FabSwingers.com forum: How much impact does a username have?

By *hilled_Cpl OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Bath

Just browsing the site and realised that for us, any username that has dom or bull in it is pretty much an instant no for us. Are there similar usernames that will make you think twice, either in a good way or bad way?

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By *_new_memberMan
3 weeks ago

Tewkesbury

As they say, first impressions count. Yours for example implies a no pressure environment that would be friendly, open and enjoyable for whichever single man was lucky enough to receive an invite xx

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
3 weeks ago

cardiff

There is definitely words that are an instant put off xx

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
3 weeks ago

Gillingham

"Just browsing the site and realised that for us, any username that has dom or bull in it is pretty much an instant no for us. Are there similar usernames that will make you think twice, either in a good way or bad way?"

Agree with this one, Dom or Bull in a profile is a turn off for us.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

A chilled couple sounds delightful.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Lots of impact, I mean I'm never going to meet "daddydom" "Mr9inch" or "pussypounder300"

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By *eeshellsCouple
3 weeks ago

Reading

There's a big impact, especially if the name doesn't match the photo...

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
3 weeks ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

It's significant for us.

References to dom, bull, rough, fucker etc will turn us away.

So too will names that refer to length or girth.

Any usernames that look like they've been generated randomly as well. A little bit of thought helps show you've got a little bit about you.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 weeks ago

Portstewart

We agree anyone who thinks they can put themselves in a controlling attitude towards us just get ignored we're here for us and no-one will be telling us what we should and shouldn't be doing

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By *eachbums40Couple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

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By *ou an usCouple
3 weeks ago

the South West but hiding

Agree with this one, Dom or Bull in a profile is a turn off for us. "

Your profile name to me implies gentle and cute, like a forget me knot in a cottage garden.

But also could imply your in to a little rope play xx

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By *eachbums40Couple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

"It's significant for us.

References to dom, bull, rough, fucker etc will turn us away.

So too will names that refer to length or girth.

Any usernames that look like they've been generated randomly as well. A little bit of thought helps show you've got a little bit about you."

When we see stupid name like pussysmasher, rough ride and king dick but to name a few, we have to laugh.

They are the kind of names we would associate with immature and silly guys.

Just our opinion of course!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
3 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Yep plenty of usernames have put me off

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By *ositivity99Man
3 weeks ago

Currently Herts

I changed my username a while ago as I found there were so many profiles saying I WONT do this and I DONT do that. Lighten up people! This is supposed to be fun and hopefully my name attracts those that have the same happy sexy outlook on life!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

"There's a big impact, especially if the name doesn't match the photo..."

Hmm, how could I look Scottish?

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By *antasticMrFucks07Man
3 weeks ago

plymouth

I like mine xx

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By * and BCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

There are lots on here with usernames that are a red flag for us. We look for polite, respectful people, so a user name like smash your pussy in or the likes won't get a second look from us

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By *xfordjohnMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford

As many have said, aggressive or ego-driven names, or just plain mis-spelling, are a real turn-off. Profiles are more important but a silly name can give a bad first impression.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Interested in what people think of our name now 🙈

Loads of people like it 🤷🏻

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"Interested in what people think of our name now 🙈

Loads of people like it 🤷🏻"

Are you Pingu and Betty Boop ?

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By *eeshellsCouple
3 weeks ago

Reading

"There's a big impact, especially if the name doesn't match the photo...

Hmm, how could I look Scottish?

No kilt photos, disappointed...

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

"There's a big impact, especially if the name doesn't match the photo...

Hmm, how could I look Scottish?

No kilt photos, disappointed..."

My apologies. I liked yours though but didn't see any sea shells by the seashore.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

I definitely do better with Star Wars fans

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By *riel13Woman
3 weeks ago

Northampton

I have blocked people based on thier username

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By *riel13Woman
3 weeks ago

Northampton

"I have blocked people based on thier username

*their... Ffs!

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It counts for a fair bit and some make the owner look really immature.

Any that say alpha, or are 50 shades references, I ignore.

Same with daddy and those that gross me out like big full balls etc.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Interested in what people think of our name now 🙈

Loads of people like it 🤷🏻

Are you Pingu and Betty Boop ?"

Not quite but you've hit the nail on the head with the Pingu reference

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By *imandher2Couple
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Our username maybe boring but we are definitely not

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By *inkeDCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Yeah certain ones give us the ick.

