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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it quite alot but most are on the other side of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

can only speak for ourselfs:Yes we do mail nice singles

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL "

How very true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL

"

More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of mail from couples and my profile is looked at often in spite of only looking for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples look at me, my profile states no couples. they dont message me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm need to get myself out there more for some couples fun

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i do... since i have my single male filter on, I get mail from couples and single women.....

its great it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples look at me, my profile states no couples. they dont message me though "

Well yeah I look at all sorts of profiles on here often via the new photos page - in fact I'm gonna have a butchers at poshBlack's profile as soon as I've sent this!

Bit I only look cos I'm a nosey ' curtain twitcher' n was a journalist for a living so I guess I'm naturally inquisitive lol - it don't mean I wanna meet the people haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL

More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first! "

hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I've had several recently where I've been approached by couples. The conversations start encouragingly but, when I try to steer it to an actual meeting, suddenly I get no replies. I can only think that one half has initiated the contact but the other half disapproves at a later stage. It would still be polite to say we've changed our minds rather than silence and deleted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "

Not sure how often it happens lol but can confirm it does happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it happens quite a bit. Though i do find quite a few couples prefer to wink rather than message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL

More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first!

hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx"

Couldnt agree more its a joint thing x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we do on occasion make first contact with single men...Some reply and some don't!

Prefer to do the browsing ourselves for single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of mail from couples, and its interesting to see just how different the male and female halves are when writing - the guys typically say little more than 'wanna come fuck my wife while I watch' whilst the ladies are a lot more talkative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be glad to receive any mail

I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get messages from couples. Those that sometimes do seem a bit fishy to me, as no veris and so forth.

Some want a meet at a drop of the hat..but erm, just because im single doesnt mean im not working or am free all the time lol if only i was!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be glad to receive any mail

I live in hope "

Maybe more pics......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We message single guys,have actually found some more genuine than some other couples.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "

we don't mail single men however do look at loads of profiles of all kinds, just cos of nosiness i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get, "the wifes seen your profile and wants you over now" ones! When i politely respond with, "its 2am in the morning and my kids are in bed" i get blocked, lol.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I would say about 90% of my received messages are from cpls. I'm getting quite good at telling the fake ones from the genuine ones now. The genuine ones always get my full attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them from couples or guys, no single women though. They are like gold dust

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I get a fair few.

Half of them usually tend to be the bi male of a couple chancing his arm. Sometimes with a bit of subtlety, others, not so much.

The rest are usually a mix of one liners amounting to "wife wants to sit on your cock" or "want to watch you ruin the wife" and the others tend to be well thought out messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we mail single guys cause that's what we want, not enough bi men on here tho as most have straight on their profile

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

All I ever get is messages from guys! Would love to receive message from some nice couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many hard up men on here that they have the pick of choice. Same as some of the females.

Some of them wouldn't look out of place in a farm yard yet they can chose to turn men down as there's so many here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many hard up men on here that they have the pick of choice. Same as some of the females.

Some of them wouldn't look out of place in a farm yard yet they can chose to turn men down as there's so many here.

"

How would you know they turn guys down?

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I find getting the messages from couples who have just joined with no pics or veri's rather amusing to get.

And yes they do go along the lines of "my wife likes the look of you..."

They could be genuine but just the one line of text...?

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I find getting the messages from couples who have just joined with no pics or veri's rather amusing to get.

And yes they do go along the lines of "my wife likes the look of you..."

They could be genuine but just the one line of text...?"

I had something similar a couple of days ago. Lots of exchanged messages and face pics from hotmail accounts (both ways), all going well then, suddenly, the profile and hotmail account are both deleted. Why? Why? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We message single guys or I (Mischief does) if I fancy the look of a profile. Some answer back, some don't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get at least the same number of un solicited messages from couples each day/week and id say month to date I have had same as I did last month and that was a similar number for month before

Nil - Zero - Zilch -

However because i have a close group of friends including couples; I do get messages from those associated ....if that makes sense

I think couples tend to look upon the whole "hunting" thing on here as - its their control over us - but would add that does not mean all because some are cracking people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well rarely happens to me but then i dont have them on my looking for bit either x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I got a mail from a couple once, turned out to be a bi guy whos wife had left him and he was still using their couples profile.

Reported - Advised where the nearest Opticians was - blocked....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

occasionally message single guys ..there are some beauties out there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"occasionally message single guys ..there are some beauties out there !

"

right here.. look at me look at me x

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By *had_landersMan
over a year ago

chester

Two years on here and I can count maybe 3 emails I've had period.

I think the choice is wide for all couples. Just us single men struggle ;(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "

I find many couples will block incoming mail and do the searching themselves - thus increasing the chances of meeting those that catch their eye rather than 'firefighting' endless incoming mail from all and sundry.

