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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It seems to be the new "in" thing at the moment, I just try and ignore it. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to be the new "in" thing at the moment, I just try and ignore it. x"

I would but I could hardly sit down the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree,

Some blokes do see it as a sort of mission. Bit of a turn off in the end so go steady with your zealousness

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I would but I could hardly sit down the next day "

If it gets to that point, just tell them to naff off, lol. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

"

yep-absolutely especially when i say that i don't do it...they start trying to hammer away down there like their lives depend on it...very briefly I have to add...it's the look in the eye of the ones who boast they can make any woman squirt...it just shows their utter lack of experience to be honest...as though all women are the same...

Whatever happened to being happy they made a woman cum? That seems to have gone out of the window altogether...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It is like guys who claim they will be the one to make me cum orally. I make it clear - it aint gonna happen and when the INSIST I distract them and move on to something else...

a slap on the nose end works wonders...

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

when i was married it was one of the things i not like about some men who seem to do stuff they want to .

and now ive stopped seeing single men as its all about them .they want to finger your bum or you to suck em off even if you dont like it ,

so sorry that this was probably an unpleasant experience for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it just shows their utter lack of experience to be honest...as though all women are the same...

Whatever happened to being happy they made a woman cum? That seems to have gone out of the window altogether...

"

Agree, it didnt go on for long, I moved and changed position so He had to stop, but it had got mildly annoying

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

Ahhh, that fragile thing that is the male ego !

Believe it or not fellas, not every woman needs nor wants to be subjected to your vigorous hamfisted fumblings just so you can add "can make any woman gush" to your profile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is annoying your right, i squirt quite alot if someones pressing the right buttons, but once a guy knows that, he will do everything in his power to make me, and sometimes i just dont or cant, making a girl cum obviously isnt satisfactory for some men anymore, greedy buggers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, we are not all hamfisted, selfish brutes you know.

Some of us actually care!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Yep-absolutely especially when i say that i don't do it...they start trying to hammer away down there like their lives depend on it...very briefly I have to add...it's the look in the eye of the ones who boast they can make any woman squirt...it just shows their utter lack of experience to be honest...as though all women are the same...

Whatever happened to being happy they made a woman cum? That seems to have gone out of the window altogether...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be the new "in" thing at the moment, I just try and ignore it. x

I would but I could hardly sit down the next day "

If someone was going at me that ferociously I'd move or tell them to get off.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Probably the sort of stuff that should come out in tbd open before a meet, we all have preferences and likes......

Good communication is the key, then hopefully the situation wouldn't arise.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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If someone was going at me that ferociously I'd move or tell them to get off. "

I moved when it became uncomfortable and am quite happy to tell someone to stop, Guys often need a bit of guidance as all us women are different, but they all seem to have watched the same porn films and copied the techniques they'e seen

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I agree entirely, I'm not going to give away too much but Kate can squirt fairly easily, however, making that an "orgasmic" experience take a change of tack.

It does seem, like already mentioned as soon as they discover she squirts that's all they focus on... Generally one or both of us call time on things.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me when men just focus on the rough fingering and making me gush and what annoys me even more is when I do they think their job is done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It annoys me when men just focus on the rough fingering and making me gush and what annoys me even more is when I do they think their job is done "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sadly for the ladies concerned, the obsession and some of the shit written about it is making it akin to a circus act....

and usually, to stroke an ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately some people think the orgasm is the goal, and the pleasure to the orgasm. Anyway, Squirting or gushing should not be confused with the orgasm...it tends to be only a part me it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi , I have been experimenting with the gushing thing ... Only one person has ever got me to gush in a very gentle way , the other , well I have ended up with cystitis and sore for over a week

I think I know who to plump for ...

I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Some guys seem to _iew sex and foreplay as a personal crusade to achieve certain high value points eg making a women squirt

I've always taken the _iew that we're all there because sex in general is bloody amazing if done well and making a woman cum via whatever or squirt only matters if its part of her having a wonderful time and me and her feeling amazing afterwards

Any notches on your profile come a very long way after that

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire


"You know, we are not all hamfisted, selfish brutes you know.