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By *entfootloverMan
3 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

I'm gonna hazard a guess that my username doesn't do me any favours. But one day it will!

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By *aron_xMan
3 weeks ago

London

Easy to put people off with a username ('PussyLover69' etc etc).

Like much in life, best to keep things simple and focus your energy on more important things

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By *ete hMan
3 weeks ago

Penzance

Hope mine doesn't put anyone off as it's literally just my name 😅

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By *aciamiCouple
3 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Same for us. Along with anything else that coubds crass.

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By *untimescolchesterMan
3 weeks ago

Colchester

Never sure if mine is good or not!

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By *oughmanMan
3 weeks ago

Sunderland

Reading these comments, I think I need to think of something better. Problem is I suck at coming up with usernames.

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By *ooking4othersMan
3 weeks ago

Here ...

Hopefully mine makes sense 🤔

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By *ensman100Man
3 weeks ago

Hounslow

I don't take too much notice but I agree some names could be better.

I love taking pics (being a one pro photographer in a previous life) hence my name. Now enjoy erotica as a hobby.

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By *apybarasCouple
3 weeks ago

High Lighthouse

Definitely. Conversely, funny or clever ones tend to make me have a look.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Definitely. Conversely, funny or clever ones tend to make me have a look."

Just like yours! Love _apybaras so had to have a cheeky look!

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By *pgroupsexMan
3 weeks ago

Kingston

What an interesting thread... until now I'd not even considered that a username might be a no no to some (well unless it was really obviously not what you were after of course).

Personally, I just tried to sum up what I was looking for

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By *ikeC81Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

Tbh my username screams boring git, and that’s quite right if you o ow my job. However I am far from boring…

Tbh I often find ones with sexy in are not sexy lmao, and some with length are not that lengthy

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By *utualMan
3 weeks ago

Bawtry

This thread is developing itself nicely, and is becoming quite revealing. Well done OP for starting it.

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By *obby3264Man
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Lots of impact, I mean I'm never going to meet "daddydom" "Mr9inch" or "pussypounder300" "

Yer and pussypounder500 is a far better model

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By *ltoncoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Alton

We've ignored messages based on the username to he honest. I know ours isn't very imaginative but it is factual!

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By *ikeC81Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

"We've ignored messages based on the username to he honest. I know ours isn't very imaginative but it is factual!"

What happens if you move - will you change names lol sorry being devils advocate a bit lol

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By *obby3264Man
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I like mine xx "

Yours is a funny one

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By *izzyrascalsCouple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

We like ours, we don’t take ourselves too seriously and we think it has a ring to it

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By *TRAY-CATMan
3 weeks ago

Agree with OP. Usernames with vulgar names are derogatory and demeaning..

Also putting your update status " looking to fuck today," or " ffs I'm so horny right now want to meet " ..

We are swingers, not desperate sex addicts.. Have a little self respect please.

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By *iss KinkWoman
3 weeks ago

North West

"Agree with OP. Usernames with vulgar names are derogatory and demeaning..

Also putting your update status " looking to fuck today," or " ffs I'm so horny right now want to meet " ..

We are swingers, not desperate sex addicts.. Have a little self respect please."

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By *apybarasCouple
3 weeks ago

High Lighthouse

"Definitely. Conversely, funny or clever ones tend to make me have a look.

Just like yours! Love _apybaras so had to have a cheeky look!

Sorry for the disappointment, neither of us are as cute as a real Capybara!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

Some usernames just scream lives with his mum, still wanks over lingerie pages of the Grattan catalogue.

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By *utualMan
3 weeks ago

Bawtry

"We like ours, we don’t take ourselves too seriously and we think it has a ring to it"

I instantly chuckled (a good thing) when I read yours. Very good indeed. The reason we are all here is to have fun after all......

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
3 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Yep some have more appeal than others, but I see it like an extra filter , if they don't get your humour or name , they're not for you ,

One person's ick might be another's love

Mine has been a great connvo starter for me ,

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By *ctionman11Man
3 weeks ago

colchester

Didn’t really choose mine

It was a nickname from school and has carried on

Although I suppose it does fit with a swingers site don’t you think ?

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By *utterypopcornCouple
3 weeks ago

oxford

Totally have dismissed people on their username alone.