So yes - they do send messages - and more often than not probably get better responses that way!

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol


"can only speak for ourselfs:Yes we do mail nice singles

(susie)"

And very grateful we are for it, Susie! (and Dan)

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Yes we also message if someone catches our eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we also message if someone catches our eye. "

10/10 for your pic. Looks so intimate and makes me twitch looking at it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL

More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first!

hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx

Couldnt agree more its a joint thing x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "

We do we would much rather go that way about it and talk to the people we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite what people think good single guys that can accom are a good find on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the odd message from couples some good some bad and others that are just plain wrong lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't got round to it yet. We are too busy processing the single guys that message us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had several recently where I've been approached by couples. The conversations start encouragingly but, when I try to steer it to an actual meeting, suddenly I get no replies. I can only think that one half has initiated the contact but the other half disapproves at a later stage. It would still be polite to say we've changed our minds rather than silence and deleted messages."

I have to say though i'm guilty of doing the same when i was playing with an ex, what goes around comes around i guess, for me anyway!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"We haven't got round to it yet. We are too busy processing the single guys that message us! "

There's no time like the present.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we very rarely initiate messaging because so many nice men message us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had two initiate contact in 8 months...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that have pictures of their body (torso etc) at very the least and have "meeting in person" validations are far more likely to get messages leading to meets.

We know a few single guys that do very well for themselves, because they make the effort with their profiles and come across as really nice guys in person at clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite what people think good single guys that can accom are a good find on a swinging site."

Yes I get offers but can't accommodate yet, if I did I Wud get far more action...

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

We message single men... But then I like to pick fresh meat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we message single men aswell as sorting through the mails we get from single men, but i have to say the irony and contradiction of some the posts on this thread are unreal lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a fare bit from couples as that's what I'm looking for , but their seems to be a massive amount of fakes in this area looking for a cheap thrill

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Can't say it has ever happened to me, but equally, my profile doesn't say I'm looking for couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a fare bit from couples as that's what I'm looking for , but their seems to be a massive amount of fakes in this area looking for a cheap thrill"

the fakes do tend to turn out been a single man pretending to be a couple more often than not though.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.

As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.

As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term "
.....salut

Lol

Yes you do contact and you guys are great. I am a leaving prove of that. I can even provide reference of how nice you both are

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"

I find many couples will block incoming mail and do the searching themselves - thus increasing the chances of meeting those that catch their eye rather than 'firefighting' endless incoming mail from all and sundry.

So yes - they do send messages - and more often than not probably get better responses that way! "

This!!!

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.

As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term .....salut

Lol

Yes you do contact and you guys are great. I am a leaving prove of that. I can even provide reference of how nice you both are

"

Haha, cheers dude

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

We too frequently contact single guys, and even use the "you caught my wifes eye" if after chatting a bit they are not idiots we set up a date, so it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like stealing others wives...mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We message single guys usually its Mr D that does the initial messaging "to try and our the ones that are time wasters"

Then we arrange to meet if we like what we see.

usually we only message guys with verifications by meeting in person we also take into account how long they have been on the site. If they have been on for 8 months or so and still not had a meeting in person we can pretty much presume that either they are very limited on there meeting times or they have no intention on meeting in the first place.

We have met lots of nice single males from here and there not all bad its just a shame the few ruin it for the many good ones out there.

also it usually helps if the males have a little about themselves what there into ect on there profiles if we see "will fill in later" or "never know what to say " on there profiles we usually move on.

just our 10p worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met couples on my new profile as off such yet but I know it does happen and mostly its an enjoyable experience bring on the nice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have also recieved messages from couples, just a shame im based overseas but always good to chat and get to know them, who knows what will happen when i return back to UK on leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples

Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'

I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL "

Yes I get that too

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"We message single guys usually its Mr D that does the initial messaging "to try and our the ones that are time wasters"

Then we arrange to meet if we like what we see.

usually we only message guys with verifications by meeting in person we also take into account how long they have been on the site. If they have been on for 8 months or so and still not had a meeting in person we can pretty much presume that either they are very limited on there meeting times or they have no intention on meeting in the first place.

We have met lots of nice single males from here and there not all bad its just a shame the few ruin it for the many good ones out there.

also it usually helps if the males have a little about themselves what there into ect on there profiles if we see "will fill in later" or "never know what to say " on there profiles we usually move on.

just our 10p worth."

A good 10p's worth too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get, "the wifes seen your profile and wants you over now" ones! When i politely respond with, "its 2am in the morning and my kids are in bed" i get blocked, lol."

Pmsl

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By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago

third star on the right

We do, quite often even suggest the meet

Mrs

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