Some of us actually care!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont meet with people that are looking for 'squirters' period.

It's now on my 'no list', the best thing I ever did was learn to switch it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving "

I have always found bi men make better lovers

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

I personally would rather not know if a woman gushes or squirts up front, it's one hell of a turn on when they do though, but I never make it my goal to make them do it though, if it happens it happens.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving

I have always found bi men make better lovers "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said I feel exactly the same as long as the lady enjoys what your doing who cares if she doesn't come or squirt nice if she does but not a must all girls are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if the guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pity some men don't put as much effort into helping a woman to cum, some seem to think squirting and cumming are the same thing, well for me they most definitely are not, that's not to say it's not pleasurable, but I'd much prefer him to take more time bringing me to orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if the guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently."

This

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if tihe guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently."

Of course this is true for you personally.........but some of us gush/squirt during orgasm, we can't all be put into the same box

A

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if the guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if the guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently.

Totally agree"

Ive squirted with every meet except one which went wrong to do with me not the guy (and thats not many) not boasting here just joining in, they havent been too rough with me else they would have been told to stop because of it hurting. Usually when having sex, not fingering and I can feel it. Dont orgasm by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like it wet...intensity or volume isnt an issue

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"

I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving

I have always found bi men make better lovers "

couldn't agree more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never squirted and I never want to either doesn't appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a pity some men don't put as much effort into helping a woman to cum, some seem to think squirting and cumming are the same thing, well for me they most definitely are not, that's not to say it's not pleasurable, but I'd much prefer him to take more time bringing me to orgasm "

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It does nothing for us at all and we wouldnt contact someone whos profile states they are a 'big squirter'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never squirted and I never want to either doesn't appeal "

Me neither! Thought it was just me. Doesn't appeal at all.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Ahhh, that fragile thing that is the male ego !

Believe it or not fellas, not every woman needs nor wants to be subjected to your vigorous hamfisted fumblings just so you can add "can make any woman gush" to your profile !

"

yep cos some women dont have an over inflated impression of themselves do they..?

or make sweeping generalisations..

believe it or not, not every bloke is as you describe..

or acts in such a way..

perhaps its about ones communication skills with some fellas..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving

I have always found bi men make better lovers

me too "

have to agree..

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By *eviantprnCouple
over a year ago

Woking

We both like the idea of squirting but it's by no means essential (she doesn't and I think she's the sexiest woman on the planet).

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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

I thought it would be better to mention the possibility of our mrs may squirt to play partners. Figured not to surprise them so they don't freak out.

We mentioned it at a house party. Big mistake!!! 2 guys seem to make it a mission to have it happen. Even though the mrs found them exciting, she couldn't relax enough knowing that it would be noted as an "accomplishment" instead of just a nice night.

We haven't mentioned it to anyone since and if things get close, she'll quietly tell the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I squirt and I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never squirted and I never want to either doesn't appeal

Me neither! Thought it was just me. Doesn't appeal at all."

Snap...I'm sure it may feel nice but I'm not a fan of having to change the sheets straight after a session!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do agree as squirting seemed to have become synonymous with orgasm. There's no man dead or alive who can make every woman cum. Reaching orgasm is not a goal in itself, it's a combination of more things and most importantly it should be mutual.

Funny enough, natural events know how to embarrass us when we want to force it...we'd often times than not be left with sweaty/red faces.

I was actually surprised the day I got someone to squirt, she felt a bit embarrassed as she never knew she does. It's happened a few times afterwards but not on every occasion.