Had a stalker username the other week. That’s a hard no!!!!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

"Some usernames just scream lives with his mum, still wanks over lingerie pages of the Grattan catalogue.

Littlewoods actually 🤓

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By *apybarasCouple
3 weeks ago

High Lighthouse

"Some usernames just scream lives with his mum, still wanks over lingerie pages of the Grattan catalogue.

The place we all got our love of lingerie from (though ours was Kays and Littlewoods).

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

"Some usernames just scream lives with his mum, still wanks over lingerie pages of the Grattan catalogue.

Littlewoods actually 🤓"

Which ironically is what they’re probably wanking

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By *egvisir71Man
3 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Mine is the name of my tattoo on my back but not many people know this so get lots of questions about my profile name.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

"Some usernames just scream lives with his mum, still wanks over lingerie pages of the Grattan catalogue.

Littlewoods actually 🤓

Which ironically is what they’re probably wanking "

Like a lil baby Groot

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By *hilled_Cpl OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Bath

Good to know it's not just us, and some great usernames in this thread! Forgot about the names like An4l_Destroyer. They're also a nono for us 😖

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By *ocketman81Man
3 weeks ago

Ennis

Ya some usernames are off putting. It makes me wonder what was going through their minds when choosing.

I was after watching the Elton John biopic when I choose mine. Not sure if it was the best choice but I'm owning it.

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By *w funwifeWoman
3 weeks ago

near taunton

yep some usernames will stop me dead and just block

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By *oughnutandDanishCouple
3 weeks ago

Ware, Hertfordshire

Love to know what impression our username gives people 🤣🤣 xx

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By *igWillieStrongman79Man
3 weeks ago

Corby

My name has a purpose to see if someone reads my profile or not lol

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By *litalicious_CoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

North East

Have to admit that ours was a joint d*unken idea whilst in the airport on the way home from a wild holiday in PDI. Unfortunately quite a few know us by it now 🤣

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By *hefuncuckcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Near Chelmsford

There are some that can be comical and some that just give you the 🤮

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Have to admit that ours was a joint d*unken idea whilst in the airport on the way home from a wild holiday in PDI. Unfortunately quite a few know us by it now 🤣"

I think it's quite good.

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By *scarpatMan
3 weeks ago

sexy town

Is my username a bit naff? If so it'll be one of the reasons i never get to meet anyone.. lol

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By *uenevereWoman
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I am definitely put off by certain user names.

Anything sub/dom, cock focused or that refers to themselves as a boy or lad is not going to appeal.

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By *apybarasCouple
3 weeks ago

High Lighthouse

"I am definitely put off by certain user names.

Anything sub/dom, cock focused or that refers to themselves as a boy or lad is not going to appeal.

Especially if they are 48...

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By *uenevereWoman
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"I am definitely put off by certain user names.

Anything sub/dom, cock focused or that refers to themselves as a boy or lad is not going to appeal.

Especially if they are 48..."

Exactly this

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By *ummerforeverMan
3 weeks ago

greenford

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By *ummerforeverMan
3 weeks ago

greenford

Mines isn’t sexual at all, I don’t get comments on it except in clubs when people ask you what’s your fab name. I always get a nice response I suppose. I think it’s nicer then something crude like mingehunter, like I’m sure it works but I just can’t imagine how!?

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
3 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Our username is shockingly bad 😂

We had a few drinks and joined close to 10 years ago.

We picked the first thing that popped in our heads, assuming we would never come back 🙈

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By *xJust4fun22Couple
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

We did ours before we realised how much it would be used... Makes it really difficult to give out at clubs! Lol

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
3 weeks ago

Close to Newport

We have not done too bad with our user name. Hoping that Pine would have changed is name to PenisPan ha!

Tink 😊

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By *ikeC81Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

"Tbh my username screams boring git, and that’s quite right if you o ow my job. However I am far from boring…

Tbh I often find ones with sexy in are not sexy lmao, and some with length are not that lengthy "

Tbh is the same name I have had for years…so if I changed it no1 would know me lol

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'm not a fan of very graphic type user names...dick, cum, pussy names unless it's kinda jokey would put me off but if the profile was good maybe I'd tgink twice before deleting. There are plenty if words to use without needing to use those.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

I don't think it has much impact when it comes to what I'm looking for. I'm happy to look past a username if they can hold a conversation and seem like a nice person

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By *he Whole PortionCouple
3 weeks ago

in & around

Probably, none, ours is a play on an inside joke between us

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By *ussyslave4youMan
3 weeks ago

corby

Think better change mine

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

"Love to know what impression our username gives people 🤣🤣 xx"

Your name reminds me of a couple that I know as Doughnut and Danish. !

