FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into this

By *lthomas OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Always interested to find out how people got into this side of things, especially couples and how the subject was approached.

I've played as a couple in the past and been lucky enough to have had 2 GF's that were into this.

Always very erotic / horny remembering that 1st encounter

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By *eirdscienceMan
14 weeks ago

Postwick

Majorca 2005 for us

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
14 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Hubby asked the wife if she fancied trying it? We both spoke about why and it was also suggested by Hubby we do a MFM first to reassure the wife it wasn't just so he could have another woman.

Didn't turn out necessary in the end as after wasting weeks trawling Fab we just went to Atlantis and found a couple to swap with. It's easier find couples who actually want to swap when you can both see the whites of each others eyes.

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By *lthomas OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Majorca 2005 for us"

holiday fun in the sun?

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By *lthomas OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Hubby asked the wife if she fancied trying it? We both spoke about why and it was also suggested by Hubby we do a MFM first to reassure the wife it wasn't just so he could have another woman.

Back when we 1st started there was almost no other choice than face to face meets and clubs were not what they are now

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Popular demand

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By *et and WillingCouple
14 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Id been bi curious for a good while and always liked the idea of seeing him with another woman. When dughter left home and we had house to ourselves thought why not try. Havent looked back dince

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By *Ci LutherMan
14 weeks ago

Cumalot

Female friend had done a glamour shoot .. asked her if she had anything naughtier .. she said go check out fab, Fab I ask !

no idea she was into this .. still trying to arrange a meet as she’s other end of the country

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
14 weeks ago

IRVINE

Told hubby one day.how I have always wanted to try a threesome .he looked abit shocked at first after chatting we found someone who we got in with and never looked back hubby now loves watching me take on a few bulls mrs

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By *enfella4uMan
14 weeks ago

staffs

A couple I met told me all about this site and we hit it off and started having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I was chatted up on the underground.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
14 weeks ago

Cannock

It’s a long story for us, but becoming a cuckold couple is what has kept us together all these years.

Some might think that’s sad, but we love one another immensely and wouldn’t be without each other, but Dee being able to cuckold me does keep her satisfied.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
14 weeks ago

furnace

"It’s a long story for us, but becoming a cuckold couple is what has kept us together all these years.

Some might think that’s sad, but we love one another immensely and wouldn’t be without each other, but Dee being able to cuckold me does keep her satisfied."

A lady I’d met and enjoyed some naughty fun with introduced me to friends and got invited to to a party to help entertain the ladies

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
14 weeks ago

Bristol

I mentioned to Mrs that i wouldn't mind attending a club, just to see what it was like, with no aim to necessarily play. She took a look and rather apprehensively agreed to try it, and decided she wasn't into it - so we packed this bit of our life away for a while.

Then a couple of years ago, out of the blue, she suggested we have another go and we've enjoyed it since.

Bit of a shame we missed out on so many years of fun, but I suppose we just weren't in that place at that time.

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By *eachrunner1Man
14 weeks ago

Farnham

On a naked beach in ibiza, stumbled across couples playing in the dunes and enjoyed watching which got me thinking I wanted to explore things further.

Down the rabbit hole from there really.

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I used to see someone who showed me his account on here. I joined up and went on to meet my other half here 9 years ago.

We have a couple profile that we use for socials, clubs and meets with other couples.

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By *lthomas OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It’s really eye opening how people got into most.

It seems the more recent ones who have got into have been very open and with discussions, which is very enlightening.

Mine was triggered by seeing I shouldn’t have that then open the discussion.

I a k as o love the fact how open most are about how they started.

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By *oelDorianMan
14 weeks ago

vanaheim

I went and looked online at some different things to do with swinging then saw where my local club was and built up to guys to go and the rest is history

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By *ark n kimCouple
14 weeks ago

Durham

Over 25 years ago Mr said we are going to an adult disco,that's how it was advertised.there wasn't even music.

We didn't play that night just watched wide eyed.

Dabbled for a few years took a 10 year break for family reasons.

Got back into it about 5 years ago with a lot more confidence and knowing what we want out of swinging.

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By *lthomas OP Man
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Over 25 years ago Mr said we are going to an adult disco,that's how it was advertised.there wasn't even music.

We didn't play that night just watched wide eyed.

Dabbled for a few years took a 10 year break for family reasons.

Got back into it about 5 years ago with a lot more confidence and knowing what we want out of swinging.

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Adult disco… I guess that’s what we went too for our 1st adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Years ago someone on a dating site pointed me in this direction... was quite successful back then...

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
13 weeks ago

Manchester

I dabbled in previous relationships. Almost by accident I started dating the woman who is now my wife. She was tall, elegant, sophisticated but I knew she had an extremely conservative background so although attracted I didn’t have high hopes that we were sexually compatible.

Anyway almost on our first date she confessed that she was fascinated about my previous swinging experiences. Then at the end of our first week dating and after way too much wine she told me her biggest fantasy was to be used like a whore by groups of men who could do anything they wanted with her. She took her clothes off and got down on her knees to suck me.

She literally begged me to set it up for her. So I set up something to challenge her to see if she meant it.

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By *KentMan
13 weeks ago

Canterbury

Was seeing a girl several years ago, and we were quite experimental. Said that I’d love to watch her with someone else, and ended up finding this place.

We had a plenty of fun with people we met here, though she ended up moving away with a job, and we ended up joining as singles instead!

