FabSwingers.com forum: Fisting

By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

I have this fisting fantasy that I want to make happen, only problem is I’m really tight. Anyone able to recommend how I can stretch myself out ready for a guy to fist me??

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By *egDaySkipperMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Get yourself a bad dragon dildo

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By *umlover30sWoman
3 weeks ago

Burgess Hill

I have the same fantasy but same problem. Tried with my ex he could only get 4 fingers in even with lube x

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
3 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I’ve found it a lot easier if it’s a lady doing it due to having smaller hands

Donna x

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By *ifeforelivingMan
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I've got small hand so relatively easy to do. Just to be clear not jermery beadal or Deadpool small hand lol

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By *ussex_ladMan
3 weeks ago

hastings

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By *osh blokeMan
3 weeks ago

hereford

"I have this fisting fantasy that I want to make happen, only problem is I’m really tight. Anyone able to recommend how I can stretch myself out ready for a guy to fist me??

Do it with a guy who knows what he's doing...go slow and it will happen

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By *iscotti32Woman
3 weeks ago

I’ve never warmed up to a fisting.

Maybe I’ve a massive fammy. 😂

I find if you let the cunt do the work rather than the fist then it’s easier. Slow and steady and it swallows it nicely.

Sorry the words I’ve used are horrific but I can’t describe it any other way 🤣 lots of lube is the key

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By *ussex_ladMan
3 weeks ago

hastings

Allways wanted to see this. How about use a big dildo first stretch the pussy then try fist I have see a whole hand sex toy something to work on this is hot x

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By *stwo60Couple
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

We bought specific lube for fisting, really made a difference..

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

I've never fisted anyone before, but I was using my magic tongue and fingers combo recently

and after maybe 10 mins she was soaking wet and loosened up very nicely, I was very close to getting a whole hand in there

So I guess the moral of my story here is plenty of foreplay and moisture!

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By *ang average kinkMan
3 weeks ago

ripon

I'd never been into fisting but it was one of my fwbs fantasies so gave it a try.

All I can say is lots of lube and take your time, it took lots of tries before we succeeded but now I love it as much as her.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

I was fisted for the first time a few weeks ago! Was the best orgasm I have ever had so very intense.

Start by trying to stretch yourself out, it's a muscle so can be training like any other.

Go for larger and larger dildos.

When you get a fist to try with ensure he has latex gloves (or latex free) as it's less friction, slides right in

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

I will look into it thanks

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

Ok thank you

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

Oh I love your wording

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

I will bare that in mind

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

Wanna lend a hand lol x

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

I’m determined to do it lol x

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

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You offering?

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
3 weeks ago

Rotherham

I have been asked to fist people and my advise is Lubrication and take it's steady , don't be too disappointed of you don't succeed first time

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

"You offering? "

Yes I am

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By *utualMan
3 weeks ago

Bawtry

This is so erotic. To have your fist inside your partner and see her have a super intense orgasm is well worth the patience and care needed to gently get inside her in the first instance!!

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By *inkycreamCouple
3 weeks ago

manchester

Get a lady friend, to break you in a little more gentle.

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

I will go on the hunt x

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By *osh blokeMan
3 weeks ago

hereford

"I will go on the hunt x"

Message me..... im outside your age range. X

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By *ikestokissMan
3 weeks ago

london

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By *ikestokissMan
3 weeks ago

london

Guys… perfect is straight on my HOTLIST - who agrees

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By *ikestokissMan
3 weeks ago

london

OMG… This thread is soooo sexy, best post.. thanks perfect…. Loving it

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
3 weeks ago

Leicester

"I will go on the hunt x"
my wife has an inflatable dildo, you could try one of those and gradually stretch out at your pleasure.x

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By *ornysussexcouple1Couple
3 weeks ago

sussex

"I have the same fantasy but same problem. Tried with my ex he could only get 4 fingers in even with lube x"

Maybe we can help

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By *inkyguy78Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"I have this fisting fantasy that I want to make happen, only problem is I’m really tight. Anyone able to recommend how I can stretch myself out ready for a guy to fist me??

Hi. Would love you to message me (I'm unable to message you). I've fisted a lady recently and she told me I did it best of anyone she'd met. I'd love to do this with you, going at your pace.

Also, I love watersports and would love to receive your pee. Your video is amazing. I'm also happy to pay for a hotel any time. Hope you'll message me x

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By *uiteman2020Man
3 weeks ago

Warsop

Time and be gentle plenty of lubricant and start slow don’t think u can instastretch lol 😂 but yeah slow and stead will get you your goal

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

This is one of our kinks. Unfortunately, they don’t allow us to upload pics or videos on here lol!! Too hardcore!! But basically, you start off with a latex glove, lots of lube, and slowly build it up. The trick is not to force it. Feel the flow, the pulsation, and gradually work it up.