But it is clearly and obviously not you 🤣 so forgive me for checking out your pics fairly often 😁😉

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By *antassack889Man
3 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I hope not.. Mine was a stupid one I did when I rejoined at Christmas 😂

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By *eviant loversCouple
3 weeks ago

walsall ish

If the names I’ve no hygiene, we would block them

unfortunately people arent that honest on here!!

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By *erry bull1Man
3 weeks ago

doncaster

Mine is Terry bull

Because I struggle to spell terrible

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By *oneyBee200Woman
3 weeks ago

Kent

Sometimes it can give you an idea of what they want but some are seriously funny and inventive so immediately get my attention

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
3 weeks ago

rochester

I have to admit that I find some an instant turn off.

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By *ecate and BeastCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborough

There are definately some funny ones which are ace 😄

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By *unglevipsCouple
3 weeks ago

Somerset

Not sure how ours is perceived, for us, it was just a bit of fun.

Some user names though… do put us off before we’ve spoken with the people.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

I think s lot of people fairly clueless when they join up. They probably think their username will get the opposite of what it really does.

Even when they leave in disgust, then return,they often rename themselves with the slightest difference

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By *isterMushroomMan
3 weeks ago

Warrington

How about mine?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
3 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Yep same here, dom/bull/daddy and any mention or their race/size of manhood is an instant no for us

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By *assy LassieWoman
3 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Yep same here, dom/bull/daddy and any mention or their race/size of manhood is an instant no for us "

Most that reference their cock should be taken down by trading standards for false advertising. 🤣

Statuses put me off too. Drain my balls. Heavy cummer. Need a pussy to lick now. Like really does this work guys?🤷‍♀️👀🙄

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By *scarpatMan
3 weeks ago

sexy town

Its not always the username that puts me off but if a woman has photos of cum dump, cum in here or slag written in lipstick on her ass or belly thats no from me..

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
3 weeks ago

Bedale

Yeah it can have an impact. Wouldn't necessarily mean it's an instant delete scenario but some names will definitely create a negative first impression which will need to be tackled.

We hope ours conveys what it's intended to, chill fun, no hang ups

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By *DAnnetteTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Brighton

TVs and CDs who have a male username puts me off immediately.

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I think 'bigrobbo' moaning in The Lounge forum that he can't get laid sums the OPs question up!

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By *he SmithsCouple
3 weeks ago

East Devon & London

We find a username usually hints at their level of imagination and literacy. They are both important attributes to us on here and a crass username usually seals their fate if the rest of the profile or their message doesn’t engage.

Our bar is unashamedly high online. In a club or at a party it’s just about attraction. We are so shallow!

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Everyone is different and looking for different things.

Anyone with 420 in their username would put us off completely. It may however sound ideal to others.

A good username that reflects who you are can help others make an informed choice early on.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Ryde

In our case, quite a bit. They read our username and say:

"I'm not paying those bloody prices for the ferry!"

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By *riffield cplCouple
3 weeks ago

Beverley

Never paid attention before but certainly will now🤔

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By *eviant loversCouple
3 weeks ago

walsall ish

"We find a username usually hints at their level of imagination and literacy. They are both important attributes to us on here and a crass username usually seals their fate if the rest of the profile or their message doesn’t engage.

Our bar is unashamedly high online. In a club or at a party it’s just about attraction. We are so shallow!"

Though your username is amazing but not in the sexual way

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By *umplayerMan
3 weeks ago

Chester

I often wonder if mine comes across wrong because it has player in it.

In fact I have a thing for cum play rather than I’m a player!

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By *arkDesiresDudeMan
3 weeks ago

Barnet

"Lots of impact, I mean I'm never going to meet "daddydom" "Mr9inch" or "pussypounder300" "

Is 300 too large a number? What about pussypounder52 or 17?

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By *ayRyuMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

Mines probably boring. But it does have personal meaning.

Not a fan of overly descriptive names either.

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By *arkDesiresDudeMan
3 weeks ago

Barnet

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