Let's get sex back to what it used to be...fun not a practical (scientific) experiment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up trying to squirt i know it disappoints some that i don't but i enjoy sex in other ways .i say forget the squirting with e and let me have the pleasure of an anal and vaginal orgasm at the same time .far more satisfying and enjoyable for me .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up trying to squirt i know it disappoints some that i don't but i enjoy sex in other ways .i say forget the squirting with e and let me have the pleasure of an anal and vaginal orgasm at the same time .far more satisfying and enjoyable for me .poppyxx "
me thats should say not e .dont do e .poppyxx

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

"

If I HAPPEN to gush or squirt whilst playing then fine. But when a guy tries to force it it can be painful. It's almost like a bloody trophy with some! I always tell them that it is not an orgasm to me - not anywhere near close to one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt know I did until my first meet last year. had never heard of half the stuff on here including that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when men just focus on the rough fingering and making me gush and what annoys me even more is when I do they think their job is done "

Totally this.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

When a guy says "Im going to make you........."...

That just pisses me off and I stop there and then..

EPIC Fail guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sweat"?

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Million pound idea right here...

Ladies,

simply conceal a small sized super soaker under your pillow, make sure that it has already been pumped so full of pressure that it bends the basic laws of hydrodynamics.

If the guy seems to be failing in his aquatic endeavour but shows no sign of admitting defeat with dignity and grace simply

point over his shoulder and shout "look! I do believe that there is Roland off Grange Hill in the tree outside the window"

He will instantly turn around in awe, which will give you the chance to grab the super soaker, moan and judder a little then spray him with a direct head shot.

He will be so happy that he has inflicted such orgasmic pleasure on you that he won't notice the super soaker in your hand or the fact the Roland has evaporated.

Straight to dragons den with that bad boy.

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By *ickloverMan
over a year ago

Devizes

Best one I had was with a meeting I had last Sunday, I was there on my knees by the side of the bed, being rather thorough with my Tongue etc firm but gentle when she started the demands !! You know, the usual thongs women say during sex " eat my cunt, bite my pussy eat me harder harder , finger me deep, hard harder "etc when all of a sudden without warning me she was a squirter it was like being hit in the face by a fire hose !!! Damn near scared the fuck out of me !!! I was trying to give her a deep orgasm and all she wanted to do was fucking drown me !!! It didn't stop there ! She kept shouting " eat my cunt. , eat it , eat the fucking thing !! Etc". Rather than it being the lady who is glad it's over , it was me who was glad to feel her tighten, shake then collapse in a heap on the bed !!! My Tongue was nearly fucking numb and my fingers were getting blisters and I was dripping wet from her apparent love of gushing !! If I'd have been warned she was a gusher I'd have taken my shirt off first !!! So as much as there may be some men who won't stop till they've made a woman squirt ( or tried to ) there are some women who know they can squirt and won't let a guy come up for air until she has !!!

Not though I'm complaining ! Can't wait to meet her again !! This time I'll make sure there's a towel handy !!

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By *ugbythighs82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Best one I had was with a meeting I had last Sunday, I was there on my knees by the side of the bed, being rather thorough with my Tongue etc firm but gentle when she started the demands !! You know, the usual thongs women say during sex " eat my cunt, bite my pussy eat me harder harder , finger me deep, hard harder "etc when all of a sudden without warning me she was a squirter it was like being hit in the face by a fire hose !!! Damn near scared the fuck out of me !!! I was trying to give her a deep orgasm and all she wanted to do was fucking drown me !!! It didn't stop there ! She kept shouting " eat my cunt. , eat it , eat the fucking thing !! Etc". Rather than it being the lady who is glad it's over , it was me who was glad to feel her tighten, shake then collapse in a heap on the bed !!! My Tongue was nearly fucking numb and my fingers were getting blisters and I was dripping wet from her apparent love of gushing !! If I'd have been warned she was a gusher I'd have taken my shirt off first !!! So as much as there may be some men who won't stop till they've made a woman squirt ( or tried to ) there are some women who know they can squirt and won't let a guy come up for air until she has !!!

Not though I'm complaining ! Can't wait to meet her again !! This time I'll make sure there's a towel handy !!

"

Sounds like a terrifying erotic version of the exorcist.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Million pound idea right here...

Ladies,

simply conceal a small sized super soaker under your pillow, make sure that it has already been pumped so full of pressure that it bends the basic laws of hydrodynamics.