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By *r Looking 69Man
13 weeks ago

north

A friend introduced me to it in Benidorm . She's left now unfortunately but I keep coming back

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By *heklumpsCouple
13 weeks ago

south

I had a long list of fantasies. And Sir found this place as a way to tick them off!!

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By *lthomas OP Man
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Thank you all for sharing, including several who mailed me direct, one of them particularly different!!

Please keep sharing

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By *ennineTopMan
13 weeks ago

York

A former partner and I started with MMF swinging back in the late 1970's when I was still a teenager. No internet then, so we used contact magazines available on the top shelf of certain newsagents. You could post an advert or answer them. All done by snail mail. Surprisingly it was much easier to meet people in those days as I guess only the very keen could be bothered with writing letters.

Then we got into BDSM in the early 80's. We lived together on and off but by about 2003 we'd split up for good and then I started posting on a kink website. Met a few people from there then I began another long term relationship that lasted until she passed away a few years ago.

Now just dipping my toes back into things and fab seems to be the most useful website for actually contacting real people. So far it's been all timewasters but I've only been here a short while so I'm not surprised by that.

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By *lthomas OP Man
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"A former partner and I started with MMF swinging back in the late 1970's when I was still a teenager. No internet then, so we used contact magazines available on the top shelf of certain newsagents. You could post an advert or answer them. All done by snail mail. Surprisingly it was much easier to meet people in those days as I guess only the very keen could be bothered with writing letters.

Thanks for the reply.

I remember those days before the internet and it was Rendezvous mag with the ads....

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By *ennineTopMan
13 weeks ago

York

Yeah, Rendezvous rings a bell. I think at the peak there were as many as four or five contact mags going. I can't remember their names as it was so long ago. Some of them were very low tech typewriter and photocopy jobs.

We advertised in a few and always got plenty of replies. I even got replies and meets when advertising as a single male.

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By *effdelightMan
13 weeks ago

Grimsby

Google search I think lol

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By *uriouscouple4fun2022Couple
13 weeks ago

Kempston

Both had always had fantasies about group sex, Mrs has always been bi curious but when I said I wanted to explore my bi sexuality with guys we talked about it and decided to give it a go.

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By *reentomato2Couple
13 weeks ago

cambridge

Introduced into by a old school friend of my wife’s,who she rekindled a friendship with

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By *lthomas OP Man
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Thank you to all who replied here & to the few people who have sent me messages.

So great stories of your intro to this side of things

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By *emporary satisfactionMan
12 weeks ago

middle of no where

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By *emporary satisfactionMan
12 weeks ago

middle of no where

I went to visit the Gloryhole for the first time and the person showed me their verifications after a while I saw the website in the picture he showed and I made an account.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
12 weeks ago

Oxford

A healthy sex life, openness and trust & the discussion about my interest in girls

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By *lashyMan
12 weeks ago

a lather

My wife loved flirting and being chatted up in pubs/clubs but was getting frustrated with the hit/miss nature of it. I suggested trying a club so we went along to our nearest club, I was the proverbial rabbit in the headlights whereas my wife thoroughly enjoyed the whole thing, using the dungeon and fucking two guys by the end of the night.

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By *lthomas OP Man
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

The how & why just keep getting better

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By *igboobstCouple
12 weeks ago

barrow

Mrs is Bi so only one way she's getting her girly fix 😏

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By *J coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

stone

We visited Atlantis just being curious.

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By *WANDTGCouple
12 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Health reasons, as in , you only live once so enjoy it.

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

Just decided we were massive pervs and wanted to get naked with other people!

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
12 weeks ago

Westbury (Wiltshire)

We were separated by thousands of miles for months at a time, and explored visiting a club as a scenario in our chats.

Then she sent me a video of an investigation into swinging at Fun4Two by the playboy magazine programme.

We both decided we should visit and that as they say is that. It has become our 'dirty little secret' that no one else knows.

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By *inetimecoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Wirral

A bedroom fantasy we would imagine another couple watching us having sex and then joining in. We then looked up "swingers clubs" on Google and have now had two full swaps and two single guy threesomes. Off to charms Darlaston on Saturday.

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

longeaton,ng10

I had a 3 sum once and it was the most sexy night of my life,I loved it so I always wanted sex after that with new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I told her if she ever wanted to have sex with another man she had my blessing.

Five years later she was chatted up on the tube and went for a drink with him. She then went back to his flat.

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
12 weeks ago

Coventry

I was on a Facebook page for new mums, as time went by a side group was invented for naughty mummies. Basically a private group where people talked about their sex lives etc, sometimes posting pictures. I kept seeing people talk about Fab so I asked what it was and here I am many years later still on here lol

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By *iniskirtCouple
12 weeks ago

Paisley

Very d*unken chat one night where hubby blurted out a few things he would like us to try x

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By *elshcouple331Couple
12 weeks ago

cardiff

Bedroom chat about fantasies. Talking of having a threesome turned into a full swap foursome with another couple. The rest is history lol

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By *lthomas OP Man
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"We were separated by thousands of miles for months at a time, and explored visiting a club as a scenario in our chats.

Then she sent me a video of an investigation into swinging at Fun4Two by the playboy magazine programme.

We both decided we should visit and that as they say is that. It has become our 'dirty little secret' that no one else knows."
thank you for sharing your “dirty little secret”

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
12 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"Very d*unken chat one night where hubby blurted out a few things he would like us to try x"

Very similar wasn’t d*unk. Something I’d been interested in 30 years ago. Finally asked SW and here we are 5and bit years on and still enjoying and having fun.

(Short version 🤣)

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