FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking twice

By *eus n Europa OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Loughborough

This is a shout out to anyone and no one in particular but felt it needed to be said

Yesterday we were messaged by an older single guy with what can only be described as omg where did that introduction message come from. Vile, disrespectful and downright vulgar names some of it

His profile clearly shows he's into hard core SM , BDSM and stuff not relevant to us

Nowhere in our profile does it show we entertain this side of fun

So we tell him straight we feel vile n disgusted by his message n point out we don't have any of these interests on our profile nor wanting single men to message

We block so we don't have any more issues but then find he names n shames us on a status stating we are "drama queens"

Still waiting for admin to remove after reporting

So please anyone when messaging profiles please actually think twice about what you put to people when messaging

Yes we normally use filters but had been changing things n forgot to register

To say this has on this occasion has upset us an understatement. Past history of abuse in a previous relationship has now been bought to the forefront due to someone not thinking. Ok so they don't know about pasts like we don't but come on guys show some respect

This is not aimed at anyone who shows care and decency on this site in the slightest but the idiots who are slowly letting this site sink to depravity

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By *igfun911Man
4 weeks ago

East Lancashire

"It would probably have been better not to message him, just block. Then there's less chance of any follow up."

Yep agreed, straight delete, if they still bother you again then block.

I wouldn't have even given them the time of day with a reply.

You live and learn, unfortunately there are plenty of keyboard warriors on here, spoiling it for the genuine people.

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