If the guy seems to be failing in his aquatic endeavour but shows no sign of admitting defeat with dignity and grace simply

point over his shoulder and shout "look! I do believe that there is Roland off Grange Hill in the tree outside the window"

He will instantly turn around in awe, which will give you the chance to grab the super soaker, moan and judder a little then spray him with a direct head shot.

He will be so happy that he has inflicted such orgasmic pleasure on you that he won't notice the super soaker in your hand or the fact the Roland has evaporated.

Straight to dragons den with that bad boy. "

I don't know if you are a safe party guest or wether I just need to hide under the bubbles of the tub next time.....

Evil.......but so dam funny

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have it on my profile that im a gusher, i wasnt going to put it on, but i know some guys really dont like it, and i might accidently forget to tell them before a meet.

Someones said this but if a guy starts on about im going to this this and this and give you the best night of your life, ive moved on, especially before i had my filters set to age range and you got some jumped up 20 year old saying to me

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"When a guy says "Im going to make you........."...

That just pisses me off and I stop there and then..

EPIC Fail guys....."

Couldn't agree more!

D

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley


"It is like guys who claim they will be the one to make me cum orally. I make it clear - it aint gonna happen and when the INSIST I distract them and move on to something else...

a slap on the nose end works wonders... "

A well timed botty cough would do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

"

happens all the time to me. I never know whether it is better to admit or not. but some people don't like it so I would rather they know in advance. hard one really.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I actually love to gush but of course my orgasm is far more important! I have been lucky enough to find a couple of different guys who hit the right spot without hurting me! I find though you do have to be really relaxed with the guy though! Oh and waterproof mattress protectors are now an essential!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

"

Pretty much the same for me. As soon as some guy tries to press down hard and is intent on making me do something I have no intention off its lights off and goodbye as it shows a total lack of respect or understanding of who they have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is like guys who claim they will be the one to make me cum orally. I make it clear - it aint gonna happen and when the INSIST I distract them and move on to something else...

a slap on the nose end works wonders...

A well timed botty cough would do the trick "

Especially if you then pull the duvet over their head and hold it down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that the guy is on a mission to prove something to himself more then please you...as if to boost his own ego.

I've met quite a few women who squirt, but they tend to do it more when they are totally relaxed and not under pressure to satisfy somebody elses curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is like guys who claim they will be the one to make me cum orally. I make it clear - it aint gonna happen and when the INSIST I distract them and move on to something else...

a slap on the nose end works wonders...

A well timed botty cough would do the trick

Especially if you then pull the duvet over their head and hold it down! "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a couple of meets recently, where the other male has made it a personal mission to see if I can be made to squirt.

I get very wet, and enjoy a good fingering, but this seemed to move into something He felt He should achieve rather than something that was intended for my pleasure.

What about you Ladies think?

"
. that's men for you lol no idea what a women wants or needs.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Gushing has become a novelty trick show and the "in thing" in our opinion. First time we came across it we were all taken aback in amazement, but it got us to thinking that it must be a pain at times if it's all that happens, changing sheets, drying out bedding etc. Hotlips has twice achieved it, and the jury is out, it was a case of yep, I can do it. Our consensus is what ever happened to a good old fashioned orgasm and the delight in getting there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I find bisexual males the most gentle and giving

I have always found bi men make better lovers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was meeting, i told them straight it ain't gonna happen n i wasn't interested in it... if during the meet my boys my boys tried to indulge me, they always went with my body! They would never disrespect me... (although do have 1 horror story)! Seems to me fems are not setting up their ground rules very well... not all, but i've read a few posts now where guys are not all they ought to be!

It may help to select men with good feedback - that show they are respectful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a fem squirting when im goin down on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a squirter but not on a mission to achieve this its all about giving the best pleasure !!

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By *rs L and Mr DCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

-is there only me that likes this then? lol

mind you ... i squirt quite easily anyway with MrD, cos it's always such a turn on ... and we are totally compatible.... the more turned on i am, the more i squirt .... never happened naturally with anyone else though

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"-is there only me that likes this then? lol

mind you ... i squirt quite easily anyway with MrD, cos it's always such a turn on ... and we are totally compatible.... the more turned on i am, the more i squirt .... never happened naturally with anyone else though "

I love it too, and for me often cum at the same time ........I don't get people dissing it sooooo much, just because some woman aren't that keen, prefer to orgasm a different way .........that's fine we are not all the same or like the same things ........ I don't like anal but don't slag off those who do........