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
3 weeks ago

doncaster

We are into a lot of stuff but this isn’t one of them

A complete turn off for us both

Why spoil a nice tight pussy

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
3 weeks ago

West London

I’m so impressed by anyone who can take a fist, it has a certain wow factor about it. I’d love to do it to someone one day

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

"We are into a lot of stuff but this isn’t one of them

A complete turn off for us both

Why spoil a nice tight pussy "

Each to their own. It’s no left prolapsed, well, not myn lol. It’s the feeling of been stretched, and his knuckles grinding my g-spot that does it for me. Multiple orgasms every time. Different strokes, for different folks x

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By *ourAccompliceMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Gradually larger toys and playing regularly with good lube is deffo the way. Partly because you need to warm up during a session to relax the muscles but partly it gives you milestones to track your progress. And just take time with long sessions.

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By *r peeperMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I have big hands and strong arms. I don't think there is women who can take them

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By *eccaandJamesCouple
3 weeks ago

Henley & Manchester

I'm quite small down there and James has big knuckles lol so never achieved it with him.

But have done on a couple of MFF meets with small girls.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

I wrote up a tale of a fisting experience I had. Someone told me it had some handy hints, if you will pardon the pun.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/940116

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
3 weeks ago

near you...

"I’ve found it a lot easier if it’s a lady doing it due to having smaller hands

Donna x"

This. Plus lots of lube and relaxation. Helps if you've already cum x

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By *P28Woman
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I love being fisted and do it a lot...like some have said on here, be really warmed up, very turned on, use lots of lube, someone with smallish hands to start with and like someone said you be in control...push yourself onto the hand.

Don't make a fist you want fingers straight and pulled in towards each other with the thumb palm side and use a twist action (punch fisting is dangerous and can damage the neck of your cervix) You will feel the pop as the knuckles go in (my favourite bit).

To start with I used to pull my knees up and flop them open, kinda like when we have a Smear...it opens you up well.

Good luck and I hope you fulfil your fantasy

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

"I love being fisted and do it a lot...like some have said on here, be really warmed up, very turned on, use lots of lube, someone with smallish hands to start with and like someone said you be in control...push yourself onto the hand.

To start with I used to pull my knees up and flop them open, kinda like when we have a Smear...it opens you up well.

Good luck and I hope you fulfil your fantasy

Explained perfectly. Just annoying we’re not allowed to post our vids of it on here x

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By *P28Woman
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

To start with I used to pull my knees up and flop them open, kinda like when we have a Smear...it opens you up well.

Good luck and I hope you fulfil your fantasy

Explained perfectly. Just annoying we’re not allowed to post our vids of it on here x"

Thank you, I actually had one taken down, which demonstrated it perfectly.

I think it is law that you can't show fisting videos on sites

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
3 weeks ago

Somerset

I am not sure if it is something you can practise on your own. With a partner, apart from lube and being relaxed, take your time. It might take multiple sessions to get there. When you do it’s much easier on subsequent times. The more turned on you are the easier it is. Lots of oral before and during insertion and whatever else works for you. It’s awesome when you get there.

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By *absFrenchGentMan
3 weeks ago

stafford

I think the best is to just try it with different men and go progressively, it’s mostly about how turned on you are if I’m not mistaken

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

Ooo okay I’ll look into it x

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

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By *urrfectPussy OP Woman
3 weeks ago

your bed

Thank you all for the suggestions x

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By *huck5772Man
3 weeks ago

dukinfield

"Get a lady friend, to break you in a little more gentle. "

Is that from experience

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By *eparated_galWoman
3 weeks ago

Salford

Try with a woman with smaller hands first , I'll volunteer

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By *ed FlameWoman
3 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Happy to help.

Very intense orgasm.

Xxxx

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
3 weeks ago

Scotland

To start with I used to pull my knees up and flop them open, kinda like when we have a Smear...it opens you up well.

Good luck and I hope you fulfil your fantasy

Explained perfectly. Just annoying we’re not allowed to post our vids of it on here x

Thank you, I actually had one taken down, which demonstrated it perfectly.

I think it is law that you can't show fisting videos on sites"

Depends on the site x

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By *ousylizaluvscockWoman
3 weeks ago

inurhead

I've seen it done and always wondered is it actually enjoyable. Anyone that's tired it can you share some light on it? Is it pleasurable ?

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