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By *aftarse59 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

workington

Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available?

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Not just you,they make me immediately suspicious.

I'm half a couple, my partner meets alone with my full knowledge, but has his own profile for this. I wouldn't dream of picking out a meet for him and messaging them from our joint profile.

They also rarely have any pics of the man either, funnily enough.

I have couples blocked now, but I used to get messaged by the supposed woman asking me to meet her hubby alone.

All old pics of her only, making me think they used to be a couple,but not now & he's still using the account.

Or she doesn't know she's got pics up on fab and it's just a man trying his luck.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
14 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

You are only just noticing this.

It's a very common thing.

A few Red flags are

Couples with only female pictures as the fictitious female can't take pictures of her partner.

Very old pictures as he doesn't have any more pics of the Ex partner.

Over eager to meet up

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By *ootnootboopCouple
14 weeks ago

Cheshire

Oh your not alone!

It instantly raises our suspicions that all may not be as it seems.

Similar to those profiles with pictures of the female that are from years ago, but recent male pictures. And the last veris date matches up with the last female photo.

Those get the same suspicious treatment!

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By *tlanshiaWoman
14 weeks ago

Chatham

The amount of messages I get from a "woman" trying to arrange play for her partner only cause she's away.

No one believes it. It is the equivalent of my mate fancies you lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
14 weeks ago

Midlands


"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "

It's always been like it in our 7+ years on Fab. Some would be shocked how many couples profiles where the Woman has little or no idea of the Fab profile.

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By *cgmcgMan
14 weeks ago

kingston


"The amount of messages I get from a "woman" trying to arrange play for her partner only cause she's away.

No one believes it. It is the equivalent of my mate fancies you lol"

My mate definitely fancies you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile

if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple

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By *ustus5555Woman
14 weeks ago

Mansfield


"instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile

if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple"

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By *eltic connectionCouple
14 weeks ago

Manningtree

It's an instant block from us and sometimes go as far as reporting the profile!

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By *he Whole PortionCouple
14 weeks ago

in & around


"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "

Always a red flag, although it's a new one to us, them using that line when meeting a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

This is my biggest issue with fab, there's so many trying it on as a couple just to find out it's a dude..

I've even had ones saying that a meet with the guy alone first has to happen before a full meet.. Which obviously means it's just a guy again lol

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By *eviant loversCouple
14 weeks ago

half way to hell

Had 3 this week alone, one guy we’d said no to a few weeks back. They’d not be able to message us as single guys, so they’re getting around it by pretending to be a couple

Yet to find a profile where it’s the lady only wanting to meet us, unfortunately

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
14 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

We are definitely available together, always ❤️

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
14 weeks ago

Portstewart

Any one new who we meet we meet together but if the situation arises I've let hubby meet on his own and he let's me meet on my own as long as we have met them together at some point. Getting childcare can be extremely difficult and having ms also sometimes means I'm unable to meet but I certainly wouldn't stop hubby from doing so as there may be a point where my condition limits who I can play with

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By *pen2UMan
14 weeks ago

Telford


"You are only just noticing this.

It's a very common thing.

A few Red flags are

Couples with only female pictures as the fictitious female can't take pictures of her partner.

Very old pictures as he doesn't have any more pics of the Ex partner.

Over eager to meet up

"

Thanks for sharing these red flags! I now know what to look for as I've had couples message me recently now I'm more active on the forums

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By *wingItOnCouple
14 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Yeah. It’s another version of the “fab bi” bait and switch.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
14 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's a way to get around filters.

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By *ellinever70Woman
14 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile

if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple"

And sometimes both of those profiles are also just the guy

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By *ondiego85Man
14 weeks ago

nottingham


"Is it just me that’s noticed the increasing number of couples statuses and organising meets and the female is busy/sick/away and only the male half is available? "

It’s a massive red flag, if you ask me.

As well as people saying that the wife knows but won’t be involved

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
14 weeks ago

houghton

Best ones are when they arrange a couples meet up and the female is ill on their day, male can still make it though (of course).

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By *ngelLordCouple
14 weeks ago

Newport

Both meeting or none that's it

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By *esparate danMan
12 weeks ago

glasgow


"instant red flag and 99% fake man only profile

if a guy or woman want to met that are part of a couyple they normally have single profiles explaining that they are also part of a couple"

Lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

I get this all tune from couple profiles

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By *ondiego85Man
12 weeks ago

nottingham

I noticed it too, and I had a few messages from these profiles. They are mainly dodgy AF, and it’s a big red flag. I mostly avoid like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I noticed it too, and I had a few messages from these profiles. They are mainly dodgy AF, and it’s a big red flag. I mostly avoid like the plague"
I had few weeks ago too

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By *pl_1979Couple
12 weeks ago

North East

We've noticed loads of "male half only" status

We had a little chuckle at a status a few days ago, something along the lines of "I'm ill upstairs, I'd love for a lady to fuck my man downstairs while I listen"

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By *aomilatteCouple
12 weeks ago

Midlands


"We've noticed loads of "male half only" status

We had a little chuckle at a status a few days ago, something along the lines of "I'm ill upstairs, I'd love for a lady to fuck my man downstairs while I listen""

Then he put the porn on, on silent

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
12 weeks ago

Gillingham

Yeh we simply wont meet one half of a couple unless we've already met both.

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Nothing against the couples...but you'll be surprised how many women on here have single profiles, word them as single when in actual fact are married or with a partner!!

Just got to say...it goes both ways

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By *ezandCCouple
12 weeks ago

Telford

The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile.

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile. "

Yep!

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By *eyeYCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile. "

That!! Funnily enough there's never any pictures or reference of him on their bio.. 🤷😉

We have a few couple friends, that we know for a fact the Mrs is away occasionally and he (as they both do) has permission.

But generally a no go..

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By *herrybakewellCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Yeh we simply wont meet one half of a couple unless we've already met both."

Exactly that.

We will only ever do a social with all people present initially.

Solo meets is fine once a connection is established. But then we also have the rule that we keep it equal.....so if I meet the female, I then wont meet again until Mrs has seen the other male.

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By *w funwifeWoman
12 weeks ago

near taunton

all these forum post with couples n ladies only ? who do you think is writing them 100% fake couples/women profiles run by men.

about 12 years ago i stopped meeting couples and women on fab due to the fake couples/women/and very male led profiles i stopped via singles profile and we also stopped via couples profiles..

guys who come avross these fake profiles mut think hany on there are so few couples and ladies on this scene and then over half of them are fake run by men meaning that there are fare less couples/women for real..

even with the real couples 90% are very male run where the wife has nearly zero to do with the account so the guy pretends to be his wife most of the time

so easiest way to get around was to filter couples and women out they are easy to find the real folk in other ways

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By *w funwifeWoman
12 weeks ago

near taunton


"The same goes the other way, the amount of single female profiles that will only meet with their fuck buddy, we feel they should have a couples profile. "

i would not meet a fb couple you can tell the moment you meet them there so not connected making it a horroble meet most of the time ...

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