A

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Whenever i read:can make any woman squirt/gush or loves nothing better than to make a fem squirt.....i move on @ the speed of light as i know how that meet would go

i prefer cock skills over those fingerskills.

(susie)

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By *leurCouple
over a year ago

West Hull

I find that most Guys think that going ever faster and rougher on my pussy is what I want to cum or squirt.

I know everyone is different but for me gentle stroking does it for me every time. Being rough is a total turn off for me

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down


"It does nothing for us at all and we wouldnt contact someone whos profile states they are a 'big squirter'."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I squirt so much I apologise for it!! :$

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt so much I apologise for it!! :$"
dont apolagise the more the better lol, happy to help u there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt so much I apologise for it!! :$dont apolagise the more the better lol, happy to help u there x "

Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I squirt so much I apologise for it!! :$dont apolagise the more the better lol, happy to help u there x

Lol!!"
if ur ever in swansea then come to me baby lol xx

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We've addressed this in our profile, how we feel, how it works.

Anyone that looks to appease their ego it being something to conquer is way off the mark. Surely the recipient ought to speak up and re direct their attention elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I squirt and very often wish i didn't and its taken me years to come to terms with the fact that i do. Roger loves it thankfully and makes me do it over and over again but knowing that you need to be positioned on a towel and that you are always going to make at soggy puddle isn't always that much fun during meets.

I have to admit that I much prefer a gentle internal massage to several fingers being pounded inside but mainly because I like to be able to control the feeling and enjoy it rather than be made to lose control =0)

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By *ICEFITMan
over a year ago

dundee

Was with my first squirter the other day, didnt expect it and for a moment wondered what the feck was happening! Girl seemed well pleased though! Never thought id need a mop to tidy up after sex though lol

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, its a cool special effect during sex. Some women squirt, some don't. It seems to be the new thing now.

Why get so obsessed with making a woman squirt?

It's more important to give her a real orgasm instead and believe me, if tihe guy can't do it right and just digging with his fingers in my pussy it's very uncomfortable.

Don't pressure yourself guys. For us squirting is just a special effect, we don't get a stronger orgasm doing it and we dont need to squirt all the time. But that's just me, all women feels differently.

Of course this is true for you personally.........but some of us gush/squirt during orgasm, we can't all be put into the same box

A"

I was starting to feel a bit un easy as I read this blog but then got to this response , which has reassured me as I play with two ladies that do squirt during orgasm . I would hate to think I was not giving them maximum pleasure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I knew how to turn it off, but it's an involuntary action that I can't control sometimes it can be quite horny, but not everytime, I would love to have just normal none soaking messy sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I knew how to turn it off, but it's an involuntary action that I can't control sometimes it can be quite horny, but not everytime, I would love to have just normal none soaking messy sex lol"

I can turn it off with most people.. I to be honest get worried that if I do I get to wet and it's not nice for the guys..

I rarely orgasm with a meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting is the new anal.

A few years ago every guy asked "do you do/like anal?" Now it's "do you squirt?", before Anal I think it was oral sex if i remember cirrectly, these thing seen to go in trends and I'm sure there will be a new squirting along soon.

It does get slightly tedious been asked if you squirt 15 times a day, thank god fir autocomplete on an iPhone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do agree as squirting seemed to have become synonymous with orgasm. There's no man dead or alive who can make every woman cum. Reaching orgasm is not a goal in itself, it's a combination of more things and most importantly it should be mutual.

Funny enough, natural events know how to embarrass us when we want to force it...we'd often times than not be left with sweaty/red faces.

I was actually surprised the day I got someone to squirt, she felt a bit embarrassed as she never knew she does. It's happened a few times afterwards but not on every occasion.

Let's get sex back to what it used to be...fun not a practical (scientific) experiment! "

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