they don’t like you. It’s just one of those things. Best not to dwell on it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab.

We normally look to see if they’ve uploaded more than one photo, obviously verified and photos are prime things we look for

We’ve not an exchange any face photos. It got to that point in the conversation but there was nothing exchanged on either party Conversation still had stuff to talk about "

Be aware some profiles have false verifications. If they're engaging in sexy chat it's very likely it's a Man. Hopefully you can make some connections but be realistic and be savvy.

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By *oelMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab.

We normally look to see if they’ve uploaded more than one photo, obviously verified and photos are prime things we look for

We’ve not an exchange any face photos. It got to that point in the conversation but there was nothing exchanged on either party Conversation still had stuff to talk about

Be aware some profiles have false verifications. If they're engaging in sexy chat it's very likely it's a Man. Hopefully you can make some connections but be realistic and be savvy. "

I think this is a good warning, as a man I message in good faith but it's a very good reminder to be careful, the ratios on here are wild and I hadn't thought that some profiles may not be real. Fab is hard work egh 😁

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sounds like they weren't who they claimed to be op.

Lots of men pretend to be couples or ladies.

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By *ndymac888Man
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I wouldn’t take it personally, I’ve been speaking to woman for days then out of nowhere they stop messaging.

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab.

We normally look to see if they’ve uploaded more than one photo, obviously verified and photos are prime things we look for

We’ve not an exchange any face photos. It got to that point in the conversation but there was nothing exchanged on either party Conversation still had stuff to talk about

Be aware some profiles have false verifications. If they're engaging in sexy chat it's very likely it's a Man. Hopefully you can make some connections but be realistic and be savvy. "

This. All day long.

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By *orumiteMan
2 weeks ago

Kempston


"Are you sure the profiles are actually Women? If they are, unfortunately after exchanging face pics they may not fancy you. You need a thick skin to be on Fab."

I know single men get a bad rap on here, but believe it or not, there are plenty of women who can behave in a less than perfect manner on here. Funny though how any bad behaviour by a female profile always gets the “are you sure it was a woman” comment.

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By *ergus1622Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

It can be quite annoying if you think your starting to build a good conversation then all of a sudden nothing!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I know single men get a bad rap on here, but believe it or not, there are plenty of women who can behave in a less than perfect manner on here. Funny though how any bad behaviour by a female profile always gets the “are you sure it was a woman” comment."

Oh no, he's onto us!

The fake comments came from men, women and couples, not just women protecting the sacred vagina image. The perception of that likelihood exists in the common psyche for a reason. And most people who did mention that potential reason also included other options rather than claiming only that it must be man.

As a vagina owner, I'll happily admit I'm a dickhead too 💜

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By *ams12345Man
2 weeks ago

london

lol sounds typical. welcome to fabswingers where majority are time wasters and looking for a wank. that goes for men and women 🤣

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